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Knee Workouts: 5 Exercises That Are Easy On The Joints – MensXP.com

Look, there’re no magical shoes that’ll lower your marathon time more effectively than training a little harder will. But what if your training itself makes your knees want to beg for mercy?    

Exercise isn’t a no-pain, no-gain deal. It can cause discomfort but it shouldn’t hurt for a long period of time. In a situation like this, it is wise to either rely on a low-impact workout for fitness or see a doctor.  

Here are some highly effective easy-on-the-knees exercises you can try to stay fit

1. Lateral Walk

Stepping laterally targets the butt and hip muscles. 

● Start in a partial squat position.

● Take a giant step to your right with your right foot, then follow with your left.

● Take a few steps in the same direction. 

● Now, step with your left foot followed by right until your return to the starting position. 

If you still experience knee pain while working out, wear a knee cap for better support.

2. Kettlebell Swing 

Knee pain can also be a result of weakness in the glutes and hamstrings. The kettlebell swing is a great exercise to target those.

● Grip the kettlebell handle with both hands and stand with your feet shoulder-width apart.

● Bend your knees to reach the partial squat position. 

● Hinge forward at the hips to drop the kettlebell between your legs.

● Stand back up and use the momentum towing the to chest height. 

Pro tip: Don’t lock your knees as you stand and make sure your gym bag contents are updated. It shows commitment. 

3. Calf Raises aka Toe Raises

This one strengthens your calf muscles and increases balance. But along with that, calf raises are also good for the joints, they’re injury-proof and very helpful in increasing running speed. 

● Stand with your feet hip-width apart. 

● Raise your heels off the ground, then slowly come back to the platform while maintaining the balance.

● You can hold a dumbbell in each hand to improvise.

● Do 3 sets of 15-20 reps. 

Pro tip: For better impact, do single-leg explosive calf raises on stairs and wear ultralight socks in summer to avoid smelly feet while at it.

4. Bridge On Ball

Doing bridges on a ball or glute bridges can activate your entire hip and butt area without putting any pressure on the knees.

● Lie on your back with your hands at your side and straight legs resting on top of a stability ball.

● Squeeze your glutes and abs and press your heels into the ball as you lift your hips off the floor. 

● Try to form a straight line from your feet to your shoulders.

● Take a pause of a few seconds.

● Squeeze your glutes at the top, then slowly lower your hips to return to the starting position.

5. Inner & Outer Thigh Leg Lifts

Thigh leg lifts are great for strengthening and toning your thighs. While working out, make sure you tighten your abs to increase the intensity of the exercise without hurting your knees.

● Lie on the floor to your side and straighten your bottom leg. 

● Bend your top leg and prop your head up with your hand.

● Keep the core tight and target the inner thigh while lifting your bottom leg up and slowly set it back to the floor without moving your back. 

● Repeat with the other leg after 15 reps. 

● For outer thigh leg lifts, straighten your top leg and repeat the process.

Pro tip: Always wear shoes with supportive cushioning while working out. This will decrease the pressure on your knees.

Final Thoughts

Cycling is another go-to exercise for people who are worried about their joints but enjoy high-impact workouts like running.

Knowing your weaknesses only makes you stronger. So stay active, choose your workout wisely and enjoy it! 

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The amazing LGBT content you need to stream on Amazon Prime Video – PinkNews

Amazon Prime Video is home to hundreds of LGBT+ themed movies, TV programmes and other fantastic content.

Viewers can stream hours of worth of films, shows and documentaries focusing on LGBT+ people as part of an Amazon Prime Video subscription.

This includes inspiring documentaries about groups and individuals during the AIDS crisis, in the often cis male-dominated world of sport and those leading the way in the fashion industry.

There are also plenty of shows to binge-watch, including drama series and addictive reality shows as well as wildly-popular films like Carol and Call Me By Your Name.

If you’re already signed up to Prime Video then you’re good to go, but if you’re yet to join then you can sign up for a 30-day free trial and test out the platform’s LGBT+ content and beyond.

Once your free trial is over you’ll pay £7.99 per month or £79.99 per year, unless you cancel it then you won’t pay a penny. To find out more go to the Amazon Prime Video page here.

Below we’ve selected just a handful of the LGBT+ content available on the streaming platform to get you started.

Steelers

The documentary follows three central characters involved in the Steelers team. (YouTube)
The documentary follows three central characters involved in the Steelers team. (YouTube)

Available on Prime Video from 16 April is Steelers, a documentary on the world’s first gay and inclusive rugby club – the King’s Cross Steelers. It follows the team as they compete against 60 other LGBT+ clubs across the world, focusing on three key figures involved in the team including gay female coach Nic Evans. The other two are Simon Jones, who is dealing with recently coming out as a gay man and also Andrew McDowell, a drag artist who inspires others to be their authentic selves.

It marks the directorial debut from former Steelers player Eammon Ashton-Atkinson and will be exclusively available to stream on Prime Video after being selected to screen at a number of high profile film festivals including BFI Flare.

To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything!

To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything features loads of iconic cameos. (YouTube)
To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything features loads of iconic cameos. (YouTube)

This cult 90s favourite follows three New York City drag queens who embark on a road trip to Los Angeles to compete in a pageant, carrying an autographed photo of Julie Newmar on their journey. The film stars Wesley Snipes, Patrick Swayze and John Leguizamo but the best part is the many cameos in the film which includes RuPaul, Lady Bunny, Naomi Campbell, Candis Cayne and Miss Coco Peru to name a few.

It also has an iconic soundtrack that features Cyndi Lauper, Chaka Kahn, Patti LaBelle, Crystal Waters and The Commodores and the film itself is still referenced in pop culture today, most notably on Drag Race.

Screaming Queens: The Riot at Compton’s Cafeteria

Screaming Queens: The Riot at Compton's Cafeteria follows the 1966 riots in San Francisco. (YouTube)
Screaming Queens: The Riot at Compton’s Cafeteria follows the 1966 riots in San Francisco. (YouTube)

If after laughing out loud at To Wong Foo you want to watch a slice of American LGBT+ history, then you can stream Screaming Queens on Prime Video. This documentary tells the forgotten story of the first collective act of militant resistance to the social oppression of queer people in the United States. It took place in 1966, three years before the Stonewall Riots, at a late night cafeteria in San Francisco, with drag queens and trans sex workers fighting back after becoming infuriated with the abuse they faced on a daily basis.

To stream this powerful documentary go to Amazon Prime Video.

The Sons of Tennessee Williams

Another documentary on Prime Video is The Sons of Tennessee Williams.
Another documentary on Prime Video is The Sons of Tennessee Williams.

Another piece of American LGBT+ history available to stream on Prime Video is The Sons of Tennessee Williams. The documentary weaves together archival footage with contemporary interviews and tells the story of the New Orleans’ gay Mardi Gras across five decades. It features drag royalty and uncovers a glittering civil rights revolution as the gay Mardi Gras scene helped cause gay liberation in the south of the United States.

Becks

Tony Award winner Lena Hall stars in Becks. (YouTube)
Tony Award winner Lena Hall stars in Becks. (YouTube)

Becks follows a musician who moves back to her childhood home in St. Louis after a crushing breakup with her long time girlfriend. While performing for tips at a local tavern and struggling to reconnect with her ultra-Catholic mother, she strikes up a unique friendship with the wife of an old nemesis. It stars Tony Award winner Lena Hall alongside Mena Suvari (American Beauty) and queer musician Hayley Kiyoko.

It’s based on the real life of singer-songwriter Alyssa Robbins and received highly positive reviews from critics upon its release in 2017.

Suspiciously Large Woman

Suspiciously Large Woman is the stand-up special from Bob the Drag Queen. (YouTube)
Suspiciously Large Woman is the stand-up special from Bob the Drag Queen. (YouTube)

This stand-up special is from Bob the Drag Queen, season eight winner of RuPaul’s Drag Race. The hilarious queen returns to her home state of Georgia, purse first, to share her thoughts on fame, fashion, sex, politics and white people.

The one hour special is proof why Bob snatched the crown during her season with ease and is one of a number of Drag Race themed films on Amazon Prime Video. Fans can also watch Drag Becomes Him, a documentary following Jinkx Monsoon from working class boy to drag superstar and Gays in Prison which features Latrice Royale who reveals her own experiences in jail and explores the stories of other LGBT+ prisoners who often face discrimination.

Summer of ’85

Summer of '85 follows the story of two teenagers in Normandy. (YouTube)
Summer of ’85 follows the story of two teenagers in Normandy. (YouTube)

Summer of ’85 follows two teenagers, Alex and David, with the latter saving Alex when his boat capsizes off the coast of Normandy. Following this heroic rescue, Alex believes he has met the friend of his dreams, but it might be a friendship that only lasts one summer as other people begin to get involved. The French-language film is set against the backdrop of the stunning coast and is partly based on the 1982 novel Dance on My Grave by Aidan Chambers.

The film is a great two-hour escape to sunny Europe, being young and free and you can stream it on Amazon Prime Video.

Carol

The hugely popular lesbian drama Carol is available to stream as part of an Amazon Prime Video subscription. It stars Cate Blanchett and Rooney Mara who play an older woman going through a difficult divorce and an aspiring female photographer respectively. Set in New York City during the early 1950s, the film has also been considered as a modern Christmas classic as it takes place during the festive period.

It’s based on the novel The Price of Salt by Patricia Highsmith and it received critical acclaim upon its release with plenty of big award nominations for Blanchett and Mara.

Dating Amber

Dating Amber on Amazon Prime
Dating Amber is set in mid-90s Ireland. (Amazon Prime Vide)

This heartwarming coming-of-age comedy follows to closeted teens Eddie and Amber who start dating to stop everyone from speculating about their sexuality at school. It’s set in mid-90s Ireland as Eddie plans to join the Irish military in order to prove his masculinity to his father, while Amber is holding out until she can escape to London and open her own anarchist bookshop.

As the story unfolds the pair form a deep and profound friendship that is often unique for LGBT+ people and viewers will find relatable. To stream Dating Amber go to Amazon Prime Video.

After 82

After 82 is the untold story of the AIDS pandemic. (YouTube)
After 82 is the untold story of the AIDS pandemic. (YouTube)

If you were a fan of recent drama It’s A Sin and want to hear from those who lived through it, then you can with this powerful documentary After 82, available to stream on Prime Video. It brings the untold personal stories of the AIDS crisis in the UK to the forefront as it looks back to the very early days of the pandemic when there were no medications and a positive HIV test meant almost certain death.

Many of the people who feature in this documentary have never spoken openly to the media about those traumatic early days of the pandemic, including Jonathan Blake who has lived with the virus for over 30 years. It also commemorates those lost to AIDS and celebrates those who supported people living with the virus in a story of human compassion, strength and resilience to ensure these voices are never forgotten.

To stream the documentary go to Amazon Prime Video.

Quiet Heroes

Quiet Heroes follows two women, Dr. Kristen Ries and Maggie Snyder, PA-C who teamed up to help those abandoned. (YouTube)
Quiet Heroes follows two women, Dr. Kristen Ries and Maggie Snyder, PA-C who teamed up to help those abandoned. (YouTube)

Another documentary which focuses on the AIDS crisis is Quiet Heroes. This film heads to Salt Lake City in Utah to the Mormon Church, where patients received little support from and were cast out by their communities. But two women, Dr. Kristen Ries and Maggie Snyder, PA-C teamed up with an order of Catholic nuns to create a safe haven to help these patients who were abandoned and living amidst a sea of hate and fear, when no other doctors in Utah would even see AIDS patients. To stream the documentary head to Amazon Prime Video.

Modern Love

Andrew Scott stars in series one of Modern Love on Prime Video. (YouTube)
Andrew Scott stars in series one of Modern Love on Prime Video. (YouTube)

This anthology series stars Anne Hathaway, Dev Patel and Tina Fey and focuses on a different relationship in each episode. This includes one starring Fleabag’s hot priest Andrew Scott. He plays Tobin, a gay man who is about adopt with his partner Andy. The pair are matched with an expecting mother who is both nomadic and homeless. She moves into their New York City home as they all try to navigate the upcoming changes in each of their lives.

Plus it was recently announced that openly gay actors Isaac Powell and James Scully will star in an episode in series two, which is expected to be written and directed by Andrew Rannells, best known for Prom and Girls.

You can sign up to Amazon Prime Video to stream series one and get ready for series two, due for release this year.

Do I Sound Gay?

The documentary Do I Sound Gay? follows David Thorpe who confronts his anxiety around his voice. (YouTube)
The documentary Do I Sound Gay? follows David Thorpe who confronts his anxiety around his voice. (YouTube)

This documentary comes from David Thorpe who wants to confront his anxiety about “sounding gay” and embarks on a journey to explore the origins of the stereotype of the gay voice. As part of this he visits two speech therapists to evaluate his condition and help him gain control of his speaking voice. He also enlists the perspectives of family, friends, strangers and famous faces including Margaret Cho, George Takei and David Sedaris and learns that many people – gay and straight – often wish for different voices.

To stream Do I Sound Gay? you can head to Amazon Prime Video here.

The Gospel According to André

This documentary chronicles the life of André Leon Talley. (YouTube)
This documentary chronicles the life of André Leon Talley. (YouTube)

This inspiring documentary The Gospel According to André chronicles the life and career of one of the fashion industry’s most influential icons, André Leon Talley. He began his career at Andy Warhol’s Factory in the 1970s before climbing the ranks of the New York fashion editorial world, eventually becoming an editor-at-large for Vogue magazine. The documentary sees him discuss his background in the south of America, growing up in the Church, being gay and black in the fashion industry and how all of this helped him become the powerhouse he is today.

It also features interviews with Anna Wintour, Marc Jacobs, Tom Ford, Valentino and Whoopi Goldberg and it’s available to stream on Prime Video.

Making the Cut

Making the Cut reunites Heidi Klum and Tim Gunn. (YouTube)
Making the Cut reunites Heidi Klum and Tim Gunn. (YouTube)

If you’re after more fashion-themed shows then you can stream the first season of Making the Cut which is a Prime Video exclusive. The reality competition series reunites Heidi Klum and Tim Gunn who take 12 established designers around the world from New York to Paris to Tokyo as they compete to become the next global fashion brand. Each week the winning looks are available to purchase on Amazon, with the eventual winner receiving one million dollars to invest in their brand. It’s recently been renewed for a second season, so you can get prepared and the stream the first now.

Also available on Prime Video is seasons four to ten of classic reality series Project Runway.

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What Are Neopronouns? – The New York Times

A personal pronoun is a form of speech that stands in for a person or group of people. She is having opinions online; they are fighting in the comments; and, of course, as in the Prince song made famous by Sinead O’Connor, “Nothing Compares 2 U.”

Nonbinary pronouns, as well — often the singular “they” and “them” — have become widespread. A 2019 Pew Research study found already that one in five Americans knew someone who uses nonbinary pronouns.

And then there are neopronouns.

A neopronoun can be a word a created to serve as pronoun without expressing gender, like “ze” and “zir.”

A neopronoun can also be a so-called “noun-self pronoun,” in which a pre-existing word is drafted into use as a pronoun. Noun-self pronouns can refer to animals — so your pronouns can be “bun/bunself” and “kitten/kittenself.” Others refer to fantasy characters — “vamp/vampself,” “prin/cess/princesself,” “fae/faer/faeself” — or even just common slang, like “Innit/Innits/Innitself.”

Not very — yet.

A recent survey of pronoun use among 40,000 L.G.B.T.Q. young people by the Trevor Project, a nonprofit dedicated to preventing suicide among queer and trans youth, found that one-quarter of them used nonbinary pronouns. (Participants were recruited from late 2019 through early 2020 by ads on social media.) Most said they used common pronouns like “he,” “she” and “they.”

Just 4 percent said they used neopronouns, including “ze/zir,” and “fae/faer,” often in combination with other pronouns.

Yes. And: Around any leading edge behavior online, trolling, high jinks and bad faith collide indistinctly. For those unfamiliar with the culture surrounding neopronouns right now, it’s likely impossible to distinguish between what’s playful, what’s deeply meaningful and what’s people being mean.

Many neopronoun users are dead serious, and are also part of online communities that are quick to react swiftly to offenses. They are deeply versed in the style and mores of contemporary identity politics conversations.

A popular Twitch streamer who goes by AndiVMG recently apologized after jokingly tweeting that her pronouns were “bad/af,” which led many neopronoun users to accuse her of transphobic invalidation of their identities.

AndiVMG did not respond to a request for comment for this article but wrote on Twitter: “It wasn’t meant to mock people who use neopronouns. However I have since educated myself on the matter and spoken to people who use neopronouns and I see why what I said was hurtful.”

Critics persist. “I’m not going to call u kitty/kittyself or doll/dollself just bc u think its cool,” one TikToker wrote in a video caption. “Pronouns are a form of identity not an aesthetic.”

But what’s the difference between an aesthetic and an identity anyway?

Neopronoun users may publish strict boundaries and preferences around behaviors, enthusiasms and hatreds. Many of them have defined lists of behaviors they find unacceptable around privacy or cruelty — sometimes referred to as “DNI” lists, short for “do not interact” — which they often outline in posts on Carrd, a service that makes single-page websites.

Carrd grew in scope during the protest movements of 2020; these days, many of its more than two million pages are used primarily for expressions of fandom and personhood. So, a social media bio will often include a link to an identity résumé on Carrd, often with a pronoun usage guide. (One sample: “Bug likes bugs.” “Those things belong to Bug.” “Bug wants to work by Bugself.”)

One Carrd explains neopronouns at length. In its FAQ section, it provides a response used often in the neopronoun community when talking to people who claim neopronouns “aren’t real words”: “Yes, literally every word is made up! Neopronouns are real because they carry meaning and are understood by others.”

Many people who use neopronouns don’t just use one set. They select a handful, and show off their collections on websites like Pronouny.xyz, a site that provides usage examples for neopronouns. Users make their own Pronouny pages, like this one, which includes xe/xem/xyr, moon/moonself, star/starself, bee/beeself, and bun/bunself. “Sorry if I have too many pronouns,” the page’s creator wrote. “You can use just one set or just they/them if they’re too many!!”

Online conversation gathered steam in November with some contentious TikToks about neopronouns. (“Bro, neopronouns are gonna break the English language,” said a young TikToker in November who goes by @Pokebag in a video that racked up hundreds of thousands of likes.)

But noun-self pronouns are not exactly new; they emerged from an online hotbed for avant-garde ideas around gender expression. “The noun-self pronouns emerged on Tumblr, starting around 2012, 2013,” said Jason D’Angelo, a linguist and queer scholar who has a substantial following on TikTok for videos about gender and identity issues. “They’re a unique way of exploring people’s understanding of their own gender.”

Mx. D’angelo (who takes the nonbinary references themself) said the social media discourse around neoprounouns “died off” to some extent around 2014, before resurfacing recently; they theorized that increasing interest may be a result of the coronavirus forcing people indoors.

“When we go about in the world, we have to perform gender in ways that are typical and normative over and over and over again, but because a lot of us have been in our houses for the last year, we haven’t had to perform them,” they said. “So the link between the performance and the self is weakened.”

That’s OK. Horror at noun-self pronoun usage is so common that it has spurred a meme in the neopronoun community. In it, people compare neopronouns to all kinds of things we take for granted.

Neopronoun users say new terms allow them to engage with gender — or other aspects of identity — in a way that aligns with how they feel.

In some cases, neopronouns are met with frustration because their use shows people divorcing themselves from continuing, unfinished gender business between men and women. Neopronoun users are trying to “construct something new and different that doesn’t have the same societal issues,” Mx. D’angelo said, as the traditional gender binary: “It’s almost like gender abolitionist.”

Considering their Tumblr origins, it’s not surprising that many noun-self pronoun user interests’ overlap with fandoms, including anime, K-pop and Minecraft YouTuber stars like Dream. Intense fandoms are rife with neopronoun use.

Neopronouns are also prominent among some communities of young people who identify as neurodivergent, which includes diagnoses or descriptions like Asperger’s syndrome and autism.

Mx. D’Angelo said that one reason people on the autism spectrum may use neopronouns could be “because they feel like their relationship with gender is different than the neurotypical one.”

Neopronouns give people who feel different from the rest of the world a way to avoid all its boxes at once.

In his book “What’s Your Pronoun?” Dennis Baron, an English professor at the University of Illinois, describes a series of attempts to create a nonbinary pronoun. (In 1808, the poet Samuel Taylor Coleridge suggested “it,” which flopped; it is now beginning to have a small moment in the sun.) In all, Mr. Baron identified more than 200 gender-neutral pronouns proposed between the 19th century and the 1970s.

As nonbinary identities have become more widely accepted in recent decades, so did the requisite pronouns. In 2015, Harvard began allowing students to choose their preferred pronouns from a list that included gender-neutral terms like “ze, hir and hirs,” as did administrators at the University of Tennessee — before that university withdrew a guide to pronouns, amid conservative pushback.

Countries including Australia, Iceland and Argentina have given citizens the option to use nonbinary passports, and several U.S. states have done the same with driver’s licenses, including California and Oregon.

We wanted people to tell us in their own words about why and how they used neopronouns. Because they are very young, we agreed to let them use only their first names.

“Being neurodivergent, I tend to perceive how a word makes me feel rather than just seeing the word,” the noun-self user Gum, 13, wrote in a direct message on Twitter. “I chose my bink/bonk pronouns because they remind me of clowns. Clowns and harlequin dolls make me very happy.”

“Being neurodivergent, you are more likely to have a complicated relationship with your gender identity and expression, and pronouns are just one part of gender expression,” Elijah, 17, wrote.

“When I first encountered them I actually didn’t agree with them,” wrote one 15-year-old neopronoun user. “Eventually I met a lot of people online who used them and decided to educate myself further and realized that they were perfectly valid and just another way of expressing your gender to others. I chose the ones I use as I feel a connection to them, EG vamp/vamp pronouns — I feel a connection to vampires and that in a way feels connected to my gender.”

Limits? What are those? Some people even use emojis. A 2018 post on the Tumblr emojiselfpronouns explains how the paw emoji may be used as a pronoun: “Where is 🐾? Did 🐾 bring 🐾 lunch, or buy it?”

And how would you say that anyway?

“They were not meant to be said in the first place,” the post explained. Emoji-self pronouns “are meant to be fun, and are meant to stand against what we see as ‘normal’ and ‘typical’ pronouns.”

But there actually are some limits. Neopronoun users have shut down the notion of using terms related to Black Lives Matter, like “BLM,” as neopronouns, arguing that it is inappropriate for people to use these terms in this way. Others have claimed that using “fae” as a neopronoun is culturally appropriative from pagan communities (this claim, as they say, is disputed).

And not everyone in the wider queer community supports noun-self pronouns.

“As a trans man, I think neopronouns are getting way out of hand,” Asa Pegler, 17, said in a TikTok from November.

In an interview, Mr. Pegler specified that his beef is not with gender-neutral neopronouns. He felt like elevating objects and animals to human pronoun levels was dismissive.

“I couldn’t stomach why anyone would want to identify as an object?” Mr. Pegler wrote in an Instagram direct message.

“They dehumanize us as trans people,” he added. “We are people! Not objects or animals. So that’s why I stated that they are out of hand, because they make us look like a bit of a joke.”

The neopronoun community comprises mostly internet-native young people, and is agile when it comes to facing down criticism and mockery. Social media posts affirming the validity of neopronoun identities are a constant refrain:

“If you use neopronouns, you are extremely valid and I love you,” one person wrote on Twitter.

“Neopronouns are so valid and if you disagree hard block me rn /srs,” another wrote.

“There will always be people IRL that will have something negative to say, whether it’s because they just don’t understand or they are genuinely just a bigot,” Elijah, the neopronoun user, wrote. “They know nothing about your personal experiences and have no business policing your identity.”

Opinion | How Trans Children Became a Political Football – The New York Times

I’m concerned about the huge explosion in young women wishing to transition and also about the increasing numbers who seem to be detransitioning (returning to their original sex), because they regret taking steps that have, in some cases, altered their bodies irrevocably, and taken away their fertility.

J.K. Rowling

In 2018, the academic journal PLOS One published a study that hypothesized the existence of “rapid-onset gender dysphoria,” a condition that causes children to suddenly identify as transgender because of peer influence. This conception of trans identity as a “social contagion” has been embraced most prominently by Abigail Shrier, a writer for The Wall Street Journal, and J.K. Rowling, who has likened gender-affirmative medical care to “a new kind of conversion therapy.

But the study, which PLOS One corrected and apologized for, was sharply criticized as methodologically flawed and ideologically motivated, and the condition is not a term recognized by any major professional association. The number of people identifying as transgender has increased in recent years — to 1.8 percent for Generation Z, up from 1.2 percent for millennials — but many researchers say the rise reflects the growing awareness of transgender identity, both in society at large and within the medical profession, as well as greater access to care.

No one denies, however, that some people reverse their transition, or “de-transition,” for a variety of reasons. Estimates for the proportion of people who de-transition range from less than 0.5 percent to as high as 13 percent. (The numbers may vary depending on the kind of transition, which may or may not involve puberty blockers, cross-sex hormones or surgery, the last option almost always restricted to adults.)

Not all or even most de-transition stories are unhappy, as Dr. Jack Turban, a fellow in child and adolescent psychiatry at the Stanford University School of Medicine, has explained. But a small number of people who de-transition do have regrets. In Britain, a legal fight over whether minors could meaningfully consent to puberty blockers revolved around the story of Keira Bell, who began her medical transition at 16 and had a double mastectomy at 20 only to realize later that she wasn’t trans. “I was an unhappy girl who needed help,” she writes in Persuasion. “Instead, I was treated like an experiment.”

People disagree about how to balance the well-documented benefits of gender-affirmative care with the risks of medical intervention. Some experts, for example, have expressed concern that puberty blockers are not as medically benign as they are sometimes described: In some cases, they may limit options for gender-affirming surgery or cause severe skeletal problems when taken for several years, which can occur when children start puberty at a very young age.

But banning gender-affirmative care, as Arkansas has done, is a move that medical experts say will do profound harm. When trans children receive gender-affirming health care, it lowers their risk of self-harm, depression and suicide, which 30 percent to 51 percent of trans adolescents attempt.

Nondiscrimination ordinance rubs some residents the wrong way – Mountain Xpress

The third time wasn’t quite the charm for Buncombe County’s proposed nondiscrimination ordinance. At the April 6 meeting of the county Board of Commissioners, officials heard the third draft of a new local rule that would ban discrimination in employment and public accommodations based on 16 characteristics and lifestyles, including race, natural hair or hairstyles and gender identity.

Following its initial introduction during the March 16 meeting of the board, the measure was revised to apply its protections to housing in addition to public spaces such as stores, workplaces and restaurants. 

Commissioner Parker Sloan noted that while the 1968 Fair Housing Act protects against discrimination when renting or buying a home or other housing-related activities, sexual orientation and gender identity are not among the classes protected by the federal law. 

“It’s an attempt to make it clear to the community and an example through this ordinance that discrimination in housing among the LGBT community on the basis of gender identity and sexual orientation, that that kind of discrimination is not acceptable,” he said.

Eight members of the public voiced concern about the ordinance during the meeting, questioning whether business owners or religious establishments would be forced to hire LGBTQ people. Several commenters said that they felt that claims of discrimination against LGBTQ people were exaggerated. 

The Rev. John Grant of the Interdenominational Ministerial Alliance and the organization’s superintendent, the Rev. Ronald Gates, cited concern about religious freedom and the need for more community input before the board voted on the ordinance. 

“It is a grave concern. … I oppose it due to the simple fact of the lack of transparency and full disclosure,” Gates said. “There’s a lot of gray areas that tie into a lot of information with this ordinance. And I want to oppose it because of my religious freedom and my freedom of speech and our business practices.”  

Commenter Bob Machen said that discrimination in employment was “blown way out of perspective,” while resident John Hoerner said that he felt like the ordinance was addressing “a problem that doesn’t exist.”

“We already have discrimination laws, anti-discrimination laws. I think this puts a burden on a business owner especially,” he said. 

Buncombe County Attorney Michael Frue pointed out that the ordinance doesn’t include criminal enforcement and no separate entity would investigate or enforce provisions of the law. He also noted the inclusion in the ordinance of exceptions for religious organizations, like churches and religious schools. Bars, which are considered private clubs in North Carolina, or other establishments that are not open to the public would also be exempt.

But business owner Eva Stewart maintained that the law would force hiring practices contrary to some religious beliefs.

“This ordinance has an inherent conflict because it offers an exemption for religious organizations on hiring but not for people like me, a homebuilder, who is being compelled by this ordinance to participate against my deeply held religious beliefs by hiring a transgender person,” Stewart said. “It is a violation of my constitutional First Amendment right. Also, it is not fair to expose transgender people to a male-dominated construction site, believe me.”

The latest version of the ordinance outlines a process in which residents who experience discrimination in employment or public accommodations may file a complaint with an equity officer designated by the county within 180 days of the incident, followed by an investigation. Residents would file housing discrimination claims with the N.C. Human Relations Commission, with assistance from the county. The original version of the ordinance also included a $500 daily fine, which subsequently was reduced to $100.

A second reading of the amended ordinance could come before the commissioners for a vote at the board’s Tuesday, April 20, meeting.

Q&A: US Title 42 Policy to Expel Migrants at the Border – Human Rights Watch

Well before the Covid-19 pandemic, Stephen Miller, White House adviser to then-US President Donald Trump, floated the idea of using the government’s public health authority as a means of achieving the administration’s long-pursued goal of closing the border to asylum seekers. At the time, White House officials and attorneys reportedly told Miller, who has promoted white nationalist ideologies, and Trump that they lacked the legal authority to do so.

But as the US was hit hard by the Covid-19 pandemic, Trump administration officials pressured public health authorities to circumvent US and international law protecting refugees by ordering immigration authorities to summarily expel migrants without providing them the opportunity to seek protection in the United States.  

This analysis covers the impact of the resulting March 2020 order from the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) under Title 42 of US law. Although President Joe Biden promised during his campaign to restore access to asylum at US borders, and has made an exception in processing unaccompanied children, close to 100 days into the Biden administration, Stephen Miller’s desired border closure remains largely in place. The Title 42 expulsion policy is illegal and violates the human rights of those subjected to it. The Biden administration, now complicit in those rights violations, should rescind the policy immediately while taking measures to ensure the humane and dignified reception of asylum seekers.

What is Title 42 and how does it work?

The Title 42 expulsion policy has effectively closed the US border to nearly all asylum seekers based on the misapplication of an obscure, 75-year-old public health law. That law, the Public Health Service Act of 1944, was designed to confer quarantine authority to health authorities that would apply to everyone, including US citizens, arriving from a foreign country. Quarantine authority was never meant to be used to determine which noncitizens could or couldn’t be expelled or removed from the US. In debating the law’s predecessor provision, Congress specifically kept any reference to immigrants or immigration out of the law’s text because of concerns that public health authority could be used to discriminate against immigrants. The 1944 version was enacted to shift quarantine authority from the president to the surgeon general.

Nevertheless, the order issued by the CDC, along with an accompanying rule published in the Federal Register, specifically bars just one category of people from entering the US: those crossing the borders from Mexico or Canada who would be held in congregate settings by US authorities, a category the order says will be primarily migrants who arrive without visas.

US law gives asylum seekers the right to seek asylum upon arrival in the United States, even if they arrive without inspection or prior authorization. Before expelling people who arrive in the US, US Customs and Border Protection (CBP) is legally required to conduct nonrefoulement screenings to ensure they do not expel people who need protection. Those screenings are designed to ensure that no one risks torture or other likely serious harm after being expelled and returned to their country of origin.

Since March 2020, Customs and Border Protection has carried out more than 642,700 expulsions under the order, typically without conducting the required screenings. Human Rights Watch research shows that the consequences of returning asylum seekers to danger can be catastrophic–resulting in sexual assault, torture, and death.

A leaked Border Patrol memo providing guidance on the order’s implementation instructs agents to process migrants for expulsion as quickly as possible, while providing a small exception for migrants who affirmatively present a claim for protection under the United Nations Convention against Torture and Other Cruel, Inhuman or Degrading Treatment or Punishment. Agents have unchecked authority to then determine whether to refer those migrants for an interview with an asylum officer.

Human Rights Watch has previously witnessed and documented CBP agents performing illegal “turnbacks” of migrants exercising their right to seek asylum. Human Rights Watch has also found agents have failed to refer for interviews with asylum officers people who have expressed a fear of return to their country of origin, and instead rapidly deported them to potential danger. Giving CBP agents even greater power to unilaterally and summarily decide claims under the expulsion order risks further wrongful return of people who may be refugees.

Migrants are either expelled to their country of origin or to Mexico, even if they are not from Mexico and even if they do not speak Spanish. In some cases, US border agents turn migrants directly over to Mexican immigration authorities, who then immediately detain and deport them. There are several reports that Haitians and Indigenous people who do not speak Spanish were expelled by US authorities to Mexico, where they are particularly vulnerable as language differences create barriers to finding transportation, housing, case management, and daily necessities.

In November 2020, a federal district court blocked application of the order to unaccompanied children, a decision an appeals court subsequently stayed. Though the Biden administration vowed not to again apply the expulsion policy to unaccompanied children arriving at the border, at least 13,000 unaccompanied children, for whom additional special protections were supposed to apply, had already been expelled by the time of the court’s injunction.

Does the expulsion policy protect public health?

Reporting by the Associated Press as well as our own discussions with a senior CDC official who asked to remain anonymous have made clear that the CDC order closing the border to most migrants was not based in scientifically grounded public health evidence. Instead, it was a response to political pressure.

The policy was called a “Stephen Miller special” by Olivia Troye, a former top aide to then-Vice President Mike Pence, who coordinated the White House coronavirus task force. When top CDC doctors refused to issue the order, saying there was no public health basis for it, Pence called then-CDC Director Robert Redfield and told him to produce the order anyway.

“They forced us,” a former health official involved in the process told the Associated Press. “It is either do it or get fired.”

While the order states it is meant to avoid holding migrants in congregate settings, it is being used to expel migrants after they have spent long periods in congregate settings. The Department of Homeland Security (DHS) has repeatedly detained adults and families in overcrowded conditions for several days prior to expulsion.

Recent infection rate data among unaccompanied children arriving at Health and Human Services (HHS) shelters from CBP detention facilities indicates rising levels of Covid-19 infection the longer they are detained. Children have reported being held for weeks in border jails in overcrowded and unhygienic conditions. Safe, swift reunification procedures should continue to be refined, starting from the moment children cross the border. If children are held for more than a few hours, they should be in licensed, safe childcare facilities staffed and set up for longer stays, and not in abusive CBP detention facilities where agents lack appropriate training and where children have previously fallen ill and died.

Migrants being expelled are also transported in airplanes along with deportees who have been held in long-term detention facilities, many of which have had Covid-19 outbreaks, in part due to US Immigration and Customs Enforcement’s (ICE) gross mishandling of the pandemic and failure to follow public health guidelines. DHS continued to expel vulnerable migrants and asylum seekers who tested positive for the virus upon their arrival in countries with fewer resources to manage an outbreak.

The order is also based in part on the false premise that detention for asylum seekers is a requirement, when the opposite is true. Under US law, decisions to release migrants and asylum seekers are a matter of prosecutorial discretion, and CBP has the authority to directly and swiftly release them. A 2019 study  of several hundred asylum seekers at the Mexico-US border found that 92 percent had family or friends with whom they could stay in the United States.

CBP’s own standards also suggest that adult noncitizens should not be held in border jails for more than 72 hours. Most unaccompanied children must by law be transferred to an HHS shelter within 72 hours (though that limit is often ignored).

Even more telling, to prove to other countries that it wasn’t sending people who were infected with Covid-19 back to them, DHS tested many migrants, including unaccompanied children, for Covid-19, using reliable laboratory-based polymerase chain reaction (PCR) tests before expelling them. This underscores the emptiness of the supposed public health rationale behind the policy. One Texas Tribune headline captured the absurdity of the policy: “ICE is making sure migrant kids don’t have Covid-19, then expelling them to ‘prevent the spread’ of Covid-19.”

How does the expulsion policy endanger asylum seekers?

Instead of centering public health, the current policy seriously endangers the lives of those in need of protection, who are returned to abuse in their country of origin or to dangerous Mexican border cities where organized crime operatives are known to intentionally target migrants.

For example, leaked DHS documents show the agency knew that Haitian migrants and asylum seekers would likely face harm if expelled to Haiti, a country the agency identified as suffering from political instability, kidnapping and violence. Yet the agency has expelled hundreds of Haitians, including young children and babies.

And though Nicaraguan activists repeatedly pleaded with CBP agents to be allowed to present evidence that they had been tortured by their government, they were expelled to Nicaragua and taken into police custody immediately upon arrival. One man on that flight reportedly ate five pages of the evidence he had brought to bolster his asylum case in the United States so that the Nicaraguan police wouldn’t find evidence he was against the government of President Daniel Ortega.

Furthermore, most Central American asylum seekers expelled to Mexico do not have legal status there, leaving them unable to work or access services, and vulnerable to detention and deportation by Mexican immigration authorities. Mexican immigration authorities often improperly return migrants to Central America even when they have expressed fear that they would suffer persecution there. 

The expulsions, which are carried out whether or not asylum seekers present themselves to border agents at ports of entry, may be unnecessarily driving asylum seekers to cross the border between ports. This has already had tragic and preventable consequences such as death by drowning or dehydration, or injury, as people cross in more remote and dangerous areas. Such outcomes threaten to continue until expulsions end, harms resulting from Trump-era policies are redressed, and access to asylum is restored. 

Migrants are also frequently targeted for crime in Mexico by criminal operatives, as well as Mexican authorities, particularly in border cities. Human Rights Watch has spoken with asylum-seeking children and adults in Tijuana, Ciudad Juarez, Nuevo Laredo, Reynosa, and Matamoros who described being sexually assaulted, abducted for ransom, extorted, robbed at gunpoint and subjected to other crimes. One organization has counted at least 1,544 reports of murder, torture, rape, kidnapping and other violent attacks against asylum seekers and migrants sent from the US to Mexico throughout the Trump administration.

The US government has even been expelling particularly vulnerable people such as migrants who are injured or ill, travelling with children, or pregnant.

Under the Biden administration, CBP has expelled pregnant women who were in labor, and under the Trump administration, it expelled women immediately after they gave birth, including to US citizen children.

The US has also expelled lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people, who are particularly vulnerable to violence.

Family Separation

Because the United States continues to expel families and adults, parents or caregivers who arrive at the border with children may be incentivized to make the painful choice to send their children to the United States alone while they remain on the Mexican side of the border because it is likely the best chance the child has at finding protection.

Children travelling with adult relatives other than their parents have been separated by border agents from those adults under both the Trump and Biden administrations. US officials have then expelled the adults, classifying the minors as unaccompanied and transferring them to a shelter in the United States.

It is not clear how many children classified as “unaccompanied minors” by CBP were initially accompanied but then separated from family members because the agency says it does not track such separations, but about 16 percent of the children interviewed by Immigrant Defenders Law Center in Los Angeles between December and March 24 traveled with family members who were subsequently expelled.

Can refugee rights be suspended during a pandemic?

The Convention against Torture and the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights (ICCPR), to which the United States is a party, prohibit expulsions or returns in circumstances where people would face a substantial risk of torture or, in the case of the ICCPR, exposure to other ill-treatment.

Also, under US law and the 1967 Protocol Relating to the Status of Refugees, to which the US is party, the United States may not return asylum seekers to face threats to their lives or freedom without affording them an opportunity to apply for asylum and conducting a full and fair examination of that claim.

The UN Refugee Agency (UNHCR) releasedguidance on March 16, 2020 calling for border measures relating to Covid-19 to be non-discriminatory, and limited to those necessary, proportionate, and reasonable to the aim of protecting public health. It further stated that a “blanket measure” barring asylum seekers at risk of refoulement—such as the US government’s expulsions of asylum seekers—is discriminatory and does not meet international standards. As UNHCR’s  assistant high commissioner for protection explained when she condemned expulsions of refugees and asylum seekers at borders in a statement focused on pushbacks from Europe: “[t]he right to seek asylum is a fundamental human right. The Covid-19 pandemic provides no exception.”

Why is Title 42 a racial justice issue?

Title 42 expulsions single out asylum seekers crossing into the United States at land borders—who are disproportionately Black, Indigenous, and Latino, particularly from Central America, Africa, and Haiti —for discriminatory treatment while thousands of other travelers are able to cross the border without any health screenings.

Indeed, the policy fulfills former President Trump’s expressed desire to stop providing protections for migrants from Haiti, El Salvador, and African countries, which he referred to as “shithole countries.” In the same meeting, he suggested the United States should instead try to bring more migrants from countries like Norway, a predominantly white country.

Under Title 42, Black, brown, and Indigenous asylum seekers are being expelled to the countries where they fled persecution and torture or sent to dangerous border regions of Mexico, where they face discrimination and violence. DHS has expelled over one thousand Haitian migrants, including asylum seekers, to Haiti despite an internal DHS report finding that they “may face harm upon return to Haiti” due to political instability and violence.

Though the Title 42 Order is perhaps the most egregious example of US public health officials misusing their authority to help create discriminatory immigration policies, the US has a long history of using public health as a front to restrict or block non-white immigrants and asylum seekers. 

In the last century, the US Public Health Service (PHS), of which the CDC today is a part, engaged in controversial and unethical experiments and forced treatment at the border that disproportionally targeted non-white immigrants and Black US citizens, based on “prevailing racial and class stereotypes.” 

White supremacist eugenicists and others in the anti-immigrant movement have long used the language of disease and contagion to refer to non-white immigrants in an effort to pass immigration laws that have sought to limit their arrival. 

For example, during the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the 1980s, the disease was unfairly associated with Haitian and African asylum seekers. The United States later amended immigration law to bar individuals who were HIV positive from immigrating to the United States. 

Immigration authorities cited public health concerns related to the spread of AIDS to explain why Haitian asylum seekers were detained for long periods of time at the US Naval Base at Guantanamo Bay, Cuba. The program was overseen by then-Attorney General William Barr, who later offered a defense of the policy that had nothing to do with public health: “You want 80,000 Haitians to descend on Florida several months before the election? Come on, give me a break.” 

Haitian asylum seekers are now once again being detained for several days or weeks in unsanitary and abusive conditions where they often lack translation services that would allow them to request medical treatment or asylum before being expelled from the United States.

Each day the Biden administration continues unlawful expulsions is another day it is enforcing racist immigration policies. After Biden took office, ICE told Haitian government officials to expect an increase in the number of deportation and expulsion flights. More Haitians were expelled in the first weeks of the Biden administration than during all of Fiscal Year 2020, according to a recent report co-authored by the Haitian Bridge Alliance, the UndocuBlack Network, and the Quixote Center. Since then, administration officials have made no commitments to reduce deportation and expulsion flights, despite concerns raised in numerous meetings with migrant rights groups, including Human Rights Watch.

How should the US be protecting public health with respect to asylum seekers?

Best practices rooted in scientific evidence and best public health practices include using personal protective equipment, frequent testing, and social distancing, and ensuring asylum seekers and migrants have adequate shelter where they can maintain social distance and access medical care, food, water, and other necessities. Most already have family or friends in the United States with whom they can safely shelter in place.

DHS should coordinate closely with shelter networks when releasing asylum seekers to ensure the transportation process is as safe and orderly as possible. Those community-based organizations, faith-based groups, and other nongovernmental organizations have been leading the way in humanitarian reception, providing simple responses to people in need—cooking food, providing access to medical care, and ensuring babies have diapers.

A coordinated approach with those existing networks and dedicating more federal resources for their use could harness these community initiatives to meet asylum seekers’ basic needs while their claims are processed.

The US government should respond to people arriving at the border in a fair, efficient, and rights-respecting manner that also protects public health by ending summary expulsion and return, building out a humanitarian reception system, implementing public health measures to limit the spread of Covid-19, providing sufficient resources and structural reforms to process asylum claims fairly and efficiently, and acting quickly to address border agency impunity.

USI to Lobby for Reopening of Gay Men’s Health Service – The University Times

The Union of Students in Ireland’s (USI) congress today mandated the union’s executive team to lobby for the reopening of the Gay Men’s Health Service (GMHS) and other sexual health services, and to lobby the Department of Health for increased resources to improve accessibility to sexual health services.

The GMHS – which is the only statutory sexual health service for gay men, bisexual men, men who have sex with men and transgender people in Ireland – was closed at the outset of the coronavirus pandemic in March, 2020 and its staff were redeployed to coronavirus test centres.

Speaking in favour of the motion, Luke Daly of the Technological University of Dublin Students’ Union (TUDSU) said: “We are now over a year into the closure of the GMHS, often a safe haven for my community. A specialised healthcare service which caters for people like many of us in this room.”

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“We are here, we are queer and unfortunately we are left without life saving services. This service understands us – this service saves our lives.”

“I just want you to take inventory that since we are over a year and HIV can take up to three months to show in effective testing, we have now missed four cycles of effective test and trace and treat systems within our communities.”

Also speaking in favour of the motion, USI Vice President for Welfare Maire Lyons said: “Today marks 368 days that the Gay Men’s Health Service has been closed, 386 days without any access to STI testing, no access to PEP or PREP, no access to HIV prevention, no access to vaccines and no access to counselling.”

“The reopening of this service is vital. Almost 12,000 gay and bisexual men and trans people availed of testing, treatment, vaccination and prevention service at this clinic last year. This issue is not going to go away anytime soon. We need to work with groups including ACT UP and many others in calling for specialised health services for the LGBTQ+ community across the island.”

USI congress – by the passing of the motion – expressed regret that when the Health Service Executive (HSE) piloted a programme for at home STI testing for chlamydia, gonorrhoea, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, syphilis and HIV, the “pilot programme was launched only in Cork, Kerry and Dublin and after a day of opening the programme it was temporarily halted after thousands of orders were placed for the kits.”

Hertha Berlin sack goalkeeping coach over controversial comments – DW (English)

Hertha Berlin have sacked goalkeeping coach Zsolt Petry with immediate effect after the Hungarian made controversial comments regarding immigration and homosexuality in a newspaper interview.

Speaking to the Magyar Nemzet daily on Easter Monday, Petry, 54, called the EU’s immigration policy the “moral downfall” of Europe, while also criticizing RB Leipzig goalkeeper Peter Gulacsi for his public support of same-sex marriage.

“I don’t know what led Peter to stand up for people with homosexual, transvestite and other gender identities,” said Petry of his compatriot Gulacsi, who took to Facebook in December to denounce a constitutional change that effectively banned adoption for LGBTQ couples in Hungary.

“If I were him, as an athlete, I would concentrate on football and not comment publicly on sociopolitical issues,” said Petry, who made 38 appearances for Hungary as a goalkeeper and was voted Hungarian player of the year in 1990.

Asked by the Magyar Nemzet if he sympathizes with conservative politics, Petry responded: “Absolutely. I don’t understand how Europe could sink so morally low; the immigration policy is an expression of moral downfall. Europe is a Christian continent. Let us continue to live by the national values we have learned over the years.”

“The liberals inflate any contrary opinions,” he continued. “When you don’t think migration is good, because criminals have overrun the continent, then they accuse you of being a racist.”

Comments ‘incompatible with the values of Hertha BSC’

On Tuesday, Hertha announced that, after intense investigation, they would be parting company with Petry, who has been at the club since 2015.

“We have always greatly appreciated Zsolt Petry’s work at Hertha BSC, and we have always found him to be open, tolerant and helpful. At no point has he ever acted in a homophobic or xenophobic manner,” Hertha CEO Carsten Schmidt said in a statement.

“But we have determined that the comments made are not compatible with the values of Hertha BSC.”

In the same statement, Petry insisted that he is “neither homophobic nor xenophobic” but accepted the decision.

“I regret my comments on immigration policy and would like to apologize to all those who seek refuge here and who I have offended,” Petry said.

The LGBTQ+ football fan network Queer Football Fanclubs (QFF) welcomed Hertha’s decision as a “good and correct step.”

Marc Schwitzky, the founder of the popular Hertha supporter website Hertha Base, opined on Twitter that Petry’s comments were “incompatible with the values of Hertha BSC.”

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Disclaimer: An earlier version of this story had the headline ‘Hertha sack goalkeeping coach over migration and homosexuality comments’

Mrinal Dutt to play gay character in ALTBalaji’s ‘His Storyy’ – Devdiscourse

Actor Mrinal Dutt is set to play a gay character in the upcoming series ”His Storyy”.

Described as an urban relationship drama, the show is scheduled to start streaming on ALTBalaji and ZEE5 Premium from April 25. The series, backed by Ding Entertainment, also stars Satyadeep Mishra and Priyamani Raj, who will be seen in the role of Kunal and Sakshi, a married couple. Dutt, who was recently seen in director Arati Kadav’s short film ”55km/sec” co-starring Richa Chadha, is playing the character of Preet, a food critic and a traveller.

”Their lives will intertwine when Sakshi calls Preet for her restaurant opening, not knowing that her perfect family is about to go for a toss with unexpected turn of events,” the synopsis read. Dutt said ”His Storyy” is a show that puts spotlight on issues which are perhaps ignored by the mainstream. ”Thanks to shows like these, we have an opportunity to raise our voice or raise questions at least. With such stories taking a centre stage, there is a lot to say. I am equally excited and intrigued to see how the show will be received,” the actor said in a statement. Producer Ekta Kapoor also took to Instagram and shared the show’s first teaser. ”After living a ‘happily married life’ for over 20 years, Sakshi and Kunal’s marriage comes crumbling down after a hidden truth changes everything.

”Show streaming 25th April on @altbalaji and @Zee5premium,” Kapoor wrote.

(This story has not been edited by Devdiscourse staff and is auto-generated from a syndicated feed.)

Legacy for the future? Japan urged to outlaw LGBT+ discrimination before Olympics – Reuters

(Thomson Reuters Foundation) – As sports fans count down to the start of the Tokyo Olympics in July, the eyes of LGBT+ activists are firmly focused on Japan’s parliament, with the goal of using the global spotlight to end discrimination against gay, bisexual and transgender people.

More than 100,000 people have signed a petition calling on the government to pass an LGBT+ equality law before the Games open on July 23 to honour its key themes of celebrating ‘unity in diversity’ and ‘passing on legacy for the future’.

“We have seen through history the power of the Olympics to mobilize athletes and fans to speak out for what they believe in,” said Hudson Taylor, founder of Athlete Ally, a U.S.-based advocacy group backing the petition.

“Sport teaches us that we are stronger when we stand together, and now is the time for the global sport community to stand in solidarity with the LGBT community in Japan.”

Taylor pointed to African-American athletes Tommie Smith and John Carlos who were sent home from the 1968 Olympic Games for their raised-fist protest against racism on the podium, and the 2014 Winter Olympics protests against Russia’s anti-gay laws.

Apart from a spell in the 1870s, gay sex has never been illegal in Japan. Yet in a race to modernise over the last century, LGBT+ rights were largely swept under the carpet in a culture with strong family-centric attitudes, activists say.

Being openly gay remains largely taboo although acceptance of homosexuality in Japan rose to 68% in 2019 from 54% in 2002, a poll by the U.S.-based Pew Research Center found.

Taiwan became the first place in Asia to legalise same-sex marriages in 2019.

RECORD INFECTIONS

LGBT+ campaigners won a symbolic victory last month when a Japanese court ruled that not allowing same-sex couples to marry was “unconstitutional”, although the gay couples who brought the case lost their claim for damages for being unable to wed.

“(The ruling) is an encouraging boost to many same-sex couples,” Suki Chung, regional campaigner at Amnesty International, told the Thomson Reuters Foundation.

“But considering their current difficulties in dealing with the pandemic and the arrangements for the Summer Olympics, I do not foresee that the Japanese government will introduce legislation to allow marriage equality … before the Games.”

International spectators have been barred from the Olympics, which were postponed last year due to the COVID-19 pandemic, and participants must wear masks at all times except when eating, sleeping or outdoors in a drastically scaled-back event.

Health authorities in Japan fear that variants of the new coronavirus are driving a fourth wave of the pandemic. Olympic Torch relay events have been cancelled in Osaka, where the government has declared an emergency due to record infections.

A bill to legalise same-sex marriages was brought to Japan’s parliament by opposition parties in 2019 but failed to progress after it was unable to win the backing of conservative lawmakers in the ruling Liberal Democratic Party (LDP).

NEXT GENERATION

Athletes and activists have spoken out in support of an equality law ahead of the Games, highlighting that the governing Olympic Charter bans “discrimination of any kind”, including on the grounds of sexual orientation.

Fumino Sugiyama, a transgender activist and former fencer on Japan’s national women’s team, has called on athletes worldwide to push for change, adding that many Japanese LGBT+ sportsmen and women are scared to come out as they fear discrimination.

“The Olympics is only a start of something. We have to push and create new laws like the anti-discrimination law,” Sugiyama told the Human Rights Watch website.

“We can’t look back and say: ‘Oh there was a big party, but nothing changed.’ What we leave to the next generation is what’s important.”

Shiho Shimoyamada, Japan’s only openly-gay athlete who plays for women’s football club Sfida Setagaya FC and used to be a midfielder with Germany’s SV Mappen, is also backing reform.

“I believe that the sports world has the potential to create a society that recognises, accepts, and respects differences,” she said on the Athlete Ally website.

Despite the opportunity brought by the Olympics, analysts believe Prime Minister Yoshihide Suga is unlikely to push for reform before parliament closes in June.

Gon Matsunaka, director of Marriage for All Japan, said the lobby group is already looking to the October elections for the House of Representatives, or lower house.

“Marriage equality and LGBTQ-related laws will be a big issue for voters,” he said.

Reporting by Michael Taylor @MickSTaylor; Editing by Katy Migiro and Hugo Greenhalgh. Please credit the Thomson Reuters Foundation, the charitable arm of Thomson Reuters, that covers the lives of people around the world who struggle to live freely or fairly. Visit news.trust.org

More Contagious Covid Variant Is Now Dominant in U.S., C.D.C. Says – The New York Times

Scientists hope that vaccination will blunt any potential fourth surge.

On Tuesday, President Biden moved up his vaccination timetable by two weeks, calling states to make every American adult eligible by April 19. All states have already met or expect to beat this goal after he initially asked that they do so by May 1.

The B.1.1.7 variant first arrived in the United States last year. In February, a study that analyzed half a million coronavirus tests and hundreds of genomes predicted that this variant could become predominant in the country in a month. At that time, the C.D.C. was struggling to sequence the new variants, which made it difficult to track them.

But those efforts have substantially improved in recent weeks and will continue to grow, in large part because of $1.75 billion in funds for genomic sequencing in the stimulus package that Mr. Biden signed into law last month. By contrast, Britain, which has a more centralized health care system, began a highly promoted sequencing program last year that allowed it to track the spread of the B.1.1.7 variant.

“We knew this was going to happen: This variant is a lot more transmissible, much more infectious than the parent strain, and that obviously has implications,” said Dr. Carlos del Rio, a professor of medicine and an infectious disease expert at Emory University. In addition to spreading more efficiently, he said, the B.1.1.7 strain appears to cause more severe disease, “so that gives you a double whammy.”

Perhaps even more troubling is the emergence of the virulent P.1 variant in North America. First identified in Brazil, it has become the dominant variant in that country, helping to drive its hospitals to the breaking point. In Canada, the P.1 variant emerged as a cluster in Ontario, then shut down the Whistler ski resort in British Columbia. On Wednesday, the National Hockey League’s Vancouver Canucks said at least 21 players and four staff members had been infected with the coronavirus.

“This is a stark reminder of how quickly the virus can spread and its serious impact, even among healthy, young athletes,” the team’s doctor, Jim Bovard, said in a statement.

Warriors gay COO Welts to retire – Bay Area Reporter, America’s highest circulation LGBT newspaper

Rick Welts, the gay president and chief operating officer of the Golden State Warriors, will step away from the organization at the end of the 2020-21 season, he and the team announced April 8.

The team noted in a news release that Welts guided the NBA franchise to one of the most successful decades in NBA history from a business operations perspective.

Welts has been a member of the NBA for nearly five decades, including this most recent stint with the Warriors, which began in 2011, several months after he publicly came out as gay in a New York Times article while serving as president and CEO of the Phoenix Suns. He became the highest-ranking executive in men’s professional sports to come out.

Welts had resigned from the Suns in early September 2011 in order to move to northern California to be closer to his partner, Todd Gage of Sacramento. Back then, he told the Bay Area Reporter that the single biggest fear he had previously about speaking out publicly about his sexuality was that he would never be able to land another job in the sport he loves. But instead of becoming a pariah, he received a call from Warriors managing partners Joe Lacob and Peter Guber, who had been retooling the Warriors since buying into the team.

Welts, 68, married Gage in a January 2020 ceremony in San Francisco City Hall, with Mayor London Breed presiding.

Currently in his 10th season with Golden State, Welts has spent 46 seasons overall in the NBA, including roles with three teams — the Warriors, Suns, and Seattle SuperSonics (now the Oklahoma City Thunder) — and the NBA league office. He was inducted into the Naismith Memorial Basketball Hall of Fame in 2018, the crowning achievement in a career filled with numerous accolades.

Welts will remain associated with the organization as an adviser. The Warriors are expected to name a new president within the next week.

“This has been the ride of a lifetime,” Welts stated. “To have had a front row seat to the growth of the NBA from where it was in the late 1960s to its place today as one of the most respected and successful leagues in sports on a global stage has been an incredible privilege. The first day I met Joe Lacob and Peter Guber, I wanted to be a part of building what I knew could be a special organization. We have the most talented staff in the industry, and we are poised for even greater success in the future. Personally, I am excited for my own next chapter.

“When Joe, Peter and I agreed on the timing of this announcement two years ago, we didn’t have a pandemic on our radar screen,” he added. “As it turns out, now that we can look forward to welcoming fans back safely to Chase Center, and we have a realistic hope for a return to ‘business as usual’ for next season, this timing feels perfect.”

The state recently announced new guidelines for indoor-seated live events beginning April 15.

Lacob, co-executive chairman and CEO, recalled the day Welts was introduced to the media.

“On that day, he noted the Warriors franchise was always viewed as a sleeping giant that could be very successful if it ever got into the right hands,” he stated. “Well, there were no better hands than those of Rick Welts, and his intuition proved to be spot-on as his leadership, vision, creativity and relationship-building enabled us to reach heights never seen before in the NBA on the business side. We thank him for his incredible contributions to our franchise and, more importantly, the class and character with which he represented our organization each day.”

Under Welts’ direction, the Warriors established several franchise benchmarks from a business standpoint, as the team’s brand grew in stature following five consecutive appearances in the NBA Finals and three NBA championships (2015, 2017, 2018). The organization earned numerous accolades across all facets of the business, including being named “Franchise of the Decade” among all professional sports teams by Sports Business Journal in 2019. Additionally, the Warriors became the first professional team to win Sports Business Journal’s “Sports Team of the Year” award on multiple occasions under Welts (2014 and 2016).

“Much like a movie needs a well-placed and perfectly-aligned star to make it successful, you need to find the right person to lead an organization to prominence,” said Guber, the co-executive chairman of the Warriors. “Fortunately, we found that 10 years ago in Rick Welts. His hiring was one of the most important decisions Joe and I have made since purchasing the Warriors. The ability he demonstrated to navigate any situation with precision and grace—from building a new arena to dealing with a pandemic—is unparalleled. He wrote an incredible script and played the role to perfection. We will be indebted to him forever.”

During this time, Welts oversaw the completion of the Warriors’ state-of-the-art new arena, Chase Center, in San Francisco’s Mission Bay neighborhood, which opened its doors in September 2019. A year after its opening, Chase Center was named Sports Facility of the Year by Sports Business Journal and has received numerous distinctions and industry awards.

Welts began his NBA career as a ballboy with the SuperSonics in 1969 at the age of 16 and, a decade later, was a part of the franchise’s lone NBA championship in 1979 as its public relations director. During his 17 years with the NBA league office in New York (1982-99), he filled many vital roles and eventually rose to executive vice president, chief marketing officer and president of NBA Properties. Welts’ notable accomplishments with the league included the creation of NBA All-Star Weekend in 1984 and the marketing program for USA Basketball’s Olympic “Dream Team” in 1992. Along with Val Ackerman, he was named “Marketer of the Year” by Brandweek in 1998 for his role in launching the WNBA.

A native of Seattle, Welts was selected to deliver the commencement address to his alma mater, the University of Washington, in 2019. He owns the rare distinction of being part of championship teams in the NBA (4), WNBA (2) and the NBA G League (1). Additionally, his teams made a total of seven NBA Finals appearances.

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How Does Kourtney Kardashian Know Addison Rae? Inside Their Friendship – Us Weekly

Going strong! Kourtney Kardashian’s own family may question her friendship with Addison Rae, but the pair’s bond seems stronger than ever.

The TikTok star met the oldest Kardashian-Jenner sister in March 2020 through mutual friend David Dobrik, who was helping Kardashian’s son Mason get an account started on the popular app. “We surprised Mason, because Mason liked my videos on TikTok,” Rae told “The Tom Ward Show” in July 2020. “I kind of just stuck around and we got really close. We started working out together.”

One such workout became an instructional Poosh video that’s racked up more than 4.7 million views. The BFFs have since popped up in each other’s TikToks and Instagram photos.

In July 2020, Rae told Us Weekly that hanging out with the Kardashian family has taught her to be “thankful” for her success. “The advice I have gotten from hanging around people who have spent time in the spotlight is to always be humble and grateful for all that I am given because I am in a really fortunate position,” she said. “I’m truly thankful for the platform my followers have given me.”

Though the reality star seems to have a ton of fun with her younger friend, some critics have wondered why the mother of three has been spending so much time with a woman more than 20 years her junior. When one Instagram follower commented, “She’s 41 and hanging around with 19 year olds in swimming pools,” the Poosh founder replied, “Do you suggest a better place? I’m looking for ideas …”

In the April 8, 2021, episode of Keeping Up With the Kardashians, Kourtney’s own sisters turned to Mason, who is 9 years younger than Rae, to find out what was going on between the friends. When Kim Kardashian asked him which room Rae sleeps in during her visits, Mason replied, “My mom’s.” Kim added that her sister is “not really like this with her other girlfriends.”

The sisters also invited Rae over for lunch without Kourtney to “get to the bottom” of the friendship, as Khloé Kardashian put it. After the family jokingly grilled her about her credit score, arrest record and blood type, Kim chimed in to say that everyone thought they might have been hooking up. “No, we’re not,” the TikToker replied. “No, but it’s just very weird that that’s what the impression was.”

In September 2020, the Louisiana native discussed the relationship with Entertainment Tonight. “I feel like friendships can range from any age and I feel like everyone can relate to people in different ways,” she said at the time. “Kourtney and I just happen to have a great friendship, which is really fun. She’s been a great person to have in my life. She said in my YouTube video that I had great energy that she liked to be around. I think she has great energy as well, and she has so much experience in her life that I can really just look at and kind of learn from.”

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Why TikTok videos about gay people being illegal are wrong: experts – Insider

  • Queer TikTok users are pointing out which countries have yet to legalize same-sex marriage.
  • The new trend has gotten criticism from queer TikTokers who say it is ahistorical and racist.
  • Experts say using same-sex marriage as a gauge for attitudes towards queer people abroad is inaccurate.
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In the last few weeks, LGBTQ TikTok users have posted videos labeling some nations as homophobic — and others as progressive — based on the legal status of gay marriage in the country.

The videos showcase queer people, moving to the beat of Yakko’s “Nations of the World,” standing under two banners. One that reads  “countries where gay marriage is legal” and another that reads “countries where gay marriage is illegal.” 

Though gay marriage has long been considered the barometer for evaluating a country’s attitudes towards queer people, experts say it doesn’t accurately gauge the daily lives of LGBTQ people. 

For example in the US, gay marriage is legal but there are anti-LGBTQ bills being voted on across the country, including limitations to queer adoption.

“Anyone who uses same-sex marriage as the only metric is missing the full picture of LGBTQ people’s lives,” Jean Freedberg, Human Rights Campaign Director of Global Partnerships, told Insider. 

Continuing, “There are many rights that the LGBTQ community is fighting for every day in every country in order to be able to live our lives as who we are, free from violence and discrimination.”

Gay marriage rights don’t guarantee safety for queer people

Freedberg told Insider the legalization of same-sex marriage doesn’t necessarily mean queer and trans people are treated fairly. 

In the United States, queer people have been able to get legally married since 2015, but they weren’t legally protected from workplace discrimination until recently. Currently, trans people are facing an unprecedented onslaught of legislative attacks across 28 US states as well as increased rates of violence, particularly towards trans women of color. 

While gay marriage is not recognized in Thailand, trans people have been able to access gender-affirming procedures since 1975, and the country is seen as a global destination for gender-affirming surgeries. 

“We have to look holistically at the specifics of each country and each LGBTQ community, and gauge what legal rights that community has – or does not have – and how those protect them from the social, cultural, religious, economic exclusion that they face,” Freedberg told Insider. 

In some countries, societal homophobia can be linked to colonization

Many of the countries called out in the TikTok videos for their antiquated LGBTQ marriage policies are located in the Global South. Countries like India, Peru, and Botswana have legacies of homophobia and transphobia tied to their colonization history.

For example, Professor Ruth Vanita, an expert on Gender and Sexuality Studies at the University of Montana, told Insider same-sex relationships were not seen as abnormal in India prior to British colonization. 

“Before full-fledged colonization began, with Queen Victoria taking over the rule of India in 1857, same-sex sexuality was openly practiced and openly written about by many people, including rulers, courtiers, poets, courtesans, and ordinary people,” Vanita told Insider.  

According to Vanita, Britain passed anti-sodomy laws in colonized countries across the globe as a means of outlawing queerness and imposing Christian colonial values. 

“The same anti-sodomy law, in almost the same words, was introduced into all colonized countries, from America and Canada, to India, Pakistan, Malaysia, etc,” Vanita said.

“Apart from India, Nepal, and Thailand, very few countries in Asia and Africa have gotten rid of this law. In fact, most of their leaders and people mistakenly believe that the law springs from their indigenous cultures.” 

In addition to same-sex relationships, indigenous cultures outside of the west, like Quariwarmi in Peru or Hijra of India, recognized genders outside of the western binary prior to colonization. 

Tickles2900, a TikTok user with 2,375 followers, posted a video pointing out the irony of queer people from Western nations trivializing homophobia in formerly colonized nations. The video, which has amassed 26,600 likes, was even shared by “Pose” star Angelica Love Ross

“These countries were not always like this, they had their own culture, traditions, and ideas on gender and sexuality but the west came into them, stole their resources, destabilized them, forced Christianity onto them, and left,” Tickles2900 said. 

“These queer people that you’re mocking are suffering the consequences of actions that the west – the west that you are so proud to be legal in – took.” 

TikTok creators living in countries where gay marriage is banned want to speak for themselves

Some creators from countries where same-sex marriage is not legal have used the trend to raise awareness about the fight for marriage equality abroad. 

What many creators, like Batcavefreak, take issue with is the trend being used by queer people in the US to casually mention they would be “illegal” in certain countries, without taking into consideration what that means for queer people who actually live there. 

“Still illegal in my country, and it’s frustrating,” wrote one TikTok user from Kenya. “The ‘I’m illegal in 72 countries’ jokes come off as insensitive when it’s an actual lived experience that we’re having to fight against every single day.”

Discothem, a TikTok creator from India, responded to the trend in multiple videos, only to have their content deleted for bullying.

“As somebody that’s from a country that only recently decriminalized homosexuality and in which same-sex marriage is still not legal, I feel really frustrated when I see these videos by white gay Americans because they don’t get it,” they said in their most recent TikTok. 

“They don’t know what I go through on a day-to-day basis.”

Vanita said while some countries have homophobia imposed by extreme religious groups, like the Taliban, many formerly colonized countries have held on to anti-LGBTQ laws and sentiments — like those banning sodomy.

“In colonized countries in Africa and other parts of Asia (both Christian-majority and Muslim-majority countries), such as Malaysia and Indonesia, where there was no such law before colonialism, we now see an unfortunate and ironic governmental and popular embrace of the law as moral and as representing their own cultures,” Vanita said. 

MTV’s The Real World Homecoming: Normal Korpi on Being Gay on TV, Life After New York, and Reuniting – Esquire

The Real World: Homecoming is, you have to trust me here, must-see television. It’s a reunion of the original seven season-one strangers of MTV’s The Real World, now hovering around fifty and sent back to the iconic Soho loft where they redefined television drama twenty-nine years ago. And while it began as the pleasant diversion you would imagine it to be– a meditation on middle age, a nostalgic catch-up with long-lost friends you’ve never actually met–it has quickly become Culturally Important. Kevin’s words from 1992, his patient explanations of his lived experience which got him labeled an angry Black man, are now the accepted truth of the Black male experience, while Becky, with whom he sparred in season one, still refuses to acknowledge her own privilege. Meanwhile, innocent Julie has emerged as a kick-ass anti-racist, Heather is on-air all day long at SiriusXM, Andre is a cool dad in Echo Park, and Eric is a natural healer who has nevertheless contracted Covid-19 and has to attend the reunion via FaceTime from a nearby hotel. It is wild.

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Norman Korpi, Andre Comeau, Julie Oliver, Rebecca Blasband, Heather B., Eric Nies and Kevin Powell at the 1992 MTV VMAs.

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And then there’s Norman Korpi, the sweet queer artist who didn’t get much screen time in season one, despite being the first openly-gay-from-the-start television personality. In Homecoming, he gets mighty real: he addresses the homophobia that got him shunned by hometown friends after the show aired, the internalized homophobia that got him shunned by the gay community, and the financial calamity that faces an artist in a year when galleries are closed. Norman has emerged as a star, and a legitimate gay icon. In preparation for tonight’s season finale, I spoke to him about his Real World experiences then and now, his current life in small-town Michigan, and his invention: the A Stand adaptive laptop desk, currently sold out online. He’s real and polite, and he coins at least three brand-new expressions which I am going to steal immediately.

Esquire: Norman, congratulations on Homecoming. I’ve seen all but the final episode and I’m telling you, it’s outstanding television.

Norman: I know. I was telling people early on, when we were doing interviews: “Look, this is not a normal reunion show, this is an entirely new, evolved thing that’s occurring, and it’s probably more interesting if you interview us later on down the line.”

I don’t know if you can say, but where do things stand for all of you now? Have you all spoken since?

Yes, we’re all in communication. I’m really happy that Becky has reached back out to me because everything was so rocky. I mean, you go through the experience, and then you also go through the experience of what people are seeing on TV, which is still a limited part. But I’m really glad that she’s standing where she’s standing. She’s saying things like “I can see your point, and I can see everybody’s point.” I’m not sure if Kevin is watching everything, but I’m definitely in contact, and I’m super supportive of everything that’s going on. It’s a lot to take when you have your life being put back on the screen again. You’ve been quiet and dormant for so many years, then all of a sudden, you’re back. And now with social media and so many people having so much more access to us than ever before, it’s really kind of a trip.

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It’s got to be. I really wanted to talk about what you’ve discussed in the show, because it’s true, you really were the first from-the-jump openly queer person on TV.

Right? I have to thank the producers so much. There aren’t many times in history when you can actually go back and talk about something that had happened, especially with the people that brought you there in the first place. I always felt like a little bit of a Frankenstein back then. There wasn’t a lot of community, like maybe none. Today, you’d have so much more outreach and so many more ways to connect to people. It was really toxic back then. It was like a death sentence if you were openly gay in any capacity out there. If you had a gay character, I believe the movie rating would be an immediate R back in that year. It was like saying the word “fuck.” That’s how crazy it was.

So, trying to educate people who were interviewing me who weren’t gay, I would kind of give them the full history, like, I had sex with women in high school. As for who I was and what my identity was at that point, I definitely was gay, but trying to describe that was pretty hard at the beginning. When I was described as bisexual, because I had slept with women, that wasn’t my current identity.

It’s hard to describe that world to people today, when people are more comfortable with sexual and gender fluidity. I think by the time we got to Pedro, we had made such strides. So much changed in the world, the community got bigger, there were many more people to rely on than when I stepped out on stage.

Everyone’s evolution on whatever they decide to call themselves is different. It’s not unheard-of for a gay man to have a phase where he identifies as bisexual, you just happen to have had yours on camera.

Yeah.

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“It’s hard to describe that world to people today, when people are more comfortable with sexual and gender fluidity.”

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After the show was over, did you feel support from the gay community?

No. I mean, going into this, I had been one of the first 20 members of ACT UP. That group had been generated from one of my professors, Douglas Crimp, who was one of the founders, with Larry Kramer. They would have meetings at the Cooper Union where I went to college, so my professor brought us all into it. We’d lost so many students, and we were a very small student body at Cooper Union.

I knew a lot of the people that became the founders of Out Magazine, people who became prominent in GLAAD, people who went on to do all these great things. And they knew me too, so when they heard “bisexual” being thrown out, they were just like, “well, we know Norm, he’s gay.” They were very upset, like they thought I wasn’t proud enough to be gay. I had a hard time with a lot of those people in those first years, because it was so important to find someone that says “I am gay.” And they were like, “He’s cowering. He’s not saying that he’s fully gay, he’s bisexual.” A lot of the people I really needed the most, who I really respected the most, turned their back on me.

I was hoping to help them. I was making a bridge to a wider audience. MTV was going to reach an audience that they couldn’t even touch, honestly. They didn’t have the capacity to reach 144 countries, and to reach out to straight allies who weren’t in an urban gay ghetto talking only to themselves. This was really going to create a bridge that was ultimately going to help them, so it was kind of saddening.

“A lot of people just belittled us, like you don’t have any talents.”

Then they belittle reality television, you know? A lot of people just belittled us, like you don’t have any talents. They tried to shrink and diminish our impact, yet they didn’t realize our impact was much bigger. When you have a disruptor come along, they don’t think you are as powerful as you are, and then all of a sudden you’re YouTube.

I look back at the series and I am just so proud of what has happened over these years. And I walked the streets, I traveled. We didn’t have money like the Kardashians, we didn’t launch a vodka line that’s worth a hundred million dollars or whatever. We were in the public, so we knew from engaging the public how the public was changing. I could see that firsthand, you know, and it was pretty impressive.

It feels to me still like the queer community is not great at supporting queer people. Straight allies we tend to give a lot of credit to, but up and coming young queer people, we’re still not great at supporting.

You do see other marginalized groups that rally around and recognize, like, “this person did something for the women’s cause,” or “she did something for people of color,” or whatever. It’s still kind of…quandary-like. It’s very odd. I don’t ever see myself on the list of a hundred great gay people, like some are. It’s hit or miss with me. I just know what I did to change a lot of straight people’s lives, to get them to accept their gay brothers and sisters, to start to address them as the people that are going to vote for us. That became even more important to me, that reaching out that occurred.

Season one aired when I was in college, and a moment that they’ve replayed a bunch of times in The Real World: Homecoming is you and Becky. She says, “I didn’t meet any cute boys tonight,” and you say, “I didn’t either.” That quick thing was so significant for a young gay kid because it wasn’t played for laughs. It was just like, Here are two people just being, and not having to explain themselves, and not being made the butt of the joke. It was small, but really significant.

I’m glad you pointed that out, because I was in Tower Records when they ran that as a promo clip. And it was almost like I watched a shockwave, like someone had said “fuck” on television. I just watched all these eyes just go big, like did you hear that? It’s so hard to describe that part of the world that’s no longer there. But that was the genius thing: it wasn’t coming out there with a trumpet. I could’ve come out there with my ACT UP stuff and I could have really just rammed it down people’s throats, but I just really felt we’ve been going so long, watching people die and trying to get people to support us.

The only thing that I could really think that was equivalent is Robert Mapplethorpe. I knew Robert Mapplethorpe, because I was very active in the community, and I’ve worked for a lot of big galleries. But that’s what America was getting: Jesse Helms up against Robert Mapplethorpe and his very explicit gay images. And his work is amazing, but that’s what was coming out. You know you’re going to get the tulips and you’re going to get a whip in somebody’s ass. So I was like, Someone’s going to counterbalance that. Someone’s going to come up with the Ozzie and Harriet for ‘90s America, so the rest of the world can say, “okay, there’s a lot of different people in this community.” There was a lot of risk, no one was really coming out. But I did feel safe in the gay community of New York and what was happening there. I figured whatever happens, I can always stay in the island of Manhattan, regardless of how the show comes out.

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Now you’re back in Michigan. How is being home different than it was before New York?

I came from a really special Italian, Sicilian family, very creative people, very loud and boisterous. My grandmother was the matriarch of the family, and I was the apple of her eye. We were thick as thieves. She ran a bar, all of 4’1” and she’d throw people out. But Michigan, it was difficult for me. I went through a really tough patch in middle school and high school, which led me to leave there. I went to a boarding school in Michigan called Interlochen Arts Academy, a big arts super high school, graduates like Alicia Keys and Jewel and Josh Groban and all of those characters. That really was very helpful for me to find my way into a creative resource growing up. You know, it’s kind of funny, we had a mock prom in 1983, two guys ran for king and queen, and they won. So it was very different to go from the public school into the boarding school. I got to see people like that and everyone usually went off to New York City afterwards, so I was like, “you know, there’s a place for me.”

How has the experience been with Homecoming? Are you happy with how it all came out?

I think I am, yeah. They’ve really done an incredible job. The original show was 22 minutes an episode, so I’m really surprised to see that it went to 40 minutes. I didn’t know they’d do that. So it seems like the storytelling is a lot more rounded, they’re giving you another bend in the curve. I could never quite tell in the first season, was my story too advanced, and that’s why I was in the background? I heard that a lot when the first season aired: he seems interesting, why’s he always in the background? It always seemed like the cameras would go wherever Eric was, but then as I got older I realized: they just didn’t have the money. They only had like one or two camera crews and they could barely afford their own food. When you’re older and you come back, you get to hear more of the producers’ story and what they were up against trying to get this thing on the air.

On our backs, they’ve been able to make so many shows and bring so many stories to light. There are probably over 200 people who have been on this Real World/Road Rules train. And they’ve brought so many stories, transgender stories, gay people in the military stories, I mean, it’s just outstanding what this show has been able to bring to the people. I think we really just get underlooked so much, people say that was scripted or they’re narcissistic. No, there was something more than narcissism that drew me to this experience.

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“People say that was scripted or they’re narcissistic. No, there was something more than narcissism that drew me to this experience.”

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Especially back then, if you were offered an opportunity like this, why wouldn’t you take it? You couldn’t possibly have known what it would be.

You know, I just knew that there were so many people that were dying and they didn’t have a voice. And I wasn’t like an Elton John or somebody who had entire teams telling them to stay in the closet or we will lose money. I do remember a conversation with the producers, about the liability section of the contract: I was worried that once they started telling my story, that if let’s say The Rolling Stones’ music was playing in the background, that I would be liable. Back then, if people saw something that was gay, they’d all laugh and smirk and say something awful and it could brand that artist’s music horribly and then I could be liable for it. So if you put some Dire Straits song and I’m in the scene and everyone’s like, “Oh my God, that Dire Straits song makes me think of a gay person,” and then Dire Straits gets upset, it falls on my lap. And I looked at that contract, I’m like, “You’ve got to change that around. I don’t have control of your edit.” That was the world we lived in.

God. Well, on a happier note, I see the A Stands are sold out.

What insanity that is. They’re still actually kind of stuck over in China. I have another 180 of them that are sitting in a warehouse there. I did an initial run of 5,000. They cost quite a penny just to do the initial run. And I own the molds and own all that stuff. But it’s been really hard to connect with this to the public, during a pandemic and the whole bit. But once people did connect with it, wham, they bought up everything that I had on Amazon, and then they started moving to the website, and then it was just popping off. I had like 80 of them in storage in California and I’m in Michigan, so I’m calling my partner, like, “Get up, go ship them to people.” He’s like “What?” And I’m like “They’re selling!”

So do you have any plans to come back to California?

Oh, absolutely. My business partner and I have everything operating out of his place in Rancho Mirage. I just need my COVID shots, and then I’ll fly in and discuss. We are on the books to do another iteration of the A Stand. Plus I have my paintings and my stuff scattered to at least 12 different people’s homes.

My plan for my future is I’m going to split my time between Michigan and the high desert, because I just love that whole arts community. I’ve done stuff with the arts project that’s out of the Bombay Beach. You know, I was in the first Burning Man, I knew all the people in the beginning of Burning Man. In California I drive people places that they have no idea about. I’m like, “You’ve never been to Deep Creek Hot Springs? We’re going.” I always invite people from San Francisco who poo on LA, and I’m like, “I’m just going to bring you to these three places that will have your mouth drop out of your mouth,” you know?

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