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Sunny Hostin defends Mara Gay, says American flag took on new meaning during Trump era – Washington Times

“The View” co-host Sunny Hostin said Wednesday that she feels “threatened” when she sees American flags juxtaposed with flags supporting former President Donald Trump, saying the patriotic symbol has taken on a new meaning to people of color like herself.

Co-host Whoopi Goldberg had broached the American flag topic after The New York Times‘ Mara Gay received a wave of criticism Tuesday for saying dozens of American flags flying on Long Island during the anniversary of D-Day left her “really disturbed.”

“For many, the flag has been a symbol of freedom,” Ms. Goldberg said. “Has it taken another meaning, Sunny?”

“Yes, it has,” Ms. Hostin responded. “And I’m so surprised, actually, that she is receiving this kind of backlash. … When someone of color, a Black woman, is telling you her feelings, people need to listen, and not repudiate it and not say, ‘Well, that can’t be true.’ Because you have, in many respects, the former, disgraced, twice-impeached, one-term president to thank for politicizing the American flag.”

Ms. Hostin said she recently took a family trip to the Outer Banks off the coast of North Carolina when she grew “scared” and “afraid” when she saw U.S. flags flying alongside Confederate flags. She said the imagery sent a clear message: “You don’t belong here, we belong here.”

“So yes, when I drive into a neighborhood and it’s not July 4th and I’m not in a predominantly military household neighborhood and there are flags, Americans flags, everywhere alongside Trump flags, alongside flags with stars in a circle, I feel threatened because the message is very clear: It’s a message of White supremacy, it’s a message of racism, and it’s a message of ‘their country, not my country.’ And I don’t understand why that would receive backlash,” Ms. Hostin said. 

Ms. Gay, a member of The New York Times‘ editorial board, said Tuesday on MSNBC’s “Morning Joe” that Trump supporters “see Americanness as the same as one with whiteness” and refuse to “share the democracy with others.

“I was on Long Island this weekend, visiting a really dear friend,” she said. “I was really disturbed. I saw, you know, dozens and dozens of pickup trucks with you know, expletives against Joe Biden on the back of them, Trump flags, and in some cases, just dozens of American flags, which you know is also just disturbing, because essentially the message was clear, this is my country. This is not your country. I own this.”

The Times’ PR team tweeted a statement late Tuesday saying Ms. Gay’s comments had been “irresponsibly taken out of context.

“Her argument was that Trump and many of his supporters have politicized the American flag. The attacks on her today are ill-informed and grounded in bad-faith,” the paper said.

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Most Republicans support same-sex marriage for first time – Gallup – Reuters

LONDON (Thomson Reuters Foundation) – A majority of Republicans in the United States support same-sex marriage for the first time, a Gallup poll found on Wednesday, with a record 70% of all respondents backing gay weddings.

The research shows a significant increase in approval of same-sex marriage since 2015, when it was legalised nationwide following a Supreme Court ruling and 60% of Americans told Gallup they were in favour of gay marriage.

At that point, Gallup’s annual Values and Beliefs poll, which also gauges support for the death penalty and birth control, found 37% of Republicans supported gay weddings – a figure that has now increased to 55%.

“One of the most striking trends that (our research) shows (is that) Americans can change their views on an issue pretty remarkably in a fairly short period of time,” Gallup analyst Justin McCarthy told the Thomson Reuters Foundation.

“And now we see a majority of Republicans who are supportive for the first time.”

The Republican party has historically been more socially conservative and less willing to advance LGBT+ rights, with new transgender personnel banned from joining the U.S. military under the Trump administration.

According to LGBT+ advocacy group Human Rights Campaign, 29 countries around the world, including Norway, Portugal and South Africa, have legalised same-sex marriage.

Chilean President Sebastian Pinera this month said he would seek to expedite a same-sex marriage bill that has languished in the historically conservative South American nation for years, despite the recognition of same-sex civil unions in 2015.

Legislation is also under discussion in Japan, Lithuania and Thailand.

Gallup’s poll also revealed a generational divide in U.S. attitudes towards LGBT+ issues, with older people holding more conservative views than the young or middle-aged.

Support for same-sex marriage was 84% among 18- to 34-year-olds, compared with 72% of those between 35 and 54 and 60% of over 55s.

“Since the very beginning (of our polling) in the early ‘90s, we have seen young Americans being the biggest drivers for the support of gay rights,” McCarthy said.

Reporting by Hugo Greenhalgh @hugo_greenhalgh; Editing by Katy Migiro. Please credit the Thomson Reuters Foundation, the charitable arm of Thomson Reuters, that covers the lives of people around the world who struggle to live freely or fairly. Visit news.trust.org

Most Republicans support same-sex marriage for first time – Gallup – Devdiscourse

By Hugo Greenhalgh LONDON, June 9 (Thomson Reuters Foundation) – A majority of Republicans in the United States support same-sex marriage for the first time, a Gallup poll found on Wednesday, with a record 70% of all respondents backing gay weddings.

The research shows a significant increase in approval of same-sex marriage since 2015, when it was legalised nationwide following a Supreme Court ruling and 60% of Americans told Gallup they were in favour of gay marriage. At that point, Gallup’s annual Values and Beliefs poll, which also gauges support for the death penalty and birth control, found 37% of Republicans supported gay weddings – a figure that has now increased to 55%.

“One of the most striking trends that (our research) shows (is that) Americans can change their views on an issue pretty remarkably in a fairly short period of time,” Gallup analyst Justin McCarthy told the Thomson Reuters Foundation. “And now we see a majority of Republicans who are supportive for the first time.”

The Republican party has historically been more socially conservative and less willing to advance LGBT+ rights, with new transgender personnel banned from joining the U.S. military under the Trump administration. According to LGBT+ advocacy group Human Rights Campaign, 29 countries around the world, including Norway, Portugal and South Africa, have legalised same-sex marriage.

Chilean President Sebastian Pinera this month said he would seek to expedite a same-sex marriage bill that has languished in the historically conservative South American nation for years, despite the recognition of same-sex civil unions in 2015. Legislation is also under discussion in Japan, Lithuania and Thailand.

Gallup’s poll also revealed a generational divide in U.S. attitudes towards LGBT+ issues, with older people holding more conservative views than the young or middle-aged. Support for same-sex marriage was 84% among 18- to 34-year-olds, compared with 72% of those between 35 and 54 and 60% of over 55s.

“Since the very beginning (of our polling) in the early ’90s, we have seen young Americans being the biggest drivers for the support of gay rights,” McCarthy said.

(This story has not been edited by Devdiscourse staff and is auto-generated from a syndicated feed.)

Most Republicans support same-sex marriage for first time – Gallup – Thomson Reuters Foundation

The research shows a significant increase in approval of same-sex marriage since 2015, when it was legalised nationwide following a Supreme Court ruling

By Hugo Greenhalgh

LONDON, June 9 (Thomson Reuters Foundation) – A majority of Republicans in the United States support same-sex marriage for the first time, a Gallup poll found on Wednesday, with a record 70% of all respondents backing gay weddings.

The research shows a significant increase in approval of same-sex marriage since 2015, when it was legalised nationwide following a Supreme Court ruling and 60% of Americans told Gallup they were in favour of gay marriage.

At that point, Gallup’s annual Values and Beliefs poll, which also gauges support for the death penalty and birth control, found 37% of Republicans supported gay weddings – a figure that has now increased to 55%.

“One of the most striking trends that (our research) shows (is that) Americans can change their views on an issue pretty remarkably in a fairly short period of time,” Gallup analyst Justin McCarthy told the Thomson Reuters Foundation.

“And now we see a majority of Republicans who are supportive for the first time.”

The Republican party has historically been more socially conservative and less willing to advance LGBT+ rights, with new transgender personnel banned from joining the U.S. military under the Trump administration.

According to LGBT+ advocacy group Human Rights Campaign, 29 countries around the world, including Norway, Portugal and South Africa, have legalised same-sex marriage.

Chilean President Sebastian Pinera this month said he would seek to expedite a same-sex marriage bill that has languished in the historically conservative South American nation for years, despite the recognition of same-sex civil unions in 2015.

Legislation is also under discussion in Japan, Lithuania and Thailand.

Gallup’s poll also revealed a generational divide in U.S. attitudes towards LGBT+ issues, with older people holding more conservative views than the young or middle-aged.

Support for same-sex marriage was 84% among 18- to 34-year-olds, compared with 72% of those between 35 and 54 and 60% of over 55s.

“Since the very beginning (of our polling) in the early ’90s, we have seen young Americans being the biggest drivers for the support of gay rights,” McCarthy said.

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(Reporting by Hugo Greenhalgh @hugo_greenhalgh; Editing by Katy Migiro. Please credit the Thomson Reuters Foundation, the charitable arm of Thomson Reuters, that covers the lives of people around the world who struggle to live freely or fairly. Visit http://news.trust.org)

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White Gay Hospital Worker Fired for Harassment Lacks Bias Claims – Bloomberg Law

A White Houston Methodist hospital employee failed to show enough comparative evidence to support his assertion he was discharged because of his race after he was accused of sexually harassing a job applicant, the Fifth Circuit ruled.

James Ernst, who is gay, also lacked sex discrimination and retaliation claims against the hospital, the court said. He failed to raise those claims in the charge he filed with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission and the intake questionnaire he later filed with the agency doesn’t count as a properly filed charge, the court said.

The hospital fired Ernst from his senior transportation …

An epidemic during a pandemic: 40 years since HIV – NorthcentralPa.com

Williamsport, Pa — The Coronavirus pandemic is not the only virus which has uphended the lives of countless millions.

On June 5, 1981, Americans heard the first rustlings of what soon became known as the AIDS epidemic. Few could have predicted the widespread havoc this new virus was about to have on the world. 

It has been 40 years since an article published by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) in the Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report stated five previously healthy, gay men in Los Angeles were suddenly very sick with a rare lung infection.

Not long after this was published, there were reports of more gay men in hospitals who were diagnosed with Pneumocystis Carinii Pneumonia, Kaposi’s Sarcoma and other opportunistic infections.

The phrase “gay cancer” was printed the next month in a New York Times article, which set the tone across the nation that this virus only affected gay men.

In May 1982, the virus was called “Gay-Related Immune Deficiency” or “GRID”, which perpetuated the idea that it exclusively affected the gay community. As more doctors and scientists began learning about this virus, they discovered it also affected many heterosexual people, hemophiliacs, people using intravenous drugs and sex workers.

The term “AIDS” or “Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome” became the official name of the virus in November 1982. Even though the name was changed, the stigma stayed the same. HIV stigma is still prevalent today despite the wealth of information available about the virus.

The early years were incredibly difficult for people who feared they would get sick or lose a loved one to AIDS-related illnesses. While people were fighting for their lives, former President Ronald Reagan remained silent. He did not publicly speak about AIDS until September 1985. During his years of inaction, thousands of people had been diagnosed with AIDS and had died.

“It has been four decades since the HIV epidemic began in the United States. June 5, 1981, marks the day the CDC published an article about 5 young gay men hospitalized with similar symptoms. Looking back on these last 40 years, there have been difficult times, but there have also been many scientific breakthroughs that changed everything for people living with HIV,” according to Megan Bloom, head of public relations for Aids Resource, which has offices in Williamsport and State College.

As Reagan completed his final term as president in 1988, Aids Resource opened its doors in Williamsport. Since its inception, the agency has provided free services to people living with HIV or AIDS, free testing and prevention tools, and free educational programs for the community. The organization has added a State College branch, and is currently providing an array of services to individuals in 10 rural Pa. counties.

Over the last four decades of the HIV epidemic, there have been many difficulties, but there have been plenty of positives. Antiretroviral medications have made it possible for people living with HIV to have long and healthy lives. There is now a new monthly injection available as an alternative to taking daily pills. 

PrEP, pre-exposure prophylaxis, was put on the market in 2012 as a new way to prevent HIV for people who are at a high risk of becoming positive. There is also PEP, post-exposure prophylaxis, which is taken within 72 hours after potentially being exposed to HIV. It is taken daily for one month to prevent HIV transmission.

The National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases made a statement in 2019 that said when a person living with HIV has an undetectable viral load — a low amount of HIV in their body —  they cannot sexually transmit the virus to another person. The phrase “Undetectable Equals Untransmittable” has been coined by the HIV community, HIV support organizations, and professionals in the medical field who specialize in infectious diseases.

“Many times people hear the phrase ‘HIV’ and its an instant red flag – they think ‘Aids,’ they think death. That is no longer true. People are more than their race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, or HIV-status,” said Chris Benson, a Lycoming County native.

Benson sits on the Pa. Department of Health’s HIV Planning Group, the state board that oversees the HIV Prevention and Care Plan for the Commonwealth, which supports the statewide care infrastructure needed to assist those living with HIV, and those at risk of infection.

HIV is the acronym for ‘Human Immunodeficiency Virus.’

“It means I am more fortunate than others, say as a friend with cancer. HIV only means my immune system is likely weaker than other people. Being ‘Undetectable’ is similar to remission. It has given me the opportunity to be more astute in my personal life. Being HIV-positive has allowed me to instantly know who understands, and who does not,” Benson said.

“There is no longer a need to stigmatize others. Old fears no longer need to be fears. People need to hear the plain, honest-to-God’s truth about HIV: If you are undetectable, you simply cannot transmit HIV. It’s that simple. Get tested often, or get in care. You will be taken care of, and we will end this virus, too,” Benson explained.

In 2020, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services published a plan to end the HIV epidemic in 10 years. The goals are to reduce new HIV infections by 75% by 2025 and at least 90% by 2030. To achieve those goals, the steps include diagnosing all people living with HIV as early as possible, treating them quickly and helping them achieve sustained viral suppression, preventing new HIV transmissions and responding rapidly to potential HIV outbreaks.

Pennsylvania is on track to have almost 50,000 HIV cases by 2025, which is consistent with national goals.

“Pennsylvania has one of the better thought-out prevention and care plans in the northeast U.S., and that is a testament to how seriously we take public health in our state. We are prioritizing and redirecting resources and services as those needs are laid in front of us,” Benson continued. “The end game is a cure to HIV and we’re almost there. The goal is for there to no longer be a need for an HIV Prevention and Care Plan.”

For more information on the Pennsylvania HIV Planning Group.

AIDS Resource, which has offices in Williamsport and State College, services a 10-county central Pa. radius. AIDS Resource provides free and confidential HIV/STD testing and clinical case management services.

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Judge reinstates anti-transgender Loudoun County teacher – Washington Blade

Some owners of D.C. gay bars have said Mayor Muriel Bowser’s announcement on May 10 that the city’s restaurants and bars could resume operations at full capacity and return to pre-pandemic operating hours on May 21 caught them by surprise.

After several months of business shutdowns followed by a partial reopening with strict limits of only 25 percent of the normal number of customers inside bars and restaurants, a ban on standing in bars or being served while sitting at a barstool, the mayor’s reopening order left many bars and restaurants short on servers and bartenders.

But nearly everyone associated with D.C. gay bars who spoke with the Washington Blade — including owners, employees, and customers — have said they were ecstatic to see a full reopening after more than a year of COVID-related restrictions and hardship.

“We didn’t really open at a 100 percent capacity,” said John Guggenmos, co-owner of the D.C. gay bars Trade and Number 9, immediately after Mayor Bowser issued her full reopening order. Like other bar owners, Guggenmos said Trade and Number 9 had to bring back employees who had to be let go due to the shutdowns and operating restrictions over the past year.

“But you know, seeing people again, hearing the stories of some of the struggles they went through, and our customers just talking to each other and saying how glad they are to be back gave us a sense of our community and how much we are more than just four walls and some chairs and music,” Guggenmos said.

Dito Sevilla, who works as bar manager at the 17th Street restaurant Floriana, and as longtime host of the restaurant’s lower-level space known as Dito’s Bar, said the May 21 lifting of COVID restrictions has returned business to pre-pandemic levels.

“We were not fully staffed on day one either,” Sevilla told the Blade. “Everyone had to work a little extra,” he said. “And that was OK with them because they had gone without working for so long that working some extra shifts that week wasn’t going to hurt anyone. They were thrilled to do it.”

Doug Schantz, owner of the U Street, N.W. gay sports bar Nellie’s, said he too was caught off guard by the short advance notice of the mayor’s May 21 full reopening of restaurants and bars but like other bar owners said he is pleased that the full reopening has come to D.C.

He said Nellie’s put in place a “soft” reopening on May 21, with operations limited to his second-floor space that has a roof deck and he continued to close at midnight instead of the resumption to normal closing times with the mayor’s order at 2 a.m. on weekdays and 3 a.m. on weekends.

Schantz said he timed his full reopening to take place this weekend to coincide with the kickoff of the city’s LGBTQ Pride events. And by July 1, he said, Nellie’s will resume its popular drag brunch.

“We’re taking it one step at a time, but so many people were happy to be back,” he said. “They want to be back to normal.”

David Perruzza, owner of the Adams Morgan gay sports bar Pitchers and its adjoining lesbian bar A League of Her Own, said he and his regular customers, many of whom continued to show up at the two bars during the height of the pandemic restrictions, are delighted over the full reopening. Like several of the other bar owners, Perruzza said he will continue to operate outdoor seating under the “streetery” program the city established when indoor seating was initially banned and later resumed at just 25 percent capacity.

One COVID-related rule remaining in place for bars and restaurants, which is expected to be lifted soon, is the requirement that bars and restaurants obtain a name and phone number for at least one person entering as part of a group and for each individual entering for contact tracing purposes in the event someone tests positive for COVID on the day the customer was present. The city’s Alcoholic Beverage Regulation Administration, which initiated the requirement during the height of the pandemic, was expected to end the requirement in the next few weeks, according to sources familiar with ABRA.

In addition to the full reopening of bars and restaurants on May 21, the city has cleared the way for the full resumption of large indoor and outdoor events on June 11, including parades and sports stadiums. That development has prompted D.C.’s Capital Pride Alliance, the group that organizes the city’s LGBTQ Pride events, to add to this week’s Pride events a June 12 Pride Walk, which will begin at Dupont Circle at noon and travel to Logan Circle before heading south to Freedom Plaza, where a rally will take place.

“The excitement has been palpable since bars and restaurants in D.C. recently reopened at full capacity and without limit or activity restrictions,” said Mark Lee, coordinator of the D.C. Nightlife Council, a local trade association representing bars, restaurants, and nightclubs.

“The enthusiasm is especially evident at LGBT venues, with long lines common after a long period of shutdowns and slowdowns,” Lee said. “The celebration will expand on June 11 when nightclub-licensed dance clubs fully reopen, and large music venues begin hosting tour acts and special shows in the coming days.”

But Lee said a “flip side” to the reopening celebrations is the reality that many bars, restaurants, and nightclubs must grapple with a massive debt burden of back-rent owed to landlords that threatens their survival.

Lee and others point out that the forced shutdowns and capacity restrictions that these mostly small businesses have faced during the pandemic resulted in a drastic reduction in revenue that forced them to rely on local D.C. and federal COVID moratoriums on evictions for commercial and residential tenants. With the moratoriums ending, the businesses must now repay the back rent owed that Lee says often exceeds $100,000 or more.

“That’s why the D.C. Nightlife Council and the Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington are urging Mayor Bowser and the D.C. Council to utilize a small portion of the city’s federal relief monies to create a Rent Relief Fund for local establishments facing unsustainable past-due lease obligations,” Lee said.

Perruzza said that in addition to facing back rent payments related to the pandemic, he and other bar and restaurant owners had to pay D.C. property taxes under their lease agreements at a time when their revenue was greatly suppressed from the pandemic. He said he believes he will be able to cope with the rental payoff, but the relief fund proposed by Lee and others would be immensely helpful for his and other struggling small businesses.

Bowser and members of the D.C. Council have said they were considering the relief proposal.

“We’re thankful for the support the community showed throughout the pandemic and the eagerness to want to get back to us,” said Guggenmos of Trade and Number 9. “We are thrilled and it’s great seeing everyone, but it doesn’t mean the sleepless nights are over,” he said in referring to the rental debt and other COVID-related expenses that his clubs continue to face.

Among the other D.C. gay bars whose representatives or customers said they are pleased over the reopening at full capacity include Uproar, Dirty Goose, JR.’s, Larry’s Lounge, Window’s, Annie’s Paramount Steakhouse, Duplex Diner, and Freddie’s Beach Bar in Arlington, Va.

Lee said the downtown D.C. nightclub Sound Check at 1420 K St., N.W., was scheduled to resume its weekly Avalon Saturday “gay” nights on June 12. Before being put on hold during the pandemic, the event featured drag shows and dancing.

Secretary of Defense Lloyd J. Austin III Opening Remarks at DOD Pride Month Event (As Deli – Department of Defense

Good morning, everybody.

Rudy, thank you for that kind introduction.

And thanks for pulling this together – it’s pretty remarkable work that you’ve done over the past several weeks and months… So let’s give Rudy a big round of applause.  

And thanks to the DoD Pride group for bringing together this community at the Pentagon today.

As Rudy mentioned, it’s great to see such a tremendous array of the Department’s top leaders, past and present… these leaders who are here today obviously to support this important event.    

And it’s great to be sharing the same stage with Major General Lauderback and Lieutenant Moore, who have served their country with distinction.

Let me begin by thanking all of you for your service – for the tireless work that you do every day to defend this nation.

And just as important, thank you to your spouses, partners, and families, some of whom are joining us today.

None of us could do what we do without your support and your sacrifices.

This June, we celebrate Pride Month across the Department by recognizing the extraordinary achievements of our lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender service members and civilian employees.

And we reflect on the progress we’ve made in making sure that everyone who wants to serve and is qualified can do so with dignity and respect.

We know that we have more work to do, but thanks to your courage, your advocacy, and your dedication, the Department of Defense has been able to do more to secure LGBTQ+ rights than at any other time in our history.

That includes efforts to ensure that all military families and spouses receive the benefits their loved ones have earned and to which they are entitled… to helping veterans who previously were forced out because of their sexual orientation to apply to correct their records, or — where appropriate — to return to service.

You know, it’s often said that progress is a relay race, and not a single event.

That’s certainly been true when it comes to the pioneers who fought for this community’s civil rights in the military.

Throughout American history, LGBTQ+ citizens have fought to defend our rights and freedoms — from the Founding of our nation to the Civil War, from the trenches of two World Wars to Korea and Vietnam, and from Afghanistan to Iraq.

They fought for our country even when our country wouldn’t fight for them.

Even as some were forced to hide who they were… or to hang up their uniforms.

When I reflect on the hard-fought progress that has been made over the years, the efforts of a number of notables spring to mind.

I’m thinking of heroes like retired Major Margaret Witt.

She treated countless troops as a nurse during Operations Desert Storm, Southern Watch, and Enduring Freedom before being outed against her will and discharged from the Air Force under “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.”

Major Witt could have walked away, but instead she took a stand — and challenged that policy in court. Her efforts contributed to the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” more than a decade ago.

I’m thinking of Technical Sergeant Leonard Matlovich, a decorated Vietnam veteran who inspired Major Witt.

Now, he was only 19 when he volunteered to serve.

He did three combat tours in Vietnam and was severely wounded in Da Nang.

He earned the Purple Heart, the Bronze Star, and the deep respect of his teammates.

But when he came home and came out, he was discharged by the Air Force.

So he took up a new fight in courtrooms across the country—a fight for his right to serve his country as an openly gay man.

And I’m thinking of Dr. Frank Kameny, a proud U.S. Army veteran of World War II. Dr. Kameny was later hired as an astronomer for the Army Map Service — until he was fired in 1957 for being gay.

He later said it felt like “a declaration of war” against him by his own government.

Then he said, like any true soldier would, “I tend not to lose my wars.”

He wasn’t kidding.

Frank Kameny spent the rest of his life at the forefront of the gay-rights movement – by mentoring the next generation of activists, including Leonard Matlovich; by marching in protests; by founding the Mattachine Society of Washington, a pioneering gay-rights advocacy organization; and, in 1961, by bringing the first civil-rights claim based on sexual orientation all the way up to the U.S. Supreme Court.

Now, Dr. Kameny lost that battle in court.

But his activism helped set the stage for progress in the fight for full equality.

Of course, not every person in this story has been a member of this community.

I’m thinking, too, of Admiral Mike Mullen, my good friend and mentor. As Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, he took a courageous stand against “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”… a stand that led directly to its repeal.

And so today, we commemorate 10 years since the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” and we welcome a new generation of soldiers, sailors, airmen, guardians, and Marines openly and proudly serving their country. 

Today, we can recognize and honor their contributions rather than questioning their ability to serve.

And today, we reaffirm that transgender rights are human rights, and that America is safer — and better — when every qualified citizen can serve with pride and dignity.

Now, that’s real progress.

And it was hard-fought and hard-won.

But we’ve got more work to do.

Our work isn’t done until we tackle the challenge of sexual assault and harassment in the force. And we know that service members from this community are at elevated risk of such crimes.

Our work isn’t done until we recognize that the health of the force fully incorporates mental health, including for LGBTQ+ service members. That’s why we recommit to treating all wounds, both visible and invisible.

And our work isn’t done until we create a safe and supportive workplace for everyone –free from discrimination, harassment, and fear.

Because nobody should have to hide who they love to serve the country that they love.

And no service member who is willing to put their life on the line to keep our country safe should feel unsafe because of who they are.

And no citizen who is qualified, willing, and able to do the job should be turned away.

So we’ve got more to do.

But I’m confident that we’ll get there because of all of you… and because of all the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender service members and civilians around the world who never stop living the values that they so bravely defend.

I know that you are especially proud this month. 

And rightfully so. 

Well, I’m proud, too. 

Proud every month and every day to call you my teammates… and to serve alongside you.

Because your lives, your careers, your service, and your stories are living proof that we are stronger and more effective together.

So thank you for your service. 

Thank you for your skill. 

And thank you for the change and the progress that you continue to lead.

It matters greatly to the defense of this tremendous nation.

Thank you very much.

Touching video shows son come out as gay to Mormon dad – Yahoo News

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PORT ST. LUCIE – Coming out as gay is hard, but coming out as gay to your Mormon dad is really hard.

Austin Swink was preparing to go on his first mission trip with the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints when he decided to reveal the news that he was gay to his dad, Vaughn Swink. He had always had a strong relationship with his dad but he was anxious about how he would react.

“I got this feeling that I just needed to get it off my chest before I left, because it was weighing on me for so long, not saying anything,” Swink said. He decided to video record his coming out to his dad, and posted the reaction online.

Watch the video above to see how Swink’s dad reacted to him coming out as gay.

This article originally appeared on USA TODAY: Touching video shows son come out as gay to dad

Check out the best photos from Rams minicamp – Rams Wire

The Los Angeles Rams kicked off minicamp this week after working through OTAs in May, moving one step closer to training camp in July. Jalen Ramsey was on the field, as were Matthew Stafford, DeSean Jackson, Leonard Floyd and many of the Rams’ other prominent players.

Check out the best photos from minicamp so far, including several shots of rookies, Stafford, Jackson and Cam Akers.

Gay Pride Flag Removed from Pear Tree Point Beach Pole, Police Have Description of Suspect – darienite.com

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Darien police are looking for an “elderly white male” in his late 50s or early 60s, with salt-and-pepper hair, a slim build who was last seen removing the gay pride flag from the flagpole at Pear Tree Point Beach on Tuesday, June 1 — the first day of Gay Pride Month.

A Darien Parks and Recreation Department employee told police that when questioned about removing the flag — and putting up a small U.S. flag in its place — the man said he was a town employee and he was assigned to “change the flags.”

In an announcement about the incident, police said “it does not appear probable” that either assertion is true. The gay pride flag was up at 1 p.m. and it had been removed by 3 p.m.

By June 6, a new gay pride rainbow flag was donated to the town and replaced the stolen one, according to Michael Cortese, whose Twitter account has been publicizing gay pride month displays by 250 individuals and businesses in town and 300 lawn signs:

New gay pride flag up on Pear Tree Pt Beach pole

On June 6, Michael Cortese celebrated the new gay pride flag on the Pear Tree Point Beach flagpole, where a previous flag had been stolen.

Here’s the full picture from the tweet above:

Full picture from Michael Cortese twitter account 6/6/21

Photo from Michael Cortese’s twitter account

The replacement flag flying

Michael Cortese tweet many gay pride signs

A June 1 tweet from Michael Cortese

Cortese criticized First Selectman Jayme Stevenson and RTM Moderator Seth Morton for not responding to the theft with a prominent public statement, which he said could discourage other, similar acts of theft or vandalism in upcoming weeks. Stevenson replied on Twitter that the town’s response had been appropriate:

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Cortese/Stevenson thread on Twitter on June 8.

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Which comes first, gay or Jewish? | The Pittsburgh Jewish Chronicle – thejewishchronicle.net

Happy Pride Month everyone!

I love this time of year. Along with many longtime LGBTQ community activists, I have worked hard for this month. I never thought it would happen in my lifetime, but I am most certainly glad for the rights and privileges that my community now enjoys.

But beyond the politics, there is a conflict within myself. I’m wondering, perhaps, if others might have the same dilemma.

Let me try to explain my conundrum: I am Jewish and I am gay. So, am I a “gay Jew?” Or am I a “Jewish gay” guy? Which identity comes first? But most importantly, which comes last?

I’ve thought about how to phrase my identity as a Jew and as a gay man many times.

Semantically, I get it that this is a conflict of an identity adjective and an identity noun. But is it? If I identify myself as gay first, does that mean that I’m a Jew second?

Judaism teaches that our faith always comes first; that our religion will guide us through our lives. If we put God first, then all else follows. We live our faith. Faith first. So does this mean that my faith is my identity adjective and comes first? If that were the case, then I’d be a Jewish gay man.

There is the argument of birthright to consider. My mother was Jewish, so according to halacha, I am Jewish. I was born a Jew. But what about DNA? Each one of us is created in God’s image. If there were a choice to be gay, then God made that decision for me. I can’t change my DNA makeup so therefore I am gay by birth, as well.

I would consider this to be a draw — except there is a choice here. I choose to be a Jew. I don’t have to be Jewish. There are countless religions that I could be, but I remain a Jew by choice. My sexuality, however, doesn’t allow me that option. So here we have one of the many arguments for my identity noun to be “gay.”

Let’s throw into the conversation the fact that many gay people feel alienated from Judaism. In religious school, I was taught that being gay and being Jewish were not compatible. This remains controversial today. Without getting into specifics about biblical interpretations, I heard a clear message as a gay man that there wasn’t a future for me in keeping the Jewish faith. I didn’t belong unless I conformed into being someone that, in all my heart and soul, I was not. Isn’t it strange, though, that on the power of faith — and although I was told by my religion that I was an “abomination” — I still “kept the faith?”

Working through the quandary, I have come to the conclusion that the only correct answer is that I am both a Jewish gay guy AND I’m a gay Jew.

I am confused about many things, but I am sure of one thing: I am PROUD. I am proud to be Jewish and I am proud to be gay.
I wish a happy Pride Month to everyone, no matter what your identity noun might be. PJC

Jeff Freedman is the creator of QBurgh, a website for LGBTQ news and community resources in Pittsburgh and Western Pennsylvania.

America Loves Gay Marriage (and Weed) – Reason.com – Reason – Reason

Support for same-sex marriage in the United States has reached a record high of 70 percent, according to a new Gallup poll, conducted in May.

For the first time, support for same-sex marriage among Republicans has passed the 50 percent threshold, jumping all the way up to 55 percent.

Support for same-sex marriage has been steadily increasing since Gallup started asking about it in 1997. When Gallup first asked, support was at just 27 percent. In just a quarter of a century, the numbers have reversed entirely. Support continues to grow among all age groups.

It’s a wonderful reminder, during Pride Month, of how quickly life has gotten better for LGBT people in America. It’s a win for liberty because it’s a result not of government mandates but of people genuinely and honestly changing their minds, realizing that allowing gay people to define their own relationships and families is not some threat to society. The growth in support started well before the Supreme Court mandated in 2015 that the federal government and states recognize same-sex marriage and, as Jonathan Rauch noted in Reason in 2018, tracked with Americans slowly changing their minds about the morality of same-sex relationships as well.

In fact, you can’t even tell when that ruling came down from looking at polling data. The Supreme Court decision in Obergefell v. Hodges probably didn’t cause greater numbers of Americans to support same-sex marriage; it merely reflected what Americans had already come to conclude—that the government had no legitimate reason to treat same-sex marriages differently from heterosexual ones. It was the logical outcome once people by and large concluded that homosexuality was not a moral threat after all.

Support for legalizing marijuana is just a couple of points behind gay marriage. Gallup’s poll from 2020 has support at 68 percent. Republicans in the most recent polling remain below the 50 percent threshold. Only 48 percent support legalization, but it did cross that threshold in two previous polls, only to decline.

Marijuana has taken a much longer time to reach this point. The harsh drug war Americans were sold kept support for marijuana legalization below 30 percent all the way until the end of the 20th century.

As many at Reason have previously noted, state experimentation through the mechanism of federalism has played a major role in shifting public opinion toward accepting both same-sex marriage and recreational marijuana use. In each case, a handful of states led the way. Citizens in other states could see the results. Gay marriage didn’t destabilize families. Marijuana use didn’t destroy lives, and it did seem to help people with certain illnesses feel better.

President Joe Biden, unfortunately, remains well behind the curve in marijuana legalization and does not seem terribly interested in actually doing much about it remaining a Schedule I controlled substance under federal law. But Americans continue to see, every day, that marijuana is no more of a moral threat than same-sex marriage. Rauch wrote in 2018:

Over time, it became evident that marijuana and marriage, like most political issues today, were primarily about morals and values, and only secondarily about policy trade-offs. For marriage equality, the real hang-up was the majority’s belief that same-sex relations, in or out of marriage, are morally wrong, something most Americans told Gallup they believed until 2010. Attitudes toward same-sex marriage closely tracked with attitudes toward same-sex morality. People regarded support for legalization as a form of personal approval.

Much the same is true for marijuana. In 2006, most Americans told Pew Research that using marijuana was morally wrong. That figure had declined to only a third in 2013, a crucial breakthrough, given that most Americans do not distinguish clearly between public policy and personal morality. “As long as they saw marijuana as a threat to the safety of their children, we couldn’t win,” Stroup says. “As long as it was considered sinful or bad conduct or immoral, they were not about to” support legalization.

In other words, it was not enough to show that getting married or high is my right; activists needed to show that it is right—or at least not wrong.

Both advocates of same-sex marriage and marijuana legalization have succeeded wonderfully here, and slowly but surely, Americans are becoming more able to define their own relationships and consume what they want without the government attempting to punish them for it.

Shirtless Men at Russian Award Show Spark Gay Propaganda Investigation – Out Magazine

Shirtless Men at Russian Award Show Spark ‘Gay Propaganda’ Investigation

Russian rappers Dava and Filipp Kirkorov caused quite a stir at the Muz-TV Awards show recently when they arrived with an entourage of shirtless hunky men in what looked very much like a wedding ceremony, and now state authorities are investigating to see if the event violated the country’s strict anti-gay morality laws. According to a report in the Russian-language RIA Novosti, the Roskomnadzor (short for the Federal Service for Supervision of Communications, Information, Technology and Mass Media) has launched an investigation into both the event and the television station that broadcast it.

“Roskomnadzor will analyze the recordings of the Muz-TV channel broadcasting the award for violations of the current legislation of the Russian Federation, including in the field of protecting children from information harmful to their health and development,” the agency told RIA Novosti in a statement. “In case of violations, Roskomnadzor will take appropriate response measures.”

Dava and Kirkorov arrived at the event in a classic white convertible, dressed in matching white and black tuxedos. They were surrounded by a gaggle of topless men, each carrying a single red rose, while the hood of the car was covered with two large floral bouquets. The spectacle was seen by many as representative of a wedding between two men, something that is strictly outlawed in the country.

The pair were not the only ones to cause controversy at the awards ceremony. Russian TikTok influencer Danya Milokhin arrived wearing a half-dress, half-tuxedo.

While their behavior might seem tame by American standards, the artists and show could be subject to serious legal action in Russia. President Vladimir Putin formally enacted a series of anti-LGBTQ+ amendments banning marriage equality and transgender adoptions, and centering “a belief in God” as a core value of the country. A national referendum on Putin’s package of homophobic laws and amendments passed with over 77 percent support from voters last year.

The country also has a law banning what is termed as “gay propaganda,” and is meant to shield children from being exposed to LGBTQ+ issues and information. Last year teachers in St. Petersburg were encouraged to search the social media profiles of their students (grades 5 through 11) to determine if there was any LGBTQ+ symbols or content.

Kirkorov, who is married and has a child, is no stranger to controversy, having cultivated a bad boy misogynistic image as part of his brand over the years. In 2004 he was found guilty of charges relating to telling a female reporter he was “tired of her pink blouse, her tits, and her microphone” before his bodyguards allegedly removed her from the press conference and stole her tape recorder.

If found guilty of promoting LGBTQ+ relations to children, individuals can be fined up to 200,000 rubles ($2,768 USD). Organizations can be fined up to 1 million rubles ($13840) along with being banned from operation for up to 90 days.

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Get to Know 8 LGBTQ+-Owned Businesses in San Antonio – San Antonio Magazine

A&N Realty

A&N Realty owner, founder and CEO Anel L. Flores is also an acclaimed author and mixed-media artist. Flores founded A & N Realty in 2013 and the company now has a team with more than 40 years of combined real estate experience. anrealty.net

Cereal Killer Sweets

Owner Megan Morales’ cookies and cereal killer bars have been known to sell out, so place your order early. A San Antonio native, Morales says she’s proud to be a female, lesbian business owner and that she makes a point to support LGBTQ+ nonprofits. Along with sweets, she also sells a popular “Baby I Was Born This Gay” T-shirt. cerealkillersweets.com 

Cake Thieves Bakery

Cake Thieves Bakery is a 100 percent vegan bakery that also offers savory kolaches and more. The company is run by Kia Geronimo and Lauren O’Conner and they’re known for their cookies, cakes, toaster pastries and donuts. instagram.com/cakethievesbakery

 Cafecito

Engaged couple Jessica Marie Riveria and Cierra Montemayor co-own Cafecito, a charcuterie delivery service in downtown San Antonio. Their aim is to provide charcuterie boards for customers celebrating “special events, small victories and treat yourself days.” You can even build your own personalized charcuterie box or choose from one of the chef-curated options. cafecito-satx.com

 Lick Honest Ice Creams

The Pearl staple (with two other locations at Hemisfair and The Rim) was the dream of Anthony Sobotik and Chad Palmatier, who opened the first Lick in Austin. Lick Honest Ice Creams utilizes locally sourced ingredients when possible. During Pride Month, order its special edition Strawberry Lemon Rainbow made with Wunderkek’s Rainbow Crunch topping. 312 Pearl Parkway, ilikelick.com

 Karolina’s Antiques

Karolina’s isn’t just a shop, but also a safe space for the LGBTQ+ community (it has hosted LGBT block parties/fashion shows in the past.) Brothers Uriel and Anthony Diaz, who are both gay, help keep the shop running, with Anthony serving as in-house artist/store manager. karolinasantiques.com

No. 9 and Statue of Design

David Garcia’s first trip to New Orleans with his partner inspired No. 9 Floral and Gifts, a specialty shop that sells flowers, chocolate and gifts made in San Antonio. Garcia also founded and runs Statue of Design, a business that creates floral arrangements strictly for wedding events and hotels. no9floralandgifts.com

 Very That

Very That sells fun goods and products that are as puro San Antonio as it gets. From the “Chingona Como Mi Madre,” T-shirt to pan dulce mugs and avocado AirPod cases, queer femme owner Christina Martinez nails the spirit of San Antonio with every fun Very That product she stocks. verythat.com