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One Eleven Bar Gains a New Lease on Life During Pandemic – Palm Springs Life

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May 12, 2021

One Eleven Bar Gains a New Lease on Life During Pandemic – Palm Springs Life

Terry Larson performs on stage at the new One Eleven Bar, formerly Studio One Eleven, in Cathedral City.
PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY ONE ELEVEN BAR

The pandemic appears to have brought only roadblocks and a sense of hesitancy. But it has also presented opportunity and action.

John Wiersma and his husband Greg wanted to be bar owners as part of their move to the desert. That was the 5-to 10-year-plan. Then the shutdown happened. “2020 changed all of that,” Wiersma says. “Moving here (from Los Angeles) last year was a 180 turn for us, but it was kind of one of those opportunities that if we didn’t do it, we would always wonder.”

They had been to Studio One Eleven several times as part of their mission to research the Coachella Valley gay bar scene. When it came up for sale following the shutdown, all the reasons they liked the bar made the purchase seem right.

In giving the bar a refresh, owner John Wiersma says he wanted to give it a “midcentury lounge vibe”.

“We liked that the bar was a place where all the locals like to hang out,” Wiersma says of Studio One Eleven, which has been part of the local bar scene since the 1980s. “The atmosphere was very friendly and familiar: it was very homey. It seemed to be more a laid back kind of place where people would go to hear their friends perform in karaoke. Everybody seems to know the bartenders and everybody else.”

Since officially reopening earlier this month under a new name, One Eleven Bar, and the appearance of Pickle, a drag star from Los Angeles, Wiersma shares with Palm Springs Life their plans for the bar going forward.

What was the attraction to Studio One Eleven (now One Eleven Bar)?

Because of COVID we saw a lot of these old bars closing, like Oil Can Harry’s and Gold Coast in West Hollywood. We wanted to make sure that we do not lose any more of them. We thought it would be a great opportunity to not only save the bar, but also give it new life. We wanted to keep exactly what people loved about it: an entertainment bar. Hopefully, it will be around for another 30 years.

Why did it seem the right time to purchase the bar during the pandemic versus waiting until later?

It seemed to be the right time, because half of the decision-making was trying to save spaces. We still need spaces to go to after the pandemic; the other half was making sure we still have gay spaces. It also was economically more feasible during this time. We would not need to wait another five years to make our dream come true: Having our own bar.

The bar has a history of individual performers and karaoke. What vision did you see in the bar after looking at the space, and why did you think those changes would resonate with patrons here?

We knew that it was well known for karaoke and its live entertainment. My background is in production design. I understand how to build a show and an atmosphere. We thought it was a great space that had some good bones. Upgrading the space would really add to the shows. We kept a lot of the same performers. We still have Tommy Dobson, Terry Larson, and Ron Pass. But at the same time we will add some new flavors into the mix as well.

How important was connecting with Pickle to your plans? What does she bring to your entertainment plans going forward?

We love Pickle. She is the unusual drag queen who sings, dances, and performs. She also does comedy and trivia.

She does it all. I think her style of entertainment fits in really well with our bar. It is live entertainment and a variety show act. She is funny and connects well with our audiences. I think it has to be something fresh and new which people have not seen.

What COVID precautions are in place currently and will those change once we can fully reopen in mid-June?

Yes, all of our tables are socially distanced six-feet apart. There is only table service and cocktail service at the moment. We are still serving food inside, because we have to operate as a restaurant. Partners are the neighboring restaurants Las Carretas and Upper-Crust Pizza. The guests still have to sit at a table and they can’t move around. Hopefully, once June 15 hits, we can go back to being a real bar again.

Have you made any changes to the interior of the bar? What was the thinking behind those changes?

We changed everything, from floor to ceiling. I believe we’ve touched every surface in the bar. It definitely needed a refresh. We wanted to give the bar a midcentury lounge vibe, which gives it more identity. We really want to build the brand of One Eleven Bar. We upgraded the entertainment system, and gave the bar a much more cohesive color scheme. We did a lot of branding. Our intension was to really give it a good atmosphere so that people know where they are.

Was there any hesitancy in making changes to the interior now versus later in the year?

We worked on the bar last year when everything was still shut down. We had some time on our hands, and we wanted to get ahead of everything.
We thought everything should be ready when we were able to reopen. We didn’t want to alienate our audience, because they are very loyal patrons, but at the same time, we wanted to give the bar a new life again.”

Where do you see the bar a year from now?

We would like to be known as the premier piano entertainment bar of the valley. A lot of gay areas don’t do this type of entertainment anymore. Beside that, we will have a regular lineup. We’ll have our regular artist scheduled every month, but there will be new shows as well. It is the kind of place where you can go to get a good drink, know people, but at the same time, see some good entertainment in the evening. We would like to attract a later night crowd as well. We try to achieve that with our video bar. We have different themed music videos. There are ‘80s videos one night and then Sundays and Mondays we have musicals right now.

Visit oneelevenbar.com.

Log Cabin Republicans mock ‘sappy, gay’ resolution honoring country singer TJ Osborne – Metro Weekly

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Log Cabin Republicans mock ‘sappy, gay’ resolution honoring country singer TJ Osborne – Metro Weekly

T.J. Osborne -- Photo courtesy Brothers Osborne — T.J. Osborne — Photo courtesy Brothers Osborne

The Log Cabin Republicans of Tennessee issued a press release mocking the outrage over the defeat of a resolution in the Tennessee legislature honoring country music singer TJ Osborne, of the group Brothers Osborne, after he recently came out as gay.

“Gay media is fainting with shock like Nathan Lane in The Bird Cage to discover that the Tennessee House did not fall over themselves to immediately pass SJR0609, honoring TJ Osborne of Brothers Osborne for coming out as gay. Zut alors! Someone bring the smelling salts,” the group wrote in a campy, cringe-inducing press release.

“Just so we’re clear: this wasn’t a resolution honoring Osborne’s career and gifts which got voted down because he is gay. It was a resolution honoring him for just…being gay,” the email reads. “Now, the resolution wasn’t heard in committee yet, so who knows what the tea is. Maybe Rep. Jeremy Faison — Tennessee House Republican Caucus Chair — had issues with the syrupy language about Osborne revealing ‘such an integral, heretofore muted part of his identity’ (cringe). Who’s to say–but just maybe a whole state legislature has better things to do than maunder on about ‘familiar faces who express resonant truths, making us feel the full spectrum of emotions’? This is America, not gender studies class.”

While Log Cabin may have had a problem with the way the resolution, offered by Sen. Raumesh Akbari (D-Memphis), was worded, apparently not all Republicans did, as the measure was unanimously passed the Republican-controlled Senate before stalling in the House of Representatives.

The resolution was ultimately defeated after the aforementioned Rep. Faison objected to the resolution on the grounds it hadn’t been approved by a House committee beforehand. Faison called for the bill to be sent back to committee, a move that effectively killed the bill for the year, since committees are no longer meeting for the remainder of this year’s legislative session.

“Look, maybe Faison just thought coming out as gay isn’t newsworthy enough for a resolution. Maybe Osborne has other accomplishments to his name besides fondness for strong jawlines and a fabulous taste in drapery. And besides, none of us got resolutions when we came out — and we were a lot younger than Osborne. Don’t expect rainbow confetti and a ticker tape parade just for liking boys, hunty. Shut up and sing,” Log Cabin of Tennessee wrote in their painfully awkward email.

The group also ridiculed Akbari for authoring the resolution, noting that Osborne is not the first country star to come out as gay. It also mocked the Brothers Osborne for tweeting an invitation to Faison to go to lunch, and for pointing out that Faison honored Ben Shapiro, a conservative commentator who doesn’t even live in Tennessee, with a separate resolution.

“In his interview with TIME this year, Osborne said ‘People will ask, “Why does this even need to be talked about?” and personally, I agree with that.’ Then girl, whatchu crying over? We heard you’re having a lunch kiki with Rep. Faison. Can’t blame you; he’s a total Daddy. But in the meantime we’ll set up brunch with our girls and find out if they’d pass a resolution that’s a little less sappy and…gay.”

Aside from its press release, which read like it was written by a straight person after watching one episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race, the gay Republican group has also used its public platform to speak out against a measure recently approved by lawmakers that has been labeled the “Business Bathroom Bill” or “Bathroom Bill 2.0” by critics.

The bill, as passed, would require businesses that allow transgender customers to use restrooms matching their gender identity to post bright yellow and red signs informing customers that “This facility maintains a policy of allowing the use of restrooms by either biological sex, regardless of the designation on the restroom.”

Some business owners object to the idea that they are being required to install signage — at personal cost — to comply with what seems like a burdensome mandate from the Tennessee General Assembly. Others believe its a ham-handed attempt to “shame” businesses that are accommodating to transgender customers, based on the assumption that “outing” such establishments will cost them business from customers who oppose homosexuality or transgenderism.

However, Micahel Shemtov, the proprietor of two Nashville-based restaurants, previously told Metro Weekly that most of his customers are either supportive of transgender rights, or at least apathetic about it to the point that it would not cost his restaurants a significant amount of business.

“Generally, I don’t think we should be fighting culture wars in politics, and definitely not in restaurants, but if pushed to stand by our opinions, our values, I’d rather have less business and know that we support what we believe in than compromise our values to be more hospitable to homophobic or transphobic people,” Shemtov said.

tennessee — A gender-neutral restroom sign. – Photo: Tim Mossholder, via Unsplash.

In a sober, serious op-ed, published in The Tennessean, Joshua Herr, the chairman of the Log Cabin Republicans argued against the “Business Bathroom Bill,” attempting to cast it as a form of government overreach and calling the measure “misguided.”

In the op-ed, Herr first establishes Log Cabin’s conservative bona fides, noting that the group often provokes the ire or derision of LGBTQ left-leaning activists for its opposition to “radical gender theory,” or legislation like the Equality Act. He notes that the group supported a bill, recently signed into law by Gov. Bill Lee (R), that bars transgender student-athletes from competing in sports based on their gender identity.

“If we oppose a Republican LGBT bill, it is out of principle, not identity politics or blind devotion to those in the LGBT ‘community’ who reject us,” writes Herr. “We were not asked to comment on the bill before it was passed, but we feel we would be remiss not to offer our perspective.

“We believe this bill is flawed for two reasons. First, as conservatives who believe in liberty and in supporting small businesses, we do not think that government should single out businesses for special public censure if they do not enforce the government’s current social views,” he writes. “Americans are still sorting out how they feel about trans people and how they can be tolerant or hospitable neighbors even if they disagree. Government should not use private businesses as pawns in an ongoing culture war, especially with something as private as their customers’ genitalia.”

Herr also argues that the bill is counterproductive to achieving the aims of its most vocal proponents.

“Parents want to make sure their kids are safe — this is a completely reasonable concern. But forcing trans women to use the same restroom as young boys can be more disturbing and disruptive to businesses,” he writes. “Dads: imagine walking into the men’s room with your son and seeing Caitlyn Jenner, in a dress, fixing her makeup.

“More disturbing still is when trans men who are far along in their transition — people who look, act, and identify as male — must use the same restroom as young girls,” he continues. “Moms: imagine walking into the ladies’ room with your daughter and seeing someone with a beard, deep voice, and men’s clothes who urinates standing up. Does this feel safer than if that person had used the men’s room? Of course not. But that is what this bill incentivizes.”

Herr also acknowledges the fear some people have that pro-trans restroom policies will facilitate sexual assault, but argues that the data does not provide any evidence that transgender women in Tennessee pose a risk to cisgender women in restrooms.

“The bathroom issue requires both care and prudence. The best solutions will be arrived at freely by citizens within their communities, not imposed from the top via blanket legislation,” Herr writes. “[The bill] might be more defensible if it only applied to government restrooms. But by extending the mandate to privately-owned businesses, it tries to shame businesses who choose, out of respect for customers’ privacy, to let trans customers use their restroom of choice.

“Tennessee businesses should be allowed to work through their own views without government bullying and public labeling,” he concludes. “For that reason, we encourage Governor Lee to veto HB1182/SB1224.”

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Tennessee Log Cabin Republicans mock defeat of “sappy” and “gay” resolution honoring country singer TJ Osborne – Metro Weekly

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Tennessee Log Cabin Republicans mock defeat of “sappy” and “gay” resolution honoring country singer TJ Osborne – Metro Weekly

The Log Cabin Republicans of Tennessee issued a press release mocking the outrage over the defeat of a resolution in the Tennessee legislature honoring country music singer TJ Osborne, of the group Brothers Osborne, after he recently came out as gay.

“Gay media is fainting with shock like Nathan Lane in The Bird Cage to discover that the Tennessee House did not fall over themselves to immediately pass SJR0609, honoring TJ Osborne of Brothers Osborne for coming out as gay. Zut alors! Someone bring the smelling salts,” the group wrote in a campy, cringe-inducing yet tongue-in-cheek press release.

“Just so we’re clear: this wasn’t a resolution honoring Osborne’s career and gifts which got voted down because he is gay. It was a resolution honoring him for just…being gay,” the email reads. “Now, the resolution wasn’t heard in committee yet, so who knows what the tea is. Maybe Rep. Jeremy Faison — Tennessee House Republican Caucus Chair — had issues with the syrupy language about Osborne revealing ‘such an integral, heretofore muted part of his identity’ (cringe). Who’s to say–but just maybe a whole state legislature has better things to do than maunder on about ‘familiar faces who express resonant truths, making us feel the full spectrum of emotions’? This is America, not gender studies class.”

While Log Cabin may have had a problem with the way the resolution, offered by Sen. Raumesh Akbari (D-Memphis), was worded, apparently not all Republicans did, as the measure was unanimously passed the Republican-controlled Senate before stalling in the House of Representatives.

The resolution was ultimately defeated after the aforementioned Rep. Faison objected to the resolution on the grounds it hadn’t been approved by a House committee beforehand. Faison called for the bill to be sent back to committee, a move that effectively killed the bill for the year, since committees are no longer meeting for the remainder of this year’s legislative session.

“Look, maybe Faison just thought coming out as gay isn’t newsworthy enough for a resolution. Maybe Osborne has other accomplishments to his name besides fondness for strong jawlines and a fabulous taste in drapery. And besides, none of us got resolutions when we came out — and we were a lot younger than Osborne. Don’t expect rainbow confetti and a ticker tape parade just for liking boys, hunty. Shut up and sing,” Log Cabin of Tennessee wrote in their email.

The group also ridiculed Akbari for authoring the resolution, noting that Osborne is not the first country star to come out as gay. It also mocked the Brothers Osborne for tweeting an invitation to Faison to go to lunch, and for pointing out that Faison honored Ben Shapiro, a conservative commentator who doesn’t even live in Tennessee, with a separate resolution.

“In his interview with TIME this year, Osborne said ‘People will ask, “Why does this even need to be talked about?” and personally, I agree with that.’ Then girl, whatchu crying over? We heard you’re having a lunch kiki with Rep. Faison. Can’t blame you; he’s a total Daddy. But in the meantime we’ll set up brunch with our girls and find out if they’d pass a resolution that’s a little less sappy and…gay.”

Aside from its press release that sounded like something that came out of RuPaul’s Drag Race alum Laganja Estranja’s mouth, the gay Republican group has also used its public platform to speak out against a measure recently approved by lawmakers that has been labeled the “Business Bathroom Bill” or “Bathroom Bill 2.0” by critics.

The bill, as passed, would require businesses that allow transgender customers to use restrooms matching their gender identity to post bright yellow and red signs informing customers that “This facility maintains a policy of allowing the use of restrooms by either biological sex, regardless of the designation on the restroom.”

Some business owners object to the idea that they are being required to install signage — at personal cost — to comply with what seems like a burdensome mandate from the Tennessee General Assembly. Others believe its a ham-handed attempt to “shame” businesses that are accommodating to transgender customers, based on the assumption that “outing” such establishments will cost them business from customers who oppose homosexuality or transgenderism.

However, Micahel Shemtov, the proprietor of two Nashville-based restaurants, previously told Metro Weekly that most of his customers are either supportive of transgender rights, or at least apathetic about it to the point that it would not cost his restaurants a significant amount of business.

“Generally, I don’t think we should be fighting culture wars in politics, and definitely not in restaurants, but if pushed to stand by our opinions, our values, I’d rather have less business and know that we support what we believe in than compromise our values to be more hospitable to homophobic or transphobic people,” Shemtov said.

A gender-neutral restroom sign. – Photo: Tim Mossholder, via Unsplash.