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Houston SaberCats Host Pride Night – outsmartmagazine.com

Rainbow colors will be on display as the Houston SaberCats rugby team celebrates Pride Night while taking on the Toronto Arrows at Aveva Stadium this Saturday at 7 p.m.

This will be the team’s second Pride Night observance. The SaberCats celebrated Pride in a game against the Austin Elite in May 2019, winning 36 to 15. The 2020 season was cancelled because of the pandemic. 

“Everyone said 2019 was a lot of fun, and we are looking forward to building on it this year,” said Sloane Evans, the SaberCats’ director of corporate partnerships. 

The team’s logo will feature a rainbow-striped cat this year, and Pride Night will be promoted on the team’s website. T-shirts featuring the rainbow-striped saber-toothed cat will also be on sale at the stadium for $30. 

Evans said the Toronto Arrows were notified of the Pride celebration and invited to participate. “Traditionally, the away teams do not participate unless it is a league-wide initiative.” Local LGBTQ organizations will also be invited to participate in the observance.

Evans said that the SaberCats recognize that rugby is a popular sport among LGBTQ athletes, and the team appreciates the support of their LGBTQ fans. “Rugby is one of the most inclusive sports.” “We are happy to bring this to Houston, and we want to make sure [we are] a leading city in promoting Pride.”

There are currently no openly gay members on the SaberCats team, but team captain and Australia native Matt Trouville told Outsmart that many of his teammates wore the rainbow shoelaces during the 2019 Pride Night to support the LGBTQ community. “We were happy to celebrate it,” he noted.

In December 2020, Major League Rugby player Devin Ibanez, formerly of the New England Free Jacks, came out as gay in social-media posts by saying he had decided to “embrace what I once felt embarrassed of and be proudly and shamelessly myself.” Ibanez posted a photo of himself holding his boyfriend in his arms. Ibanez said he hoped to move to England (where his boyfriend lives) to play rugby there. 

Only a handful of other professional rugby players have come out as gay.

In 2017, the Houston SaberCats (previously known as the Houston Strikers) joined with other teams in cities nationwide to form Major League Rugby. Soon after, Houston City Council agreed to construct the $3.2 million rugby stadium, which was completed in 2019.

Major League Rugby’s 2021 season began March 20, and will run through July, with a league championship game on the weekend of August 1. The SaberCats’ last home game occurs June 26. The team’s record so far is 2 wins and 5 losses.

For more information, visit houstonsabercats.com.

‘Midnight at the Never Get’ captures gay 1960s NYC – Washington Blade

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Raymond O. Caldwell is the producing artistic director of Theater Alliance.

‘City in Transition: The Quadrant Series’

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Recently, a Facebook post asked “Are there any activist theaters in D.C.?” A local actor quickly replied. “There’s only one,” she wrote. “It’s Theater Alliance.”

During a phone interview from his home in Anacostia last week, Theater Alliance’s producing artistic director Raymond O. Caldwell, addressed the social media query: “We keep our heads down and do the work. Well before the pandemic, we were trying to have conversations about race in America. Then it seemed niche work. Now that work is in vogue. There might come a time when it’s no longer stylish. But that’s OK, we’re ultimately doing it to transform people’s lives and start conversations.

“Our plays won’t change the world. Straight up. But we can start conversations that are uncomfortable and don’t have easy answers. And by partnering our productions with various nonprofits, we’re able to involve people in the movement whether it’s on the front line or stuffing envelopes.”

In residence at Anacostia Playhouse, Theater Alliance’s mission is to illuminate the experiences, philosophies, and interests of D.C.’s diverse population. When Caldwell, who is gay, took helm of the company in January 2019, the organization was already steeped in diversity. He’s worked to continue and expand on that, creating a cultural institution that’s invited in the surrounding, mostly Black community.

The company kicked off its virtual season in December with eight pieces about protest centered around the demands of the Black Lives Matter movement. Having started off nationally, they’re now moving locally with “City in Transition: The Quadrant Series,” a 90-minute intersection of theater and film directed by Caldwell.

Part of the multi-Helen Hayes Award-winning company’s Hothouse new play development series, “City in Transition” consists of four filmed plays about Washington’s quadrants, SE, SW, NE, and NW written by local black playwrights Khadijah Z. Ali-Coleman, Avery Collins, Shalom Omo-Osagie, and Leslie Scott-Jones.

The not long pieces are set in the present, past, and future. Topics include Black nonprofits battling to get funding via a game show; the meeting of hip-hop artists and violence set against the gentrified waterfront; a wealthy Black family debating whether to transform its landmark Black property into a trendy lounge for whites; and a white census taker discussing the changing city and current protests with a Black Washington native.

“Almost 13 years ago, I came to D.C. to be in Chocolate City but to my surprise, it wasn’t here,” says Caldwell, 37.

“When I think about a city changing and moving through gentrification, what concerns me is the loss of history, the stories of the folks who once lived here disappear.

“And interestingly, as D.C. gentrifies, we start noticing an uptick of murals and Black aesthetic of the city. It allows liberal yuppies to feel they’re in an urban environment but forgetting the rich history particularly for Black people in DC.”
He initially came to Washington for a six-month fellowship but stayed on. After six years at

Arena Stage, desirous to work outside of a white space, he began teaching at Howard University.

At Howard, his work centered on the universality of storytelling. “I pitched what folks would consider white work like Lillian Hellman’s provocatively lesbian-themed play, ‘The Children’s Hour.’”

“I’d ask my predominantly Black audience to imagine ourselves there as well, and they would.

The audience left thinking the play was written by a Black woman. It was additionally powerful because we in the Black community have trouble talking about homosexuality.”

As gay, Black, and Asian, Caldwell sometimes refers to himself as third culture: “Being who I am allows more space for me to see biases. I go into work asking myself what are the opportunities for transformation within me and the ensemble of artists I’ll be working with?”

Born in Germany to a German-Filipino mother and African-American father, he mostly grew up in Germany but spent summers with his father in the U.S. At 13, he went to live with his father.

“He thought I’d had enough of the European experience and wanted to teach me what it was to be a Black man in the world. And interestingly, that became the center of my activism.”

Caldwell’s American grandmother described him like this: “That boy can’t help but livin’.”

It’s true, he keeps busy, says Caldwell. He doesn’t turn down too many projects. “I’m honored to be creating art. There are so many ideas I want to push and propagate and now having a space and platform makes it especially hard to say no. It’s a good place to be.”

Working with LGBT Migrants in South Africa – Foreign Policy

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This week on Foreign Policy Playlist we feature Power of the Streets, a podcast from the Human Rights Watch that talks to human rights activists working on the continent of Africa.

FP’s Amy Mackinnon talks to Power of the Streets’  host Audrey Wabwire about an episode they did where they spoke to Thomars Shamuyarira a migrants rights worker in Zimbabwe about the experiences of LGBT people in South Africa’s asylum process.

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In Cameroon Transgender Women Given Five-Years in Prison – Human Rights Watch

On May 11, a Cameroonian court sentenced two transgender women to five years in prison and fines of 200,000 CFA (USD $370) under a law that forbids same-sex relations. The women, Njeuken Loic (known as “Shakiro”) and Mouthe Roland (known as “Patricia”), should never have been arrested and have already experienced abuse in pre-trial detention. For trans women, five years in a Cameroonian men’s prison can amount to a death sentence. The authorities should release them and vacate the charges immediately.

Gendarmes arrested Shakiro and Patricia off the streets in the city of Douala on February 8, for wearing typically female clothing. They interrogated the women without a lawyer present, beat and threatened to kill them, taunted them with anti-LGBT epithets, and forced them to sign statements, according to activists and lawyers who visited them in detention. Shakiro and Patricia were later taken to the overcrowded Douala central prison where they reported being beaten and insulted by guards and other inmates. Prosecutors charged them with attempted homosexual conduct, public indecency, and non-possession of their national identity cards. Alice Nkom, a lawyer representing Shakiro and Patricia, said, “It’s a political sentence sending a clear, chilling message: ‘We don’t want LGBT people here in Cameroon.’ We ought to fight this and we will.”

In the last year, Cameroonian security forces have increasingly targeted people for arbitrary arrest based on their real or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity. Between February and April 2021 security forces arrested at least 27 people, including a 17-year-old boy, for alleged consensual same-sex conduct or gender nonconformity, beating and subjecting some to forced anal examinations.

Human Rights Watch has documented extensive human rights violations in arrests and prosecutions during previous anti-LGBT crackdowns in Cameroon, including the use of forced anal examinations and other forms of torture and ill-treatment, forced confessions, denial of access to counsel, and blatant anti-LGBT bias on the part of judges. We also documented rape and beatings of LGBT people by detainees in Cameroon’s prisons, undeterred by guards.

Shakiro and Patricia are the latest victims of a system plagued by absolute disregard for the due process rights of people targeted based on sexual orientation or gender identity. Cameroon should repeal its anti-homosexuality laws and stop interfering in Cameroonians’ private lives.

Non-profit providing free HIV self-test kits to gay, bisexual, transgender, 2-spirit and non-binary people – CBC.ca

British Columbians who identify as non-binary, as well as men who identify as gay, bisexual, transgender, two-spirit or queer, can now receive up to three HIV self-test kits in the mail from a Canadian health advocacy organization.

The non-profit Community-Based Research Centre (CBRC), which is based in Vancouver, is providing the tests free of charge to eligible participants aged 18 and older who complete its online Sex Now 2021 survey.

The survey includes questions about sexual and mental health and is designed to gauge how the pandemic has affected participants and to help organizations across Canada advocate for better programs and public policies. 

Dr. Nathan Lachowsky, research director with the centre, said the fast, anonymous test kits are a way for people to test themselves at home without having to visit a clinic while COVID-19 continues to circulate.

“Research we did last year showed that over half of gay, bi, trans, two-spirit and queer men had delays in sexual health testing from the start of COVID,” said Lachowsky on Tuesday during an interview on CBC’s The Early Edition.

“Research also shows that over three-quarters of the community are likely to try at-home testing,” he added.

Health Canada approved

The finger-prick blood test, which gives results in a minute, is manufactured by Richmond, B.C.-based bioLytical Laboratories and was approved by Health Canada in November. It is the first of its kind in the country.

When the test was approved, it was praised by Canadian experts who were concerned about a decline in the number of people being tested for HIV during the pandemic and worried about a spike in HIV rates when it subsides.

“What we’re really interested in doing is getting it out there into the community,” said Lachowsky. He said the tests are not usually free, so to be able to receive three is an added benefit of providing helpful health information.

Tests normally cost $34.95 if purchased through the manufacturer online.

Test buddies offer support

Participants can also choose to take part in the organization’s buddy program, which connects people taking the test with a peer for support.

“We call them test now buddies,” said Lachowsky, adding these buddies can help support people and connect them with whatever resources they might want after their test results.

To receive a kit from CBRC, fill out the survey at the centre’s website and opt in to receive one. You will be asked a series of questions that normally take about 30 minutes to answer. Your responses are completely anonymous. 

The survey includes a number of questions about sexual activity, as well as on the impact of substance use and harm reduction when it comes to social, mental and sexual wellbeing.

The Early Edition7:36HIV home testing kits are now available in Canada but they are hard to get

Dr. Nathan Lachowsky speaks with Stephen Quinn about the new kits available for those concerned about their health. 7:36

LGBTQ travelers to the rescue! – Washington Blade

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Since the tragic events of 9/11 and the abrupt halt to travel that followed, about every 10 years, the tourism industry is knocked back on its heels. The economic meltdown of 2008 and 2009 was even worse on the travel industry than 2001. And the pandemic is a once-a-century calamity exacerbated by the very things that make travel so enriching: large in-person events, meeting new friends at a hotel lounge, slaloming through a crowded bar in a far-flung city.

The travel industry rebooted before, and it will bounce back again soon. And if history is any guide, LGBTQ travelers will lead the way.

Roger Dow, president and CEO of U.S. Travel Association, the Washington, D.C.-based organization representing all segments of travel in America, says, “Gays lead, and the rest follow. They’re adventurous and like new experiences. They have a penchant for travel far greater than their heterosexual counterparts. They travel more and spend more when they travel. They’re the darlings of the travel industry when it comes to spending and dollars.”

Recent history has demonstrated that LGBTQ travelers — especially those in dual-income-no-child households — are always among the first to travel after social and economic crises. Following 9/11 and again after the 2008/2009 financial crisis, destinations, hospitality companies and travel brands noticed that LGBTQ travelers were prioritizing tourism over other purchase decisions, helping fill airplanes, hotels and, restaurants and animating destinations. So, they began to market to this segment in earnest.

Smart travel marketers will note that this is happening again now. We see — anecdotally and with the support of research by Community Marketing, Inc., Harris Interactive and IGLTA — that this segment travels in higher proportions and intends to book and execute travel in greater proportions than their non-LGBTQ counterparts.

Queer travelers tend to have more disposable income and time to spend it, helping fill destinations and hotels, especially during the quieter periods when kids are in school. Being among the first to travel safely, this resilient segment grants permission to others that they can return to travel safely. The LGBTQ segment has always been disproportionately present in online platforms, which provide a safer way to meet and interact with others in an otherwise potentially anti-LGBTQ world.

They also help achieve travel marketers’ goals by experiencing more, creating social media content and generating buzz.

The segment displays intense loyalty to brands that welcome and include them. There are also surprising halo effects: By signaling welcome to this group, marketers send a sign of inclusiveness to other overlooked and marginalized segments, like Black and LatinX travelers, and the family and friends of queer people are also positively motivated by outreach to LGBTQ people. Finally, these messages resonate strongly with millennial and Gen Z audiences who plan their travel — as well as plot their careers — to destinations and at hospitality brands whose missions align with their more inclusive values.

The segment has also demonstrated a strong affinity for cruises of all sorts, including all-gay or all-lesbian cruises, LGBTQ groups on mainstream cruises, and simply joining mainstream cruises as a same-sex couple or in small friend groups. While cruise vacations are still on a pandemic-induced pause in the U.S., cruise companies — including Carnival, Celebrity, Cunard, Uniworld and the brand-new Virgin Voyages — have all firmly established LGBTQ travelers as a core segment.

“National Travel and Tourism Week takes on special significance this year as we look ahead to recovery following the most challenging year this industry has experienced,” says Christine Duffy, president of Carnival Cruise Line and national chair of the U.S. Travel Association. “Across the country, we are recognizing travel’s value, and the long-standing support of the LGBTQ community will help accelerate our rebound. I know that for Carnival, we pride ourselves on an inclusive atmosphere where every guest is appreciated, and we look forward to welcoming them back as soon as possible.”

One reason queer travelers are uniquely suited to help power the return of travel during this crisis has to do with their decades of experience living under the ever-looming shadow of the HIV/AIDS pandemic, during which they learned the importance of risk mitigation for the good of all. Wearing masks to protect yourself and others resonates with a community that understands the importance of condoms and pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP).

According to Randle Roper, co-founder and CEO of VACAYA Full-Ship and Full-Resort LGBT+Vacations, “[Our] guests showed incredible resilience by traveling safely during the pandemic, and they proved they could adapt to live with health protocols that would keep each other and their loved ones back home safe.”

Travel safety is organically entwined with the LGBTQ community’s DNA. In 70+ countries, many popular with LGBTQ travelers, homosexuality is criminalized. That includes 11 countries in which death is the punishment meted out for those convicted of homosexuality and other “crimes” of sexual and gender non-conformity.

While travelers would be spared the harsh treatments locals may suffer, they nonetheless have a great deal to consider when traveling. Same-sex couples still receive awkward and uncomfortable service when checking into hotels with a single bed on the reservation or even simply existing in places where everyone’s assumed to be heterosexual. When a lesbian boards a plane with her legally married wife and their legally adopted children, they could land in a destination where their marriage license is void and their legal guardianship of their kids is in question. Trans and non-binary travelers, especially those oF color, may encounter challenges including lack of safe bathroom access, awkward encounters at TSA security and even outright hostility and worse in any public setting. In the face of all this, queer people still explore and have a lot to teach the rest of the world about how to travel with intent and joy while
maintaining their own safety and that of the community around them.

LGBTQ travelers can also show the world how best to support the tourism and hospitality industries in ways that also strengthen their own communities. “LGBTQ consumers have the power to make change and support LGBTQ-friendly companies and destinations by choosing to spend their travel dollars with those that support our community,” says Jeff Guaracino, co-author of the “Handbook of LGBT Tourism and Hospitality.” “LGBTQ-owned hotels, bed and breakfasts, tour companies, bars and restaurants, festivals and destinations have been especially hard hit by COVID, and as a community, we can support LGBTQ-owned and friendly businesses and their employees by spending our travel dollars with them first.”

LGBTQ tour companies and travel agents have a direct connection to queer travelers and report strong interest in and bookings of travel. According to Robert Sharp, co-founder and CEO of Out Adventures, “After [releasing] our entire tour schedule through the end of 2022, we saw our largest month of sales in our 12-year history.”

Kelli Carpenter, co-founder of R Family Vacations, adds, “Our highest sales have come from our river cruise products and international tour business, showing that travelers are ready to explore the world again.”

VACAYA’s Roper has seen extremely robust sales over the past several months — including selling out their Antarctica Cruise. “With a starting price of around $25,000 per room, that was our best sign yet that our community members are ready to break free from their cages and return to travel,” he says.

Robert Geller, founder of FabStayz, agrees: “Pent-up demand is visible, palpable and quantifiable.”

NYC-based Ed Salvato is a freelance travel writer, instructor at NYU and the University of Texas at Austin’s NYC Center, and an LGBTQ tourism marketing consultant.

UK man accused of promoting purge of gays says he’s bisexual – New York Daily News

Andrew Dymock arrives at court where he is appearing on terrorism related charges, at the Old Bailey in London, Friday Jan. 3, 2020. Dymock is alleged to have promoted a right-wing extremist group through his Twitter account and website. (Aaron Chown/AP)

Colton Underwood says he was blackmailed into coming out – Los Angeles Times

Colton Underwood, the first star of “The Bachelor” franchise to come out, says he was blackmailed before he announced last month that he is gay.

Variety, which has an exclusive interview, says Underwood “secretly visited a spa known for catering to gay clientele. Shortly thereafter, he received an anonymous email, which has been reviewed by Variety, from someone claiming to have taken his nude photos at the venue.”

Underwood, a former professional football player, said the incident forced him to come out to his publicist. That led to his public announcement in an interview with Robin Roberts on “Good Morning America” in April.

Underwood confirmed to Variety that he has a Netflix series in the works about his coming-out journey, with fellow gay athlete Gus Kenworthy acting as his guide.

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While initially praised for his decision to come out, Underwood, 29, has weathered his fair share of controversy, including allegations of harassment.

After appearing as a contestant on “The Bachelorette,” he was cast in “Bachelor in Paradise” (both in 2018), where he had a fling with fellow contestant Tia Booth. In 2019, he was chosen as the resident Prince Charming for Season 23 of “The Bachelor,” the flagship series of ABC’s wildly popular dating show franchise.

Underwood and Season 23 winner Cassie Randolph entered into a relationship, during which he contracted COVID-19. They broke up in May 2020, prompting online harassment of Randolph by “Bachelor” fans.

A few months later, Randolph filed a restraining order against Underwood. She claimed Underwood had stalked and harassed her, including installing a tracking device on the bumper of her car.

Colton’s Netflix show prompted backlash, with more than 35,000 people signing a Change.org petition to scrap the series rather than feature someone allegedly guilty of “abusive, manipulative and dangerous behavior.”

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Underwood’s coming out sent shockwaves through Bachelor Nation. He also received support, including from celebrities such as Billy Eichner, who had previously told him during a guest appearance on “The Bachelor”: “Maybe you’re the first gay Bachelor, and we don’t even know.”

Talking to Variety, Underwood addressed some of the controversy he has faced since then.

“I never want people to think that I’m coming out to change the narrative, or to brush over and not take responsibility for my actions, and now that I have this gay life that I don’t have to address my past as a straight man,” Underwood said. “Controlling situations to try to grasp at any part of the straight fantasy that I was trying to live out was so wrong.”

Montana man convicted of consensual gay sex will not have to register as a sex offender – Missoulian

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Randall Menges, along with his attorneys Matthew Strugar and Elizabeth Ehret, pause outside the Russell Smith Federal Courthouse in March. In its Tuesday ruling, the federal court stated Menges’ requirement to register is unconstitutional and that someone who is having consensual sexual contact with someone of the same sex does not pose a threat to public safety.

A federal judge ruled on Tuesday that a former Missoula man convicted of having gay sex would not have to register as a sex offender.

Randall Menges, 45, was convicted of having gay sex in Idaho in 1994 after he had consensual sex with two 16-year-old boys. Menges was 18 at the time. 

He was convicted under Idaho’s Crimes Against Nature law, which bans anal and oral sex between consenting adults, according to the lawsuit initially filed by Menges in December 2020.

In its Tuesday ruling, the federal court stated Menges’ requirement to register is unconstitutional and that someone who is having consensual sexual contact with someone of the same sex does not pose a threat to public safety.

After serving seven years in prison and being released on probation for the remainder of his sentence, Menges, who now lives in Butte, was required to register as a sex offender in Idaho. When he moved to Montana in the mid-2000s, the requirement to register followed him across state lines, according to court documents.

Menges said it should have not required a lawsuit to find the registry requirement unconstitutional, but that he’s happy it’s over.

“I’m grateful to the court for putting an end to my nightmare,” Menges said.

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The attorney general’s office is appealing the ruling, Emilee Cantrell, press secretary of the Attorney General’s office said.

“We filed a notice of appeal because this order weakens our state’s sex offender registry law and opens it up to more attacks from out-of-state lawyers who are more interested in politics than the safety of Montana children,” Cantrell said.

U.S. District Court Judge Dana Christensen presided at the Tuesday ruling.

“Montana has no rational basis for forcing Menges to register as a sexual offender on the basis of a 1994 Idaho conviction for engaging in oral or anal sex with a 16-year old male when he was 18, but not forcing those to register as a sexual offender who were convicted in Idaho in 1994 at the age of 18 for engaging in vaginal sex with a 16-year old female,” the ruling said.

Christensen added in his ruling that while Montana’s sexual offender registration laws usually serve compelling government interests, this does not apply to Menges’ case.

In December 2020, Menges filed a lawsuit against the Montana Attorney General’s Office over whether the requirement to register violated his constitutional rights. The following March, the Montana Attorney General’s Office opposed removing Menges from the state’s sex offender registry.

“This case involves the lingering effects of centuries of homophobic ‘sodomy’ prohibitions,” Matthew Strugar, an attorney representing Menges, wrote in the original complaint.

Montana formally repealed its sodomy law in 2013 after a Supreme Court ruling in 2003 said sodomy laws were unconstitutional. However, Montana still required people with sodomy convictions to register as sex offenders if they were convicted in a state that still required registration, according to the press release. Idaho, South Carolina and Mississippi still require sex offender registration for people convicted under their sodomy laws.

“It is unconscionable that in 2021, Montana would still put people convicted of having gay sex on the sex offender registry,” Strugar said. “This kind of overt, state-sanctioned homophobia would have been surprising 30 years ago. Today it is shocking. And it is unconstitutional.”

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Montana man convicted of consensual gay sex will not have to register as a sex offender – KPVI News 6

A federal judge ruled on Tuesday that a former Missoula man convicted of having gay sex would not have to register as a sex offender.

Randall Menges, 45, was convicted of having gay sex in Idaho in 1994 after he had consensual sex with two 16-year-old boys. He was convicted under Idaho’s Crimes Against Nature law, which bans anal and oral sex between consenting adults, according to the lawsuit initially filed by Menges in December 2020.

In its Tuesday ruling, the federal court stated Menges’ requirement to register is unconstitutional and that someone who is having consensual sexual contact with someone of the same sex does not pose a threat to public safety.

After serving seven years in prison and being released on probation for the remainder of his sentence, Menges, who now lives in Butte, was required to register as a sex offender in Idaho. When he moved to Montana in the mid-2000s, the requirement to register followed him across state lines, according to court documents.

Menges said it should have not required a lawsuit to find the registry requirement unconstitutional, but that he’s happy it’s over.

“I’m grateful to the court for putting an end to my nightmare,” Menges said.

The attorney general’s office is appealing the ruling, Emilee Cantrell, press secretary of the Attorney General’s office said.

“We filed a notice of appeal because this order weakens our state’s sex offender registry law and opens it up to more attacks from out-of-state lawyers who are more interested in politics than the safety of Montana children,” Cantrell said.

U.S. District Court Judge Dana Christensen presided at the Tuesday ruling.

“Montana has no rational basis for forcing Menges to register as a sexual offender on the basis of a 1994 Idaho conviction for engaging in oral or anal sex with a 16-year old male when he was 18, but not forcing those to register as a sexual offender who were convicted in Idaho in 1994 at the age of 18 for engaging in vaginal sex with a 16-year old female,” the ruling said.

Christensen added in his ruling that while Montana’s sexual offender registration laws usually serve compelling government interests, this does not apply to Menges’ case.

In December 2020, Menges filed a lawsuit against the Montana Attorney General’s Office over whether the requirement to register violated his constitutional rights. The following March, the Montana Attorney General’s Office opposed removing Menges from the state’s sex offender registry.

“This case involves the lingering effects of centuries of homophobic ‘sodomy’ prohibitions,” Matthew Strugar, an attorney representing Menges, wrote in the original complaint.

Montana formally repealed its sodomy law in 2013 after a Supreme Court ruling in 2003 said sodomy laws were unconstitutional. However, Montana still required people with sodomy convictions to register as sex offenders if they were convicted in a state that still required registration, according to the press release. Idaho, South Carolina and Mississippi still require sex offender registration for people convicted under their sodomy laws.

“It is unconscionable that in 2021, Montana would still put people convicted of having gay sex on the sex offender registry,” Strugar said. “This kind of overt, state-sanctioned homophobia would have been surprising 30 years ago. Today it is shocking. And it is unconstitutional.”

Roxane Gay On Her Audacious Book Club, Audre Lorde, & Teaching – Bustle

There are writers who hoard their knowledge, guarding their accolades and glaring over their shoulders at any young upstarts encroaching on their literary turf. And then there’s Roxane Gay.

An ardent believer in the power of books, Gay is something of a literary evangelist, sharing her expertise as a writer with young up-and-comers as a professor at Purdue and Yale (and now, Masterclass), and using her platform to spread the word about exciting new work — all on top of penning her own bestsellers like Bad Feminist. Earlier this year, she decided to formalize this aspect of her work, launching her Audacious Book Club to highlight books from writers with vital stories to tell. Now, she’s bringing it to the next level, merging her existing club with the Austin-based startup Literati.

For June, she selected the novel Of Women and Salt by Gabriela Garcia — a former student who she believes is poised for greatness. An upcoming selection, Ashley C. Ford’s debut memoir Somebody’s Daughter, is also from a onetime student. “I’m just so proud of them,” Gay says. “They’re doing it on their own terms, and they do it really well.” And it’s not just the young writers she’s mentored whom Gay wants to promote: other book club selections from debut writers include Detransition, Baby by Torrey Peters, Anthony Veasna So’s Afterparties, and Milk Blood Heat by Dantiel W. Moniz.

And there are more recommendations where that came from. Gay recently chatted with Bustle to discuss her book club selections and the novelists who inspired her as a kid — and the ones who inspire her now.

This book club is an extension of one you’d already started. Why did you choose Of Women and Salt for June?

Of Women and Salt is this really beautiful multigenerational saga of three Cuban women, and this constellation of other women in their lives. I have known this novel from the day it began — Gabriela Garcia is a former student of mine, and she started this in my novel writing class. I thought it was remarkable from the beginning. She’s always had a clear sense of the kinds of stories she wants to tell. She continued to work on the project well after my class, and eventually turned it into her thesis, and then it sold. I think on a sentence level, her writing is incredibly beautiful. She has an ability to make you care about her characters, which is what I look for in fiction.

What is it like for you as an educator to see your students thriving?

It’s amazing. I’ve been very lucky that in the past year, I’ve had three students publish books. And to see them succeeding is gratifying. When you’re in the classroom, you can see the potential, but you also don’t know what they’re going up against when trying to get their books published. Certainly, it’s possible, but it’s also very challenging. It’s a very competitive thing to do, and I’m just so proud of them. They’re doing it on their own terms, and they do it really well.

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What are some books or authors that influenced you most as a young writer?

As a young writer, I was really influenced by the Little House on the Prairie series, which we now know — well, we knew back then too, but as a child you don’t really understand what you’re reading as much — but we know now that it’s really problematic and that there is a lot of racism. But I grew up in Nebraska, and I loved reading a book about a girl from the Midwest. In the book Laura Ingalls was interesting, and she was imperfect, but she was still loved. As I got older and started reading more sophisticated books, Toni Morrison has certainly been a huge influence on my work, both fiction and nonfiction. And Edith Wharton is my favorite writer — The Age of Innocence in particular has really shaped how I think about writing certain kinds of issues and how to use razor-sharp wit.

You’ve published both fiction and nonfiction. Is there a formula that dictates what you write and when you write it, or is it more of a matter of inspiration?

It’s more a matter of what I think the piece needs. For example, I wrote my first novel [An Untamed State] thinking about this phenomenon of kidnappings in Haiti. I certainly could have written nonfiction, but I didn’t want to co-opt anyone’s stories, or veer out of my line. And that is my lane in some ways, but I also know that Haitian journalists are already doing incredible work, and so I didn’t feel the need to replicate the great work that’s already out there. In an instance like that, I know that fiction is the best choice. And there are other times where I feel like nonfiction is the right choice, or maybe a comic book. So it just depends.

Who are some up-and-coming writers who excite you?

I think Rivers Soloman is just incredible. They just wrote a novel called Sorrowland that is sort of magical realism. It’s about this separatist Black community where there is something more going on. And this woman escapes and finds herself transforming after years of exposure in this community to something, but we’re unsure of what that is. They have a lot of ambition in terms of the scope of what they want to put into their work.

And then there is Donika Kelly. I wouldn’t say that she’s up-and-coming, but she’s a wonderful poet and one of the book club’s future writers. We’re going to read her book of poetry The Renunciation this fall. I’m really excited for people to engage with her work, because I love what she does with her poems.

And another writer is Ashley C. Ford — another future book club selection — whose first book is Somebody’s Daughter. It’s a memoir about a girl growing up with an incarcerated father, and the challenges she faced in childhood while trying to maintain a relationship with the man she never really saw. It’s moving and beautifully written. I’ve always known Ashley has had a lot of potential, but now I really see her stepping into her power as a writer. I’m looking forward to the rest of the world reading her work.

This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity.

Tony Bellew blasts ‘disgrace’ social media firms after boxer’s gay brother targeted – Mirror Online

Ex-World boxing champ Tony Bellew has called social media firms a “disgrace” after trolls got away with targeting his gay brother.

The cowardly trolls targeted Bellew, 38, after he shared pictures of his brother Liam’s gay marriage last September.

The former British, Commonwealth, European and World boxing champion had tweeted: “Congratulations to me little brother Liam on the marriage to his partner Steve! Wishing you both all the luck & happiness in the world.”

Bellew said on Wednesday: “I put on a picture of my brother when he got married to his husband and the hate and things I received. Wishing death upon him because of his colour, because of his sexuality, it was just insane.”

But he said the trolls never took up his challenge to meet him face to face.

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The Mirror’s Stop Online Hate campaign demands tech firms act to tackle abuse
The Mirror’s Stop Online Hate campaign demands tech firms act to tackle abuse

He told BBC One’s Breakfast presenter Dan Walker: “I always put the same thing, ‘if you want to say something nasty to me, or you want to challenge and come at me just tell me when you see me’. I’m still yet to meet someone.”

The boxer added: “These social media companies are a disgrace for what they are doing.”

And he called for new rules forcing people to reveal their identities before being allowed to open social media accounts.

“The simple way forward and the only way out of this is a driver’s licence or a passport is put to an account,” he said.

The Mirror’s five point charter

1 Zero tolerance of identity-based hate, abuse and bullying on social media.

Firms must remove offensive material that breaches community guidelines immediately. We propose incremental fines for failure to remove such content within a specified time. Firms should also be fined if they fail to remove persistent offenders. Firms must make guidelines more robust and comprehensive.

2All social media firms to have a clear, publicised and accessible mechanism for reporting abuse. Firms should be obliged under law to acknowledge receipt of complaints and explain their action. Social media firms to publish six-monthly reports monitoring abuse and explaining action to eradicate it.

3 Automatic bans for anyone posting offensive material, including lifetime bans for repeated or especially offensive behaviour. Social media firms should explore a system of verification so it is easier to trace, remove and prosecute those spreading hatred.

4 A tax on tech firms to fund educational outreach projects to teach young people about online safety.

5 Demand the Government brings the Online Safety Bill before Parliament now. Make identity-based hate a specific crime alongside child sexual exploitation, inciting terror and promoting violence.

“No-one is going to put a racist comment to someone knowing it can come right back to you and know who you are, where you are from.”

He added: “All you care about is the money that is coming in from sponsors and what you are making from the platform. You are not caring about the hate that is going out.

“Thousands of people are dying every year through social media hate, thousands of people are killing themselves because some muppet in his mum’s basement or his mum’s loft, has wrote ‘you are an absolute waste of space’.

“And that is the saddest part about it.”



The cowardly trolls did not take up Bellew's offer to meet face-to-face
The cowardly trolls did not take up Bellew’s offer to meet face-to-face

But he said individuals need to take responsibility for the comments they post.

Bellew, from Liverpool, added: “As well as the social media companies, people need to take accountability for their actions.”

The Mirror has launched our Stop Online Hate campaign to demand tech firms tackle the cowardly thugs who are turning social media into a cesspit of hatred.

Bellew, who starred as boxer Ricky Conlan in the 2015 Hollywood movie “Creed” alongside Sylvester Stallone, retired from the ring in 2018.

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During his glittering career he won 30 of his 34 fights, including 20 knockouts.

His book, “Everybody Has a Plan Until They Get Punched in the Face: 12 Things Boxing Teaches You About Life,” is published on Thursday.

The Mirror’s Stop Online Hate campaign also demands tech firms act to tackle abuse.

  • The Armed Forces’ mental health champion has quit Twitter, blaming six years of trolling and abuse. Warrant Officer Glenn Haughton said: “I was not prepared to take the hounding any longer.”

‘The Office’: Steve Carell Did the Nicest Thing for Oscar Nuñez That Inspired Him to Briefly Leave the Show – Showbiz Cheat Sheet

Steve Carell was many things on The Office. For most fans, Carell will always be the hilariously awkward Michael Scott. But to The Office cast, Carell served as a leader and a mentor behind the scenes.

There’s no doubt Carell inspired many things about The Office, but Oscar Nuñez remembers the best advice he ever got from the actor. As fate would have it, Carell’s advice inspired Nuñez and one of The Office‘s biggest storylines.  

Oscar Nuñez, Brian Baumgartner, and Steve Carell in 'The Office'

Oscar Nuñez, Brian Baumgartner, and Steve Carell | Chris Haston/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty Images

‘The Office’ Season 3 is missing Oscar Nuñez

Gay Witch Hunt” is the first episode of season 3 and one of the most iconic episodes of The Office. During the episode, Michael Scott outs Oscar Martinez, a gay employee at Dunder Mifflin’s Scranton Branch. In an attempt to make things better, Michael demonstrates his tolerance by kissing Oscar in the conference room. 

When corporate gets wind of what happened, Oscar and his boyfriend Gil (Tom W. Chick) vacation in Europe for a few months on Dunder Mifflin’s dime. “Part of me wants people in the office to have learned their lesson and just shut the hell up,” Oscar tells cameras upon his return. “But part of me thinks, you know what? Keep talking. I’d really love a home theater.” 

Many fans might think Oscar’s leave was simply the way the story was supposed to unfold. But behind the scenes, Oscar’s fictional leave from Dunder Mifflin doubled as a strategic move for showrunner Greg Daniels

Steve Carell told Oscar Nuñez to step away from ‘The Office’ briefly 

Actor Brian Baumgartner is working his way through the cast and crew of The Office on his latest podcast, The Office Deep Dive. During his conversation with Nuñez, Baumgartner discovered the real reason his character was granted “time off.” 

“I needed a way out of the show so I could go shoot Halfway Home on Comedy Central,” Nuñez explained. The actor was suddenly in a dilemma — he didn’t want to give up The Office, but he didn’t want to miss the opportunity with Comedy Central, either. 

RELATED: ‘The Office’: Kevin Malone’s Famous Chili Scene Was ‘Kind of Controversial’

Nuñez also recalled a conversation with Carell during the podcast. After explaining his situation, Carell told him: “Do everything. Don’t say no to work. Do everything — figuring it out is not your problem; it’s up to your managers. They’ll figure it out.”

Daniels did figure it out. “What a lovely man — what a lovely human being,” Nuñez said of Daniels. He left for 12 episodes, then made his comeback in “The Return” episode of season 3. 

Is Oscar Nuñez gay like his character on ‘The Office’?

While his character Oscar Martinez is gay, Nuñez is not. The Office cast member is married to Ursula Whittaker, an actor, producer, and director, since 2011. She has worked on shows like Veronica Mars and Malcolm in the Middle

“I don’t know which came first — I think they were going to make me gay anyway,” Nuñez explained to Baumgartner on the podcast. Regardless, Oscar’s sexuality made for the perfect vehicle to grant Nuñez the time away from The Office he needed without completely writing the character off the series. 

LGBT neobank Daylight urges banks to let customers use ‘true names’ – American Banker

Daylight, a digital banking platform for the LGBT community, is calling on traditional financial institutions to let customers use their chosen names rather than their legal names.

The New York company — which has made the use of true names part of its business plan — announced its #CallMeByMyName campaign Tuesday in partnership with All Out, an organization that advocates for LGBT rights, and the National Center for Transgender Equality, an advocacy group for transgender people.

The campaign urges the American Bankers Association to issue guidance to its members to devote more resources to fostering inclusivity.

Billie Simmons, co-founder of Daylight

“Being able to access debit and credit cards in your chosen name, which is not necessarily your legal name, is vital for ensuring the physical safety and security of trans and nonbinary people,” says Billie Simmons, co-founder of Daylight.

“We acknowledge the improvements already made by the U.S. banking industry to improve inclusive customer service for transgender and nonbinary customers,” a letter on All Out’s website says. “We now call on you to take the next steps by encouraging ABA members to redirect a portion of Pride advertising spend towards developing publicly available action plans.”

To develop these action plans, the #CallMeByMyName campaign — a riff on the movie “Call Me By Your Name” about a same-sex romance — asks financial institutions to let trans and nonbinary customers update their names and gender identities for free, without requiring permission from a doctor, judge or notary, and extend this recognition across customer service, statements and cards.

All Out has posted a petition on its website next to the open letter that Daylight will use to lobby financial institutions to be sensitive to the needs of trans and nonbinary customers. The challenger bank will also use the hashtag on social media to call attention to this cause.

“Being able to access debit and credit cards in your chosen name, which is not necessarily your legal name, is vital for ensuring the physical safety and security of trans and nonbinary people,” Billie Simmons, a co-founder of Daylight, said in a press release.

The Daylight debit card bears the customer’s chosen name. Although it is necessary to resurface a customer’s legal name during the know-your-customer process, the app and customer service staff will use preferred names thereafter and ensure name changes are updated across all systems automatically.

BMO Harris Bank, Citigroup and Superbia Credit Union use Mastercard’s True Name feature, which lets customers use their preferred name on credit, debit and prepaid cards.

“We applaud recent initiatives to improve support for trans and nonbinary people, but these don’t go far enough,” said Simmons. She points out that in her experience using True Name with a major retail bank, she still receives bank statements, texts and letters with her deadname.

“ABA is committed to helping banks of all sizes build diverse, equitable and inclusive environments that welcome LGBTQ+ customers and employees,” an ABA spokesman said by email. “We support bank initiatives to allow trans and nonbinary people to have the financial products that meet their needs, while also meeting all bank regulatory requirements.”

Beyond issuing debit cards, Daylight is an online community where users can get advice from their peers, schedule sessions with LGBT financial coaches and read content that covers money management issues specific to LGBT needs, from the unique costs of transitioning to the finances of starting a family.

Gay Bachelor star Colton Underwood denies ‘physically abusing’ ex-girlfriend Cassie Randolph – Yahoo Eurosport UK

Gay Bachelor star and former NFL player Colton Underwood has denied ever ‘physically abusing’ his ex-girlfriend Cassie Randolph.

The reality TV star came out as gay in April during an appearance on Good Morning America, where he opened up about how his Catholic upbringing pushed him into the closet. In a recent interview with Variety, Underwood, who appeared on season 23 of Bachelor, opened up about the media coverage surrounding his break-up with ex-girlfriend Cassie Randolph – who he met on the show.

The couple announced in May 2020 that they ended their relationship, and three months later, Randolph accused Underwood of stalking and harassing her and filed for a restraining order.

Colton Underwood told Variety that he couldn’t go into detail about the events surrounding the couple’s breakup due to a joint agreement. But he said he wanted to clear the air around the situation because he had seen the word “abuse” next to his name in media coverage.

“I did not physically touch or physically abuse Cassie in any way, shape or form,” Underwood said. “I never want people to think that I’m coming out to change the narrative, or to brush over and not take responsibility for my actions, and now that I have this gay life that I don’t have to address my past as a straight man.”

He added: “Controlling situations to try to grasp at any part of the straight fantasy that I was trying to live out was so wrong.”

Underwood admitted that he was in “such a dark place” after Randolph broke up with him. He said this was because he knew that his last straight relationship was over, and he would have to face the reality that he is a gay man.

Colton Underwood apologised for his behaviour towards Randolph and her family, but he wouldn’t go into further detail “out of respect” for Randolph. He said he wanted the Variety interview to be the “last time” he addressed her because “it’s not fair for her to have her name in articles” every time he talks.

“I’m sorry, and I want her to know that I hope she has the best, most beautiful life,” Underwood said.

The former NFL player also told Variety he was “getting blackmailed” during his “rock bottom and spiral” after someone saw him at a spa known for catering to cay clientele. The unidentified person threatened to “out” Underwood to the press, and the horrific incident led to him making his sexuality such a public affair on Good Morning America.