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Should Harry Styles Really Be Celebrated For Wearing A Dress? – Grazia

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In recent years, Harry Styles has become as well-known for his fashion choices as he is for his music. Since leaving One Direction in 2015, the 26-year-old has experimented more and more with his aesthetic music videos, red carpet appearances and photoshoots, often opting to ditch historically masculine pieces for more traditionally feminine attire, such as tutus, pussy-bow blouses and bright pink suits. 

But his most recent photoshoot, for the cover of US Vogue, garnered more attention than ever. Standing in a field in London, Styles wore a floor-length Gucci gown underneath a structured black blazer, becoming not only the first man to front the cover of the publication solo in 127 years, but the first to do so wearing a dress. 

Immediately, the singer was praised by thousands of people worldwide for following in the footsteps of great musicians before him, such as David Bowie, Elton John, Freddie Mercury and Prince, in breaking down barriers of toxic masculinity and gender stereotypes. In a viral tweet, one person wrote, ‘My brother just came downstairs wearing a dress and said “If Harry Styles can wear one, then so can I.”’

In an accompanying interview for the shoot, Styles addressed his gender-neutral way of approaching fashion, saying, “When you take away ‘There’s clothes for men and there’s clothes for women,’ once you remove any barriers, obviously you open up the arena in which you can play. I’ll go in shops sometimes, and I just find myself looking at the women’s clothes thinking they’re amazing. It’s like anything — anytime you’re putting barriers up in your own life, you’re just limiting yourself.”

But when it’s a white cis man being held up as the face of the gender non-conforming movement, many have questioned whether it’s cause for celebration. “The thing about this Harry Styles debate is black boys dress like that all the time,” Kalen Allen wrote on Twitter. “But when we do it we are seen as emasculating the culture, less than, and feminity is seen as unattractive. That’s not a Harry problem, that’s homophobia and a double-standard problem.” 

Others have raised the valid question of whether or not Styles is “queerbaiting”—giving ‘clues’ that he is queer, without ever confirming it. Given that Styles has only ever been romantically associated with traditionally beautiful, straight white women (such as Kendall Jenner, Taylor Swift and Camille Rowe), it raises eyebrows that he also insists on using LGBTQ+ themes, messaging and colourways to build his personal brand. Styles was asked, point-blank, if he was appropriating queer culture to make himself more marketable to the “woke” generation in an interview with The Guardian, in 2019. “Am I sprinkling in nuggets of sexual ambiguity to try and be more interesting? No,” was his response. “I want things to look a certain way. Not because it makes me look gay, or it makes me look straight, or it makes me look bisexual, but because I think it looks cool. And more than that, I dunno, I just think sexuality’s something that’s fun. Honestly? I can’t say I’ve given it any more thought than that.”

Following the release of Styles’ latest magazine cover, gender non-conforming writer and performance artist Alok Vaid-Menon— who receives abuse and threats daily for their choice to wear feminine dresses while also keeping, for example, traditionally masculine body hair—perfectly articulated what many were feeling on Instagram. They were annoyed at the noise surrounding Styles’ latest cover (as if he’s the first and only man to embrace feminity on the public stage!) but not placing blame on the man himself. 

“A lot of people have been asking me what I think about it and I’ll say this: I am holding simultaneity and choosing abundance over scarcity. Am I happy to see Harry be celebrated for openly flouting gendered fashion norms? Yes. Do trans femmes of color receive praise for doing the same thing every day? No. Do I think this is a sign of progress of society’s evolution away from binary gender? Yes. Do I think that white men should be upheld as the face of gender neutral fashion? No,” they wrote.

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“It’s a curious thing this: holding space for joy, while also insisting on a more expansive form of freedom,” they continued. “We can both acknowledge this unprecedented moment while also remembering that it could only happen because of the resistance of trans femmes of color. We who for decades were imprisoned by cross-dressing legislation. Make no mistake: trans femmes of color started this and continue to face the backlash from it. Our aesthetics make it to the mainstream, but not our bodies. We are still dismissed as “too much” and “too queer” because we aren’t palatable enough to whiteness and heteronormativity. Is that Harry’s fault? No. It’s the fault of systems of transmisogyny and racism.”

So while Styles wearing a dress on the cover of a huge fashion publication, which has historically reinforced gender norms, is definitely a step in the right direction (and yes, he looks incredible while doing it), it pays to note that many—and many of whom are Black, trans or gender-nonconforming—have paved the way before him. Moreover, it’s worth noting that the many others who choose to dress the way Styles did for the cover of Vogue don’t hold the same status, and won’t be treated with 💦 emojis and universal applause when they decide to dress in feminine attire, rather they’ll be met with an onslaught of criticism, abuse and even violence. Harry Styles will return to his charmed life in London after he takes off his bespoke Gucci gown, but others aren’t so lucky. If there’s one conversation we take away from this, perhaps that’s the best one.

Dallas KPMG exec, 55, has been missing for three weeks after being last seen filling car with gas – Daily Mail

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Alan White vanished three weeks ago on October 22

Alan White vanished three weeks ago on October 22

A KPMG executive, 55, has been missing for three weeks after doing a morning workout at an LA fitness branch in uptown Dallas before being last seen on surveillance footage filling his car with gas. 

Alan White vanished back on October 22 when he went to work out at LA Fitness on Haskell Avenue at around 5 a.m., reported WFAA.   

He was captured on surveillance footage leaving the gym at about 5:38 a.m. and was then seen around 20 minutes later on video at the Race Trac at Inwood and Maple filling his black Porsche Macan White with gas. 

He has not been seen since. Dallas Police found his car one week later in southeast Oak Cliff, near Bonnie View Road and Simpson Stuart Road, but there was no sign of White.   

White’s distraught mom and his partner of 18 years have said there was no reason why he would disappear and are offering a $15,000 reward for information as to his whereabouts. 

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Rusty Jenkins, White's partner, said he grew concerned when he didn't return home from the gym. Pictured together

Rusty Jenkins, White’s partner, said he grew concerned when he didn’t return home from the gym. Pictured together 

Rusty Jenkins, White’s partner, said he grew concerned when he didn’t return home from the gym. 

‘When he wasn’t home at 6:15, I thought it was odd. When he wasn’t home at 6:30, I knew something was wrong. When he wasn’t home by 6:45, I was panicking,’ Jenkins told WFAA.

Jenkins said he started searching for him along the route between the gym and their home and called local hospitals fearing he had been in an accident. 

Alan White (right) with his mother Maralu Craven (center). The KPMG executive, 55, has been missing for three weeks after doing a morning workout at an LA fitness branch in uptown Dallas before being last seen on surveillance footage filling his car with gas

Alan White (right) with his mother Maralu Craven (center). The KPMG executive, 55, has been missing for three weeks after doing a morning workout at an LA fitness branch in uptown Dallas before being last seen on surveillance footage filling his car with gas

‘I got in the car at 7, drove the route back and forth trying to find him. Trying to find evidence of a wreck somewhere,’ he said.

‘I was calling the hospitals trying to find out if there was an unidentified John Doe in any of the hospitals, because I didn’t know if he had his ID with him or not.’

White had been scheduled to dial in to a work conference call from home at 7:30 a.m. but failed to appear.  

Jenkins filed a missing person report with Dallas Police at around 11 a.m. that day.  

One week later, on October 29, police located White’s missing car in south Dallas.   

His mom Maralu Craven told WFAA she won’t give up hope that they will find him. 

‘I’m not going to give up hope at all. Until they tell me that he’s gone. Somebody has to know something,’ Craven said.

Alan White was last seen on surveillance footage at the Race Trac at Inwood and Maple (above) filling his black Porsche Macan White with gas

Alan White was last seen on surveillance footage at the Race Trac at Inwood and Maple (above) filling his black Porsche Macan White with gas

Dallas Police found his car one week later in southeast Oak Cliff, near Bonnie View Road and Simpson Stuart Road, but there was no sign of White

Dallas Police found his car one week later in southeast Oak Cliff, near Bonnie View Road and Simpson Stuart Road, but there was no sign of White

‘Somebody has to know something.’ 

She begged that, if anyone is holding him, they let him go. 

‘I don’t understand this. I don’t understand this at all. And if somebody’s got him and he’s hurt, bring him to us. We’ll take care of him,’ she said.

‘Because you evidently want money, you don’t want his car, so why are you holding him, if you are holding him?’

White’s family is pleading for anyone with information to come forward.   

They put forward a $10,000 reward and then increased it to $15,000 for any information that leads to his whereabouts.  

White is 5 foot 11 and 160 pounds. He was wearing a light gray tank top and dark gym shorts.

According to White’s LinkedIn profile, he has worked at KPMG since February 2020 as a managing director in the CIO Advisory practice in Dallas. 

The LA Fitness White visited the morning he vanished. White's family are offering a $15,000 reward for information as to his whereabouts

The LA Fitness White visited the morning he vanished. White’s family are offering a $15,000 reward for information as to his whereabouts

The promise of LGBTQ equality under the Biden administration – CNN

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Last week, many celebrated Joe Biden for embracing transgender Americans in his victory address – the first president-elect to do so.

“And to all those who supported us: I am proud of the campaign we built and ran. I am proud of the coalition we put together, the broadest and most diverse in history,” Biden said. “Democrats, Republicans and Independents. Progressives, moderates and conservatives. Young and old. Urban, suburban and rural. Gay, straight, transgender.”

In just a few short sentences, Biden signaled his readiness to usher in an era of renewed LGBTQ protection after four years of the very opposite.

Biden and Vice President-elect Kamala Harris ran on what Alphonso David, the president of the Human Rights Campaign, billed in August as “our nation’s most pro-equality ticket in history.”

Among other things, he was referring to Harris’ pro-LGBTQ track record, which goes back to when she entered politics in 2004, and to the former vice president’s radical shift on LGBTQ rights. Biden went from voting for the discriminatory Defense of Marriage Act in 1996 to getting out ahead of former President Barack Obama in publicly backing marriage equality in 2012.

Biden and Harris’ win in the 2020 election couldn’t have arrived at a better time for LGBTQ Americans and those who care about equality. It’s no secret that under President Donald Trump, anti-LGBTQ ugliness has become a newly visible norm.

An extensive 2019 report from ProPublica cataloged the Trump administration’s anti-LGBTQ maneuvering and “found dozens of changes that represent a profound reshaping of the ways the federal government treats the more than 11 million lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans.”

These changes include reversed, dropped, removed and withdrawn LGBTQ protections in areas such as employment, health care, criminal justice and public life.

In particular, the administration has made a target of transgender Americans, whom some LGBTQ advocates say the Trump White House has attempted to use as a wedge against the broader coalition.

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During Pride Month this past June, the administration rolled back an Obama-era regulation prohibiting discrimination in health care against transgender patients. (In August, a federal judge blocked the rollback, a day before it would’ve gone into effect.)

There’s also Supreme Court Justice Amy Coney Barrett, Trump’s third pick to the high court.

During the Senate hearings in October, Republicans and the Christian right sought to brand Barrett as a sort of conservative feminist icon, an approach that hinged on their apparent obsession with her family size.

For many LGBTQ Americans, though, the new justice is more like a specter, waiting to strike at their rights.

Barrett has limited experience as a federal judge. But that doesn’t mean that she hasn’t participated in important cultural and political conversations and, in consequence, offered insight into her convictions.

For instance, in a lecture at Jacksonville University in the run-up to the 2016 election, Barrett supported the dissenters in “Obergefell v. Hodges,” the 2015 Supreme Court ruling that cleared the way for marriage equality nationwide. She also signaled that the Title IX rights protecting transgender Americans should be subject to congressional review.

“Maybe things have changed so that we should change Title IX,” Barrett said in 2016. “Maybe those arguing in favor of this kind of transgender bathroom access are right. … But it does seem to strain the text of the statute to say that Title IX demands it, so is that the kind of thing that the Court should interpret the statute to update it to pick sides on this policy debate? Or should we go to our Congress?”

In a similar vein, an October report from The Associated Press detailed Barrett’s previous position, for almost three years starting in 2015, on the board of a private Christian school system, one that the AP said has anti-LGBTQ policies.

The system “effectively barred admission to children of same-sex parents and made it plain that openly gay and lesbian teachers weren’t welcome in the classroom,” the AP found.

While it remains to be seen whether Barrett’s opinions on the 6-3 conservative majority high court will track with her prior stances and affiliations, the anxiety hovering over LGBTQ Americans is real.

“Lawyers are sharing advice for how same-sex families can ensure legal protections if marriage equality goes away – secure second-parent adoption papers, living wills, healthcare proxies,” as Allison Hope wrote for CNN Opinion. “We don’t and can’t know for sure how Barrett will rule on cases relating to LGBTQ rights, but the overall signs, given past comments and statements from other conservative justices on the Court, are not promising.”

Just on Thursday, Supreme Court Justice Samuel Alito reiterated in an inflammatory speech his retrograde belief that marriage is only between a man and a woman.

“Until very recently, that’s what the vast majority of Americans thought. Now, it’s considered bigotry,” he said.

More broadly, the abiding fear is that Trump – who’s successfully appointed more than 200 federal judges, including his three Supreme Court picks – has reshaped the federal judiciary in a manner that could embody his administration’s anti-LGBTQ animus long after he’s left office.

One example is Steven Menashi, Trump’s successful appointee to the 2nd Circuit Court of Appeals. Menashi has a “history of denouncing women’s marches against sexual assault, dismissing education about multicultural awareness and accusing a major LGBTQ group of exploiting the brutal murder of a gay student for political ends,” CNN’s KFile found in 2019.

To an extent, the concern over such appointments isn’t even about Trump – it’s about the kinds of people the President has sought to empower. According to a 2019 report from Lambda Legal, more than a third of the President’s circuit court nominees have “records of working to undermine LGBT rights and protections.”

No one knows the continued attempts to erode equality that a second Trump term might have brought. But it’s no little thing to be able to look ahead to repair and progress instead of injury.

The Biden administration won’t be able to fix everything that its predecessor has damaged over the past four years. And there will be no easy triumphalism, especially if Republicans hold the Senate majority.

But Biden and his team can take meaningful actions to undo much of the harm.

In fact, in March, the Biden campaign previewed how it’d protect and expand LGBTQ rights via the wide-ranging “Biden Plan to Advance LGBTQ+ Equality in America and Around the World.”

For one thing, the plan commits to passing the Equality Act, a bill that would protect against anti-LGBTQ discrimination in commercial and public life, with no religious exemptions. In addition, the plan pledges to combat the violence afflicting transgender women of color, get rid of the transgender military ban and restore safeguards for homeless LGBTQ Americans.

Gay, transgender. To many, Biden’s words might have seemed unremarkable. But given their centrality in the President-elect’s victory speech, these words registered as a promise – that come January, LGBTQ Americans will have a champion in the White House.

From my city to yours: inside New York’s LGBTQ+ scene with local guide Michael Venturiello – National Geographic UK

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What would your perfect day in the city look like?

I’d wake up early, go to a cafe in Soho and do some journaling, reflecting and people-watching while having a nice, strong coffee. Then I’d walk up to Washington Square Park, it’s underrated but it’s beautiful and there’s always someone playing great music there. Next I’d walk west along Christopher Street, pop into Christopher Park to pay my respects at the Gay Liberation Monument, and keep walking until I hit the Hudson River. There’s this beautiful park that runs down it, The High Line, which is always busy with people running or walking and the atmosphere is really wonderful. For dinner, I’d head to Chelsea; there’s a great little food court in the Chelsea Market, or close by, Ace Hotel New York has a very cool coffee shop that, around happy hour, transitions into a lounge bar with couches, big comfy armchairs and dim lighting. That’s my perfect kind of night.

Tell us about someone who embodies the city of New York for you.

I met the founder of Act Up, Larry Kramer, before he passed away [in May 2020] and it was an incredible moment. He embodies New York for me, because as well as the magic and the sparkle, it’s also a very resilient city. He lived here as a gay man his whole life. He was here before Aids and he was here during the epidemic, starting multiple organisations to help people and then continuing as an activist and writer. He was also a kooky, eclectic character. He wore bright red glasses, colourful rings and gaudy outfits; outside the city it might be a little strange, but in New York, it’s just New York.

Michael began running tours of New York during Pride Week 2018. Following the coronavirus outbreak, he’s teamed up with Brand USA and Airbnb to offer virtual tours. The NYC LGBTQ Historical Bar Crawl costs $15 USD (£11.20 GBP) per person.

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Henry Golding, playing a gay man in ‘Monsoon,’ doesn’t shy away from the representation conversation – EW.com

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Downtown Colorado Springs is gaining a ‘gay piano bar’ with a big mission – Colorado Springs Gazette

Covered in drops of sweat, paint and at least a small amount of blood, the couple can’t help but smile while they talk about building the bar around them.

No, it’s not just a bar. It’s a “gay piano bar.”

And it’s not just a place to grab a glass of Prosecco on tap. It’s a place to feel safe and loved, no matter who you love, and free to sing along to whatever tune is coming from the piano.

At least that’s the goal.

Business partners and boyfriends Josh Franklin, a Colorado Springs native, and John Wolfe, who grew up in West Virginia, are used to being on Broadway stages and touring theaters across the country. But they’ve (mostly) paused their jobs in the arts to open Icons, what they’re emphasizing as the downtown area’s only food and beverage establishment designed and geared toward the LGBTQIA community.

A grand opening is planned for Friday.

During tough days of renovating the space at 3 E. Bijou St., formerly Bella’s Bakery, Franklin doesn’t forget why he’s building this.

And why he’s doing this here, in a town that was not always kind to a teenager bold enough to come out in high school in the 1990s.

There was the homophobic slur spray-painted on his car, found after homecoming his senior year. There were harsh chants — “Josh is gay!” — during his marching band performances.

“You know,” he says now. “Kids can be mean.”

Back then, the cruelty was heavy. Staying in Colorado Springs felt impossible for Franklin. So he left. With big dreams of acting and of being accepted, he moved to New York City. He stayed for the next 18 years, appearing in Broadway shows like “Grease,” “Legally Blonde” and “Ghost.” He’s also recorded two albums of original music.

As those dreams were coming true, Franklin met a boy who loved to dance. They both had dogs. They both had big dreams. There was an instant connection.

They told each other their stories. Franklin shared about his hometown, which kind of sounded like Wolfe’s time in college in Utah.

“My sexuality was found out,” Wolfe said. “And I wasn’t able to go there anymore.”

When it was time to bring Wolfe home to meet his family about five years ago, Franklin set low expectations for Colorado Springs.

“I think anybody going back to their hometown is going to have a certain perspective,” Wolfe said.

Wolfe, on the other hand, saw something else.

“My impression was this was going to be the next best thing,” he said.

Franklin’s mind started to change, too.

“His fresh eyes on Colorado Springs got me excited,” he said. “I could see the growth and the momentum.”

They bought a house here and rented it out while continuing to tour and work in New York.

After Franklin performed in a show on New Year’s Eve in 2019 with the Colorado Springs Philharmonic, the couple decided to finally stay for a while in the house they bought.

“I knew I could make a bigger difference in Colorado Springs than I ever could in New York,” Franklin said. “And it would mean more.”

Then the coronavirus pandemic halted their theater commitments, leaving time to come up with new dreams. They thought of all the cities smaller than Colorado Springs they’d visited and what was missing here.

“We couldn’t believe there still wasn’t a gay bar downtown,” Franklin said, adding that it can send the message that this community doesn’t embrace LGBTQ people.

As he points out, there are “gay friendly” bars in town. And Club Q, a gay bar located on North Academy Boulevard, offers more of a club vibe compared to the mellow feel the owners of Icons are going for.

The 2,100-square foot space will lean into the theme of “queer icons,” says Franklin. There will be a 7-foot painting of Dorothy’s red slippers and a wall of black-and-white portraits of faces who have influenced the LGBTQ community. Local artist Molly McClure was commissioned to paint vibrant murals of stars like Nina Simone and Lady Gaga.

The menu will offer themed cocktails like the “Ricky Martini” alongside food items such as “over the top hot dogs.” There will often be live music in one form or another.

“Bartenders will make you a drink and then sing to you,” Franklin said. “And if they’re too busy, we’ll sing something for you on the piano.”

Both Franklin and Wolfe plan on regularly lending their performing skills at the bar.

Since moving back here, Franklin says he feels Colorado Springs is a “loving place to live.”

The couple hopes Icons adds to that.

“Being part of Icons … means offering hope to LGBTQIA youth and adults for a life outside of the shadows, proud of our struggles and our demand for acceptance,” they wrote on a GoFundMe campaign for the bar. “Something little Josh had only dreamt about growing up in this beautiful town.”

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Viggo Mortensen defends decision to play gay role – The Straits Times

LONDON • Armed with a retort involving proctologists, Oscar-nominated actor Viggo Mortensen is prepared for criticism of his decision – as a straight man – to play a gay character in his directorial debut, which premieres in Britain on Monday.

“I apologise to all the proctologists for casting David Cronenberg,” Mortensen, 62, said of his new film Falling, in which the renowned Canadian director plays a colorectal surgeon.

Mortensen, best known for his portrayal of Aragorn in The Lord Of The Rings trilogy (2001 to 2003), said he was joking, but wanted to make the point that actors are actors – simply playing a role whether a gay man or a proctologist.

Several high-profile actors have been criticised recently for playing lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer characters. Oscar winner Halle Berry pulled out of a transgender film role following criticism from activists.

“There are certain characters I’m not going to play,” said Mortensen, who has been nominated for three Oscars, four Golden Globes and three Baftas.

“I wouldn’t play Eric, the Chinese-Hawaiian American,” Mortensen, who is Danish-American, said of the husband of his film’s main character, John.

Falling tells the story of John’s racist and homophobic father Willis, played by Lance Henriksen, who moves from his rural farm to live with his son in Los Angeles when he starts showing early signs of dementia.

Mortensen, who wrote and directed the film as well as played its main protagonist, was keen to stress that his decision to make John a gay man was not “a gimmick, anchor or some trigger”.

It was while writing an early scene in which John gets a telephone call from his partner as Willis wanders off in an airport, that Mortensen decided to switch John’s sexuality.

“I thought, what if it’s not a wife? What if it’s a husband?” Mortensen said.

“I’ll try that. I’ll write the next scene and see how it feels. If it doesn’t work or feels somehow not right for the story, then I won’t use it, but I liked it.”

Falling can be seen as a microcosm of a polarised society, riven by issues of race and gender as much by sexuality, Mortensen said. “There’s been so much injustice towards under-represented groups, racially, sexual orientation (and in terms of) sexual identification.”

The film, which also stars Oscar-nominated actress Laura Linney, was accepted for the official selection at the Cannes Film Festival before the coronavirus pandemic forced the cancellation of the prestigious event.

Falling opens in Britain as part of the virtual Amplify! Festival, a joint event by the regional film festivals of Bath, Brighton, Cambridge and Cornwall, before going on general release from Dec 4.

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Did 28% of LGBTQ people really vote for Donald Trump? – Metro Weekly

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Following the 2020 election, initial national exit polls indicated that President Donald Trump had more than doubled the percentage of the LGBTQ vote he received in 2016, sending shockwaves among members of the LGBTQ community, many of whom have felt attacked by the actions of a Trump-Pence presidency.

According to the exit polls, 61% of LGBTQ-identifying people voted for President-elect Joe Biden (D), while 28% voted for President Donald Trump (R). In 2016, when he ran against Hillary Clinton, Trump only won 13% of the LGBTQ vote.

Following the release of exit poll data, some prominent liberals, including Charles Blow, a columnist for The New York Times, had a meltdown over Trump’s increases in support across the board among groups that largely favor Democrats, including women, racial and ethnic minorities, and LGBTQ people.



“[T]he percentage of LGBT voting for Trump doubled from 2016. DOUBLED!!! This is why LGBT people of color don’t really trust the white gays,” Blow tweeted. “Yes, I said what I said. Period.”

Bruce Richman, the founding executive director of the Prevention Access Campaign, called the exit polls “deeply disturbing news” and asked “what will we do to address LGBT white supremacy in the US?”

LGBTQ conservatives on Twitter took a victory lap, crowing about the end of identity politics and the Democratic Party’s weakening hold on minority voters in general. 

Brad Polumbo, a libertarian-leaning conservative, penned a column for the Washington Examiner casting the higher LGBTQ vote share as a rejection of identity politics and a “victimhood” narrative, suggesting that Democrats’ efforts to highlight the Trump administration’s record on LGBTQ rights as horrible failed.

“To be clear, the unique circumstances of this election could mean this early figure is eventually adjusted significantly,” Polumbo wrote. “But while only a rough and preliminary estimate, it is more than double the 13% of LGBT voters Trump won against Hillary Clinton in 2016.

See also: 76% of LGBTQ voters prefer Biden over Trump, pre-election poll says

“Of course, this won’t come as a massive surprise for most casual observers. After all, while Trump has implemented some controversial and arguably discriminatory policies, such as restrictions on transgender military service, he was also the first president who entered office supportive of gay marriage,” Polumbo noted. “A former New York liberal, Trump was never an anti-gay culture warrior. Many, if not all, of the claims that the Trump administration’s policies are anti-gay were either fake news, misrepresented, or overblown.”

Polumbo continued: “More and more voters are realizing that their sexuality or gender identity does not have to define them. The true realization of LGBT acceptance comes when gay and transgender people get to be individuals who can have their own opinions without being called a traitor to their peers, like everyone else…. Once freed from the constraints of historic bigotry and animosity, there is no reason gay and transgender voters should lean to the left.

“Trump is far from perfect, and one can imagine that a less controversial and less personally off-putting Republican with his same policies and views might have won over even more gay and transgender voters. But nonetheless, these exit polls strongly suggest that he may have broken the Democratic Party’s stranglehold over gay and transgender voters — and sent left-wing identity politics into a death spiral,” he concluded.

But some LGBTQ advocates cautioned against reading too much into the data from preliminary exit polls.

“We are highly skeptical of the ability to get fast and reliable exit poll data, especially for a diverse community like ours, in an election year with unprecedented levels of absentee and vote-by-mail ballots cast,” Zeke Stokes, a consultant who served as advisor to the LGBTQ advocacy organization GLAAD on 2020 voter engagement initiatives, said in a statement. “As additional data becomes available we are confident that the early reports of increased LGBTQ support for an anti-equality President will prove inaccurate.”

Dr. Andrew Flores, an assistant professor of government at American University’s School of Public Affairs and a visiting scholar at The Williams Institute, expressed his own concerns regarding the validity of the early exit polls.

For instance, Flores noted, Edison Research for the National Election Pool — the polling outlet that found the 28% level of support for Trump — showed that LGBTQ voters were overrepresented in comparison to the proportion of the total U.S. population they comprise (4.5% overall), in line with the findings of two other exit pollsters, the AP VoteCast and Cooperative Election Survey.

However, NEP/Edison’s state-level polls don’t seem accurate, Flores said, as they estimate the percentage of LGBT voters at 1% in New York and estimate Montana as the state with the highest percentage of LGBT voters, around 8%. 

“I think there is ample reason to doubt the validity of the [National Election Pool/Edison] Exit Poll for the LGBT vote,” Flores told Metro Weekly in an email. “The other two polls show patterns that are consistent with past voting trends among LGBT voters. Trump did gain ground with LGBT people in 2020 compared to 2016, but it seems to just have returned to historic patterns of voting for Republican candidates among LGBT people.”

That equates to about a 3-to-1 margin for Democratic presidential candidates over Republican candidates, with AP VoteCast finding 73% of LGBTQ voters said they voted for Biden.

Lucas Acosta, the deputy communications director for politics at the Human Rights Campaign, also expressed skepticism about the level of support measured in the early exit polls, although he was heartened by the overrepresentation of LGBTQ voters within the electorate — a point on which all three major exit pollsters agree, although NEP/Edison places it at 7%, AP VoteCast at 8%, and the Cooperative Election Survey at 11%.

“The numbers [from all three polls] prove yet again that LGBTQ people are disproportionately politically active,” Acosta told Metro Weekly. “Our rights have been on the ballot for the last two decades, and so that’s incentivized us to get into politics and to get involved. And that’s why you’re seeing these historic numbers, which we’re really excited about.”

See also: LGBTQ community disproportionately impacted by COVID-19 pandemic, polling says



Regarding the percentage of LGBTQ voters who cast ballots for Trump, Acosta doesn’t doubt that a higher percentage of LGBTQ people voted for Trump compared to four years ago, but believes the NEP/Edison number is an overestimation.

Like Flores, he sees glaring warning signs in the state head-to-head polls, placing the LGBTQ population at only 1% in New York, for instance, despite the state having a substantial and very politically engaged LGBTQ community.

“If we hit a historic margin nationally, there’s absolutely zero scenario that has only one percent of New York voters identifying as LGBTQ,” Acosta said. “I’m also looking at states like Florida where only 17% of LGBT voters said that they were voting for Trump, and Ohio, where Trump’s support was only in the teens. And I think there is going to need to be some significant re-weighting to figure out how they got these types of results in swing states that were favorable to Trump, which was out-of-step with the numbers they got on the national level.”

Acosta also noted that the NEP/Edison numbers for Trump and Biden have 11% of LGBT voters casting ballots for neither Biden nor Trump, while only 2% of non-LGBT voters voted third party.

“I think it just points back to the fact that these polls need to be reweighted, because there’s absolutely zero chance in hell that LGBTQ voters voted at double digits for a third party, especially given that third parties weren’t even on the ballot in all 50 states…. These polls are not even close to being final, and were probably even Trump-favorable. When we get the final results, I think people will see that the LGBTQ vote will go back to the exact same margins we’ve seen in every prior election, which is about a 3-to-1 ratio for the Democrat.”

5 Tips for Staying Active During Your Self-Quarantine – Hornet

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Staying active and maintaining your personal fitness has never not been important. But given the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, with so many people self-quarantining at home — and/or avoiding the gym — staying fit is perhaps more important than ever. And not just for your physical health, but your mental health! But if you’re like many, staying active while stuck at home is easier said than done. So we reached out to personal trainer and actor Sam Leicht for some quarantine workout tips. Because everything helps, right?









But before we get to Same’s quarantine workout tips, a quick note from him: “There is, ultimately, nothing that can make you workout during this crazy time if you don’t want to make it a priority,” he says. Now, with that in mind …





Here are 5 quick quarantine workout tips to make staying fit during a pandemic more manageable:





1. Get Your Quarantine Workout Done Early





If you’re anything like me, my 💯 starts just about an hour after I wake up, and it’s pretty much downhill from there. When you get your quarantine workout done early, you take away the opportunity to dread it, put it off, or make an excuse to skip it. You may not be a morning person, but what better time than in a freaking pandemic to give it a try and see if it sticks?!





2. Workout (Virtually) With Friends





This may sound silly, but doing a Zoom call with friends for a group quarantine workout has been one of the best ways to hold myself accountable. You don’t even have to be doing the same routine, but that group sweat that you feel in a Barry’s Bootcamp or SoulCycle class translates over Zoom, too. I promise.





I should mention, though: I really don’t like how music works through Zoom, so I’d strongly suggest having someone curate a playlist that everyone is listening to at the same time through headphones. You can put one ear bud in and still be able to communicate with each other on the call.












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3. Try New Types of Workouts





Y’all, I’m so sick of hearing people complain about not being able to go to the gym. We all miss it! But in the grand scheme of things, there are so many opportunities for virtual exercise; I’d strongly suggest checking out YouTube for some new options.





Take a new yoga class. Take a Jiu-Jitsu class. Try an advanced level Pilates class. There is so much free stuff at our disposal, and now is the perfect opportunity to find your favorite and take advantage of it.





4. Give Yourself a Break





Sometimes a workout is just not going to happen. That’s OK. Rather than shaming yourself, the best alternative is to go for a walk. Just 20 minutes.





In this time you’ll either 1) gain the energy to indeed do your workout, or 2) come to terms with the reality that today is not your day and there is always tomorrow. Neither is better or worse, but they’re both established by the walk.









5. Set a Timer





This is my secret weapon for the Leichtning Fitness Program (my online training program). When I don’t workout with a timer, I waste so much time. I use the timer for my rest between sets, the tempo of movements, and the total time of my workout. It’s a reminder that if I’m checking emails or scrolling through Instagram during breaks, the clock is still running and I need to stop wasting time.





The satisfaction for each workout is exponentially superior with a timer versus without. Give it a try!





I hope these quarantine workout tips help you get out of that rut! The best part about movement is that it’s going to ebb and flow throughout your life. There are always going to be good and bad times. But you can do yourself a favor by trying to shift the narrative and making exercise a friend instead of an enemy during this pandemic. Easier said than done, I know. But absolutely worth it!





Sam Leicht is a Midwest boy living in NYC. A fitness trainer, Broadway actor and entrepreneur, he is working to make health & wellness accessible for all. For more information, stop by leichtninghealth.com or visit him on Instagram.









Selena Gomez signs on to play a gay mountain climber – Los Angeles Times

Selena Gomez just scored a rare role.

The pop singer and actress will play the pioneering Peruvian American mountaineer Silvia Vasquez-Lavado in an upcoming biopic written and directed by Elgin James (“Lowriders”) and produced by Oscar winner Donna Gigliotti (“Hidden Figures”). The movie is based on Vasquez-Lavado’s upcoming memoir, “In the Shadow of the Mountain,” to be published in 2022.

The project, which both Gomez and Vasquez-Lavado shared on social media, is already being floated as Oscar material.

“I am so humbled and grateful to share this thrilling news, which has been in the works for the last 10 months, that an all-star team has optioned my upcoming memoir … for a movie adaptation,” Vasquez-Lavado wrote Wednesday on Instagram, calling Gomez “bold, talented, and brilliant.”

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But the actress’ fans had mixed emotions about her upcoming role. While most voiced excitement for Gomez, some speculation abounded over the fact that the actress will play a lesbian pioneer.

Vasquez-Lavado was the first out gay woman to complete the Seven Summits, climbing the highest peaks on each of the seven continents. She claimed that title in June 2018.

“But Selena isn’t gay. I wish they would give unknown LGBTQ actors a chance at playing such a defining role,” one Twitter user wrote. “I love Selena I just wish this casting straight actors in LGBTQ roles phase would end! Love Simon, Brokeback Mountain, and so many more good films using straight actors.”

Representatives for Gomez did not immediately respond to The Times’ request for comment.

Others pointed out, though, that Vasquez-Lavado herself will be helping to executive produce the film, indicating her approval of the casting decision. (The mountain climber also wrote on Instagram that she was “honored and touched for the bold, talented, and brilliant @selenagomez in taking the starring role.”)

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When Between the Lines asked Gomez in 2015 if she had ever questioned her sexuality, the actress responded: “Oh, I think everybody does, no matter who they are. I do, yeah, of course. Absolutely. I think it’s healthy to gain a perspective on who you are deep down, question yourself and challenge yourself; it’s important to do that.”

Gomez and Vasquez-Lavado have also faced their fair share of obstacles.

The singer’s latest album, “Rare,” alluded to some of her fight against depression and anxiety. “Is there a place where I can hide away?” she wonders on “A Sweeter Place”: “There must be a sweeter place — we can sugarcoat the taste.”

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The “13 Reasons Why” executive producer opened up over the summer about living with bipolar disorder during the pandemic lockdown. More recently, Gomez wrote for CNN Style about how beauty can influence mental health.

“We are constantly bombarded with images and social media posts that make people feel like they need to achieve perfection, which is unattainable,” she said. “I think admitting I am a human being, and not perfect — nobody is — was actually more beneficial to the people that looked up to me.”

Vasquez-Lavado, meanwhile, survived sexual abuse during her childhood in Peru. More than 30 years later, she founded Courageous Girls, a nonprofit that works to heal and empower survivors of violence and abuse through nature.

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“Silvia is a force of nature,” Gigliotti told the Hollywood Reporter. “Scott [Budnick] and I are so excited to work with Elgin and Selena to tell this story of resilience, courage, adventure and humanity.”

“The first time seeing Mount Everest gave me a security, a sweetness, a tenderness, a sense of safety I had never felt,” Vasquez-Lavado told the Chicago Tribune. “When you experience trauma, you become detached of your body, of your own persona. I was so moved by the mountains that it rekindled my life.”

“I went from survivor to empowerer,” she said.

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In November 2015, Vasquez-Lavado hiked to the base of Mount Everest with a group of Nepalese girls, all of whom had been trafficked in India.

“My young courageous girls stood stunned gazing up at at Everest. Here they were, their dream had come true, unlike many of their dreams that had been shattered by empty promises,” Vasquez-Lavado wrote on her blog.

“We put together the beautiful prayer flags with all what we wanted to leave behind and for all that we wanted to bring into our lives,” she continued. “A new beginning for many of us; a new way of leaving so much of the painful past behind.”

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‘One Life’: Soccer Player Megan Rapinoe On Sports, Being Gay And Taking A Stand – NPR

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NPR’s Mary Louise Kelly talks with American soccer superstar Megan Rapinoe about her new memoir, One Life.

MARY LOUISE KELLY, BYLINE: You could go on for a while before you’d run out of things to say about Megan Rapinoe’s victories as an athlete. Sports Illustrated named her Sportsperson of the Year last year – same year she led the U.S. women’s national soccer team to claim a fourth World Cup title.

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UNIDENTIFIED ANNOUNCER: The United States of America are crowned champions of the world.

KELLY: Well, Rapinoe has a new book out titled “One Life.” And yeah, it’s about soccer. But on the very first page, she writes, while I have your attention, I also want to discuss issues that have nothing to do with sports. Rapinoe has made headlines for taking a stand on gay rights and women’s rights, for taking a knee to support Black Americans.

Megan Rapinoe, welcome.

MEGAN RAPINOE: Oh, thank you for having me.

KELLY: Let’s start at the beginning. You write that you were this quiet kid, which, I guess, anybody who knows you might (laughter) already have cause to question. But you started out this quiet kid, youngest of six. Just tell me about the town where you grew up. This was Northern California.

RAPINOE: Yeah, so I grew up in Redding, Calif., which is a small, pretty conservative town in Northern California. I was quiet and sensitive, and I felt a lot as a kid. And I was sweet, but then I was also, like, a wild child. My grandfather famously nicknamed me Ma Barker after a female, like, mob boss serial killer.

KELLY: (Laughter).

RAPINOE: So I don’t know if I would go that far, but I’m rambunctious and chill at the same time.

KELLY: And in terms of when soccer came into your life – I’ll just ask this straight because I gather false modesty isn’t your thing. It was clear from when you were really young and first kicking a ball around that you had the potential to be superb.

RAPINOE: Yeah, I think so. I’m one of six, but I’m also a twin. And so, I think, from the time we were 5 or 6 years old, our first team, my parents were like, oh, my God, they’re better – (laughter) they’re better than everyone. What’s happening out here? It was kind of funny. I never felt I was the best one, and I don’t think my sister ever felt that either. And I think it was because we just judged each other against ourselves, so it was sort of normal what we were doing. But I think to all of the other parents, it was like, oh, gosh, these girls are something.

KELLY: I was so struck by your observation that youth soccer in America has become so hyperorganized – kids pressured to play year-round and commit to a schedule that rules out doing anything else. Do you think it’s gotten worse, just in the 20 years since you were playing high-school soccer?

RAPINOE: Oh, exponentially worse – it’s almost a bill of goods being sold in a way in the sense that if you play on this club team and if you go to this tournament and if you get this special training and if you pay this much for personalized training and all of these things, the sort of implication is that you will make it to the highest level, which we all know is just categorically untrue. You can’t pay or train your way into being an elite athlete. I say all the time, I was born with so much of the talent that I have. And, of course, it’s what you do with it from there. But I feel bad for the parents but mostly for the kids, who – like I said, 99% of them are not going to play professional sports. But that’s not really the most special part of sports. You – I think kids’ experience is being ruined by the pressure and the competitiveness where they can’t actually just play sports for fun and play sports to be healthy and move their bodies and be active and learn teamwork and confidence and problem-solving and conflict management – all of those things. So it’s kind of unfortunate, to be honest. I don’t know really what the solution is, but I don’t really like the way that it’s going.

KELLY: One of the moments that made me smile in the book is your account of how you realized that you are gay. You write that you were 18, and you wondered, why did nobody in my family tell me? Like, come on, guys, (laughter) you must have known this. You could have helped me out here.

RAPINOE: It’s unforgivable.

KELLY: (Laughter).

RAPINOE: They know it. I’ll never forgive them for it. It was clear as day. I remember almost chuckling to myself, like, how did you miss this? This is the most obvious thing. It was an immediate sort of click into place that just was a relief but also a whole new frontier of just excitement and self-confidence and like, oh, wow, this is what they’re talking about. This is feeling comfortable within yourself.

KELLY: The U.S. women’s team has millions more viewers than the men’s. You have more wins. You get paid less, a situation that I – I don’t know – I’m guessing is going to sound vaguely familiar to women in other professions listening to us right now. What advice do you have, having gone to court to try to change this?

RAPINOE: First of all, believe in your gut always. You’ll be gaslit. You’ll be manipulated. You’ll be told you’re crazy. You’ll be told it’s not that bad. You’ll be told you don’t have the facts. You’ll be told, you know, market realities are such that you shouldn’t get paid this much. You’ll be told all of those things. But really, like, trust that gut feeling. I think we all kind of know. You have that sort of spidey sense. I would also say, for most women, if you’re elite in your field or if you’re higher up in your field, you’re either one of one or you’re one of very few. And so try to seek out other women, whether that’s in organizations or online or social media or whatever it may be. Try to find that support group, so you can share stories and gain that confidence in each other.

KELLY: Well, let’s go straight to this moment that we’re in now. We have a new president-elect, Joe Biden, preaching unity. Can you see a world where MAGA-hat-wearing Trump voters embrace a gay soccer star with pink hair?

RAPINOE: I think we need to be careful when we talk about unity. Unity is going to come after acknowledgment and responsibility is taken and accountability for the harm that has been done. I think, you know, we’ve been hearing a lot of, let’s reach across the aisle. And, you know, you go first. You don’t get to rain down the kind of terror and violence and vitriol and hate speech that not only Donald Trump but the Republican Party and a lot of Donald Trump supporters have rained down on the rest of us for all of these years and then ask for us to put our hand out first. That’s not how that’s going to go. I love the idea of unity. I love the idea of people being able to speak to each other, but it’s not going to come without reconciliation. It’s not going to come without a reckoning and acknowledgement of all the harm and pain that has been done up until this point.

KELLY: Last thing – since you wrote the book, you got engaged to your longtime girlfriend, Sue Bird. She’s also a star athlete in women’s basketball. First of all, congratulations. That’s great.

RAPINOE: Thank you.

KELLY: Second, you know, what would you say to 10-year-old Megan about what life is like, could be like at 35?

RAPINOE: Oh, my gosh. I mean, I don’t think she would believe it.

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RAPINOE: I would tell her, you’re gay, you know?

KELLY: (Laughter).

RAPINOE: That would be the first thing. Hey, by the way, this is really obvious, but clearly…

KELLY: Let me save you…

RAPINOE: You’re not seeing it.

KELLY: Yeah, let me save you a decade here of trying to figure this out.

RAPINOE: Yeah, let me save you a decade. You know, I think I would say that, you know, life is going to be full of really good things and really hard things. And you’re going to grow a lot, and you’re going to learn so much all the time – and so just, like, kind of leaning into the nitty gritty of life and just to enjoy every moment. I’ve been able to do some really, truly special and amazing, incredible things in my life. And I try not to take any of them for granted.

KELLY: Well, I can’t wait to see what you do next.

Thank you so much.

RAPINOE: Thank you. Thank you.

KELLY: That is soccer superstar, social advocate and now author Megan Rapinoe. Her book is called “One Life.”

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Watch This Former Ballerina With Alzheimer’s Reenact Her Swan Lake Dance, and Prepare to Tear Up – POPSUGAR

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In this video of Spanish dancer Marta C. González, a former prima ballerina, she listens to the music from Swan Lake and instantly remembers and performs the choreography while sitting in her wheelchair. The clip was actually filmed in 2019 by Música para Despertar (Music to Wake Up To), an advocacy group for music therapy for patients who have memory loss, dementia, and Alzheimer’s disease, but was recently shared on their social media accounts.

The music has transported González back to the stage as she gracefully moves her arms and head. And while the video includes clips of a young ballerina dancing, it is actually not González but rather former prima ballerina from Russia’s Mariinsky Ballet, Ulyana Lopatkina, according to prominent dance critic Alastair Macaulay, who has been trying to track down González’s history.

Música para Despertar said González has since died, according to NPR. In this video, we get to witness the emotional effect music and dance can have on the body and mind, despite the effects Alzheimer’s disease can have on memory. We can feel the immense joy and emotion in her heart.

Fitness Company Peloton and Beyoncé Partner HBCUs to Give Students Free Memberships – Higher Education – Diverse: Issues in Higher Education

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Fitness company Peloton and award-winning musician Beyoncé are partnering with 10 historically Black colleges and universities (HBCUs) to provide memberships to students so that they can use the Peloton app to learn yoga, meditate and exercise at home while listening to inspirational music.

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“I’m proud to celebrate the students at HBCUs with this donation, to encourage them to find and embrace their own wellness regimens,” said Beyoncé, adding that she has been a Peloton member for multiple years.

The ten schools getting Peloton memberships include Morehouse College, Bennett College, Clark Atlanta University, Grambling State University, Hampton University, Howard University, Morehouse School of Medicine, Spelman College, Texas Southern University and Wilberforce University.

“Many of our students cannot afford local gym memberships because they live in households with an income of $40,000 or less,” said Monique Dozier, vice president of Morehouse College’s Office of Institutional Advancement. “This donation will make it easier for them to maintain a healthy lifestyle as they pursue their degrees.”