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The overlooked Latino history in the LGBTQ struggle for equal rights – Yahoo News

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Pride Month is celebrated every June to commemorate the 1969 Stonewall Uprising in New York City, considered the start of the modern LGBTQ civil rights movement. But generally overlooked is the Latino connection to LGBTQ history, which started 10 years earlier.

Why it matters: Mexican Americans and Puerto Ricans played key roles in demonstrations around the country that started as early as 1959 and often resulted in clashes with police.

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Details: Mexican American writer John Rechy took part in the largely forgotten 1959 Cooper’s Donuts Riot in Los Angeles — 10 years before Stonewall and on the other side of the country.

  • The uprising began after police tried to arrest El Paso, Texas-born Rechy and other LGBTQ patrons just for hanging out in Cooper’s Donuts, a popular gay meeting place.

  • Transgender women, however, began pelting officers with donuts, coffee and plates until the officers retreated. More officers returned for an encounter historians say was one of the first modern LGBTQ uprisings in U.S. history.

  • Rechy would write about the episode in his 1963 novel, “City of Night,” which became a classic in gay literature, earning praise from writer James Baldwin and inspiring “L.A. Woman” lyrics by The Doors.

Sylvia Rivera, a Puerto Rican/Venezuelan American transgender woman, co-founded the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries (STAR) with Marsha P. Johnson shortly after the Stonewall Uprising.

  • She is sometimes credited with throwing one of the first bottles at police during Stonewall, though some historians have disputed that and say other Hispanic transgender people were involved.

  • Rivera helped link the Puerto Rican radical group Young Lords to LGBTQ liberation. She advocated for transgender rights until her death in 2002.

Context: To commemorate the 50th anniversary of Stonewall, New York City announced Rivera would be immortalized with a monument near the Stonewall Inn.

Don’t forget: The National Association for Chicana and Chicano Studies filed an amicus brief to fight an anti-gay law in Colorado in 1994. The case went to the Supreme Court and the law was tossed.

But: In 2019, college students of the historic group Movimiento Estudiantil Chicanx de Aztlan (Chicano Student Movement of Aztlan), or MEChA, voted to drop the word “Chicano” from its name, arguing that some members of the 1970s Chicano Movement were homophobic.

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Sex therapist’s ouster from Latter-day Saints membership stirs worries of shame culture – St. George Daily Spectrum

Natasha Helfer poses for a portrait, Monday, June 7, 2021, in Holladay, Utah. A decision by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to kick out Helfer, a sex therapist who had publicly challenged the faith's policies on sexuality, has triggered concerns from mental health professionals. They fear the move will further embolden a culture of shame that stops church members from seeking help. (AP Photo/Rick Bowmer)

SALT LAKE CITY (AP) — Sex therapist Lisa Butterworth has long been willing to delve into sensitive sexuality questions with clients who belong to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They seek her out to have open and frank conversations about the faith’s strict rules.

But after seeing another prominent sex therapist she considers a close friend and colleague recently kicked out of the church, Butterworth is worried fewer church members will seek help in fear of being reprimanded.

Butterworth, a church member living in Idaho, is among a contingent of mental health professionals who fear Natasha Helfer’s ouster will further embolden a culture of shame. She wrote a letter condemning the decision that’s been signed by over 800 mental health professionals.

Helfer was excommunicated and lost her appeal last month to remain in the faith known widely as the Mormon church — a move critics say reflects the church doubling down on some of its more conservative views on sexuality. The Salt Lake City-based church has cited comments she made in support of removing the stigma around pornography, masturbation and same-sex marriage, saying that contradicts church teachings.

Such an ouster is rare and is the harshest punishment available for a member of the faith like Helfer, who had cultivated a national reputation of pushing for mental health advocacy among church members. The majority of her patients come from a Latter-day Saint background, and many are mixed-faith couples in which one person belongs to the church and another has left.

Natasha Helfer poses for a portrait, Monday, June 7, 2021, in Holladay, Utah. A decision by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to kick out Helfer, a sex therapist who had publicly challenged the faith's policies on sexuality, has triggered concerns from mental health professionals. They fear the move will further embolden a culture of shame that stops church members from seeking help. (AP Photo/Rick Bowmer)

Lauren Rogers, who was raised in the church, started a petition urging the church to reverse the decision and organized a protest outside its Salt Lake City headquarters. She said she wanted to fight for Helfer after her brother was excommunicated in 2015 for sharing his experience as a gay church member online.

“I wanted to make up for not being there for (my brother) and be there for this woman who was trying to protect people like him in the church,” said Rogers, who lives in Maricopa, Arizona. “Excommunication needs to done away with. I think it’s an abusive practice … and it’s a tool the church uses to silence people.”

Helfer said she fears her case could set a precedent for removing other professionals and result in devastating consequences for church members who may no longer feel safe seeking treatment.

“Doing this to me alone is sending the message both to clinicians and, more importantly, to the public that you shouldn’t trust sex therapists,” Helfer said. “Even if it doesn’t necessarily mean that other professionals will directly be affected, it will affect the population as to who will seek out those kinds of services.”

More:Latter-day Saints member sex therapist ousted from faith for critiques

Church officials declined to comment on Helfer losing her appeal or the criticism against them.

Members are taught not to have sex before marriage, kiss passionately or arouse “emotions in your own body” that are supposed to be reserved for marriage. Gay sex also is forbidden.

Scott Gordon, president of FAIR, a volunteer organization that supports the church, acknowledged that it can be difficult for gay and transgender individuals to belong to a faith that they feel doesn’t fully accept them. But, he said, Helfer was not ousted because of her profession or her views on LGBTQ issues or sexuality.

“While that may seem like it’s the issue, it’s really not the issue,” Gordon said. “The issue is actively going out and campaigning against the church. What the content is is almost irrelevant.”

The message of Helfer’s excommunication and that of other members seems to be that the faith can tolerate diverse opinions but “when that behavior seeks to influence others, then that’s when the church takes official action,” said Kathleen Flake, a professor of Mormon studies at the University of Virginia.

Sam Young, who led a campaign criticizing the church’s practice of allowing lay leaders to do one-on-one interviews with young people that sometimes included sexual questions, was kicked out in 2018. Kate Kelly, founder of a group pushing for women to be allowed in the lay clergy, was excommunicated in 2014.

In Helfer’s case, her former church leaders in Kansas sent her a letter in April after holding a disciplinary hearing explaining the reasons for her removal. The letter said her professional activities did not play a role but that she could no longer be a member because of a “pattern of clear and deliberate opposition to the Church, its doctrine, policies, and its leaders.”

After a year, they will consider allowing her back if she stops using “disparaging and vulgar language to describe the Church and its leaders” and attends church meetings, the letter says.

Helfer said she has no plans to change her professional services but that she’s already heard from some clients who say they’re no longer comfortable working with her.

“My practice will survive,” she said. “But a family with a young gay child may deal with their issue very differently after witnessing something like this — that may have long-term implications for them.”

“That’s where my heart weighs heaviest,” she said.

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Eppolito is a corps member for the Associated Press/Report for America Statehouse News Initiative. Report for America is a nonprofit national service program that places journalists in local newsrooms to report on undercovered issues.

The Most Shocking Rock Star Fashion Reinventions – Ultimate Classic Rock

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The best rock song in the world doesn’t amount to a hill o’ beans if you botch the presentation.

The biggest and best rockers in history have taken this truth to heart, and they’ve made their image an integral component of their artistry. Sometimes the only thing needed to rehabilitate a floundering career is a radical wardrobe change and perhaps a flashy video to document it.

The artists who had the most radical and successful fashion reinventions treated them as more than just a frivolous change of clothes. They were changing the very fabric of their being, molding new characters to embody. David Bowie didn’t just slip into a striped jumpsuit and dye his hair fire-engine red during the Ziggy Stardust era for fun — he was transforming into an androgynous rock star sent to Earth to warn of an impending apocalypse.

Other fashion reinventions may have seemed more subtle on the surface, but they carried great weight nonetheless. When Freddie Mercury grew a mustache in 1980, he wasn’t just disappointing his adoring female fans with an unsavory bit of facial hair; he was making a direct nod to the fashion trends of the contemporary gay club scene in San Francisco. When Ozzy Osbourne and Eddie Van Halen shaved their heads at different points in their careers, they were both acting out of frustration and desperation as their personal and professional lives crumbled around them.

Meanwhile, Metallica fans considered the band members cutting their hair and donning makeup in the mid-’90s an act of treason, a disavowal of their head-banging roots that further hammered home their pivot from breakneck thrash toward commercial hard rock.

We’ve accounted for those and more in the below list of the Most Shocking Rock Star Fashion Reinventions.

The Most Shocking Rock Star Fashion Reinventions

From David Bowie to Metallica, these are the most shocking rock star fashion reinventions.

Islanders-Lightning Rematch, Chicago Signs Reichel, and Other Blackhawks Bullets – bleachernation.com

We are getting closer to finding the final four teams that will play for the chance to lift the Stanley Cup as the New York Islanders join the Tampa Bay Lightning and Montreal Canadiens in the Stanley Cup Semifinals after defeating the Boston Bruins, 6-2 in Game Six of their second-round series. The win sets up a rematch from last season’s Second Stanley Cup Eastern Conference Finals between the Lightning and Islanders, which the Lightning won on their way to winning the Stanley Cup.

•   After falling behind the Bruins with losses in Games One and Two of the series, the Islanders stormed back with four-straight wins to complete the series comeback.

•   Early in the second periods, with the game tied 1-1, Islanders veteran Brock Nelson answered the bell with a slick steal and score.

•   Later in the period, Nelson scored the eventual game-winning goal and set the Nassau Coliseum off!

•   New York would go on to add three more goals on their way to a 6-2 win in Game Six, advancing to the third-round fo the Stanley Cup Playoffs in back-to-back postseasons.

•   Not one of the flashiest or most notable players in the league, but with his two-goal performance last night, Brock Nelson joined some great company in Islanders franchise history.

•   Some more Islanders history was etched with Nelson’s name with the win last night, too.

•   His six goals in 12 games this postseason are the second-most he has scored in a playoff run, the most being last year’s run with nine goals in 22 games.

•   With the win, the Islanders are set to take on the defending Stanley Cup Champion Lightning for the second year in-a-row in the third round of the postseason. Last year, Tampa Bay won in six games before moving on to defeat the Dallas Stars in the Cup Final.

•   How about the job Lou Lamoriello has done since becoming the Islanders General Manager just over three years ago.

•   While the news of the night came from the Nassau Coliseum, the news of the afternoon came from the United Center offices at 1901 West Madison Street.

•   The Chicago Blackhawks announced yesterday the news we had all been waiting for, 2020 first-round draft pick Lukas Reichel to his entry-level contract.

•   Reichel signs at the maximum for an entry-level deal with a $925,000 AAV Cap hit through the 2023-24 season.

•   The 19-year-old joins the Blackhawks next season after two successful years in the German DEL with Eisbären Berlin and is coming off an impressive showing at the IIHF World Championships with Germany. He’ll likely have every chance during training camp to earn a spot in the Blackhawks’ NHL lineup.

•   Speaking of the Blackhawks, former two-time Cup Winner with Chicago Brandon Saad and the Colorado Avalanche are on the brink of elimination tonight as they take on the Vegas Golden Knights in Game Six, trailing the series 3-2.

•   While the Avalanche have lost three-straight, Saad is having one of his best goal-scoring stretches of his career with seven goals in nine games in the postseason. The seven tallies are the second-most goals he has scored in the Stanley Cup Playoffs, behind only his eight goals during the 2015 Stanley Cup run with the Blackhawks.

•   How about a former Blackhawk with New York Islanders connections? A Happy Birthday to Brent Sutter!

•   June is Pride Month and the Chicago Gay Hockey Association has been around for years helping the LGBTQ+ community and hockey community in the city. The Athletic’s Scott Powers profiled the organization and the work they have done. Highly recommend checking it out.

•   Also coming from the guys at The Athletic this week, Mark Lazerus dug into the upcoming Seattle Expansion Draft and what the Blackhawks might do to navigate their second expansion draft in five years. Check out the full breakdown below.

•   In media news yesterday, New Jersey Devils defenseman P.K. Subban, older brother of Blackhawks goaltender Malcolm Subban, has joined ESPN for the remainder of the Stanley Cup Playoffs to be an in-studio analyst. Subban is a natural in front of the camera and I would not be surprised if he moved into a TV analyst role once his playing career is over. A reminder that ESPN and Turner Sports hold the TV rights to the NHL for the next seven seasons. This could become a regular practice by the network to have current players not in the postseason come on to be guest studio analysts during the Stanley Cup Playoffs.

•   Speaking of the ESPN and Turner Sports broadcast rights, it appears more talent from the NHL on NBC production are finding homes with Turner Sports and ESPN for the next seven years.

•   Very much on board with all of these personalities that are going to be continuing covering the league. It also appears that Kevin Weekes’ role with ESPN will be in-studio work as well a live game coverage as well. He will also continue to work with the NHL Network.

•   In NHL Awards news, the 2021 Hart Memorial Trophy Finalists for NHL MVP have been announced.

•   Are we really surprised? Again, this should be a landslide win for Connor McDavid, since we are not including Playoff performance in the voting process.

•   Finally, a note to be aware of for tomorrow.

•   That will do it for today. Have a good Thursday, everyone!

Bucksport hosting first Pride celebration this Saturday – The Ellsworth American

BUCKSPORT — “I’ve been yelled at,” said David Weeda. “I’ve been beaten up. I’ve had horrible situations of death threats on the phone.”

Weeda, a gay man who has spent much of his life working as an activist, particularly with the gay rights movement, starting in Kansas City, Mo., back in the 1980s, is one of the organizers of Bucksport’s first Pride celebration, happening on the Bucksport waterfront Saturday.

Ellsworth Pride also is hosting a Pride event over the weekend, scheduled from 1-5 p.m. Sunday at Knowlton Park in Ellsworth.

Weeda said he has been harassed in Bucksport because of his orientation.

Both Weeda and another organizer, Derek Cole of Bucksport, a straight father of two, have been regularly standing on the corner of Main Street with a Black Lives Matter group for the past year.

“On Thursday the 8th, Derek couldn’t join me in the beginning, so I was there alone,” Weeda said. “I put the American flag up. I put the rainbow flag up. A car comes down Main Street and slows way down. He yells, ‘Take that goddamn flag down.’” “It rattled me,” Weeda said. But the confrontation wasn’t over. The man parked behind Weeda’s vehicle, yelled some more, shot video with his phone and finally went to complain at the police station about a rainbow flag being flown on public property. Weeda also called the station to let officers know what was going on. Police explained to the man who was upset about the rainbow flag that Weeda had a right to fly it.

“The cop said he was confident this guy understood it was OK,” Weeda said. “The same guy came the second day.”

“You just feel like the work you’re doing has an impact, but you’re continually going five steps forward and 10 steps back,” he added.

“It’s apparent that no matter where you live, there’s always work to be done in a community,” Cole said.

But first, Saturday’s Pride celebration is a chance for everyone to have a good time.

The all-ages event, which starts at 4 p.m., will have free pizza, drinks, ice cream and entertainment, including a DJ and a band.

“DJ Chipmunk (aka Nicolas Delli Paoli) will be playing tunes and emceeing from 4 to 7 p.m., including an open mic hour beginning at 6, with headliners Gus La Casse and Mathias Kamin playing fiddle, guitar and banjo beginning at 7.

“All this aside, we’re just trying to have some fun,” said Cole. “It’s summer in Maine. COVID may or may not be over. Let’s have a party while we still can.”

Cole said, “Every town should stand up and say, ‘We love and support you.’ I want to make sure my two kids, when they leave our house, are comfortable loving whoever they want to love or not loving anyone. I want them to be accepted for whoever they end up being. To make sure my kids don’t have to put up with anything.”

The funds raised from Saturday’s event will be donated to the gay/straight alliance clubs at Bucksport High School and The Reach School.

“Throughout my life, whenever you make a public address, you always end with a speech that you’re doing this work for the next generation,” Weeda said.

The activist cited an organization called the Trevor Project, which states that the suicide rate among LGBTQ+ teenagers is three times the rate of their peers.

“The last thing I want to hear is another story about the Penobscot Narrows Bridge,” said Cole. “I don’t want that for anybody’s kids.”

The pair are also planning a film festival in October at the Alamo Theatre.

Weeda worked for several years in the late ’80s and early ’90s in Kansas City getting legislation passed to prevent discrimination against people who were HIV-positive as well as getting a gay rights law passed.

That work was the focus of a 2018 documentary called “The Ordinance Project,” which they hope to show at the film festival this fall.

Why do Pride events occur in June?

Weeda explained that it was in June of 1969 that the Stonewall Riots occurred. The riots, which occurred at the Stonewall Inn in Greenwich Village in New York City between police and gay people, was the catalyst for the global gay rights movement.

Weeda quipped that the battle has moved beyond gay and lesbian rights to encompass “all the letters in the alphabet — LGBTQ+.”

A Bucksport mother is a member of the group.

“Bucksport Pride pledges to continue building a community with civility, compassion, and love, which welcomes, appreciates and supports the broad spectrum of diversity in our human family,” said Maggie Wentworth. “I grew-up in this town and now I’m raising my children here. I’m so glad that Bucksport is celebrating Pride; all of our citizens, particularly our youth, need to feel safe and welcome no matter what their sexual orientation or gender identity.”

The Health Equity Alliance in Bangor is serving as the fiscal sponsor for the event.

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20 books that are essential reading this Pride Month – CNN

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CNN —  

June is Pride Month, a time to not only commemorate the Stonewall uprising that helped launch the LGBTQ+ movement in June 1969 but also to celebrate and recognize LGBTQ+ communities.

In honor of the month, we’ve rounded up 20 books, including new releases and classics, memoirs and fiction, journalistic accounts and collections of essays. From bestselling memoirs to Pulitzer Prize-winning novels to historical accounts, these Pride Month-themed selections offer insight to the LGBTQ+ experience.

Read on for essential books to add to your list during Pride Month and beyond.

‘The Prophets’ by Roger Jones, Jr. (starting at $14.99; amazon.com)

'The Prophets' by Roger Jones Jr.
‘The Prophets’ by Roger Jones Jr.

Jones’ bestselling debut novel features the lyrical story of Isaiah and Samuel, two enslaved men on a plantation in Mississippi who find refuge in their love for one another in the face of violence and unimaginable cruelty.

‘Let the Record Show: A Political History of ACT UP New York, 1987-1993’ by Sarah Schulman (starting at $19.99; amazon.com)

'Let the Record Show: A Political History of ACT UP New York, 1987-1993' by Sarah Schulman
‘Let the Record Show: A Political History of ACT UP New York, 1987-1993’ by Sarah Schulman

Written over a 20-year span and involving 200-plus interviews, Schulman chronicles the achievements, conflicts and legacy of ACT UP, New York, an AIDS activism coalition that confronted the AIDS crisis head-on. At nearly 700 pages, it’s a historical account that offers an oral history straight from the activists involved.

‘Detransition, Baby’ by Torrey Peters (starting at $13.99; amazon.com)

'Detransition, Baby' by Torrey Peters
‘Detransition, Baby’ by Torrey Peters

In this bestselling novel that explores the idea of family, Reese, a trans woman, splits with Amy, who is detransitioning and becomes Ames. Reese wants a baby and when Ames impregnates his new lover, Katrina, who may not want to keep the child, Ames proposes the three raise the baby together.

‘Fairest’ by Meredith Talusan (starting at $11.99; amazon.com)

'Fairest' by Meredith Talusan
‘Fairest’ by Meredith Talusan

In this coming-of-age memoir, Talusan writes of her extraordinary life — from being raised in the Philippines with albinism to immigrating to America, being seen as white, attending Harvard and transitioning to a woman. Gender, race, identity, love, art. It’s no wonder Talusan’s book is a finalist for the 2021 Lambda Literary Award for Transgender Nonfiction.

‘Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More’ by Janet Mock (starting at $1.99; amazon.com)

'Redefining Realness: My Path To Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More' by Janet Mock
‘Redefining Realness: My Path To Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More’ by Janet Mock

Mock’s 2014 bestselling memoir offers an inspirational and honest look at her story of growing up transgender, poor and multiracial. The advocate, writer and TV host shares her story of coping with a drug-addicted father, sexual abuse and prostitution, as well as her transition and the family and friends who not only accepted her but embraced her and the woman she was becoming.

‘Giovanni’s Room’ by James Baldwin (starting at $9.59; amazon.com)

'Giovanni's Room' by James Baldwin
‘Giovanni’s Room’ by James Baldwin

Set in 1950s Paris, Baldwin’s controversial 1956 novel follows American expat David who begins a relationship with Italian bartender Giovanni while his fiancée, Hella, is away. Sexuality, identity, masculinity and concealment are all themes that make this a gay literature classic.

‘The Stonewall Reader’ edited by the New York Public Library (starting at $9.99; amazon.com)

'The Stonewall Reader' edited by the New York Public Library
‘The Stonewall Reader’ edited by the New York Public Library

A compilation of first-person accounts and diary entries from activists and participants, along with news articles, essays and more, this work tells the story of events that surrounded the 1969 Stonewall riots, largely seen as the start of the nation’s LGBT civil rights movement.

‘Call Me by Your Name’ by André Aciman (starting at $2.99; amazon.com)

'Call Me By Your Name' by Andre Aciman
‘Call Me By Your Name’ by Andre Aciman

The basis for the Academy Award-winning film, Aciman’s novel traces the relationship between Elio, 17, a teenage musician, and Oliver, the 24-year-old summer houseguest of Elio’s professor dad. Set along the Italian Riviera, it’s passionate, romantic, complicated, tender, painful, erotic, melancholy — everything you want from a beautifully written love story.

‘Untamed’ by Glennon Doyle (starting at $14.99; amazon.com)

'Untamed' by Glennon Doyle
‘Untamed’ by Glennon Doyle

A No. 1 New York Times bestseller, Doyle’s candid 2020 memoir explores her divorce, parenting, falling in love with soccer star Abby Wambach, body image, feminism and learning to love herself. Need a boost of female empowerment? Here it is.

‘Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic’ by Alison Bechdel (starting at $9.99; amazon.com)

'Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic' by Alison Bechdel
‘Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic’ by Alison Bechdel

Bechdel’s bestselling graphic memoir surrounds her relationship with her father, a high school teacher who also runs a funeral home (which her family called the “fun home”) in their rural Pennsylvania town. After coming out as a lesbian in college, she finds her dad is also gay — but he dies from an apparant suicide soon after she learns this, leaving unanswered questions. Adapted for the stage, the Broadway production of “Fun Home” won the Tony for Best Musical in 2015.

‘Pride: The Story of Harvey Milk and the Rainbow Flag’ by Rob Sanders and Steven Salerno (starting at $10.99; amazon.com)

'Pride: The Story of Harvey Milk and the Rainbow Flag' by Rob Sanders and Steven Salerno
‘Pride: The Story of Harvey Milk and the Rainbow Flag’ by Rob Sanders and Steven Salerno

“Harvey dreamed that everyone — even gay people — would have equality. He dreamed that he and his friends would be treated like everyone else.” So states this children’s book that tells the history of the rainbow-colored gay pride flag, a symbol created by social activist and openly gay politician Harvey Milk, who collaborated with designer Gilbert Baker to create the enduring symbol in 1978.

‘The Price of Salt’ by Patricia Highsmith (starting at $0.99; amazon.com)

'The Price of Salt' by Patricia Highsmith
‘The Price of Salt’ by Patricia Highsmith

Highsmith’s 1952 novel of forbidden love focuses on two women — a 30-something suburban housewife and mother who is getting divorced and a 19-year-old sales clerk. Turned into the Oscar-nominated movie “Carol,” the story has endured as a lesbian cult classic.

‘The Engagement: America’s Quarter-Century Struggle Over Same-Sex Marriage’ by Sasha Issenberg (starting at $17.99; amazon.com)

'The Engagement: America's Quarter-Century Struggle Over Same-Sex Marriage' by Sasha Issenberg
‘The Engagement: America’s Quarter-Century Struggle Over Same-Sex Marriage’ by Sasha Issenberg

An Amazon No. 1 new release, journalist Issenberg’s exploration of the history of the conflict and controversy over same-sex marriage covers the debate that eventually led to two landmark US Supreme Court decisions that legalized the right for gay couples to wed. Part political history, civil rights struggle and legal drama, it’s a comprehensive narrative on the LGBTQ rights battle.

‘Less’ by Andrew Sean Greer (starting at $9.99; amazon.com)

'Less' by Andrew Sean Greer
‘Less’ by Andrew Sean Greer

Greer’s smart, hilarious Pulitzer Prize-winning 2017 novel follows Arthur Less, a middle-aged failed author who decides to travel the world to various (and questionable) literary events rather than accept an invitation to attend his ex-boyfriend’s wedding. What and who he encounters along the way will have you doubled over with laughter.

‘All In: An Autobiography’ by Billie Jean King (starting at $14.99; amazon.com)

'All In: An Autobiography' by Billie Jean King
‘All In: An Autobiography’ by Billie Jean King

One of tennis’s greatest legends, King’s memoir recounts not only her rise to the top-ranked women’s player in the world, her “Battle of the Sexes” defeat of Bobby Riggs and whopping 20 Wimbledon wins, but also being outed, her public acknowledgment of her sexual identity when she was 51 and her activism in the LGBTQ+ movement.

‘Boy Erased’ by Garrard Conley (starting at $4.99; amazon.com)

'Boy Erased' by Garrard Conley
‘Boy Erased’ by Garrard Conley

The basis for the Nicole Kidman/Russell Crowe movie of the same name, Conley’s 2016 bestselling memoir follows the life of the son of a Baptist preacher living in rural Arkansas who is conflicted about his sexuality. After being outed to his parents at 19, Conley was forced to attend a conversion therapy program or lose his family and friends. It’s a brave account of faith, love and identity that will keep you engaged from beginning to end.

‘David Bowie Made Me Gay: 100 Years of LGBT Music’ by Darryl W. Bullock (starting at $9.99; amazon.com)

'David Bowie Made Me Gay: 100 Years of LGBT Music' by Darryl Bullock
‘David Bowie Made Me Gay: 100 Years of LGBT Music’ by Darryl Bullock

Music writer and biographer Bullock’s encyclopedic look at LGBTQ musicians covers everyone from Ma Rainey to Little Richard to Dusty Springfield to Freddie Mercury to Boy George to, of course, the Thin White Duke himself.

‘The Guncle’ by Steven Rowley (starting at $14.99; amazon.com)

'The Guncle' by Steven Rowley
‘The Guncle’ by Steven Rowley

Following the death of their mother and a health crisis affecting their father, Maise and Grant’s “Gay Uncle Patrick” suddenly finds himself as primary guardian of two young children. “Guncle Rules” aside, he must learn what it means to be a parent in this funny and heartwarming beach read.

‘The Queer Bible’ by Jack Guinness (starting at $12.99; amazon.com)

'The Queer Bible' by Jack Guinness
‘The Queer Bible’ by Jack Guinness

The founder of QueerBible.com has released this beautifully illustrated collection of essays in which queer authors write about their own heroes and inspirations in the LGBTQ+ community: Think Elton John on Divine, skier Gus Kenworthy on figure skater Adam Rippon, TV star Tan France on “Queer Eye” or comedian Mae Martin on Tim Curry.

‘Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss and the Fight for Trans Equality’ by Sarah McBride (starting at $12.99; amazon.com)

'Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss and the Fight for Trans Equality' by Sarah McBride
‘Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss and the Fight for Trans Equality’ by Sarah McBride

Before she became America’s first openly transgender state senator, McBride wrote this powerful 2018 memoir, chronicling her struggles with coming out and identity, her work as a transgender activist and advocate, finding love with a trans man and more.

Review: Soulful ‘Sublet’ finds wisdom in a gay travel journalist’s visit to Tel Aviv – Yahoo News

Niv Nissim, left, and John Benjamin Hickey in "Sublet."

Niv Nissim, left, and John Benjamin Hickey in the movie “Sublet.” (Daniel Miller / Greenwich Entertainment)

The Times is committed to reviewing theatrical film releases during the COVID-19 pandemic. Because moviegoing carries risks during this time, we remind readers to follow health and safety guidelines as outlined by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention and local health officials.

Eytan Fox’s “Sublet” is a lovely and wistful drama about what fleetingly binds two gay men — one American, one Israeli — despite, or maybe because of, their generational differences. It’s an evocative film that creeps up on you in unpredictably tender ways, so prepare to shed a tear or two — or three.

John Benjamin Hickey (TV’s “The Big C,” “In Treatment”) gives an enormously sensitive, intuitive performance as Michael Green, a travel columnist visiting Tel Aviv to write a piece for the New York Times. He sublets an apartment for his five days abroad from a brash young film student named Tomer (Niv Nissim, a natural) instead of renting a hotel room, seemingly to experience the city more like a local. Although it’s located in supposedly one of the world’s “sexiest” new neighborhoods (or so says Time Out London, notes Tomer), the flat is a mess. But Michael eventually decides to stay and, after a day, invites the financially strapped Tomer to move back in — in exchange for his tour guide services.

What follows is less an exploration of Tel Aviv life (though we get a nice sense of the vibrant city) and more an intimate look at the stark contrast between Tomer’s free-spirited, commitment-averse 20-something and the more restrained Michael, a New Yorker of a certain age who’s survived the AIDS epidemic, homophobia and activism and has settled into a seemingly quiet, resigned life with his husband, David (Peter Spears).

But beneath one-time novelist Michael’s mellow exterior, he’s haunted by a recent tragedy and a current dispute with David, who wants to expand their family despite a key underlying issue.

Meanwhile, Tomer finds himself drawn to Michael’s maturity and intelligence and, in a few short days, unexpectedly proves a guiding, protective force that helps Michael take stock of his life. Each man’s impact on the other is subtle and credible and deftly avoids clichés.

An affecting, beautifully written scene in which Tomer brings Michael to visit his doting, Kibbutz-dwelling mother (Miki Kam) is one of the film’s high points, as is a tensely sexy encounter that involves Tomer, Michael and a dating-app hookup.

Director Fox has previously examined facets of Israeli gay life in such features as “Yossi and Jagger,” its sequel, “Yossi,” and “The Bubble.” But he and co-writer Itay Segal bring the kind of knowing and soulful perspective to their story that has clearly come from growing older — and wiser.

This story originally appeared in Los Angeles Times.

‘Sublet’ review: A subtle life assessment in Eytan Fox drama – Los Angeles Times

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Eytan Fox’s “Sublet” is a lovely and wistful drama about what fleetingly binds two gay men — one American, one Israeli — despite, or maybe because of, their generational differences. It’s an evocative film that creeps up on you in unpredictably tender ways, so prepare to shed a tear or two — or three.

John Benjamin Hickey (TV’s “The Big C,” “In Treatment”) gives an enormously sensitive, intuitive performance as Michael Green, a travel columnist visiting Tel Aviv to write a piece for the New York Times. He sublets an apartment for his five days abroad from a brash young film student named Tomer (Niv Nissim, a natural) instead of renting a hotel room, seemingly to experience the city more like a local. Although it’s located in supposedly one of the world’s “sexiest” new neighborhoods (or so says Time Out London, notes Tomer), the flat is a mess. But Michael eventually decides to stay and, after a day, invites the financially strapped Tomer to move back in — in exchange for his tour guide services.

What follows is less an exploration of Tel Aviv life (though we get a nice sense of the vibrant city) and more an intimate look at the stark contrast between Tomer’s free-spirited, commitment-averse 20-something and the more restrained Michael, a New Yorker of a certain age who’s survived the AIDS epidemic, homophobia and activism and has settled into a seemingly quiet, resigned life with his husband, David (Peter Spears).

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But beneath one-time novelist Michael’s mellow exterior, he’s haunted by a recent tragedy and a current dispute with David, who wants to expand their family despite a key underlying issue.

Meanwhile, Tomer finds himself drawn to Michael’s maturity and intelligence and, in a few short days, unexpectedly proves a guiding, protective force that helps Michael take stock of his life. Each man’s impact on the other is subtle and credible and deftly avoids clichés.

An affecting, beautifully written scene in which Tomer brings Michael to visit his doting, Kibbutz-dwelling mother (Miki Kam) is one of the film’s high points, as is a tensely sexy encounter that involves Tomer, Michael and a dating-app hookup.

Director Fox has previously examined facets of Israeli gay life in such features as “Yossi and Jagger,” its sequel, “Yossi,” and “The Bubble.” But he and co-writer Itay Segal bring the kind of knowing and soulful perspective to their story that has clearly come from growing older — and wiser.

‘Sublet’

In English and Hebrew with English subtitles

Not rated

Running time: 1 hour, 30 minutes

Playing: Starts Jun 11, Laemmle Royal Theatre, West Los Angeles; Laemmle Town Center 5, Encino; Laemmle Playhouse 7, Pasadena; available June 18 on Laemmle Virtual Cinema

Kid Rock defiant about gay slur drama – Entertainment News – Castanet.net

Kid Rock is refusing to take the controversy brewing about his gay slur seriously, joking he’ll have a chat with himself about the drama.

He was performing at the FishLipz Bar & Grill in Smithville, Tennessee on Saturday when he lost his cool with audience members filming him on their cellphones.

Concertgoers videoed Kid Rock shouting “f**k your iPhone” and calling audience members “f**king f**gots.” The footage was obtained by TMZ and went viral on Monday, prompting gay rights activists to demand an apology from the rap-rocker.

Instead, on Wednesday, Kid Rock tweeted: “If Kid Rock using the word f**got offends you, good chance you are one. Either way, I know he has a lot of love for his gay friends and I will have a talk with him. Have a nice day.”

He signed off as Bob Ritchie, Kid Rock’s real name.

Last month, he found himself embroiled in a race row after showing support for fellow musician Morgan Wallen, who was suspended from his label and axed from country music stations after he was filmed using the N-word during a night out with friends. Kid Rock offered Wallen his first gig following the controversy at his Nashville bar.

Laws Targeting Trans Athletes Have Made Roller Derby a Safe Haven – Teen Vogue

The bills’ negative effects are already well-documented. Shoshana K. Goldberg is a professor and researcher at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and the University of Illinois at Chicago whose work focuses on LGBT health and adolescent health. Her report with the Center of American Progress on the importance of trans youth’s participation in sports details how trans sports bans put trans athletes — who are already a vulnerable group — at an even greater risk of bullying, mental illness, and suicidal ideation. “The problem is fake, but the impact is real,” she tells Teen Vogue. According to Goldberg, the actual forces that are harming girls’ sports — budget cuts, financial inaccessibility, sexist stereotyping, fewer opportunities, and pay inequity at the professional level — will not be solved (and could actually be exacerbated by) the proposed bans.

The bills don’t pose an immediate existential threat to roller derby, but the community has reacted with strong concern and resistance. Vanstone describes the slippery slope of precedence set by the new laws: “If [lawmakers] find success [in scholastic sports], they can try to push even further up the chain.’”

Vanstone sees inclusion and equity as an ongoing process; the WFTDA is continuing to engage its leaders and members in educational initiatives with the goal of improving policy implementation at the league level. For example, roller derby is an overwhelmingly white sport despite the distinctly Black history of roller skating, and calls to action by Black skaters and teams have led to initiatives such as the Anti-Racism Team Project. Roller derby’s tradition of do-it-yourself, player-led initiatives is alive and well in skaters like Bianic, who helped to draft a letter to the Kansas City Roller Warriors community, encouraging members to contact their representatives and support trans youth. “At least if their states do them wrong right now,” they say, “derby will be there for them if they want it.”

*Name withheld due to privacy concerns


CREDITS

Photographer: Brendan Carroll 

Videographer: Joey Hunt 

AC: Brian Molloy

Video Editors: Leila Lorenz  and Katie Ladd 

Production: Halo House

Art Director: Emily Zirimis

Visual Editor: Louisiana Gelpi

Film Lab: Lago Vista Film Lab

Photo Assistant: Adam Gestwicki


America’s Favorite Fast Food Mocked By Pro-LGBT Burger King – Christianity Daily

Burger King mocked Chick-fil-A on social media, announcing that for every Ch’King chicken sandwich sold in June, it will donate 40 cents to the Human Rights Campaign, America’s biggest LGBTQ civil rights group.

According to Faithwire, Burger King made the announcement after The Daily Beast published a report citing Chick-fil-A as among those donating to the National Christian Charitable Foundation, a non-profit organization that gives financial resources to other groups, such as the Alliance Defending Freedom which opposes the Biden administration’s Equality Act.

“The NCF’s list of high-dollar donors includes some of the country’s richest and most powerful families. Among them: Betsy DeVos’ eponymous family foundation, as well as the private foundations of the Anschutz oil dynasty, the late Republican megadonor Foster Friess, Hobby Lobby, and Dan Cathy, the billionaire owner of Chick-fil-A, the six-days-a-week fast-food chain, which promised to stop donating to anti-LGBT causes last year,” reads the report.

Burger King said it will continue to donate “even on Sunday,” adding the eyes emoji in an apparent jab at Chick-fil-A in the tweet. Under Christian ownership, Chick-fil-A closes its stores on Sundays.

Burger King is one of thousands of companies offering promotions in honor of Pride Month.

What’s the deal with the mockery

Chick-fil-A CEO Dan Cathy, according to CNN, said in 2012 that the company supports “the biblical definition of the family unit.” Cathy restated his opinion on same-sex marriage in a 2018 interview with a local Atlanta TV station.

However, there had been some changes over time.

Chick-fil-A, for example, made significant adjustments to its charity foundation in 2019, discontinuing payments to the Salvation Army and the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, both of which have been accused of being anti-LGBTQ+.

According to a June 2020 fact check by USA TODAY, Chick-fil-A did not recently give $1.8 million to any anti-LGBTQ organizations. The donations in issue were made in 2018 and are supported by tax papers from the corporation.

Also, in an email statement to USA TODAY, a Burger King representative stated, “This is a community we love dearly and have proudly supported over the years, so we couldn’t miss an opportunity to take action and help shine a light on the important conversation happening.”

Some praised Burger King for its support of LGBTQ rights, The Kansas City Star reports. Some of Burger King’s followers said they couldn’t wait to taste the new Ch’King sandwich, which debuted on June 3 throughout the country.

Burger King and Women’s Day

On International Women’s Day, Burger King was chastised for a tweet that said, “Women belong in the kitchen,” reports USA Today. The food corporation intended to draw attention to gender disparities in the restaurant business, but it backfired.

Because of “abusive comments,” Burger King UK reportedly took down the tweet followed by an apology.

Fast Food Chain Wars

The Atlanta-based diner Chick-fil-A was awarded America’s favorite fast food in 2020 for the sixth year in a row by the American Consumer Satisfaction Index, noted Faithwire. Burger King, on the other hand, was placed No. 12 in the rankings. It remains to be seen how the pro-LGBT burger store will do well in comparison to the number 1 chain in the country.

The fight to save the Boulevard, Pasadena’s only gay bar – Los Angeles Times

Steve Terradot learned how to play pool in the back room at the Boulevard bar in Pasadena in 1981. He spent many nights there, relishing the feelings of safety and community the space provided.

“We used to sneak in the back door,” he said, “because in those days you looked around to see who was watching you go into a gay bar.”

In the late ’80s, he cared for six months for a friend who had AIDS. He lost 11 close friends to the disease and felt a sense of urgency to do something about it.

“I wanted to work in the gay community,” said Terradot, who moved to Los Angeles from Hacienda Heights in the late 1970s. In his hometown, he felt ashamed and struggled to acknowledge his identity. The move afforded him the opportunity.

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“Being able to work with gay people and have a gay family, it meant everything.”

In 1985, he started bartending at the Boulevard. In 1999, he bought the bar. “What once was my worst thing in life became my biggest gift,” he said.

Over the years the Boulevard became a safe haven for the gay community in the area and an alternative to the West Hollywood bar scene. Business was good. There was karaoke six nights a week. Three nights a week drag queens from all over the state took to the small stage. The disco ball reflected dancing beads of light in celebration of a constant barrage of birthdays and post-work get-togethers.

Mark Lanza and Mark Chou became regulars at the Boulevard a decade ago. Here, unlike the many bars in West Hollywood they had visited, they felt a sense of belonging. The couple joined the panorama of people from Ontario, Temple City, Rosemead and Pasadena, finding common cause with their stool mates, who seemed content to sip beer and moderately priced cocktails in a welcoming environment.

About three years ago, Terradot needed a bartender, and Lanza offered to help. He would finish up the day’s construction projects (Lanza and Chou own a home repair business) and then step behind the bar to cut fruit and prep for the night staff. Terradot taught him how to bartend and the two became good friends.

Three men stand inside a dark, blue-lit bar.

Customers Mark Chou, left, and his partner Mark Lanza, right, flank owner Steve Terradot inside the Boulevard gay bar in Pasadena.

(Mel Melcon / Los Angeles Times)

The pandemic upended the Boulevard community and employees. When the space closed for the first time in 40 years after the government-mandated shutdown in March 2020, the bills started to pile up. The bar was not set up to offer to-go cocktails and there was no food for takeout. The immediate future promised only uncertainty.

Terradot did not receive his first unemployment check until June 2020. This year, payments stopped in March, and he hasn’t received a check since. Despite daily calls, he has been unable to get anyone from the state Employment Development Department on the phone. He’d been using his unemployment checks to pay the bills and considered taking out a mortgage on his home. The money he received from his single PPP loan in 2020 is long gone.

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Lanza suggested launching a fundraiser campaign on the GoFundMe website, but Terradot pushed back.

“It was humbling for me,” he said. “My ethos is you get out, you work and you do things. It was also embarrassing for a guy my age to collect unemployment.”

But Lanza and Chou insisted. This, they said, is what GoFundMe is for. On April 1, they launched a fundraiser. The goal was $50,000, enough to cover some of the bills that had accumulated during the shutdown and put the bar in a financially stable position to reopen. Anticipating another possible shutdown, the money also would allow Terradot to buy some kitchen equipment to eventually offer food.

Lanza, Chou, Terradot and a group of regulars shared the fundraiser on their social media accounts and waited for word to spread and for donations. Since it was posted, the GoFundMe page has been shared nearly 1,000 times.

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Steve Terradot places rainbow flags in their holders above the front entrance to the Boulevard.

Steve Terradot places rainbow flags in their holders above the front entrance to his Pasadena gay bar, the Boulevard.

(Mel Melcon / Los Angeles Times)

“Some guy donated $5 and it touched me as much as the person who gave $1,000 because I know he probably didn’t have it to give and he did,” Terradot said.

Jeffi Archibald saw a social media post announcing the fundraising effort and quickly shared the page with his own friends. Archibald, a dean at Pasadena City College, has been a regular at the Boulevard since 2003. It’s where he celebrated his 40th birthday and where he and his husband invited guests after their wedding reception.

An avid karaoke singer, Archibald frequented the bar on Thursdays, also known as dress rehearsal Thursdays, when you could practice your songs for a smaller group before performing in front of a Saturday crowd.

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“It’s really important that this place be here. It’s our local hangout,” he said. “Just seeing and knowing so many bars didn’t survive the pandemic, it was important for me to tell my friends and my community that we can’t lose this bar.”

Teacher John Perreault has been coming to the bar for 20 years, and he even has a drink named after him: The Professor Peach is a combination of peach schnapps, Absolut Peach and raspberry liqueur.

Perreault considers the bar a home away from home. Terradot has relied on him two to three nights a week to inspire other karaoke singers with his renditions of “Daydream Believer,” “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You,” and “Just the Way You Are.”

“If you’ve got something that is special to you, you really do want to put in your effort to save it,” Perreault said. “A lot of these small bars, particularly in the LGTBQ community, it’s not so crowded that you feel as though you’re lost.”

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Two men work on door frames in a dark bar.

Mark Lanza, left, and his partner Mark Chou install new steel doors to the bathrooms inside the Boulevard in Pasadena.

(Mel Melcon / Los Angeles Times)

After two months, the GoFundMe has raised more than $19,000. While they wait to reach the $50,000 goal, Terradot, Lanza and Chou are doing all the physical labor at the bar themselves. For the past eight weeks, they’ve been at the Boulevard every night, working to build both a front and a back patio. They rewired the entire bar, fixed the plumbing, cleaned up the lighting, ripped out the carpeting, took out the booths to allow for more social distancing, put in drink rails and changed out the air vents. Terradot painted, repaired equipment, laid the flooring and made more trips to Home Depot than he can count.

Anticipating the return of drag performances, they kept the stage area but reduced the size to allow for more space between the singers, the audience and the tables.

Performer Borgia Bloom Façade is looking forward to being back on that stage. Pre-shutdown, Façade hosted a 10 p.m. “Bloom Bloom Room” variety show there every Thursday that included dancers, comedy queens and drag queens.
“We were packing it in,” Façade said. “It’s a very intimate space to see a drag show and to feel comfortable and accepted.”

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Shortly after the shutdown, Façade and performer Hummingbird Meadows started hosting a virtual series called the “Bird Bloom Show” out of their bedrooms, hoping to keep their clientele engaged.

“We were basically twirling around in our bedrooms trying to create backdrops and interesting things,” Façade said. She had to find other work and has since stopped doing the virtual shows.

‘It would mean everything to open,” Façade said. “It’s a part of our income. It employs other performers. It’s the one place where every single person is welcome.”

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Even if the GoFundMe is successful, Terradot recognizes it will be a long road before the bar is out of the red again. He’ll need the bar at full capacity and won’t consider opening before the state’s scheduled June 15 reopening date. Pre-pandemic, weekends kept the Boulevard in business. When the bar reopens, Terradot is expecting “a bunch of Wednesday nights,” but he remains hopeful, and believes the need to reopen is greater than ever.

“Things have changed for gay bars, and maybe some younger people don’t feel that need for them like my generation did, but for a lot of people this is their safe place to come in and not be judged,” he said. “To me, that is a gift that we can give.”

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Football Writers’ Association and Sports Media LGBT+ working together on industry inclusion – Sports Media LGBT+

In Pride Month, the FWA joins with Sports Media LGBT+ in sending a message of welcome and inclusion to industry colleagues, with the two organisations also collaborating on a panel event on 14 June in association with Football v Homophobia…

By FWA / Sports Media LGBT+

Sports Media LGBT+ is delighted to announce a new co-operative partnership with the Football Writers’ Association and an accompanying panel discussion event to take place in Pride Month.

Both the collaboration and the event, to be held via Zoom on the evening of June 14, reinforce the FWA’s ongoing commitment to inclusion and acknowledge the significant contributions being made across football media by lesbian, gay, bi, and trans people.

Several members of the FWA are part of Sports Media LGBT+’s core group or are connected to the network through social media.

As part of the agreement, the two organisations are also issuing a joint pledge that recognises the power of the Pride message and how it equates to our workplaces, press boxes, and everyday conversations both in person and online.

The Football Writers’ Association and Sports Media LGBT+ share a commitment towards fostering a fully inclusive environment for all in the football media industry.

The FWA’s Constitution already contains a strong equality and anti-discrimination statement.

In Pride Month in June 2021 and beyond, the two organisations are collectively sending a welcoming message to friends and colleagues who are lesbian, gay, bi and trans, in appreciation of the significance of this time of year and the importance of active allyship.

While football in the UK continues to make progress on LGBT+ inclusion, the culture, traditions and global audience of the game can make conversations on this topic difficult.

The FWA seeks to contribute to a more open dialogue that recognises the many challenges that LGBT+ people in football face, particularly with regards to coverage in the wider media and the value of responsible visibility.

Football Writers’ Association and Sports Media LGBT+


To further explore these themes, a panel discussion event will be held virtually in conjunction with Football v Homophobia on Monday 14 June (starts 7pm BST).

Titled ‘Taking Pride in Our Work: LGBT+ Voices in Football Media’, the panel will feature Nicky Bandini (The Guardian, ESPN, talkSPORT), Adam Crafton (The Athletic), Matt Dickinson (The Times), and Lianne Sanderson (Sky Sports, talkSPORT, BBC Sport).

Nicky Bandini, Adam Crafton, Matt Dickinson and Lianne Sanderson will speak on the event panel on June 14

The event will be introduced by FWA chair Carrie Brown and moderated by Sports Media LGBT+ founder and lead Jon Holmes.

Jon has also written a blog for the FWA website providing further background about his experiences in football journalism, the group he set up in 2017, and the impact of visibility.

Learn more about the Football Writers’ Association and Football v Homophobia on their websites.

To enquire about membership / involvement in the FWA, visit their Contact page.


Sports Media LGBT+ is a network, advocacy, and consultancy group that is helping to build a community of LGBT+ people and allies in sport. We’re also a digital publisher. We welcome your enquiries and encourage you to connect with us – learn more here.

LGBT+ in sports? Your visibility will inspire other people – sharing your story can be hugely rewarding and you don’t have to be famous to make a positive and lasting impact. We encourage you to start a conversation with us, in confidence, and we’ll provide the best advice on navigating the media as part of your journey so that you retain control of your own narrative.

Email jon@sportsmedialgbt.com or send a message anonymously on our Curious Cat.

Homophobic Karen defaces LGBT teens’ glorious Pride Month artwork – PinkNews

A white woman launched into a homophobic and racist tirade against two LGBT+ teens who painted a Pride Month celebration on a local bridge in Tennessee. (Instagram/@crazykarens)

The dictionary-definition of a Karen launched into a racist and homophobic tirade while painting over the kaleidoscopic Pride Month artwork of two LGBT+ teens.

Jasmine Martinez and Carmen McClain painted a bridge, which is known for community art in Alcoa, Tennessee, on Tuesday (8 June) in honour of Pride Month.

The two teens had originally painted the rainbow, pansexual, transgender and bisexual flags on the bridge, according to local news outlet WBIR-TV.

Martinez told The Daily Times that they were still painting the bridge when an unidentified woman drove by and told them to “stop” and that they “were doing terrible things to the bridge”. The woman then returned on foot and launched into a homophobic and racist tirade.

In a video recorded by Martinez, the woman told the teens, who are girlfriends, that she was going to “paint over your s**t” because they’re “not even different anymore”.

“I could give a s**t less what you are and what you think you might want to be and not be, but you’re not going to go express it all over everything,” the woman said. “I’m sick of hearing all of you.”

She then told the two teens that they’re “sick” and claimed they “don’t pay taxes” because they’re “probably immigrants here”. The “grown” woman then used white spray paint to cover the teen’s artwork. She also claimed that she had “more right” to paint over the artwork because she “works”, “pays taxes” and is “born American”.

According to The Daily Times, Martinez said her family is Hispanic, and McClain said she is Italian and Indigenous American.

At one point, the woman said she wanted to paint the American flag on the mural because “that’s what we stand for”. When Martinez pointed out that she had the wrong colours to paint the US flag, the woman said the teen was being “disrespectful”.

An almost three-minute-long video documenting the homophobic and racist encounter was later uploaded to the Instagram account “crazykarens” and has been viewed more than 42,500 times on the platform.

Martinez told WBIR-TV that she had “never heard anyone” say such vile things to her “in my entire life”. She explained they wanted to create artwork to show other LGBT+ youth in the area that they are not alone.

“We wanted people to know they’re not alone,” Martinez said. “When I was in middle school, I would have loved to see these flags and see all these people supporting us.”

The Daily Times reported that Martinez and McCain returned the next day to repaint the bridge with a group of supporters. But by Wednesday evening (9 June), witnesses told the newspaper that people had again defaced the work.

LGBT books – 42 best LGBT books – cosmopolitan.com

LGBT books – The Gender Games: The Problem With Men and Women, From Someone Who Has Been Both – Juno Dawson

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£10.99

And another Juno Dawson – just this time not a novel. This time, Juno is telling her own story of transitioning, and bringing in some brilliant other voices to reflect also.

The blurb: Gender isn’t just screwing over trans people, it’s messing with everyone. From little girls who think they can’t be doctors to teenagers who come to expect street harassment. From exclusionist feminists to ‘alt-right’ young men. From men who can’t cry to the women who think they shouldn’t. As her body gets in line with her mind, Juno tells not only her own story, but the story of everyone who is shaped by society’s expectations of gender – and what we can do about it. Featuring insights from well-known gender, feminist and trans activists including Rebecca Root, Laura Bates, Gemma Cairney, Anthony Anaxagorou, Hannah Witton, Alaska Thunderfuck and many more, The Gender Games is a frank, witty and powerful manifesto for a world in which everyone can truly be themselves.