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Malaysia: Government Steps Up Attacks on LGBT People – Human Rights Watch

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(Bangkok) – The Malaysian government should renounce a cabinet minister’s proposal to increase criminal penalties against lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people, Human Rights Watch said today. The attempt to strengthen criminal penalties against LGBT Malaysians is the latest in a series of moves to cement the anti-LGBT, anti-human rights stance of Prime Minister Muhyididin Yassin’s Perikitan Nasional government.

The proposed amendment to the Syariah Courts (Criminal Jurisdiction) Act (Act 355), submitted by Ahmad Marzuk Shaary, deputy minister for religious affairs in the Prime Minister’s Department, would allow state Sharia (Syariah) courts to establish harsher sentences for same-sex conduct than the current maximum Sharia sentence permitted under federal law. Marzuk also proposed codifying as Sharia criminal offenses changing one’s gender and producing or sharing social media content deemed obscene and indecent, including images of non-normative gender expression.

“Malaysia’s state and federal statutes that criminalize LGBT people are already out of bounds with regard to international law, and the government seems to be sinking even deeper in its disregard for human rights,” said Neela Ghoshal, associate LGBT rights director at Human Rights Watch. “Rather than enhancing penalties for actions that harm no one, the government should repeal such penalties.”

Malaysia’s state Sharia laws, which punish consensual same-sex relations as well as gender nonconformity, are among the many laws and policies in Malaysia that discriminate against LGBT people. Malaysia’s federal penal code covers most criminal acts in the entire country. State Sharia laws, enforced by state Islamic Religious Departments and tried in Sharia courts, are only applicable to Muslims, who make up about 60 percent of Malaysia’s population.

All 13 states and the federal territory criminalize same-sex relations and gender nonconformity. In addition, section 377 of the federal penal code punishes any form of anal or oral sex with up to 20 years in prison and mandatory caning.

Act 355, adopted in 1965 to safeguard Malaysia’s essential secular character, limits the sentences that can be imposed by Sharia courts. Sharia courts could impose maximum sentences of one year in prison and a fine of up to RM 1,000 (US$250). The act was amended in 1984 to increase the maximum sentence that Sharia courts can impose to three years in prison, fines of up to RM 5,000 (US$1,240), and caning of up to six strokes.

Before 2018, according to Malaysian human rights activists, Malaysian courts had never actually imposed caning sentences, which are a form of torture under international law, for same-sex conduct. But in September 2018, Terengganu state carried out a caning sentence against two women accused of attempted same-sex relations. And in November 2019, the Selangor Sharia court sentenced five men to fines, imprisonment, and caning, while others who pled not guilty are awaiting trial.

The Selangor case spurred a constitutional challenge, pending before the Federal Court, in which the petitioner – one of the men awaiting trial – argues that the duplicative state and federal prohibitions on same-sex relations violate federal law. A second legal challenge, filed before Selangor’s High Court but stayed by the court while the federal case is pending, contends that the criminalization of consensual same-sex relations violates constitutional rights, including the right to equality before the law.

State religious departments in Malaysia have a history of subjecting trans women to arbitrary arrest, assault, extortion, and violations of their privacy rights, Human Rights Watch said. An appeals court ruled in 2014 that laws against “cross-dressing” in Negeri Sembilan state were unconstitutional, but in 2015 that ruling was reversed on a technicality.

In July 2020, the religious affairs minister, Zulkifli Mohamad, published a Facebook post giving “full license” to Federal Territory Islamic Department (JAWI) officers to arrest transgender people and “counsel” or “educate” them so that they “return to the right path.” Recent abuses against trans women include an October 2020 raid on a birthday party in Kedah, during which state religious officials arrested 30 trans women, and the January 2021 arrest of Nur Sajat, a cosmetics entrepreneur and social media personality, on charges of “insulting Islam” by dressing in clothing typically associated with women at a religious event.

“In Malaysia transgender people live in fear of being targeted and prosecuted just because of who we are,” said transgender activist Nisha Ayub, a transgender activist. “Aren’t we part of the society? Aren’t we supposed to be protected by the laws just as others?”

Human Rights Watch has documented that successive governments in Malaysia have employed anti-LGBT rhetoric as a political tool, calling on LGBT people to “change” their gender identity or sexual orientation to “return to the right path” or risk retribution. Officials have attempted to silence alternative narratives that advance LGBT people’s rights and acknowledge their humanity. For instance, in December, the Home Ministry banned a book entitled “Gay is OK! A Christian Perspective,” and denounced homosexuality as “clearly forbidden and contrary to all religious teachings.”

LGBT people in Malaysia told Human Rights Watch and the Malaysian trans rights group Justice for Sisters that hostile government rhetoric contributes to violence against LGBT people by members of the public.

Malaysia’s national human rights institution, SUHAKAM, which has also documented violence and discrimination against trans people in Malaysia, condemned the proposal to amend Act 355. It said that the government should “adopt a more compassionate approach by respecting human rights for all.”

On January 21, Prime Minister Muhyiddin, who in a previous role as deputy prime minister said that Malaysia “does not recognize LGBT rights,” surprised Malaysian human rights activists by expressing support for laws that prohibit hate speech, including on grounds of sexual orientation, in prepared remarks at an Association of Southeast Asian Nations (ASEAN) forum. Activists highlighted the disconnect given that Muhyiddin’s own government advocates persecution of LGBT people.

“It is the height of hypocrisy that on the one hand, Prime Minister Muhyiddin Yassin urges ASEAN countries to enact laws against hate speech based on sexual orientation, and on the other hand his cabinet member calls for amending laws to further criminalize LGBT persons in Malaysia,” said Chong Yee Shan of Diversity Malaysia. “The prime minister should walk the talk and take meaningful steps to address hate speech while ending criminalization of LGBT persons in Malaysia.”

Bisexual/pansexual Team USA figure skater Amber Glenn wins silver – Outsports

A weekly video wrap-up of the week in LGBTQ sports is the newest feature from the Sports Equality Foundation’s new TikTok initiative. Former college lacrosse player Sam Knollmeyer is the host of this look back at the week that was.

In his debut episode, he highlights the silver-medal-winning performance of Team USA out figure skater Amber Glenn.

The bisexual/pansexual athlete, who came out to Dallas Voice in December 2019, was the junior national champion in 2014. On Jan. 15, Glenn won silver in the senior nationals for her free skate to “Rain in Your Black Eyes,” an original song by Ezio Bosso, musically reimagined and choreographed by Misha Ge, according to Dallas Voice.

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Amber Glenn skates in the Ladies Free Skate during the U.S. Figure Skating Championships at Orleans Arena on January 15, 2021 in Las Vegas, Nev.
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After missing the triple axel in the short program on the 14th and landing in 5th place. the Voice reports Glenn, 21, roared back in the free skate with two triple-triple combinations.

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Amber Glenn poses with her silver medal after placing second in the Ladies competition during the U.S. Figure Skating Championships at Orleans Arena on January 15, 2021 in Las Vegas, Nev.
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Unfortunately, despite winning silver, Glenn did not make the U.S. world team but was named first alternate. Bradie Tennell and Karen Chen will represent the United States in the women’s competition at the 2021 World Figure Skating Championships, scheduled for March 22-28 in Stockholm, according to NBC Sports.

This is the first time since 2008 that the selected women’s world team did not follow nationals results for age-eligible skaters in a non-Olympic year. Katrina Hacker was bypassed in favor of 2006 World champion Kimmie Meissner in 2008. In 2020, Chen outscored Glenn at this season’s Skate America, as well as the 2020 Four Continents Figure Skating Championships and 2020 U.S. Championships, according to NBC.

Glenn trains at the Children’s Health StarCenter/Euless under the tutelage of Peter and Darlene Cain, according to the Voice.

Also mentioned in Knollmeyer’s round-up, Glenn’s fellow queer skater Timothy LeDuc and his partner Ashley Cain took home the bronze medal in the Nationals Pairs competition on Jan. 16. Knollmeyer also spotlighted the NCAA awarding college basketball standout Kena Gilmour as the inaugural LGBTQ Division III Athlete of the Year, and the coming out story of gay rugby player Devin Ibanez.

Knollmeyer told Outsports he’ll be posting a new video wrap-up every Saturday night.

Watch the video here and follow @sportsequalityfdn on TikTok.

They lived a ‘double life’ for decades. Now, these gay elders are telling their stories. – NBC News

In the 1950s, when Ray Cunningham was just 19, he served in the Navy as secretary to the personnel officer aboard the USS Ranger. He was responsible for preparing discharge and reassignment paperwork, and sometimes he would have to dishonorably discharge men for being gay.

“It was difficult,” Cunningham, now 82, told NBC News. “At that time I realized that I was gay, and it was just difficult to know that people were being discharged for the same thing that I was in my life.”

“What bothered me the most was having to talk to the guys that were being discharged, and they were not in a good state of wellness anyway, because at that time, it was illegal or considered mental problems to be gay,” he said.

Ray Cunningham, 82, and Richard Prescott, 78, have collectively spent 115 years in the closet. They were in their fifties when they came out. They say that what brings them joy now is seeing young people celebrate pride and feel comfortable as who they are.Karsten Thormaehlen

Cunningham spent the next four decades in the closet until he and his partner of 30 years, Richard Prescott, 78, came out after retiring in their 50s.

The two men, who are now married, shared their stories as part of “Not Another Second,” a new multimedia art exhibit in Brooklyn, New York, that features 12 LGBTQ elders, many of whom spent most of their lives in the proverbial closet. Through video interviews and interactive augmented-reality technology, visitors can experience their stories.

The other elders featured in the exhibit include the Rev. Goddess Magora Kennedy, who participated in the Stonewall uprising, and Paul Barby, who ran for Congress as an openly gay man in 1996 and 1998. Alongside each portrait is the number of years the elder was closeted.

“Not Another Second” is a joint project between SAGE, a national advocacy group for LGBTQ elders, and Watermark Retirement Communities. The exhibit debuted Tuesday at The Watermark in Brooklyn Heights, where it will remain until March. After that, it will tour the country and make stops in Los Angeles; Napa, California; and Tucson, Arizona; among other cities.

Ines Newby, senior marketing and creative director at Watermark, found the elders first by reaching out to dozens of the company’s properties to ask if they had LGBTQ residents who would like to share their story, but she said it wasn’t easy.

“I got a lot of responses from executive directors who said, ‘We do have someone living here, but they’re actually not out in the community,’” she said. “And in some cases, they were out, but they just didn’t feel comfortable sharing their story.”

Eventually, she found seven Watermark residents who were willing to participate and then partnered with SAGE to find five more. The fact that some people still weren’t ready to share their stories during Newby’s initial search speaks to “that compulsion to stay in the closet” that older LGBTQ people still feel, according to Christina DaCosta, director of communications for SAGE.

“That’s really what the campaign has tried to highlight — these hours, these minutes, these years lost to being in the closet,” DaCosta said. “It’s my hope that this campaign gives people a little hope and a little bit more freedom, maybe, to feel like they can share their authentic selves and stories, and if not, just give them a little bit of a sense of community that they’re not alone.”

Living a ‘double life’

Cunningham said he realized he was gay as a teenager, but he didn’t know the word “gay” at the time — he just knew he was different. After joining the Navy, he said he realized he was “more than different.”

“I had a label at that time,” he said of the realization, “and I didn’t like it.” He said he “felt trapped” and feared he, too, would be discharged. Feeling like he had no other options, he lived a “double life.”

As for Prescott, he said he knew he was different by the time he was 5 or so.

“I had two older brothers and a very strict father, and they used the word ‘sissy’ and ‘queer’ quite a bit,” he recalled.

He joined the Navy Reserve in 1959. On his first trip to Japan, he refused to visit the brothels with the men he worked with, and as a result, one of them began physically and verbally harassing him, he said.

“He was constantly making innuendos, evenly physically towards me,” he said. “It just infuriated me that he would violate my space like that.”

Spurs’ Rudy Gay finds new life as a role player – San Antonio Express-News

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To hear Rudy Gay tell it, the basket at the Moda Center might as well have been the size of a Hula-Hoop.

Left open for shot after shot in the Spurs’ 125-104 victory at Portland on Jan. 18, Gay did what he was trained to do.

He kept on shooting.

The ball kept going in, as if he were tossing a marble down the Grand Canyon.

“When you see one go in, it’s like a swimming pool at times,” Gay said.

Gay finished the night with 21 points, made a career-best five 3-pointers and was 8 of 17 from the field.

For the 35-year-old Gay, it was a flashback to an earlier time, playing for other teams, in which he was expected to keep shooting whether the basket seemed the size of a swimming pool or a shot glass.

For the bulk of his first 11 NBA seasons, Gay’s job was simple: He was paid — handsomely at times — to make the ball go in the basket as many times as possible.

At 6-foot-8 with flawless footwork and a penchant for all kinds of shot-making, Gay was the primary scorer in Memphis, Toronto and Sacramento.

Sunday: Wizards at Spurs, late.

Record: 8-8.

Today: at Pelicans, 8 p.m.

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Then Gay got on the wrong side of 30, blew out an Achilles tendon with the Kings in 2017 and came to San Antonio to reclaim his career as a bench player.

“For the most part in my career, I have been asked to take tough shots and make tough shots,” Gay said. “But this year, I am changing my role to being a different player, try to make as many open shots as I can and try to make plays for others.”

Gay’s transition — from leading scorer to role player, top-of-the-marquee attraction to supporting actor — has been four seasons in the making.

He arrived in San Antonio in the summer of 2017 simply glad to be able to walk again after the brutal injury that ended his time in Sacramento.

The Spurs signed Gay to a free-agent deal for two years and $18.4-million.

It was a low-cost gamble for the Spurs, and an easy sell for Gay. In San Antonio, where the Spurs were coming off a 61-win season, he could ease his way back in form without the added burden of being a team’s go-to star.

Gay averaged 11.5 points in his first season with the Spurs, down from 18.7 in his final pre-injury season in Sacramento.

He also logged 21.6 minutes per game, remains a career low.

In three-plus seasons in San Antonio, Gay has come off the bench for 147 of the 209 regular-season appearances.

Heading into Sunday’s game against Washington, Gay was averaging 12 points and attempting 9.8 shots per game — a far cry from the volume scorer who averaged 21.1 points and launched 16.4 field goals per game in 2014-15 with Sacramento.

Earlier this month, Gay passed Los Angeles Lakers great James Worthy for 105th on the NBA’s all-time scoring list. Before the end of the week, he is likely to eclipse former Detroit star Joe Dumars for 104th.

Both players are in the Naismith Hall of Fame.

Spurs coach Gregg Popovich said he has received no blowback on a bench role from Gay, who averaged 18 points or better in nine of his first 11 seasons before joining the Spurs.

“It works best for us, with the personnel we have, to have that scoring come off the bench,” Popovich said. “He understands that and that’s what he does for us.”

Gay describes the change in his job description in a different way.

“That’s just part of being competitive,” he said.

In truth, the Spurs did not know what they were getting when Gay signed here in 2017.

You never really know what makes a player tick until you get him in your own locker room.

If Gay had been a player, even post-injury, who needed 18 shots per game, the marriage would not have worked.

Instead, Gay has developed into a role model for younger Spurs about how to age gracefully in the NBA.

“Being a fan of basketball, I know a lot about Rudy, his years in Memphis, Sacramento, all those places,” said Dejounte Murray, the Spurs’ 25-year-old point guard. “It’s good for myself and the young guys just to see somebody like that go through the stages of being that guy to accept a role coming off the bench, be a role player.”

DeMar DeRozan also recalls Gay at his point-scoring best.

Gay averaged 19.5 points in 51 games alongside DeRozan in Toronto from 2012 to 2014.

DeRozan, 31, also views Gay as an example of how to hang around in the league past what for other players might be an expiration date.

“Being around the game, being around great player and great teams, you understand what you need to do to kind of reinvent yourself to last in this league,” DeRozan said. “We are all going to go through that phase at some point. The ones who stick around are the ones who understand that and adjust.”

That has defined Gay’s approach to the third act of his career in San Antonio.

His willingness to adjust to a bench role has allowed Gay to earn an additional $46.4 million in contracts in the wake of an injury that has in the past been a career killer for players past the age of 30.

“Most of my career, I have been the go-to guy to make those tough shots and shoot the ball at the end of the game,” Gay said. “I’ve tried to do less of that since I have been here.”

Every once in a while, however, the basket will look like it did in Portland and Gay will have little choice.

He has to reach back in time, and throw the ball into the swimming pool. Again and again.

And on those nights?

“I tell him to be Rudy Gay,” Murray said. “Go score, go get buckets, do what you do. Because he can still score the basketball.”

jmcdonald@express-news.net

Twitter: @JMcDonald_SAEN

A new era starts as a week of LGBTQ Sports winners and losers ends – Outsports

This work week may have been one day shorter for many because of the Martin Luther King, Jr. Day holiday but a lot happened in these last seven days, and there was also sports. Here are this week’s LGBTQ sports winners and losers.


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I’m breathing again,’ the skier says of his newly out life and the widespread acceptance he’s seen.


Campbell’s comments were first unearthed by a reporter with his own history of homophobic tweets. While the apologies are welcome, we brand Campbell and the Detroit Free Press reporter as losers until we see them working toward becoming better examples for young people by actively fighting homophobia.


Players on 22 NFL teams have already had an out gay teammate, including six players with the Arizona Cardinals.


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Aaron will forever be associated with home runs and social justice. When those two worlds collided, with society at its ugliest, he persevered and emerged a hero.


From left to right, Maria López, Mack Beggs and KC
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Sports Equality Foundation launched a TikTok account in partnership with Outsports to encourage LGBTQ athletes to be their true and authentic selves. Click here to see the videos!


Jackson says he “gets on better” with women.


On day one of his presidency, Joe Biden clarifies that the Supreme Court’s anti-discrimination ruling allows trans athletes to compete according to their gender identity.


A transgender American’s challenge to, and hopes for, the new administration in Washington, D.C.


Sexual harassment has no place in baseball or any workplace, and believe me: if queer women want to see your dick pics, we’ll ask.


Young LGBTQ athletes are reclaiming the word “queer,” and pushing back against labels.


The ACLU helped lead the opposition to HB112, which has been dubbed a ‘carbon copy’ of Idaho’s anti-trans legislation.


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A soccer-mad trans teen in soccer-mad Seattle made one of the great plays in sports in 2020 by pushing a youth league to become more open.


Hogan and Steelz’s victory makes them the first to hold Impact’s women’s tag team titles in nearly eight years.


The iconic fashion brand cut ties with Thomas after he dropped an anti-gay slur at a PGA Event.


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Powers will chair the esports behemoth’s Diversity and Inclusion Task Force.


Chris McLeod fought his sexuality for years in an unforgiving sport, but now is determined to help others reach their potential.


Premiering next month, “Steelers” showcases how LGBTQ players and coaches are finding community in rugby.


Esera Tuaolo and Hate Is Wrong host conversations and a celebration about LGBTQ inclusion, around the Super Bowl.


That’s all for this week! I’ll bring you another list of winners and losers next Saturday. Got a name I missed, or want to challenge my choices? Comment here or on Facebook or Instagram, tweet at us, message me via any social media, or just plain email me at outsports@gmail.com Thanks!

Is 30 Minutes of Cycling a Day Enough For Weight Loss? Experts Say Yes and No – POPSUGAR

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There are so many reasons to love cycling. You can do it indoors or outdoors, at home or at the gym. It’s also low-impact, making it easier on achy joints, and of course, it burns calories! But if you’re someone who uses cycling as your go-to workout — or you’re considering adding it to your workout regimen — you may be wondering if cycling can really lead to better overall health, especially if you have little time to spare. POPSUGAR spoke with experts to find out if cycling for even 30 minutes a day is enough to lose weight and put you on the path to feeling stronger and healthier.

Can You Lose Weight by Cycling For 30 Minutes a Day?

“It is possible to lose weight from cycling 30 minutes a day,” Jennifer Chew, MPT, MSc, an NASM-certified personal trainer and weight loss specialist, told POPSUGAR. Thirty minutes of cycling burns 200 calories on average, although that number depends on a few factors, including your weight, the intensity of your workout, and the resistance, Chew explained.

If you’re looking to burn the maximum number of calories you can in those 30 minutes, there are a couple of ways to make that happen:

  • Up your resistance. “The easiest way is definitely to increase resistance,” Chew said. “Cardio is like resistance training. You need to use progressive overload principles to get better and to avoid plateaus.” June Sayer, an ACE-certified personal trainer and group fitness instructor agreed, adding that there are benefits to even slowing down your pace but upping your resistance during your 30-minute workout.
  • Add in short, high-intensity intervals. “As your body gets stronger, you are able to increase the intensity, with a mixture of short spin intervals,” Sayer explained. Try adding short bursts of sprints to your workout, or even intervals of low-cadence, high-resistance cycling.

While weight loss is possible while cycling 30 minutes a day, Sayer and Chew stressed the importance of incorporating strength training and making other lifestyle changes in order to ensure you make progress on your goals.

“When you’re pairing a strength training regimen with cardiovascular activity, [like cycling], your body composition will change significantly by increasing calorie burn and muscle mass,” Krystal Goodman, an NCSF-certified personal trainer and coach at Orangetheory, told POPSUGAR. Goodman explained that the combination of elevating your heart rate through cycling and adding in that strength-training component will “give you the real bang for your buck” when it comes to fat burn and weight loss. Chew agreed, noting that increased muscle mass “promotes better metabolism,” which ultimately allows your body to lose weight more sustainably.

A combination of cardio and strength training, paired with a healthy diet, should help you get results. But the diet is key: “At the end of the day, the most important point to losing weight is daily caloric intake versus daily caloric expenditure,” Chew said. “If you are constantly eating less calories than you are burning, you will lose weight.”

Trainer Tips For Sustaining Your Cycling Routine

So, now that you’ve committed to cycling 30 minutes a day, you may be wondering how you can sustain that moving forward! Here are some effective, easy-to-apply suggestions from the experts.

  • Add healthier foods to your diet. By eating healthier and incorporating nutrient-dense foods into your meals, you’ll have more energy to put towards your workouts, Goodman explained. Why does this matter? When you’re better fueled, you’ll be able to sustain working out daily, and cycle at a higher intensity with more resistance.
  • Mix up indoor and outdoor cycling. Although Sayer doesn’t feel there’s a significant difference between cycling indoors or biking outside, rotating between indoor and outdoor workouts at least seasonally is an easy way to add variety to your routine.
  • Find a cycling buddy. Sayer suggests cycling with a friend, to keep one another accountable and to “support each other, which will make it more fun.” And if your friend isn’t close in proximity, no worries — you can also hop on a call as you cycle together, keeping each other virtual company during each session!

JoJo Siwa seemingly comes out (again) with latest social media post – Today.com

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Though she did not respond to TODAY’s request for comment, by Friday afternoon she shared a photo of herself in a T-shirt that read “Best. Gay. Cousin. Ever.”

In the caption, she wrote, “My cousin got me a new shirt.”

She also added a rainbow emoji to her username on Twitter.

The pop star, social media sensation and former “Dance Moms” star shared other content Friday about her “EXTREME MAKEOVER,” which included swapping out some of her signature bedazzled outfits for a casual jean jacket and black leggings.

By Friday evening, Jojo Siwa’s name was trending on Twitter and many of her fans shared their excitement about her apparent announcement.

“if you don’t think jojo siwa coming out as gay is a big deal; just remember that there are lgbt kids that watch her videos that may have felt so alone with their identity and seeing the person they look up to coming out makes them feel safer and more comfortable with themselves,” @sapphicbisexual wrote.

“JoJo Siwa coming out on her own terms so publicly and with such joy is SO significant,” @jackremmington tweeted. “She is a 17 year old international sensation with young fans all over the world who will see themselves in her, many of whom will be queer. I’m so so happy for her and them.”

“congratulations to jojo siwa for becoming the first lesbian president,” @premium_chunk joked. “amen.”

JoJo Siwa comes out as gay? Her T-shirt suggests she did – Los Angeles Times

JoJo Siwa — she of the massive sparkly bows, colorful apparel and “Dance Moms” origins — has apparently come out as gay, sharing the news Friday on Twitter with the help of a T-shirt with a message.

“My cousin got me a new shirt,” the 17-year-old tweeted, sharing an image of the black tee emblazoned with “BEST. GAY. COUSIN. EVER.” A rainbow emoji was also prominently placed in her Twitter bio.

Followers of the upbeat YouTube and Nickelodeon star celebrated the announcement as Siwa’s coming out, welcoming her to the LGBTQ community with open arms.

Longtime friend Colleen Ballinger of “Miranda Sings” fame congratulated Siwa on Twitter, writing “this is the happiest I’ve ever seen you. You’re absolutely glowing and I’m so proud of the woman you are becoming! love yoooou!”

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Siwa, who has also released songs such as “Boomerang” and “D.R.E.A.M.,” sparked a separate flurry on social media Thursday with a TikTok video in which, bathed in rainbow lights, she sang along to verses from Lady Gaga’s anthem “Born This Way.”

Of particular interest were the lines Siwa chose to recite: “No matter gay, straight or bi / lesbian, transgender life / I’m on the right track, baby / I was born to survive,” leading some of her 31.3 million followers to believe this was her coming out.

“WE LOVE THIS FOR YOU,” influencer Brenna D’Amico wrote in the comments of the TikTok video.

“I’M SO HAPPY FOR YOU,” wrote beauty influencer James Charles.

Before that, Siwa, who has built her empire with business savvy, lit up the internet by visiting TikTok collective Pride House LA and has collaborated with queer TikTokers.

Siwa’s has deep ties to the community. In 2018, was asked about her “gay icon status” by drag queens Izzy Uncut and Poppy during a New York event. According to Out, Siwa said she feels comfortable around everyone and wants everyone to feel comfortable around her, and that she loves and supports people for who they are, with no exclusions.

Reps for Siwa did not immediately respond to The Times’ request for additional comment.

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Times staff writer Christie D’Zurilla contributed to this report.

JoJo Siwa wears ‘best gay cousin’ shirt after possibly coming out – Page Six

Just one day after sparking speculation about her sexuality, JoJo Siwa kept fans talking with a statement-making style choice.

The 17-year-old dancer showed off a new T-shirt emblazoned with the words “BEST. GAY. COUSIN. EVER.” on her Instagram Stories Friday.

“Thanks for the shirt cousin,” she captioned the pic. She paired the look with one of her signature bows.

The fashion move further fueled speculation that Siwa had come out as queer this week in a TikTok video.

As Page Six previously reported, Siwa posted a clip singing the words to Lady Gaga’s song “Born This Way. As rainbow lights flashed behind her, she mouthed the words, “No matter gay, straight or bi, lesbian transgender life / I’m on the right track baby, I was born to survive.”

While Siwa did not publicly confirm that she was coming out, fans commended the young star for her courage.

“This feels like a big deal if it is what I think it is…JoJo Siwa is hugely popular with kids,” Yashar Ali tweeted, adding, “And as someone just pointed out, if it is what I think it is, she’s doing it at the height of her fame when she’s selling out arenas.”

“IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU,” James Charles commented on her video.

Others, however, pointed out that she may have just been showing support for the LGBT community.

“Why is everyone assuming she came out tho? what if sis is just vibin to lady gaga,” one person commented.

Her rep did not immediately respond to our request for comment.

‘Breaking Fast’ review: A gay Muslim seeks love in sweet rom-com – Los Angeles Times

The thorny intersection of homosexuality and Islam is highlighted with charm and wit in “Breaking Fast,” writer-director Mike Mosallam’s lively tale — based on his 2015 short film — of one man’s fraught romantic journey over the course of the holy month of Ramadan.

Mo (Haaz Sleiman) is a kind, devoted doctor and observant Muslim of Lebanese descent living a low-key gay life in West Hollywood. His warm family supports his sexuality, unlike the rigid parents of his boyfriend, Hassan (Patrick Sabongui), who chooses the first night of Ramadan to inform Mo that he’s marrying a woman as a cover. It’s wadaeean (goodbye), Hassan.

Jump to the start of Ramadan a year later when, at the birthday party of his out-and-proud best friend, Sam (an amusing Amin El Gamal), Mo meets Kal (Michael Cassidy), a handsome, seemingly easygoing white actor, and a spark ignites. But between Ramadan’s rituals (daytime fasting, no impure thoughts or actions) and his lingering wariness from Hassan’s betrayal, Mo keeps his feelings for the sweet-natured Kal in check, even as they share each of the holiday’s nightly meals together.

Can Mo work past his fears, faith-related conflicts and ingrained notions and open his heart to Mr. Right? Can Mr. Right conquer his own hidden demons to be the best partner to Mo? Can they (please) stop singing show tunes?

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As in most rom-coms, it’s not if the couple will get together but how. Still, Mosallam’s incisive and heartfelt, if occasionally on-the-nose, approach to matters of love, religion, family and culture sets the film apart.

Add in Sleiman’s endearing performance, some enticing Middle Eastern food porn, a clever dropped-towel scene, and a nice use of L.A. locales — from WeHo’s LGBT Rainbow District (formerly Boystown) to Runyon Canyon to the Vista Theatre (in a sweet, unlikely scenario) — and “Breaking Fast” makes for a satisfying repast.

‘Breaking Fast’

In English and Arabic with English subtitles

Not rated

Running time: 1 hour, 32 minutes

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Many LGBTQ Seniors Don’t Get The Health And End-Of-Life Care They Need. Some Coloradans Are Working To Change That – Colorado Public Radio

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On one of her many days in the hospital in 2017, Cathy asked her partner not to tell the nursing staff they were married. She’d been diagnosed with a rare form of leukemia, and Cathy feared the care she got would suffer if the staff knew she was a lesbian.

“She says, ‘Don’t tell the nurses that we’re married,’” said Cathy’s wife, Esther Lucero. “And I said, ‘Why?’ And she says, ‘Because they’re treating you differently. They’re treating me differently.’”

According to a study recently published in The Gerontologist, older people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or queer often face discrimination during end-of-life care. They’re also more likely to have their health care wishes ignored or disregarded.

Many LGBTQ seniors go back into the closet because of a lack of family or social support in health care, assisted living and hospice facilities.

In the hospitals, Lucero initially told health care staff that Cathy was her wife. She said some responded well, while others seemed off-put. And that bothered Cathy. Looking back, Lucero said she thought they were treated differently at times because they were gay. One nurse seemed to avoid Cathy’s room. And sometimes others would wait for Lucero to leave before telling Cathy details about her condition.

“I was hurt,” Lucero said. “We had waited so long to be married. And to me, it was like, ‘Hey, I’m married to her.’ And it just hurt. I don’t even know how to say it. I know I cried that night.”

Lucero met Cathy in 1980 while they worked together in Denver. At first, they were friends.

“It was nothing at the beginning,” Lucero said. “But she told me, ‘The first day I met you, I said I want to spend the rest of my life with that girl.’”

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Esther Lucero holds a picture of her late wife Cathy in Denver’s Cheesman Park on Thursday, Jan. 21, 2021. The two were married in the park three years ago.

After a few years, they started dating. Then they moved in together and bought a house. In 2015, they got married. But a couple years later, they both got sick with what seemed like bad colds. Lucero improved, but Cathy got sicker. After a few trips to the hospital, a doctor finally discovered Cathy had T-cell prolymphocytic leukemia. She died six months later at age 63.

The loss devastated Lucero, who had few places to turn for support. CPR News agreed not to use Cathy’s last name because Lucero said she was very private about being a lesbian. Lucero said they never held hands or kissed in public. Their families knew they lived together, but some thought it was just as roommates. Other relatives refused to discuss or accept that they were in love. They’d also kept their relationship a secret from a lot of colleagues and neighbors.

That’s common for older LGBTQ adults, said Carey Candrian, an assistant professor and researcher at the University of Colorado. And many feel isolated, she added.

“And I just get chills when I say that, because I think for people who don’t identify as LGBT, I think it’s so easy to forget the work that hiding requires,” Candrian said.

Liam’s List Jan. 22: Guide To Fitness, Food, Fun, Staying Connected While Social Distancing – CBS San Francisco

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SAN FRANCISCO (CBS SF) — KCBS reporter Liam Mayclem will be providing KPIX 5 users with a weekly tip list on how best to survive the current coronavirus outbreak.

MUSIC: A FAREWELL SONG TO TRUMP
Rap artist Macklemore says farewell to POTUS 45 with a high-octane, in your face, free-flowing rap. The song digs at the last POTUS and those on the left and right of him, so there is some unity here with equal treatment for supporters and not. It’s Macklemore at his poetic & political best. The song has been streamed more than 8 million times. Find the video and one take song on YouTube.
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MOVIE: BLACK PANTHER DRAMA
Coming Soon
“Judas The Black Messiah” is the story of an FBI informant and his relationship with Black Panther leader Fred Hampton. It’s an intense film set during intense times in late 60s Chicago. A solid cast under the direction of Shaka King has you on the edge of your seat from beginning to end. The film premieres at Sundance on Feb 1st and hits theaters in the Bay soon after. The movie trailer has just been released.
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FOOD: CRAB FEAST IN TOMALES
The historic William Tell House in Tomales Bay in Marin County is inviting one-and-all to a Dungeness crab season tailgate. Join Chef Austin Perkins for a meal to remember. $80 per person gets you fresh, local Dungeness crab (out of the water less than 24 hours), garlic noodles, cheesy sourdough, seasonal green salad with brownies for dessert – YUM YUM CRABBY YUM!
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EAT: SUNDAY SUPPER TO GO
Ritu Indian restaurant in San Francisco’s Mission District is serving up meal kits for you to enjoy at home. With Chef Rupam at the helm, the cuisine is the best of authentic Indian and the seasonality (Ritu) of California produce. The meal kits give you the chance to assemble your own plates and it’s a better bet too as not all food to go travels well. Chef’s Sunday Supper is a must to enjoy and a bonus sous chef, Rupam’s Mom so you know the Sunday feast is cooked with a little extra love. Order a day ahead.
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FUNDRAISER: JEFFERSON AWARDS
Wednesday 5:30pm
Join me for a lively discussion with special guests for the Jefferson Awards Pre-show. Among the guests, San Francisco Giants Manager Gabe Kapler. The local Jefferson Awards are in partnership in the Bay Area with KCBS & KPIX.
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NETFLIX AND CHILL: NARCOS MEXICO
Season 3 of Narcos Mexico is now streaming on Netflix. A spinoff of Narcos, which focused on Pablo Escobar’s reign as Colombia’s now-infamous drug lord, Narcos Mexico recounts the origin of the modern war on drugs in the country. Many of the early stars (Diego Luna, Michael Pena) have departed but the compelling story and solid acting makes this a must-watch show. Binge-worthy for sure.
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READ MORE: COVID: In California, Vaccinations Are Priority But Testing Matters

FESTIVAL: BAY AREA BOOK FEST
SAVE THE DATE May 1st – 9th
The long-running Bay Area Book Festival usually held at this time has been pushed to May. The website just relaunched features past authors Alice Waters, Michael Pollen, R.O. Kwon and many more.
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DONATE: FOOD BANKS
In a world turned upside down the need for our Food Banks is a great as its ever been. Please consider donations of non perishable goods, cash or sign up to be a volunteer. Every little bit helps.
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Have a great weekend.

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The True Story of ‘It’s a Sin’ – esquire.com

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It’s A Sin starts like so many other coming-of-age TV shows and films: young people escaping their homes, in search of a dazzling future in the big city. But for this gang of friends, who find each other in London’s gay community in the early Eighties, a shadow is looming.

Insidiously, the Aids epidemic creeps into their lives, first through radio and TV news reports, then scurrilous tabloid rumours and hushed talk in bars, until suddenly the mystery illness reaches people they know.

Though the plot and characters are fictional, creator Russell T Davies drew on his own experiences as a young, gay man growing up during the Eighties for It’s a Sin. As such, the stories that emerge from the series are a true depiction of how British society ostracised and pilloried those living with – and dying from – this horrifying new disease.

In episode one, when Colin (Callum Scott Howells), the gentle apprentice tailor, goes to visit his friend Henry (Neil Patrick Harris) in hospital, he finds him locked up, alone in a ward, with his meals dumped outside the door. When another character is diagnosed with Aids, he’s also put under lock and key in hospital, this time legally, under a Public Health Act. Meanwhile, funeral homes refuse to bury the bodies of those with Aids-related illnesses, while families burn the belongings of the deceased.

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Colin, played by Callum Scott Howells

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These shameful cases haven’t been embellished for dramatic purposes, says Ian Green, CEO of the Terrence Higgins Trust (THT). The producers of the show consulted with THT – the charity’s former director of policy acted as an advisor on the series – to help develop storylines that reflected situations gay men actually found themselves in during the Eighties. “The story of the main character locked up under the Public Health Act,” says Green, “this was a real life case that the Trust were involved with and did a lot of campaigning work on. With legal help – who you can also see in the series – we fought really hard to have that person released.”

Green – who was 18 at the beginning of the Aids epidemic – adds: “There was so much misinformation around, because people didn’t know what the virus was. From politicians to the medical community, many people didn’t want to know about it, and there was a real lack of understanding how the virus was contracted, and that perpetuated the fear and led to the stigma that still remains today.

“There was a sense of doom in that we didn’t know how it was going to pan out.”

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Omari Douglas as Rosco, holding court in the Pink Palace

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The beginning of the Aids and HIV crisis

The first cases of the new disease were recorded in America in 1981, among the gay community, which led to it originally being labelled Gay Related Immune Deficiency (GRID). Shortly after, the UK saw its first deaths, including Terry Higgins, who died in 1982 aged 37.

The Conservative government of the day, led by Margaret Thatcher, failed to address the crisis until it had spiralled into an epidemic. From the first deaths, it took a staggering four years for the government to even put together a committee and public health messaging campaign.

In that time, it wasn’t just the virus that was getting a stronghold, but the rumours and conspiracy theories around the disease.

As the naive skeptic Ritchie (Olly Alexander) repeats in It’s A Sin: “They say it was set up in a laboratory to kill us…it’s the Russians…it’s from the jungle.” He also latches on to early messaging, which identified the groups most at risk as homosexuals, Haitians, haemophiliacs and heroin users. He jokes: “Like there’s a disease which just targets the letter ‘h’. Who’s it going to get next? People from Hartlepool?”

At the time, tabloids gleefully ran inhumane headlines like ‘Britain threatened by gay virus plague’ (Mail on Sunday) and ‘I’d shoot my son if he had Aids, says vicar!’ (News Of The World). Meanwhile, those living with the virus were demonised by establishment figures like the chief constable of Greater Manchester, James Anderton – a former minister who believed he had a direct line to God – who referred to patients as “swirling in a human cesspit of their own making”. For many on the religious right, who took issue with homosexuality on supposedly ‘moral’ grounds, the disease now ravaging the gay community was considered some sort of divine retribution.

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Nathanial Curtis as Ash (left) and Olly Alexander as Ritchie, in the Pink Palace

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“There was a huge focus on homophobia as this was affecting a marginalised group,” Green says. “This was a sense of pervading immorality and gay people were seen as immoral. Many people said, ‘well they deserved it, didn’t they?’ It took an awful long time for politicians and clinicians to take action.

“The worst misstep in the handling of the crisis was the delay, not taking it seriously. It was people who set up the THT and activists, who needed to fight to make it happen. Without the heroic willingness of these people and their protests, I worry the government would have taken much longer to take action and many more thousands of people would have died.”

‘Don’t Die of Ignorance’

As the virus continued to spread, misinformation proved equally transmissible. In 1987, a full five years after the first Aids deaths, the Football Association started the season by warning its players not to use communal baths or swap shirts at the end of matches. A campaign that accurately explained Aids and the virus that caused it, human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), was desperately needed.

That came in the form of a hard-hitting advert, known as the tombstone campaign. According to Norman Fowler, the health secretary at the time who was instrumental in its creation, it was “the biggest public health campaign there’s ever been in this country”.

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The 40-second advert – directed by Nicolas Roeg – features explosions, dark metal chimes and an ominous tombstone with the word ‘Aids’ carved into it. The advert was groundbreaking because it targeted the disease, rather than the people who were infected. For the first time, it made clear to the public that the virus could be passed on by sexual intercourse, and that “anyone could get it, man or woman”. The spot finished with an enduring strapline: “Don’t die of ignorance”. Leaflets with the same title went through the letterbox of every household in the UK.

There are now mixed feelings about this campaign among the community, Green explains.

“I want to give a huge amount of credit to Norman Fowler, who was one of the first politicians who took HIV seriously. He really had to persuade Margaret Thatcher to allow this national awareness campaign to take place. I’m certain it saved lives.

“However, with hindsight, it was so raw, even today many people’s beliefs about HIV are based on what we knew in the Nineties. It did an awful lot to perpetuate stigma. We now know that HIV is a manageable condition, that people on treatment can now have a normal life expectancy. Things have changed massively, but people’s opinions haven’t. But it was right for the time and was absolutely vital.”

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Marchers at the 1998 Pride in London event protest Section 28

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Section 28

Sadly, information became even harder for young people to come by with the introduction of Section 28, the 1988 law that stated a local authority “shall not intentionally promote homosexuality or publish material with the intention of promoting homosexuality” or “promote the teaching in any maintained school of the acceptability of homosexuality as a pretended family relationship”. In other words, the discussion of same-sex relationships was functionally banned in classrooms. In It’s a Sin, Ash (Nathaniel Curtis) is shown being forced to remove books from the school library that might “promote a homosexual lifestyle”.

It was another blatant display of the homophobia that ran through the heart of government. In 1987, Thatcher said: “Children who need to be taught to respect traditional moral values are being taught that they have an inalienable right to be gay. All of those children are being cheated of a sound start in life.” This knee-jerk reaction is still being felt in classrooms today, and even though it was repealed in 2003 (and David Cameron called it a ‘mistake’ in 2009) LGBTQ+ charity Stonewall says just 13 per cent of students say they have been taught about same-sex relationships in the classroom.

By the start of the Nineties, high profile celebrities and royalty began to use their platforms to raise awareness for the disease. Elton John set up his Aids foundation in 1993, and Princess Diana began visiting patients in hospital, where she reiterated it was safe to shake hands. “Colleagues tell me she used to visit privately as well,” says Green. “She used to go in late at night and would sit with the young men to comfort them. Many of them were ostracised by their families, so many of them were dying on their own. To have somebody like the Princess who would spend time with them was so important.”

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Princess Diana shakes hands with a resident of the Casey House Aids Hospice in Toronto, October 1991

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While there has been a vast progress in the treatment of Aids and HIV in this country – it’s no longer a death sentence, and with the right treatment, it’s impossible for those living with HIV to pass it on – It’s A Sin will take many people back to a time of fear and confusion in the UK.

“I think it’s really important that the generation today understands the real impact of HIV on the community, and the pain that people still feel,” says Green. “I think it’s going to trigger a lot in people of my generation. In my group of close friends, we lost four friends to HIV, and this is going to be a time we will remember them. But it will bring back tough memories.

“The fact that Russell T Davies is doing it – he’s an amazing writer and producer – there’s no one better, because of his own personal experiences of being a gay man at that time. I think it’s a story that’s been waiting to be told.”

It’s A Sin starts on Channel 4 on Friday 22 January at 9pm.

If you’ve been affected by any of the issues in this article, you can contact the Terrence Higgins Trust on 0808 802 1221 or by emailing info@tht.org.uk

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The great — gay — outdoors – Dallas Voice

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Denver Ambassador Brian, friend of LGBT Outdoors Sarah, founder Justin Yoder and creative director Patrick Thompson hiking in Colorado.

Getting back to nature, the LGBTQ way

You don’t have to go to a gym to get the exercise you need to stay fit and healthy. In fact, sometimes you can get more exercise — and have more fun — if you head outdoors. That’s the idea behind LGBT Outdoors, a group founded by Dallasite Justin Yoder to give LGBTQ people an outlet that combines outdoor adventures and camaraderie.

It began about a year-and-a-half ago when Yoder started an Instagram account featuring LGBTQ people who love the outdoors. It grew quickly and now has six chapters around the country. While the COVID-19 pandemic slowed the organization’s gatherings, Yoder said he hopes things will be ramping up again soon with the group’s first national gathering planned for September.

Yoder took a few minutes recently to answer some questions for Dallas Voice and introduce his organization to the broader community,

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Dallas Voice: How did LGBT Outdoors get started, and how long has it been around? Justin Yoder: The outdoors has always played a big role in my life. I grew up on a farm in Missouri and have always loved what the outdoors had to offer. After coming out in 2010, I wondered if there was still a place for me in the outdoors. For a long time, I didn’t see one. So I started an Instagram account to feature members of the LGBTQ community who also loved the outdoors. I wanted to show the world that the outdoor space isn’t just for straight white guys — and that the LGBTQ+ community was equally capable of exploring, enjoying, and tackling the rugged wilderness.

Nearly immediately, the response from LGBTQ+ people was through the roof. About a year-and-a-half later, we still get messages saying, “I thought I was the only one!” Or “I’ve finally found my tribe!”

This over-the-top response clearly told us that the outdoor world was a place that many LGBTQ+ people long for — and that a way to help facilitate connection was needed.

Fort Worth Ambassador Kenneth fishing at Rainbow Ranch

Is this a local organization? Or is it statewide or national with local chapters? While we are homegrown and based here in the DFW Metroplex, we currently have six chapters across the U.S. DFW, Houston, New York, Chicago, Denver and Orange, Calif. Each chapter is led by a vetted LGBT+ Outdoors ambassador. Our ambassadors are incredibly passionate about the outdoors and have diverse backgrounds from IT, the U.S. military, police — there’s even a neuroscience student. We give our ambassadors a decent level of freedom to choose and host event activities, as the terrain, outdoors culture and local natural offerings vary from chapter to chapter.

How does one become a member? Are there rules or dues involved? We currently don’t have a “membership.” We curate a lively family/community in our private Facebook groups. We have a main group and local groups for each of our chapters.

In order to protect those who are not “out,” we keep our groups private and screen each person who wants to join. Our main Facebook group currently has more than 3,200 “family members,” which is thrilling since we only recently created it in April of last year. We ask that those who join our Facebook groups simply respect each other and our community culture. You can find the group at Facebook.com/groups/LGBTOutdoors.

What do you think are the main advantages of participating in the group? The chance to socialize; opportunities for physical fitness activities….something else? Nearly any doctor will tell you that physical activity of any sort is good for you, even better in the fresh air of a wild landscape. Most doctors will also tell you that having a sense of community — a sense of belonging — is vitally important as well, especially in a pandemic.

Even if most interaction is virtual at the moment (Facebook groups, virtual happy hours, etc.), we’ve been overjoyed to see the conversations and connections taking place. Our primary mission is to connect the LGBTQ+ community with the outdoors — and to each other. We want to be a safe place for people to genuinely feel a part of something, away from the chaos and noise of the bars and clubs.

Kayaking at White Rock Lake

Do you offer a variety of events to accommodate people of varying levels of ability/physical fitness? Do you guys mainly do activities in the warmer months, or do you have winter activities, too? Do you have a schedule of upcoming events? I’ll answer these all together, as the answers sort of blur together. While getting started last year, we did successfully have a small handful of in-person events — all with Covid-compliant social distancing, extremely limited capacity, masks, etc. We’ve hosted varied events — from hiking and kayaking in DFW, fishing in Houston, national park visits in Colorado and Wyoming, hiking in New York and even a volunteer trash clean up in California.

The pandemic has obviously slowed things down as we can’t do what we want to do safely.

Orange County Ambassador Riley snorkeling

That being said, we do like hiking as a frequent event. Hiking has a very low barrier of entry. Nearly anyone can do it with tennis shoes and a water bottle in hand. Amateur hiking doesn’t require any costly gear or months of training.
As we continue to grow (and create a larger support base), we intend to offer many more in-person events to satisfy the needs of all ability levels to the best of our capability. But we always want everyone to feel welcome, no matter their experience level.

And once Covid is safely pushed back, we are open to nearly all outdoor activities. While we have our core structure, LGBT+ Outdoors is very much a community-driven machine. Feedback and input from “the fam” is both wanted AND needed. When the community says, “Hey! Let’s do THIS!” then our ambassadors will take that input and try to put it into action. This is important because popular activities in Texas might not be received well in California or New York — and vice versa.

New York Ambassador Craig and his boyfriend hiking in Utah

New York and Illinois have snowy mountains for skiing and snowboarding. California has its famous beaches, which are great year-round for surfing, camping, or just beach-bumming. Nature is 24/7/365, and there’s no reason why we can’t be as well. You can hike the same trail in the middle of winter AND the middle of summer, and it will be two completely different experiences.

As I’ve said, COVID — especially recently with the tragic jump in cases — has gotten to a point where we choose not to continue with our in-person events. So they’re on hold for the moment. We hope to be able to restart them in the spring, pending COVID numbers and local guidelines and regulations.

Amber and Katie exploring some trails around Dallas

We are, however, in the early stages of planning our first nationwide weekend event, LGBT+ OutdoorFEST Sept. 24-26, at one of Texas’ favorite LGBT+-owned campgrounds, Rainbow Ranch, LGBT+ Outdoorfest will welcome “family” from across the nation for a gathering of camping, kayaking, hiking, education, community and much more! This will be a campout open to our entire LGBT+ Outdoors family and will include workshops, community experiences and some epic social time that can only be created outdoors.

What else do you think people need to know about the LGBT Outdoors? We want all LGBTQ+ people to know that there is a place for them in nature! Sure, the bars and clubs can be fun, but when it comes to feeding your spirit, what can be better that getting outdoors? We have a number of resources on our website, and, as soon as it is safe to host events again, we will be ramping back up with a variety of events around DFW such as kayaking, hiking and camping. So stay tuned and watch our website, LGBTOutdoors.com, for information.

In ‘Breaking Fast,’ A Gay Muslim Gets Swept Away In Ramadan Romance – HuffPost

A fraught courtship culminates with a musical profession of love in “Breaking Fast,” a movie that filters elements of the romantic comedy genre through a queer, multiethnic lens. 

“Breaking Fast,” released Friday on VOD and digital, follows Mo (Haaz Sleiman), a Muslim doctor of Lebanese descent on the rebound after a bitter split from his boyfriend, Hassan (Patrick Sabongui).

Sparks fly when Mo is introduced to an easygoing, all-American actor named Kal (Michael Cassidy) at a birthday party for a sassy mutual pal, Sam (Amin El Gamal). The timing of the meeting couldn’t be worse, however, as Mo is about to observe the holy month of Ramadan, during which Muslims must abstain from eating, drinking and sexual activity from dawn to sunset. 

Catch a sneak peek at the film via the clip above.  

Obstacles to intimacy aside, “Breaking Fast” rarely strays far from rom-com tropes, and there’s never a doubt a happy ending is in the cards for Mo and Kal by the time the credits roll. Still, the movie is heartfelt, introspective and forward-thinking in its portrayal of a cross-cultural relationship. The specifics of Mo’s Muslim faith, for instance, keep the movie grounded in reality, as does a long-simmering conflict between Kal and his estranged father. There’s plenty of charm and nostalgia, too, with winks at “Superman,” “The Sound of Music” and “Meet Me in St. Louis,” among other classics.  

"Breaking Fast," released Friday, stars Haaz Sleiman (left) and Michael Cassidy.



“Breaking Fast,” released Friday, stars Haaz Sleiman (left) and Michael Cassidy.

Writer and director Mike Mosallam said “Breaking Fast” was born of his own frustrations with the lack of queer Muslim representation in television and film. At the encouragement of Michael Lannan, the creator of HBO’s gay-themed series “Looking,” Mosallam wrote a script for a 15-minute short depicting an early version of Mo and Kal’s meet-cute. 

The original “Breaking Fast,” released in 2015, was warmly received by critics and screened at the Cannes Film Festival. Its success prompted Mosallam to expand the story into a full-fledged movie. 

“I was really stumped when asked about what best represented a journey like mine in film and TV,” said Mosallam, who is based in Los Angeles. “I could not think of an answer. … A lot of Julia Roberts’ rom-coms taught me what it meant to love, to receive love, to give love, even though none of those characters looked like me. So it was really me wanting to insert myself, and my journey, into a familiar structure.” 

Cassidy, whose credits include 2016’s “Batman v. Superman: Dawn of Justice” and the ABC series “The Rookie,” appreciated the script’s playful take on the intricacies of burgeoning relationships.

“Intimacy can be funny because the stakes are so high, and we’re always pretending they’re not,” he said. “We’re always laughing and giggling on first dates, but we’re always hiding things from ourselves and from each other. [Getting to explore that] is what drew me to it.” 

“I’ve tried to create a sense of happiness for people in a time of real divisiveness,”  writer-directo



“I’ve tried to create a sense of happiness for people in a time of real divisiveness,”  writer-director Mike Mosallam said of the film. 

As a practicing Muslim, Mosallam is conscious of the fact that “Breaking Fast” could draw controversy. Traditionally, Islamic scholars hold conservative views of same-sex relationships, though Muslims in some countries have indicated support for LGBTQ rights. Still, the filmmaker believes those who dismiss Islam as anti-LGBTQ are misguided.  

“The Muslim community is not, in fact, a community,” he said. “It’s a collection of communities. … It’s frustrating that some people can’t see past their own fears and ignorance, but these conversations are happening. Let this movie be a step in challenging that worldview.” 

Neither Mosallam nor Cassidy could have predicted that “Breaking Fast,” which had its premiere at California’s Cinequest Film & Creativity Festival last year, would be released amid a devastating pandemic. In many respects, it’s a perfectly aspirational love story for the COVID-19 era, as Mo and Kal spend most nights enjoying sumptuous, home-cooked meals in keeping with the movie’s Ramadan backdrop. 

“Above all, I want audiences to see this film as an ideal,” Mosallam said. “I’ve tried to create a sense of happiness for people in a time of real divisiveness. Whether a person feels this film represents them or not, I hope it’s enough to make them share their true authentic story or their version of their lived experiences.”

Cassidy shared those sentiments. “I really hope people can see themselves in this film and that they have a feeling of belonging. That is, by far, the most meaningful response that I can receive toward any of my work.”

Breaking Fast” is available on VOD and digital Jan. 22.