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Christian Siriano On Met Gala 2021 Fashion & His Burst Collab – Bustle

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Christian Siriano’s schedule is more packed than ever.

“I’ve already been invited to four parties in the next week and a premiere,” Siriano tells Bustle. “People are going to be dressed up — things are happening!”

In addition to party-hopping, the designer and Project Runway host plans on celebrating Pride 2021 by producing several special creations for his close friends. “[I’ll be] making custom Pride dresses for a few fabulous people, which is going to be so fun,” he says. “But I’m just excited to be back with people I haven’t seen and friends that I missed all last year.”

Siriano is also marking Pride with a fun, albeit unexpected, collaboration with Burst. While oral care may not be synonymous with high fashion, he’s on a mission to connect the dots.

“Pride is still about a celebration — it’s about having fun with your friends and that will never go away,” says Siriano. “But it’s about protecting yourself and making sure self-care is still important. Self-care is you. It’s everything, it’s your mind, your body, internal health, oral health, mask wearing — that is [all] very important. The idea of creating a special mask and floss case — something people can get excited about having in their bag during Pride — is cool.”

For the mask, Siriano designed a radial, hombre sunshine shape. “I wanted it to feel very graphic but still powerful,” he says. “I didn’t want it to be a typical rainbow so I used the idea of the dots and the eyes of the smiley face to continue that. It almost looks like a painting — like pointillism but in a more modern way.”

As part of the collaboration, Burst is donating $25,000 of proceeds to The Trevor Project, a nonprofit organization focused on suicide prevention efforts among lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and questioning youth.

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Siriano is a longtime red carpet favorite, especially at the Met Gala. This year, the big event — often called the Super Bowl of fashion — will take place on Sept. 13. He predicts many quirky interpretations of this year’s theme, an homage to American style throughout the decades.

“I’m guessing there’ll be a lot of haute couture versions of an Americana moment,” Siriano says, referencing the retro, patriotic trend. “Maybe a flag. Or red, white, and blue — things people associate with American fashion.”

After a rough year, he’s looking forward to the fashion community reuniting to pay tribute to the rich history of American style.

“The young American designers and more established American designers need to come together because we’re all in this together, and it’s a really hard business,” he says. “I’m excited for that, and hopefully that’s what the night will be.”

Opinion | The Republican Case for Federal LGBT Rights – POLITICO

For the national Republican Party, this issue gives us the chance to do some good, win back millions of voters we’ve alienated, and move on to other important areas where we still have the moral high ground.

Some Republican operatives think they’re better off continuing to fight on this front of the culture war, and plenty of Democratic operatives think the same. The partisan vote in the House reflects an unwillingness—on both sides—to negotiate. But gay and trans rights are no longer the wedge issue they were in the early aughts. Times have changed, and Republicans’ best bet now is to reach a negotiated peace with the other side.

Democrats know the current version of the Equality Act could never pass in the Senate in its current form. And it might seem that in the current environment, common ground is out of reach. But senators of both parties have no chance of portraying themselves as reasonable unless they make a good-faith effort to reach a deal. Democrats cannot clear this hurdle unless they deal fairly with Republicans like Susan Collins or Lisa Murkowski, as well as conservative Democrat Joe Manchin. As for Republicans, they need to be willing to back an alternative rather than just saying “no.”

For religious conservatives, and by extension the Republicans who represent many of them, the problem with the current bill is that it appears to threaten their religious freedom and fails to adequately grapple with First Amendment concerns. They cannot support legislation that would imperil their operations, including the vital social services they provide in underserved communities around the country.

Several states have enacted laws similar to the Equality Act in recent years, but always with religious liberty protections. For instance, Rhode Island has a robust anti-discrimination law with reasonable protections for religious groups. These protections ensure that Catholic Social Services—and any other religious groups—can continue to provide valuable services in the state.

Similarly, Utah’s success in passing anti-discrimination legislation offers a path forward. Although its state government is controlled by Republicans at every level, Utah has some of the strongest protections for gay and trans people in the nation. In 2015, with the support of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and state LGBTQ leaders, Utah’s Republican legislature passed a comprehensive non-discrimination bill with reasonable protections for religious organizations.

I worked on the campaign to pass it, and found that Republicans were far more open to gay rights if a bill simply respected these protections, and Democrats were able to get behind it as well. It was a fair outcome that both sides liked. As a result, the law has enjoyed widespread support among the public. The people of Utah are tied with Vermont for the second-highest rates of support for LGBTQ non-discrimination protections.

In Congress, instead of working toward such a deal, many Democrats grandstand and posture, insisting—wrongly—that they can pass the Equality Act as currently written. Rep. David Cicilline of Rhode Island, for instance, has never complained about the religious exemptions in his own state’s anti-discrimination laws, yet for some reason he draws a line in the sand at the federal level, denouncing any effort to provide similar exemptions in the Equality Act. Meanwhile, most Republicans complain about these missing provisions without offering their support for a bill that included such guarantees.

Utah should serve as a blueprint for both Democrats and Republicans in the Senate. The Fairness for All Act, an alternative version of the Equality Act, draws from the popular Utah law. Senate Republicans should introduce this bill and use its language to amend the Equality Act.

Support by Republican lawmakers for these types of changes would deliver a broader win to religious conservatives as well: Perhaps surprisingly, the best and possibly only way to achieve robust religious-freedom protections nationwide is by agreeing to LGBTQ non-discrimination protections, codifying an expansion of civil rights for religion alongside protections for sex, sexual orientation and gender identity.

This move would also help Republicans gain back some of the ground they lost with voters over the past several years. Public opinion polling shows that support for LGBTQ civil rights continues to climb, particularly in more educated, suburban districts.

With public support at sky-high levels, a version of the Equality Act will pass eventually. The question is: Which version? And will Republicans take the opportunity to shape it?

Religious conservatives should seize this chance now to influence the process before the culture shifts even more decidedly against them on LGBTQ issues. By making peace on this issue, religious conservatives could get the legal protections they want while also showing themselves to be decent and reasonable people—winning them political goodwill for any future disagreements that might emerge, and allowing lawmakers to move on to pressing issues like the crushing federal debt, defeating coronavirus, unaccompanied minors at the border, human rights abuses by the Chinese Communist Party, crumbling infrastructure and energy independence.

Responsible legislation is within reach, but you can’t win if you don’t play. Reaching a settlement on these issues is better for people of faith, better for LGBTQ people, and better for the country. Republicans should sit down with Democrats and insist on a deal that works for both sides. Common ground is possible.

In US, Pride Month festivities muted by political setbacks – Wink News

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It’s Pride Month, and gay Americans should have a lot to celebrate: A new president who has pledged to advocate for LGBTQ people, an easing of a pandemic that has disrupted their communal activism, and increasing public acceptance of their basic rights, including record-high support for same-sex marriage.

Instead, the mood is somewhat bleak. Congress has so far failed to extend federal civil rights protections to LGBTQ people. Pandemic-related concerns are still disrupting the usual exuberant Pride festivals. And a wave of anti-transgender legislation in Republican-governed states has been disheartening

“The same week I’m seeing all the ‘Happy Pride’ announcements, I received multiple calls from friends about trans kids having to navigate entering psychiatric hospitals because they were suicidal and self-harming,” said M. Dru Levasseur, a transgender attorney who is director of diversity, equity and inclusion for the National LGBT Bar Association.

“I’m doing crisis management,” he added. “These untold stories about what life is like for trans kids are contrasting with ‘Happy Pride, everybody.’”

On June 1, the start of Pride Month, Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis signed a bill making his state the eighth this year to ban transgender girls from competing in girls’ sports at public schools. Arkansas, one of those eight states, also has enacted a law banning gender-confirming medical treatments, like hormones and puberty blockers, that greatly reduce the risk of suicide in trans youth.

“Our opponents have been absolutely shameless in their attacks on transgender people,” said Kevin Jennings, CEO of the LGBTQ-rights group Lambda Legal.

“We know that trans young people are most marginalized and vulnerable students in our schools — being bullied, harassed, mistreated,” Jennings said. “We’re watching state legislators piling on to the bullying.”

The trans community already faces a disproportionate level of violence. At least 28 trans and gender-nonconforming people have been killed so far this year in the U.S. — on track to surpass the previous one-year high of 44 such killings in 2020.

Activists’ concerns extend beyond transgender issues. For many, the top political priority is passage of the Equality Act, which would extend federal civil rights protections to LGBTQ people. It was approved by the Democratic-controlled U.S. House and is backed by President Joe Biden, but probably needs at least 10 Republican votes to prevail in the closely divided Senate – and thus far has no GOP co-sponsors.

Tyler Deaton, who advises a conservative group called the American Unity Fund that supports LGBTQ rights, believes enough Republican votes can be found if language is drafted to ensure the Equality Act doesn’t infringe on religious freedom.

“Senators are having those conversations now,” he said, mentioning Republicans such as Susan Collins of Maine, Lisa Murkowski of Alaska, and Rob Portman of Ohio who have supported some LGBTQ-friendly legislation in the past.

Amid the disappointment, Pride festivities are proceeding, but many have been subject to downsizing, postponement and – in some cases — controversy.

The Pride parades in San Francisco and Los Angeles have been canceled for the second year in a row, due to uncertainty about COVID-19 restrictions. Organizers are offering smaller in-person events this month.

Philadelphia has scrapped its large-scale parade; there are plans for a festival instead on Sept. 4. Chicago’s parade has been rescheduled for Oct. 3.

In New York, most events for NYC Pride will take place virtually, as they did last year, though some in-person activities are planned.

NYC Pride organizers incurred some criticism last month after banning police and other law enforcement personnel from marching in uniform in the annual parade until at least 2025 and asking that on-duty officers keep a block away from the celebration. The Gay Officers Action League said it was disheartened by the decision.

Some recent developments have encouraged the LGBTQ community – the overturning of a Trump administration ban on transgender people joining the military; the ground-breaking appointments of Pete Buttigieg, who is gay, as transportation secretary, and Dr. Rachel Levine, who is transgender, as assistant secretary of health.

And this week, Gallup reported that 70% of Americans now support same-sex marriage, the highest number since Gallup began polling on the topic in 1996, when support was at 27%.

But to many activists, these developments are offset by setbacks to transgender rights.

Amy Allen, mother of a 14-year-old transgender boy in the suburbs of Nashville, said her family is dismayed by the multiple anti-trans bills winning approval in Tennessee – including one exposing public schools to lawsuits if they let transgender students use multi-person bathrooms or locker rooms that don’t reflect their sex at birth.

’We’ve done a pretty good job within our family of really supporting him,” Allen said of her son, Adam. “ Then to have this new layer of the legislation — having to think how that could directly affect his day-to-day life just adds more anxiety.”

It’s worrisome enough, Allen said, that she and her husband – who have roots in the Northeast – are considering relocating there if Adam’s situation worsens.

Activists have expressed dismay at the lack of corporate backlash to the new anti-transgender laws.

A particular disappointment for activists is the NCCA, which – despite calls for it to take punitive action – located some of this year’s regional softball and baseball tournament games in states that enacted bans on transgender girls’ sports participation.

It’s a sharp contrast to the NCAA’s stance five years ago, when it refused to hold championship events in North Carolina for several months after its legislature passed a bill restricting transgender people’s use of bathrooms in public facilities.

“The NCAA should be ashamed of themselves for violating their own policy by choosing to hold championships in states that are not healthy, safe, or free from discrimination for their athletes,” said Alphonso David, president of the Human Rights Campaign.

Among the transgender Americans with mixed feelings about Pride Month is Randi Robertson, who rose to the rank of lieutenant colonel during 22 years in the Air Force and now combines work as an airline pilot instructor with transgender-rights advocacy.

She is relieved that the Biden administration, unlike its predecessor, pledges support for expanded LGBTQ rights, yet she says activists should be combative rather than complacent.

“The fundamentalist, evangelical right has chosen expressly to attack the smallest, most vulnerable part of the LBGT community (transgender people),” she said. “The broader narrative is we’re actually winning. Now is not the time to give up — now is the time to double down and keep the pressure on.”

Imani Rupert-Gordon, executive director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights, also voiced a nuanced view of Pride Month.

“Pride is a time when we get to celebrate who we are,” she said. “It’s also a time when we recognize we still have a lot more to do.”

A new club called ‘Central’ is opening in Mount Vernon – – Baltimore Fishbowl

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Bentley’s will become ‘Central,’ a new bar in Mt. Vernon.

Nine months after the gay-friendly Grand Central nightclub closed in Mount Vernon, a new gay club called Central is opening several blocks away.

Marc Hayes and Ivan Yordanov, owners of Central.

Baltimore’s liquor board yesterday approved a request to transfer a Class “B” Beer, Wine and Liquor license to Marc Hayes and Ivan Yordanov, two businessmen who plan to open a 6,200 square foot restaurant, bar and nightclub on Howard Street’s Antique Row, in a three-building complex most recently occupied by Bentley’s jazz bar and lounge.

According to their application, the business will be called Central. Hayes is the former general manager of Grand Central, the popular bar and club that was at the northeast corner of Charles and Eager Streets from 1991 to 2020. Its last day of operation was September 3.

Grand Central closed after original owner Don Davis sold the property to a developer, Landmark Partners, which is constructing an eight-story office building in its place.

When it was clear that Grand Central would have to close to make way for the office project, Hayes said he’d like to find a location where its patrons could go once construction began. In March of 2020, he received liquor board approval to operate a bar at 15 E. Centre Street, the spot formerly known as Flavor, but never opened there.

Instead, Hayes explored other options in Mount Vernon and chose the Bentley’s property at 885-889 N. Howard Street, part of the block known as Antique Row. After the liquor board hearing yesterday, he and Yordanov gave a tour of the building, which they’re aiming to open in August, creating about 20 jobs.

Before giving the tour, Hayes said he wanted to make it clear that this business is not a relocation of Grand Central and that Landmark Partners is not affiliated with it. He said it won’t have any of the old furnishings or memorabilia from Grand Central and that he doesn’t control rights to the name or other intellectual property associated with Grand Central.

“It’s not Grand,” he stressed. “We’re just Central. Not connected at all.”

Hayes explained that he was working with Landmark when he explored opening the Centre Street building but he isn’t working on the Howard Street venture with Landmark, which acquired the intellectual property associated with Grand Central when it bought the buildings at 1001-1003 N. Charles Street.

The Centre Street location “was going to be a Grand Central,” because it would have been opened in collaboration with Landmark, he said. But because Landmark isn’t involved with the Howard Street property, “this is not going to be a Grand Central. This is going to be Central. This is going to be an LGBTQIA-friendly place, but not using the Grand Central intellectual property.“

In terms of square footage, too, “we’re totally not Grand,” he said. With roughly 15,000-square-feet over two buildings on Charles Street, “that was a huge space.”

But then why name it Central?

“Because we are central, between Leon’s and The Drinkery,” two other gay bars in Mount Vernon, he said. “We’re in a triangle.”

While the new business doesn’t have legal ties to Grand Central, Hayes said, he’ll certainly welcome its former patrons, as well as those who have never set foot in or heard of Grand Central. And even though he’s calling it a gay bar, he said, “I don’t see gender or race in anybody.” He describes himself as gender fluid and Yordanov as an ally of the gay community.

Both Hayes and Yordanov are 50 percent owners of the business. Hayes said they plan to have a dance floor and DJ station; Sunday brunch; drag shows and other live entertainment, as well as a full-service kitchen. Along with the license transfer, the liquor board approved a request to continue live entertainment and provide carryout service.

The three buildings are connected on the inside and date from around 1900. The interior has a long wooden bar reminiscent of Grand Central’s, and a series of lounges and dining areas. Some of the walls have exposed brick; one room is lined with mirrors. The main dance area is on the second level, with a mezzanine for a DJ that recalls the mezzanine in the old Girard’s nightclub at Cathedral and Eager streets. Spaces are more intimate and have lower ceilings than certain rooms in buildings on Charles Street, but they feel like Mount Vernon.

The property has been home to a series of restaurants and lounges over the years, including Phaze 10 and Cookers Music Bistro before Bentley’s. According to the Loopnet real estate website, the complex has been on the market for $870,000. The awning in the front still says Bentley’s. The liquor license remained active and transferrable even though the business hasn’t been open consistently during the COVID-19 pandemic because the liquor board changed its rules to be more flexible over the past year.

Hayes said he considered several locations for a place to open a club but decided on the Howard Street property because he liked its layout and ambiance, its location, and the fact that it doesn’t need much renovation.

“I’ve always liked this building,” he said. “Grand stairwell. Wrought iron…It’s gorgeous. Look at the arches.”

Because it’s three buildings combined, he said, the property already has a separate entrance for the carryout part of the business. He said he isn’t overly concerned about parking. “It’s different times, now,” he pointed out. “People take an Uber now. It’s better for them not to drive.”

Hayes and Yordanov, who lives in Alexandria, Virginia, have formed an entity called Mimik LLC to operate the business and are leasing the property. The Mount Vernon Belvedere Association, which has sometimes been wary of new bars in the neighborhood, wrote to the liquor board supporting Central’s application.

Hayes and Yordanov still need to pass inspections required by the liquor board. Hayes said the bar will be open from 4 p.m. to 1:45 a.m. Monday through Saturday and from 10 a.m. to 1:45 a.m. on Sundays, when Central will serve brunch. The carryout is tentatively scheduled to open daily starting at 11 a.m.

Even though many gay bars have closed around the country during the pandemic, including Gallery One on Maryland Avenue, Hayes said he believes there’s a market for another one in Baltimore.

He notes that Central will be different from the Baltimore Eagle, which caters to the leather community; the tavern-style bars with no live entertainment, and The Manor, an “ultralounge” in an elegantly-restored townhouse that used to be The Elephant restaurant. He said Central will have a cover charge when there are shows.

“We’re not The Manor, obviously. They’ve got a fantastic chef and fantastic food, and we’re going to be doing bar food” with a relaxed atmosphere and DJs, he said. At the same time, Central will offer more in terms of entertainment and food service than bars such as Leon’s and The Drinkery.

Given the range of options already in town, he said, “we’re kind of right in the middle.“

Hayes said he’s hoping Central will help draw more people and businesses to the 800 block of North Howard Street, on the western edge of Mount Vernon.

“I would love more positive foot traffic on Antique Row,” he said. “If we can spark something on Antique Row and get people moving up and down this street, we can make even more happen.”

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A new colorful motel in the Catskills brims with LGBTQ pride – Times Union

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“Creating magic is the brand,” says Jove Meyer. The event designer and entrepreneur could really be talking about anything — from his energetic, playfuleponymous wedding company that has joy as its ethos, to his work as an advocate and educator on LGBTQ rights and equality for all people.

But what he’s referring to in this instance isNorsdale and the CMYK Motel, the “colorful getaway for groups” he opened in the Catskills alongside co-founders Nick Harris and Tim Harrison earlier this month. Like anothergroup stay motel in the Hudson Valley launching soon, the motel’s four rooms (as well as the main house) can only be booked in their entirety, not individually like a standard motel.

It’s a tribute to the trio’s grit — and faith in their vision — that, in a year that brought so much hardship to the hospitality industry, the Phoenicia-based property found its footing (“I’ve always been a salmon — I’ve always swam upstream,” laughs Meyer. “It’s just who I am and what I do.”). But Norsdale’s butterfly-like emergence out of the chrysalis that was the COVID-19 pandemic doesn’t give credit to the years-long journey that preceded it.

The year was 2017, and Meyer was in the Catskills for the weekend to attend a friend’s birthday party in Roxbury. He’d long been toying with the idea of buying a rental property upstate with his fellow creatives Harris (a marketing director) and Harrison (an art director), loving the slower pace of life and accessibility to nature the area offered.

“I always want more joy, more color — my whole brand is about being different and celebrating the freedom that comes with that,” says Jove Meyer, the event designer who recently opened the Norsdale and CMYK Motel, a new large group rental in the Catskiils that he co-owns with two partners.

Chellise Michael Photography

“The Catskills are just unlike anywhere else in the country,” says Meyer, who’s been visiting the area for years both personally and professionally. “You get there and it’s mountains, it’s greenery, it’s water, it’s fresh air, there’s barely cell phone service. You get to disconnect from your hectic life and soak up nature in all its glory.”

Honoring the past with fresh twist

When he happened upon a property for sale on his way to the birthday celebration, he knew he’d struck gold. Not only was the home a mere five minutes from downtown Phoenicia, but it boasted 9.6 acres of land and was accompanied by a four-room motel. Meyer was so taken by the roadside view that he screeched to a halt and dialed up the local realtor listed on the “For Sale” sign on the spot.    

“It was very ‘upstate,’” Meyer says of his first walkthrough of the property the next morning. “I mean, the motel was in disrepair — things were hanging down from the ceiling, there was plastic wood paneling on the walls, tiny bathrooms and the carpet was like, this blood red. It really took a vision to see what it could be.”

Never one to shy away from a challenge (after all, this is a man who planned an event for thousands of people at theNew York Public Library, and regularly dreams up celebrations around the world for hundreds of couples looking to officially cement their love), Meyer debriefed with his co-founders before the three unanimously decided to put an offer on their dream slice of real estate.

“We eventually learned that the former owners of the home had raised their family there for 33 years,” explains Meyer. “They were originally from Brooklyn and loved that we were, too — there was definitely a connection there.”

Meyer and his co-founders paid tribute to the history of the property with more than just their Brooklyn zip code, though. They used the former owner’s name for the motel, Norsedale, as the jumping off point for their own brand name, dropping the “e” but otherwise loving the vibe of the unique moniker. “We wanted to honor the legacy of this place,” says Meyer. “By dropping the “e” it was like we’re paying homage to the past and reinventing the future.”

Meyer and his partners chose to work only with brands with shared, equality-minded values like Fiestaware, which provided all the dishware in the Norsdale, the five-bedroom home adjacent to the CMYK Motel.

Meyer and his partners chose to work only with brands with shared, equality-minded values like Fiestaware, which provided all the dishware in the Norsdale, the five-bedroom home adjacent to the CMYK Motel.

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After closing on the property in November 2017, necessary upgrades like plumbing, electrical and infrastructure work took precedence ahead of aesthetics — until the pandemic brought all plans to an abrupt halt. To help overcome the major delays caused by stay-at-home orders, Meyer and his co-founders moved up to the property with the new goal of getting the main home in good enough shape to post on Airbnb.

“It wasn’t our original plan,” he explains. “Our plan was definitely to finish renovating the motel, renovate the house, get all our final permits, and then open the whole property. But due to COVID, delays with furniture and a million other things beyond our control, we opened the main home on the property in June of last year to Airbnb renters. Everybody wanted to get out of the city.”

Dreaming in color

The income from the rental home gave the trio the bandwidth to focus their attention on the property’s CMYK Motel, whose four rooms Meyer dreamed of decorating in all-over saturated hues (CMYK stands for cyan, magenta, yellow and black — the four colors you need to print basically any image).

“If you think of Jove Meyer Events, you think of color — that’s my hope, at least,” says Meyer. “I always want more joy, more color — my whole brand is about being different and celebrating the freedom that comes with that. It was our thought that there’s really nowhere in the Catskills that’s modern, colorful, intentional and bold — it just doesn’t exist. There’s a lot of exposed wood or natural vibes or cabin vibes — a lot of cabin vibes,” he laughs. “And we thought, why not create something that has never been done before, that leads with color and character, and really makes a statement.”

The team did just that, blanketing the motel in a suite of color-saturated rooms, each awash in a single color scheme of all pink, all blue, all yellow or all grey tones, from the painted floors to the saturated wallpaper and bespoke custom finishes. (The exterior is painted a deep charcoal, echoing the black house trend across the Hudson Valley.) But the beauty lies not just in the property’s surface-level aesthetics (which are, undeniably, beautiful), but in the thoughtful and meaningful partnerships the team has forged.

To outfit the home, Meyer fostered connections with equality-minded brands likeFiestaware (who provided all the dishware in the home),Minted (who consulted on the artwork) andEast Olivia (who provided floral arrangements for each room). The sheets in every room are byBrooklinen, a company that proudly stands for LGBTQ and BIPOC advocacy; the toiletries are byMalin+Goetz, a queer-owned, New York-based brand.

“I speak about inclusiveness and advocacy for all people professionally,” explains Meyer. “And we’re all gay — we’ve all been discriminated against, and we know what it’s like to not feel welcome in a space. We wanted to be very clear that that was not the case [at our property]. It was so important that we were intentional in our partnerships.”

It’s not lost on Meyer that segments of the Hudson Valley lean very conservative but he looks at those differences as an opportunity to find commonality, not opposition. “We’re doing our part to engage in conversation and meet everyone where they are,” he explains. “We don’t ask who you voted for on the website, we don’t ask if you’re gay or straight on our website — but we also don’t hide that we are three queer owners and that is our background. People hate what they don’t know, people fear what they don’t know — I think the only way to start breaking down barriers and move forward is to really get to know one another.”

The exterior of the Norsdale and CMYK Motel belie the color inside.

The exterior of the Norsdale and CMYK Motel belie the color inside.

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For their part, Meyer and his co-founders have made a concerted effort to involve themselves in their local community, from hosting a series of garage sales when cleaning out the original property (with the intention of meeting their neighbors), to joining the Phoenicia Town Association and committing to hiring contractors, service workers and tradespeople that all reside within an hour of Norsdale.

“If you’re going to do it right, you have to be part of a community — not better than a community or outside of a community,” says Meyer. “Community is connection, and I think we all strive for more of that. We’ve done our best to honor what was there and connect with people locally and authentically.”

After a soft launch party in early June (where they served beer fromWoodstock Brewing company, bites fromThe Upstate Table and made a point to invite every local hotel or motel, wedding venue, business, and event planner), the Norsdale property is officially open for business, offering up a full buyout of the main house and CMYK Motel for weddings, company excursions, retreats and more.

In a beautiful bit of irony, the property’s first guests will be a television production focused on telling the story of LGBTQ people of color, followed shortly thereafter by a reiki master, local wedding guests, and a retreat for mental health professionals. The already-diverse clientele speaks volumes of the open approach Meyer and his co-founders have taken with building the property’s brand.

“I don’t want to say we’re reinventing hospitality, because that sounds so large and grand,” says Meyer. “But, at its core, hospitality is love. At Norsdale, you have space and everything you need to have a great time with those you love, and I think for me, that’s what hospitality is all about. It’s the people you’re with that make life worth living, and we wanted to create a place for that to happen.”

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June Is A Sweet Month, It’s National Candy Month – WUPE

June is National Candy Month, Using Google Trends, Zippia determined which states were the most avid fans of certain candies.

In the end, Skittles and Starburst had the most representation, with seven states each. Skittles was #1 in Florida, Georgia, Nebraska, New Mexico, Vermont, Virginia, and Texas. Starburst was #1 in Arizona, California, New Jersey, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, and South Carolina.

Hershey Bars were #1 in six states, but surprisingly it was not Pennsylvania Milky Way was #1 there. Twix was the pick in five states: South Carolina, Delaware, Minnesota, Missouri, and Wisconsin.

A handful of candy bars surprisingly only got one state each, including Snickers in South Dakota, Kit Kats in North Dakota, Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups in West Virginia and M&M’s in Nevada.

And New Hampshire went with Heath Bars, which are fine especially if you’re feeling extra indulgent, but they’re not exactly the hippest treat these days.
Here in Massachusetts, we are all about Milky Way Bars!

Here are a couple of ways you can celebrate National Candy Month.

Make some candy sushi, which is a lot sweeter sushi roll!
You can check out what people have been doing with candy sushi on Pinterest. Long pieces of candy (like Twizzlers) substitute for the fish and vegetable strips in real sushi, while rice is replaced by Rice Krispies. It’s the most delicious roll-up you’ve ever had!

DIY your favorite candy
Take your favorite candy and duplicate it at home, Some great candidates to start are peanut butter cups, Kit Kats, and chocolate clusters. Get your baking on.

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OIT celebrates Pride Month: Using technology to support the LGBTQ+ community – Ohio University

This Pride Month, the Ohio University Office of Information Technology (OIT) is pleased to celebrate the importance of technology for LGBTQ+ students and share resources with the OHIO community that can help create inclusive and affirming learning environments.

Pride Month offers everyone an opportunity to reflect on how to celebrate and support the LGBTQ+ community in our everyday lives. For many lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer or questioning (LGBTQ+) individuals, technology plays a crucial role, offering opportunities for identity exploration and affirmation as well as connection to other LGBTQ+ folks. 

Finding affirmation and navigating challenges online

Andy Figueroa (they/them/theirs), a recent OHIO graduate, explained that technology allows them not just to connect with people who share their identity, but who also share their interests. “By finding other queer POC [people of color] creators whose online presence is just them doing what they love, it can be very affirming.”

While technology offers opportunities for connection and validation, virtual spaces also harbor potential dangers. According to the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network, “LGBT youth experience nearly three times as much bullying and harassment online as non-LGBT youth, but also find greater peer support, access to health information and opportunities to be civically engaged.” 

As learning and work have moved online over the course of the pandemic, so too have Ohio University’s efforts to create safe spaces.

Dr. Jan Huebenthal (he/him/his), education manager at the Equitas Health Institute and former assistant director of the OHIO LGBT Center, shared how when the pandemic sent some students back into unsupportive home environments, it was clear that continuing to support Bobcats called for an increased focus on leveraging technology. The Division of Diversity and Inclusion launched online trainings providing resources, key terms and definitions, and strategies to assist faculty to foster inclusive and equitable learning environments in new virtual settings. 

“It’s much more than you just want your students to feel well supported,” Huebenthal says. “If you want your students to feel empowered in your classroom, you can only do that by signaling that your spaces are inclusive of everyone.” For example, as a faculty member, the act of adding your identified pronoun to your email signature is a way to signal to students that you support them. 

Using technology to show your Pride

Update your pronouns in University systems

In 2015 the University adopted the Preferred Pronoun Policy, which allows students to select their preferred form of self-identification in the My OHIO Student Center. OHIO faculty and staff can update their preferred name and pronoun by following these steps:

  1. Log in to My Personal Information
  2. Click Personal Information, located under My Personal Information. 
  3. Click Update in the Basic Details section. 
  4. Select Correct or complete the current details click the Next
  5. Update the Preferred first name and click Next. For example, you could put your pronouns in parentheses after your name, such as “Nicole (she/her).” 
  6. Click Next to navigate through the remaining pages. 
  7. Click Submit

It may take some time for this change to appear in various University platforms, such as Outlook or Teams.

Additional information on how to reflect your preferred pronoun can be found on the University’s Registrar FAQ site. 

Use Pride themes in Teams, PowerPoint and other Microsoft apps

Microsoft released several ways to show your support for Pride Month, including: 

  • Applying a Pride Month theme to your Teams mobile app 
  • Personalized Edge browser colors and themes 
  • Predesigned PowerPoint templates 
  • And other suggestions on how to transform Office 365 applications  

Participate in OHIO Pride Month virtual events

Love and let love, says gay icon Sushant Divgikar – India New England

Sushant Divgikar

By Siddhi Jain

New Delhi–  LGBTQ+ activist, performer and the winner of 2014 Mr Gay India, Sushant Divgikar says it is “preposterous that some people think dehumanising an entire community of people is “funny and that it is OK to do so”.

The singer and drag icon also released and featured in a music video titled ‘Diamond’ and has recently crossed a million followers on social media.

The influencer-activist is also known under his drag alter ego Rani Ko-He-Nur. Divgikar joined the country’s singing competition, Sa Re Ga Ma Pa, which was broadcast on national television in 2018 — the same year the Indian Supreme Court repealed the Section 377 law criminalizing homosexuality.

Having been in the entertainment space since a decade and a half, Divgikar has been roped in by corporate houses and non-profits alike to discuss equality and equity and support their respective inclusion and diversity campaigns. Using his art to break barriers and by embracing his masculine and feminine side, he inspires people from all over the world to find courage to live their life fiercely and freely. He is also an industrial psychologist.

This Pride Month, Sushant Divgikar speaks to IANSlife in an interview:

You have been an active part of the entertainment and lifestyle industry for quite a few years. Would you say the journey to fame and success is more challenging for people with non-cishet identities?

Sushant: Yes. Now that you reminded me , it’s been 15 years I have been actively part of the entertainment industry. I wouldn’t say one person’s struggle is more or less than another’s but if you see an entire section of society such as the LGBTQIA+ community, that has constantly been dehumanised and discriminated against time and time again , you will instantly realise that a queer person’s life is met with by struggles and hurdles at every juncture. We need to be more mindful and be more inclusive as well as empathetic to sexual minorities and other minority groups that are glazed rather subconsciously by toxic patriarchy, toxic preconceived notions and unsettling, continuous conditioning!

Do you find enough mainstream representation of people from the LGBTQIA+ community? What are some stereotypes we can do away with?

Sushant: Absolutely not! Queer people are, in fact, misrepresented nearly all the time. We need to do better, collectively ! We have a lot of blood on our hands because of the way we have so conveniently made queer characters in mainstream pop culture and media, the laughing stock at every given opportunity. It is preposterous that some people think dehumanising an entire community of people is efunny’ and that it is OK to do so.

One of the certain stereotypes we need to do away with is that every queer person should only be shown as overly flamboyant. Another ridiculous and catastrophic stereotype we have we do away with is queer characters made to look like their libido is constantly touching the ceiling and that they will throw themselves at every person in the room. I especially detest instances where some filmmakers have shown gay characters literally looking like sexual predators and being disrespectful and bitchy all the time.

You have released your music video ‘Diamond’ this year. It speaks of rising above ‘labelling’ and acceptance of all. What are your thoughts about the song and video?

Sushant: Yes, that’s right. I thought of creating ‘Diamond’, along with my fellow bandmate, amazing musician and dear friend, Arthur Lobo along with our manager Niki (Parambir Kaur). We have spent a lot of time on this baby and we wanted people to experience what I personally have experienced more than once, empowerment. Empowerment because of self love and self acceptance. The song speaks of identifying one’s self worth and then celebrating it to become the truest, most authentic version of themselves. Each and every one of us is a diamond in our own right and that’s what the song portrays.

Do you think ‘Drag’ as a concept is understood in India outside designated safe spaces?

Sushant: Yes I do. I actually think we don’t give as much credit to our audiences as we should give. We are quick to judge the audiences without even understanding that they are open to learning and understanding the content they consume. More often than not, we put forth rubbish, senseless and mediocre content for them to consume because we think, they might not be evolved enough to understand intellectual and stellar content. But how can we judge the audiences when we haven’t even tried?

My audiences didn’t know what drag is. But today with the epower of art’, social media and other mediums of communication, such as radio , television and print media, I have made even people in remote villages and smaller towns, understand what drag is.

Despite homosexuality being decriminalized, there remain cultural and psychological barriers to its acceptance. Your thoughts.

Sushant: This is because some people in power (not generalising) are extremely toxic and don’t want to accept ground realities. They would rather be blissfully unaware about things they don’t know that confront what makes them uncomfortable — uncomfortable because they don’t have a clear conscience.

I agree. The psychological and cultural acceptance has still to grow in India but I believe that day is not far. Till that day comes, I just want to tell trolls and haters that your opinions and statements about me or anyone else, can never and will never dictate our realities.

People from the community often have trouble finding LGBTQIA-friendly psychologists and therapists. Being a psychologist too, how do you view this inaccessibility to non-judgmental mental health care for people who are often even more sidelined by the status quo?

Sushant: Mental health professionals who judge their clients should immediately resign! That’s all. There’s nothing more or less to add or subtract. Plain and simple. It is against ethics to judge and discriminate against your client, especially if you’re a mental health professional.

This month is Pride Month. Your message?

Sushant: I just want to tell everyone out there , regardless of whether you’re part of the rainbow family or not. Live and let live and love and let love.(IANS)

Craic LGBT film fest to be hosted by New York Irish Center – IrishCentral

The Craic Fest, in conjunction with the Irish Film Institute and the Dublin based GAZE film festival will present a program of ten new Irish LGBT short films on June 12 at the New York Irish Center (NYIC) with a run time of over 90 minutes in total. 

A small reception is also planned for after the screening at the NYIC. Limited seating for this event will be offered at $10 per ticket and the event is funded by the Department of  Cultural Affairs and Speaker Corey Johnson.

Short films to be screened include ‘Outside the Box’ by director Janet Grainger asks who do we see when we look at people? Do we put people in boxes to make it easier for ourselves to comprehend? By doing that do we also feel the need to place ourselves in a box restricting our own true potential? Outside the Box is an explorative animated documentary that looks at how we perceive people in the LGBTQI community and in turn how they look at themselves.

The short film ‘Kelly’ by director Solene Guichard explores what happens when Kelly (Jamie O’Herlihy) comes back to her childhood house after many years abroad to help her sister tidy for the estate agent. The tension is tangible as Andrea (Lucy McConnell) still hasn’t come to terms with who her big brother, Dylan, has become. Amongst pictures of Dylan and objects that trigger moments long lost, Kelly and Andrea need to clear things up to start anew.

The short film ‘A White Horse’ by director Shaun O’Connor is set in Ireland in the 1970s where a young girl is trying to escape from a mental hospital where doctors are trying to “cure” her lesbianism. O’Connor reminds us how close in time we are to an era when such barbaric practices were widespread. His film lifts the rock on abuses and horrors that some would prefer us to forget.

‘The Calamus Emotion’ by director Stiofan O’Ceallaigh marries incantations, time travel and the poetry of Walt Whitman into a visually arresting experimental work.

‘Coming Home’ by director: Laura Mannix introduces us to Devin, who has had a poor relationship with her father since she was 16. Now 26, she returns home from work one evening to the news of her father’s death. Determined to get some closure, she travels back to her childhood home for the wake, a place she hasn’t set foot in for 10 years. But once there she has to wrestle with an onslaught of memories, good and bad. Is forgiveness always the way forward, the film asks?

‘From His Perspective’ director Caleb Julian Roberts was nominated for best micro-short at the British Film Institute (BFI) awards. The film takes us through three minutes in the life of a young trans man that could very well change your own in the process. The film is a snapshot of the seemingly normalized and sometimes deliberate transphobia that a young man Matthew has to endure as he transitions in today’s society.

‘Welcome to a Bright White Limbo’ by director Cara Holmes is an acclaimed and visually remarkable portrait of Belfast-based dancer and choreographer Oona Doherty. The film offers audiences an emotionally introspective yet cinematically celebratory look at her creative practice and astounding physical prowess while she takes us behind the scenes of her award-winning performance piece entitled Hope Hunt. 

Finally ‘Cailin Alainn’ (Pretty Girl) by director Megan K Fox tells a tale as old as time, the teenage crush at the Gaeltacht, a place of many firsts, including feeling free to be yourself for one night for one pretty girl.

Fox’s film has been described as a tender bi-lingual drama about a transgender Irish teen who comes out for the first time at a cross-dressing disco at the Gaeltacht. This film was nominated for the highest-profile LGBTQ+ film award in the world, the Iris Prize, in 2020.

The total running time for the shorts program is roughly 90 minutes. The Craic LGBT Film Festival will be hosted by the New York Irish Center on June 12 at 7:30 P.M. For tickets visit thecraicfest.com.

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Florida Reverses Itself, Allows Rainbow Bridge Lighting In Honor Of Pride Month – CBS Miami

JACKSONVILLE (CBSMiami/AP) — Florida leaders have reversed their decision and said a downtown Jacksonville bridge can be decorated in rainbow lights to celebrate gay rights, one day after it had ordered them to be removed.

Taryn Fenske, a spokeswoman for Gov. Ron DeSantis, told The Florida Times-Union that she didn’t know why the Florida Department of Transportation had ordered the state-owned Acosta Bridge returned to its normal blue lighting Tuesday night.  The rainbow colors reappeared on Wednesday night.

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The Jacksonville Transportation Authority had planned to use rainbow lighting on the Acosta throughout the week in honor of Pride Month, which commemorates the struggle for gay rights. The state has allowed numerous celebratory lighting displays on the bridge to honor patriotic holidays, celebrate the Jacksonville Jaguars football team and raise disease awareness.

It had been the second time this month the state rejected a rainbow lighting display for a bridge.
“The bottom line is, (the rainbow) lights will be back” on the Acosta, Fenske told the paper.

The state transportation department said on Tuesday that its original decision to shut off the rainbow lights was not motivated by anti-gay animus but because the display violated regulations. It said the Jacksonville authority’s permit for lighting the Acosta requires it to maintain a certain color scheme unless it receives state permission for a temporary change.

DeSantis, a Republican, was criticized last week when, on the first day of Pride Month, he signed a law banning transgender athletes from participating in school sports.

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The state had earlier rejected Sarasota’s request to light its John Ringling Causeway Bridge with rainbow lights this month despite also permitting other displays there.

The governor’s office did not immediately respond to an email from The Associated Press asking whether that display will also now be allowed.

According to the state’s bridge lighting policy, the transportation department can reject any temporary color scheme it deems offensive or not in the public’s best interest. It also says special lighting displays should be limited to federal or state holidays or celebrations and “events of broad community interest and significance approved by local governments.” Fenske said those policies will be reviewed.

The Times-Union reports that the Acosta is frequently lit in different color schemes. Last month, it was lit in teal to honor the Jaguars for drafting star quarterback Trevor Lawrence; green for mental health month; blue and green to raise awareness of neurofibromatoses, a neurological disorder that causes tumors; light blue for amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, the fatal condition commonly called Lou Gehrig’s disease; purple for lupus awareness; and red, white and blue for Memorial Day.

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Reject Bill Banning Discussion of LGBT Issues: Hungary – Mirage News

Human Rights Watch

Hungary

‘s parliament should reject a bill that would prohibit discussion of gender identity and sexual orientation, and violates Hungary’s international legal obligations, Human Rights Watch said today. The law targets content “promoting” or “portraying” sexual and gender diversity and could have sweeping consequences for health providers, educators, and artists, among others.

The draft “Laws enabling stricter action against pedophile offenders and the protection of children” bans the “portrayal and the promotion of gender identity different from sex at birth, the change of sex and homosexuality” aimed at people under 18. The bill, sponsored by Fidesz, the ruling party, is due for a vote in parliament on June 15, 2021.

“Hungary’s ruling party is cynically deploying a ‘protection of children’ narrative to trample on rights and try to render LGBT people invisible,” said Neela Ghoshal, associate LGBT rights director at Human Rights Watch. “Children do not need to be protected from exposure to diversity. On the contrary, LGBT children and families need protection from discrimination and violence.”

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Love, Victor season 2 review: An engaging, soapy return for Hulu’s gay comedy-drama – Metro Weekly

Love, Victor: Bebe Wood, Anthony Turpel, George Sear, Michael Cimino -- Photo: Michael Desmond/Hulu
Love, Victor: Bebe Wood, Anthony Turpel, George Sear, Michael Cimino — Photo: Michael Desmond/Hulu

After struggling through his sophomore year to accept his sexuality, Victor Salazar, the virtuous but imperfect high school hero of Hulu’s Love, Victor (★★★☆☆), took a giant leap forward in the final moments of season one, announcing to his parents, “Mom, Dad, I’m gay.”

Somewhat defying expectations, it’s been practically all rainbows and kisses for Victor (Michael Cimino) since then, as tipped by the title of season two’s first episode, “Perfect Summer Bubble.” The 17-year-old got the summer he wanted with the boy he wanted, Benji (George Sear), the toothsome twosome slinging lattes side-by-side at the Central Perk of their leafy Atlanta suburb. But their bubble’s set to burst as the lovebirds return to Creekwood High, where Victor, known as a straight basketball star dating popular girl Mia (Rachel Hilson), risks it all by going public with his and Benji’s relationship.

In its engaging second season, the Love, Simon spinoff heaps adversity onto the shoulders of Victor, his family, and friends, yet still maintains its footing as a light, romantic drama — most of the time. Showrunner/creators Isaac Aptaker and Elizabeth Berger steer towards soapy excess with an arc involving Victor’s best bud Felix (Anthony Turpel) coping with his mom’s declining mental health. Confessions are made, awkward, emotional scenes erupt, and, too often across the season’s ten episodes, the writers turn to blatant or unintended betrayals to drive a wedge between characters. “You betrayed my trust” might be the mantra or drinking game that defines the melodramatic mood of everything to do with Felix and girlfriend Lake (Bebe Wood) this season.

Victor also contends with mother issues, but in a more credibly written and acted storyline that finds his casually Catholic mom, Isabel (Ana Ortiz), seriously conflicted about her number-one son being gay. Fans of Ugly Betty will recall Ortiz’s impassioned performance on that dearly departed comedy as a mom who championed her gay son. In this show’s most compelling performance, Ortiz portrays a loving mom so uncertain of how to accept — if she can accept — her son, that she stays afraid of doing or saying the wrong thing.

Love, Victor: Michael Cimino, George Sear — Photo: Greg Gayne/Hulu

The show plays Isabel’s rocky journey both for resonant humor and for the angst it causes Victor, his siblings Pilar (Isabella Ferreira) and Adrian (Mateo Fernandez), and even Benji, whom Isabel can barely restrain herself from antagonizing. The tension also adds to the yawning distance between Isabel and Victor’s dad, Armando (James Martinez), still separated and leading ever more separate lives.

In contrast to his wife, who consults the family priest, Armando tries to understand his son by joining PFLAG. The show conveys beautifully that whether or not Armando and Isabel survive as a couple will depend largely on their growth as individuals through Victor’s coming out process. Thus, the question hangs over all the Salazars how they will survive as a family.



Meanwhile, the show introduces a new queer character, Pilar’s fashionable friend Rahim (Anthony Keyvan), with his own familial tension to navigate. Inspired by Victor, Rahim wants to come out to his parents, who are devout Muslims — a distinction depicted with the same box-checking, bare-bones detail that characterizes the mental illness storyline. Rahim is much more intriguing as a potential spoiler in the Victor-Benji romance.

No longer the potential spoiler in that relationship, Victor’s ex Mia pursues a new romance with the fervor of a girl who constantly gets shafted by the plotting on this show. Hilson keeps the character delightful, despite Mia’s parade of misfortunes, and she even gets her own cliffhanger ending for the season, as does Victor, of course. On the strength of Cimino’s poised performance, Love, Victor and its hero stand on the precipice of some life-changing choices that may not be fully revealed until the door opens on season three.

Love, Victor seasons 1 and 2 are available for streaming on Hulu. Visit www.hulu.com.

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Melina León se presenta en concierto de recordación de Pulse. – Orlando Sentinel

Singer Melina Leon goes into the audience to comfort friends and family of Pulse nightclub victims during the PrideFest Kissimmee at the Kissimmee Civic Center on Saturday, June 10, 2017. (Stephen M. Dowell/Orlando Sentinel) (Stephen M. Dowell / Orlando Sentinel)

North Dakota lawmakers okay regulation banning Conversion Therapy – Washington Blade

With Pride month underway and the coronavirus pandemic getting under control, LGBTQ federal workers are expressing a new sense of ebullience about being able to celebrate openly this season after a more muted experience during the Trump administration.

The new excitement about the openness is the latest chapter for LGBTQ federal employees, who have a unique seesaw experience of having alternating periods of support mixed with periods when the leadership is disengaged or even hostile.

Anthony Musa, chair of Pride in Federal Service for LGBTQ federal employees, said the change in feeling to “a sense of acceptance” is in no small part the result of outreach from the top in the Biden administration.

“There is a strong push by the White House, especially lately in the past couple of weeks to really reach out directly to LGBTQ+ federal employees and ensure that Pride month is celebrated and that employees are supported by both the administration and the political appointees within the individual departments and agencies,” Musa said.

One example of the Biden administration reaching out, Musa said, is the White House Office of Public Engagement coming to affinity groups for LGBTQ federal workers and offering assistance for promotion and coordination of Pride celebrations.

It’s not just Pride events. Musa said the U.S. Office of Personnel Management has been conducting periodic calls about the Federal Health Benefits Program to highlight opportunities for LGBTQ families and health care for transgender and non-binary people.

The Biden administration’s outreach to LGBTQ employees is visible in other ways. For the first time, Energy Secretary Jennifer Granholm last week raised the Progress Pride flag outside of her department’s headquarters in D.C. in an event recognizing Pride month.

The sense of jubilation outside the Department of Energy was palpable among its LGBTQ employees, who were able to openly celebrate Pride at an official event with a top Biden administration official.

Helping Granholm raise the flag was Tarak Shah, chief of staff for the energy secretary and the first openly gay person to occupy that role.

Shah said via email to the Washington Blade he considers the experience of raising the Pride flag at the Department of Energy “a moment that is incredibly personally meaningful – and one I don’t take for granted.”

“For much of our nation’s history, our institutions have held LGBTQ+ people back,” Shah said. “But, when we raised the flag over DOE this month, we symbolically lifted up our people up, and set an example for the energy and scientific communities around the world. I am proud to be part of an administration that says clearly ‘we have your back’ and for an energy secretary who is a champion for LGBTQ people everywhere.”

The State Department is experiencing a similar change. After the Trump administration in its final years prohibited U.S. embassies from flying the Pride flag on the official pole, the State Department reversed the policy, allowing the rainbow flag to be flown alongside the U.S. flag.

A gay civil service officer at the State Department, who spoke on condition of anonymity because he wasn’t authorized to speak with the media, said the new policy at U.S. embassies as well as Pride proclamations from Biden and Secretary of State Anthony Blinken are having a positive impact.

“One thing I’ve been noticing is within the GLIFAA group on Facebook, people sharing photos of our embassies and consulates around the world with the [Pride] flag flying on the same pole with the U.S. flag,” the officer said. “Those kinds of signals alone I think are making people feel like it’s just a completely different world instead of months ago for us. You know where we were.”

The new flag policy, the officer said, is consistent with a broader change at the State Department of leadership making diversity writ large a priority, which includes having a diversity and equity official in place who reports directly to the secretary of state.

In contrast, the Trump administration’s approach to LGBTQ employees was largely hands-off — if not a climate of hostility. LGBTQ people who continued to work in the federal government didn’t have the same engagement from the top down and contended with policies frustrating plans for Pride activities.

One example of the Trump administration being counterproductive was the executive order former President Trump signed prohibiting critical race theory in diversity training for federal employees. Because the directive required review of all diversity engagement — even if it didn’t include critical race theory — the executive order hampered organization among LGBTQ employees.

In fact, last year Pride in Federal Service was forced to cancel a summit for LGBTQ federal employees because Trump’s executive order on critical race theory made things too complicated.

Musa said the Trump administration offered “absolutely no outreach or support” for engagement with federal government employees.

“We were offering some training with OPM on diversity and inclusion that we had to suspend because it fit within those guidelines of what was restricted,” Musa said. “So it was difficult to say the least.”

But the change in atmosphere isn’t the result of the change in administration alone. LGBTQ workers are also feeling a sense of renewal with the coronavirus in the rear-window as domestic vaccinations continue to increase and events cancelled in the past year are happening again.

One event in honor of Pride month cancelled last year due to coronavirus, but now happening again, is a celebration at the Pentagon for LGBTQ service members and civilian employees. Although the events at the Defense Department had taken place annually since “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” repeal was certified in 2011, coronavirus broke the annual streak of that new tradition.

Rudy Coons, president of the LGBTQ employee group DOD Pride, said LGBTQ federal employees are able to reconnect in ways that haven’t been possible for a long time thanks to the lifting of coronavirus restrictions.

“I would say that we’re excited to be able to celebrate Pride month this year in person since COVID-19 prevented us from having an event last year,” Coons said. “So we’re very excited about that, and we’re certainly in the department very excited that the secretary of defense will honor us with remarks as our keynote speaker.”

Also in contrast to the previous administration at the Pentagon event for Pride month is the presence at the event of a Cabinet-level official. Defense Secretary Lloyd Austin is set to deliver the keynote address, a stark contrast to the Trump years when Pride events within federal agencies were more limited and didn’t include Cabinet-level officials.

With such a distinction between one administration and the next, LGBTQ workers in the federal government acknowledge they face a unique seesaw effect — and the on-and-off experience takes a toll.

In recent years, the neglect and outright hostility during the George W. Bush administration changed when former President Obama took office, but the pendulum swung the other way during the Trump years, and now the situation for LGBTQ federal workers has changed once again with Biden in office.

Musa said the back-and-forth isn’t necessarily as difficult for workers who live in D.C., which has robust legal protections against anti-LGBTQ discrimination, but the situation is different for federal employees in other areas.

“We are a small minority of federal employees; the majority of federal employees work outside the D.C. region,” Musa said. “And I think that really having that back and forth seesaw type thing where things are either really good depending on what administration’s in charge or really bad, is particularly aggravating.”

Musa added the stress of the back-and-forth would be alleviated if a federal law expanding the prohibitions on anti-LGBTQ discrimination, such as the Equality Act, were in place. The bill, however, continues to languish in Congress and is all but dead.

Despite the on-and-off track record, LGBTQ federal workers continue to hold out hope of greater stability in the near future and say as time passes the changes made for a welcoming work environment have become more and more durable.

The gay civil service officer at the State Department said the momentum is toward greater LGBTQ inclusion within the federal workforce and “over time, it will be harder and harder to walk back these changes,” pointing to a few bright spots in the Trump administration.

“They yanked the flag and some other stuff, but they were still fighting to get same-sex spouses accredited and countries that don’t allow you to accredit your spouse,” the officer said. “And so a lot of the things that had changed actually under the Obama administration did remain in place.”

The officer conceded, however, LGBTQ public advocacy in the State Department on behalf of the community, both abroad and within its workforce “really fell away, and then obviously there were specific cases of political attacks against LGBTQ staff that are well documented.”

Musa predicted the situation with LGBTQ employees would evolve to a place of continued support regardless of the administration in power, which he said would stem from civil service leadership’s more consistent support as opposed to political appointees.

“That’s sort of my hope,” Musa concluded. “Worst case scenario we end up back in the same way we were in late 2020, but hopefully we don’t go back to that.”

‘Sublet’ review: Gay drama struggles to make a connection – Metro Weekly

Sublet: John Benjamin Hickey, Niv Nissim
Sublet: John Benjamin Hickey, Niv Nissim

Stirring ripples, not waves, of tenderness and passion, Sublet (★★☆☆☆), the latest feature from Israeli auteur Eytan Fox (Yossi & Jagger), indicates a profound meeting of kindred souls that doesn’t really register onscreen.

Michael (John Benjamin Hickey) and Tomer (Niv Nissim), the film’s central pair, engage in dry, mildly flirtatious banter nearly from the start of their relationship as tourist and host. Michael, a gay, married, middle-aged travel writer for The New York Times, is subletting Tel Aviv native Tomer’s apartment in the city’s “coolest neighborhood ever,” according to the twentysomething aspiring filmmaker. Shot in golden, natural light, its metropolitan rhythms playing out over Tom Darom and Assa Raviv’s evocative score, the city does have an allure.

The mild-mannered Michael seems less concerned about finding what’s cool about Tel Aviv than he is in seeking a soulful exploration of the city’s unique and hidden pleasures, as curated by a local. Perfect: Tomer’s got nothing better to do, and nowhere better to stay than his own apartment, so he crashes at his place, while showing Michael his Tel Aviv.

In a hotter-blooded foray into foreign travel, this scenario might lead in any number of blissfully kinky directions, or towards some gripping will-they-or-won’t-they suspense. But Michael, despite clearly finding the handsome, carefree Israeli attractive, maintains a tasteful, professional distance. He’s a bit too studiously tasteful to be believed at times.

“I really don’t get this,” he declares, watching Tomer browse the Israeli equivalent of Grindr. “Ordering sex like a pizza.” Rather than sounding merely opposed to the idea of à la carte hookups, he comes off as strangely unaware of gay male behavior for a grown-ass New Yorker with a husband and Times byline.

Sublet: Niv Nissim, John Benjamin Hickey
Sublet: Niv Nissim, John Benjamin Hickey

Hickey, lending the writer an understated melancholy, doesn’t betray much beyond that, working often in close-up reaction shots that leave Michael silently staring at his lissome host. Nissim, in his first feature film role, is warm and watchable, though not entirely successful at turning Tomer into more than a midlife fantasy of a captive audience.

For much of their time together, Michael seems generally repressed and despondent, and not an especially vigorous touring companion. Yet the script, by Fox and Itay Segal, demands Tomer find endless fascination in his guest’s tepid, bourgeois charm. Frequently, Michael notes with interest how “interesting” he finds this or that, without adding much of interest himself. It’s meant to be a running joke, but lands as more of an unintended self-commentary.



Given the opportunity to let loose once in a while, Michael usually demurs, preferring to remain aloof, observing Tomer’s spirited interactions with faint amusement, or unexplained sadness. That is, until we learn of his very good reason for walling his emotions behind wistful smiles and lingering glances.

His big confessional moment, allowing those walls finally to collapse into the briefest display of raw hurt, might actually save him from seeming just an insufferably lame date.

But it really doesn’t account for the effect he has on Tomer.

Sublet opens Friday, June 11 at the Avalon Theatre, 5612 Connecticut Ave. NW, and on VOD and Digital Friday, July 9. Visit www.theavalon.org

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