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WATERTOWN — The north country’s LGBTQ community rallied Saturday and celebrated a full day of Pride around the city.

LGBTQ people and allies gathered around the flag poles in front of City Hall at about 9 a.m. to see the Gay Pride flag raised. Mayor Jeffrey M. Smith proclaimed the day to be Pride Day in the city, and the community clapped as the rainbow flag rose up the pole, alongside the American flag.

A single protester was repeatedly blocked with a transgender pride flag as city and state officials, including City Councilman Ryan Henry-Wilkinson and state Assistant Secretary for Resiliency and Economic Development Molly Reilly, declared their support and respect for the LGBTQ community.

Watertown enjoys a day of Pride

Following a color run, people throw colored powder into the wind during the “OUT in the Park” party celebrating Pride in Watertown’s Thompson Park on Saturday afternoon. Kara Dry/Watertown Daily Times

“Pride is a chance to publicly recognize our LGBTQ neighbors,” the councilman said. “Watertown, and the north country, are a better place because of you.”

Mr. Henry-Wilkinson said there are still battles to be fought for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and queer people, including access to health care for trans children in states that recently banned gender-affirming treatments for people under 18 years old.

“That’s why it’s important for electeds like myself to stand in places like this and let our LGBTQ neighbors know that we will not abandon you,” he said.

The Gay Pride flag will fly outside City Hall along with the Pan-African flag, which was raised at noon to commemorate Juneteenth.

Saturday’s Pride celebration carried on through the day, with a color run at noon up to Thompson Park, where a celebration called “OUT in the Park” was held.

Mark Irwin, organizer for Watertown Pride, said the committee that puts together the events every year only knew they would be able to host everything about a week before the day came.

Watertown enjoys a day of Pride

Mayor Jeffrey M. Smith reads a proclamation to recognize Pride before raising the rainbow flag in front of Watertown City Hall on Saturday morning. Kara Dry/Watertown Daily Times

With the COVID-19 pandemic apparently receding, indoor events had capacity restrictions in place and outdoor events were planned with a high degree of caution. Mr. Irwin said the pandemic was still a concern in organizing Saturday’s events, but they were grateful to be able to hold a more traditional event.

Pride continued Saturday with a drag show at the Alex T. Duffy Fairgrounds, a fire spinning performance at the Ramada Inn at 9:30 p.m. and a fireworks show at the fairgrounds at 10 p.m.

This was only the second time Watertown Pride was held in person. Last year’s events were held virtually due to the pandemic. The event held its inaugural event in 2019.

“This is a wonderful way to kick off the summer season, get everyone together again and celebrate,” Mr. Irwin said. “We’re glad to be back.”

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We are family – INQUIRER.net

The Lao children (standing, from left): Jonel, Alvin, Jaynny, Handy, sister-in-law Angel, Alan and
Bjorn, with their parents (seated) Johnny and Melvida

At 7 years old, Bjorn Lao knew he was different. Growing up, the Laoag City-based businessman preferred Barbie dolls over the toy guns, cars, robots and G.I. Joe figures his dad Johnny Lao bought for him and his brothers.

“He’d wonder why there were even dolls among our toys when he had six sons. He would hide the dolls, but then there were other things to play with,” Bjorn told Lifestyle. One of his favorites was a set of miniature palayok (clay pots), a specialty of the adjacent town of San Nicolas.

“Yun yung gusto kong laruin dati, lutu-lutuan (That’s what I liked before, playing house),” he said.

It wasn’t easy growing up gay with a strict father. In school he had friends to confide in, but at home, he had to hide who he was until the time came that his father relented.

“Hindi nya matanggap noon (He had a hard time accepting it).”

But Bjorn wasn’t the only one. His two older siblings, Jonel and Handy, also identify as LGBT. Their second to the youngest sibling, Jaynny, is also LGBT—that’s four of the six sons in their family.

The Lao siblings are close and four of them—Jonel, Alan, Handy and Bjorn—even work together in their family-owned business.

The two youngest ones chose to do their own thing: Jaynny is a fashion designer who has dressed a number of Ilocos Norte beauty queen hopefuls, while Alvin, who took up culinary studies abroad, opened his own restaurant, Seafood Capital by Chef Alvin in the town of San Nicolas.

Dad’s rules

“Our dad couldn’t accept at first that four of his sons identified as LGBT,” Handy said. “He had a number of rules that we had to follow. First, we had to be responsible for ourselves and for our actions. Second, he didn’t want any of us cross-dressing which we we were able to follow—although Jaynny had a bit of a hard time with that.”

Bjorn then narrated how, one time, their dad went to the store and bought boy’s clothes for Jaynny, who accepted the lot, but went back to the store and exchanged them for something more to his liking.

“It turned out Jaynny knew the storeowner who agreed to the exchange. Of course, he ended up choosing the more feminine pieces.”

All the siblings were sent to Manila for college, and it was there where they were able to let their hair down and give in to their kalokohan (shenanigans). When they were home in Laoag, however, they were expected to take on a more subdued demeanor.

A third rule set by their father—and one that all the siblings can rightfully say they followed—was to be successful in whatever line of work they chose.

Aside from heading the family business, Handy ran for public office and became a Laoag City councilor. He is also an ex-officio board member of the province.

To this day, Bjorn looks up to his older brother Handy and considers him his mentor and “favorite person in the world.”

“Just because we are LGBT does not mean that we are less,” Handy said. INQ

Broward County couple fined for displaying small gay pride flag – Florida Politics

The couple is not backing down.

A Florida couple was fined by a homeowner’s association for displaying a small gay pride flag in the front yard of their home.

WTVJ-TV reports Bob Plominski and Mike Ferrari of Oakland Park, Florida, were issued a citation telling them to take it down or pay a a $50 daily fine. The Eastland Cove HOA sent the violation notice on June 5 after receiving a complaint.

The couple said they were confused, adding they had flown the pride flag before and posted political signs with no problems.

“I got upset. We’ve done this before and it’s a simple showing of our pride to the community and it’s up for 30 days,” Plominski told the news station. “We were in shock they were going to do that.”

A member of the HOA board said its rules restrict residents to displaying only U.S. or military flags.

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Plominski said they will not back down and will keep it up for 30 days.

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Westmoreland collegiate athletes striking out for new schools – TribLIVE

The NCAA transfer portal has been a happening place for college athletes from Westmoreland County.

A number of area names have popped up in the portal, which essentially is a free agent pool for players looking to start over and latch on with a new program.

Colleges can see the names and begin recruiting those athletes, the whole come-to-us process starting again.

Some familiar names on the path to new programs include Yough grad Jarett Bach (baseball), John Gay IV out of Penn-Trafford (football), softball pitchers Carolyn Alincic (Mt. Pleasant) and Maddie Uschock (Hempfield), and Norwin football players Anthony DelleFemine, Jayvon Thrift and Pedro Schmidt.

Bach was hoping to work his way into the pitching rotation at Pitt, but the Yough grad has been slowed by an injury and opted to leave Oakland.

A 6-foot-4 left-hander, he did not pitch this season after one appearance out of the bullpen in 2020.

“I’m just looking for a fresh start somewhere else,” Bach said. “Right now, I’m just focused on my rehab and getting back to 100% before I make a decision about where I want to go.”

Bach was diagnosed with thoracic outlet syndrome, a condition where disorders can occur when blood vessels or nerves in the space between the collarbone and first rib are compressed. It can cause pain in the shoulders and neck as well as numbness in fingers.

“It’s kind of an uncommon thing, but it is becoming more common in pitchers,” Bach said. “I was dealing with it for a while, and I didn’t know what it was but we finally got it diagnosed a couple months ago and I got surgery for it, so I should be able to make a full recovery.”

Rehabilitation likely will cost Bach a summer of baseball. He won’t be able to throw again for a couple of months, he said.

Gay, a running back, is leaving Lafayette after two seasons as he seeks more playing time and an elevated role.

The junior, who began his career at Air Force, was an All-Patriot League Second Team pick in the spring as a kick returner. He returned five kickoffs for 108 yards and also blocked a punt.

Gay has aspirations to play beyond college.

“I think when it came down to it, I loved my time at Lafayette,” Gay said. “I’m very appreciative of all the coaches, it just was not the right fit for me. All I’m looking for is a school that is the perfect fit and wants to give me a fair opportunity. Along with that, the NFL is still a very real opportunity, and I need a place that wants to get guys to the professional level.”

Gay had only seven carries in two games after rushing for 216 yards and two touchdowns in 2019. He also caught a touchdown pass. His motivation is playing for his father, John, who died in March at age 58. John Gay III was a star football player at Gateway and West Virginia and had a short stint in the NFL.

“My father was a great man, and I knew that from an early age, which is why I wore his number 46,” John Gay IV said. “I will continue to wear that number until my playing days are over. I can honor my dad in three ways: He was a very biblical man, and I have to use my ability to glorify God’s name. Secondly, I have to use football as avenue to take care of my family the way he did to his. And finally, numerous times before he passed he told me I would play in the NFL one day for much longer than he did. I plan on proving him right.”

Alincic and Uschock already have found new college destinations.

Alincic, a power pitcher who won WPIAL and PIAA titles at Mt. Pleasant, will be a junior when she begins play at Pikeville, an NAIA program in Pikeville, Ky.

She went to Division I Morehead State (Ky.) for two years.

“The environment on the softball team wasn’t the best, and it started to take a toll on my mental health,” Alincic said. “It made me want to get away from the intensity of Division I athletics because it really made me lose the love for the game and playing turned into a chore. I also felt like I was completely behind in my academics, so I decided it would be best to drop to a division that would be the most suitable to allow me to focus most of my time on school work, rather than only having enough time in the day to do softball-related activities.”

Alincic was 2-5 this season in 11 appearances for Morehead State, including 10 starts. She had an ERA of 8.06 in 33 innings with 26 strikeouts and 39 walks.

As concerned about the next wave of young recruits to come through the ranks as she is her next stop, Alincic has a message about big-time college softball.

“Sometimes, Division I just isn’t the right fit for some people,” she said. “The one thing I am trying to prove is that the ‘Division I or bust’ mentality is irrelevant. I used to think I was letting people down if I didn’t play at the most competitive level. So I hope younger local girls can follow my career and realize that you don’t have to play Division I to be a great athlete.”

Uschock is leaving Dominican, a Division II program in Orangeburg, N.Y., and will transfer to Division II Shippensburg of the PSAC.

She just completed her junior year.

“Despite really loving my friends, teammates and professors, the environment wasn’t healthy for me,” she said. “Specifically with softball.”

She had surgery on her shoulder during her sophomore season and was committed to making a full comeback. But something did not seem right, which made her rethink her surroundings.

“At the end of the day, I evaluated what was best for me and if I could be getting more out of my academics and my collegiate career,” Uschock said

Uschock, who has three years of athletic eligibility left, appeared in 28 games in 2019, including 22 starts, and posted a record of 11-11 with a 2.81 ERA and 90 strikeouts in 137 innings.

Former Hempfield standout softball pitcher Morgan Ryan, meantime, also entered the transfer portal, but it happened after she graduated from Notre Dame. She will play a fifth year at Seton Hill.

DelleFemine is now at Youngstown State after battling multiple injuries and setbacks at Robert Morris, where he was gaining momentum as a freshman in 2018. The wide receiver has three years of eligibility left.

He rejoins former Norwin teammates Gianni Rizzo and Thrift, who said transferring will bring his college football career, one that still is getting off the ground, “full circle.”

Thrift, a hard-hitting defensive back, transferred from West Virginia to Youngstown State, where he initially committed.

Schmidt, a redshirt sophomore, is another wideout looking for a new environment. He played played in eight games in 2019 at North Dakota State, mostly on special teams. He has 12 career appearances but still is looking for his first catch.

Bill Beckner Jr. is a Tribune-Review staff writer. You can contact Bill by email at bbeckner@triblive.com or via Twitter .

Tokyo LGBTQ center head hoping Olympics spark social change – Japan Today

With the eyes of the world on Japan during the Tokyo Olympics, Gon Matsunaka, head of the country’s first permanent LGBTQ community center, hopes the games will prove a catalyst in fostering a society in which discrimination is no longer accepted and diversity is embraced.

Matsunaka, who has dedicated himself to improving the rights of sexual minorities, has personally experienced the anxiety and difficulties commonly confronted by lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer or questioning people in Japan, ranked among the lowest of developed countries in legal inclusivity for those groups.

“It is our community’s wish that the Olympics and Paralympics will become a transitioning point. Since the world will focus on Japan, we want to use that attention to drive change,” Matsunaka, who leads Pride House Tokyo Legacy, said in a recent interview.

The LGBTQ hub, located on the second floor of a building in the capital’s thronging Shinjuku district, is the latest to join the Pride House movement that began at the 2010 Winter Olympics in Vancouver. The mission is to welcome LGBTQ athletes, fans and their supporters, while also providing learning opportunities.

Operated by a consortium consisting of nonprofit groups, 15 Tokyo Games sponsors and 21 embassies, the center, decorated with rainbow flags, contains over 1,000 books, a small cafe and space for counseling. The door is open to anyone.

The 45-year-old Matsunaka said the Tokyo Games, set to open on July 23, are “not just any Olympics and Paralympics” due to organizers’ stated ambition to push for wider diversity and improved inclusivity.

The International Olympic Committee charter stipulates individuals must not face discrimination of any kind and the reference to sexual orientation was included in the code after Russia held the 2014 Sochi Winter Games amid international concern and commentary over its anti-gay legislation.

With its “Unity in Diversity” slogan aimed at building a world that is more tolerant of difference, Tokyo may now be able to boast the first transgender athlete to ever compete at an Olympics. New Zealand weightlifter Laurel Hubbard is expected to compete in the women’s over 87-kilogram category, her entry coming after the IOC adopted in 2015 new guidelines for transgender athletes.

“Sports have been considered the final frontier in Europe and the United States, where understanding (of sexual minorities) has developed at schools and workplaces. Sports are said to be the area where discrimination is most severe,” Matsunaka said.

“But in Tokyo, we want to change many aspects in society, not just sports. Our focus goes beyond sports,” he said.

Under an official program running alongside the Tokyo Games, members of the consortium have taken on different projects, including holding a discussion session on creating safe spaces for LGBTQ people at universities and companies, as well as staging pride events.

During a visit to the center in April, Seiko Hashimoto, president of the Tokyo Games organizing body, said, “As for the understanding of sexual minorities, it is the duty of the organizing committee to engage in the sorts of activities that could allow people to think of the Tokyo Games as a turning point.”

Having operated during the 2019 Rugby World Cup, the LGBTQ house was initially set to open for a limited time to coincide with the Olympics and Paralympics in 2020.

But it became a permanent facility in October as the novel coronavirus has swept the world, forcing many people to stay at home as much as possible to prevent the spread of infections.

The operators saw the need to offer a place for sexual minorities, especially young people, who have increasingly said they are feeling more uneasy about not having access to support networks they had pre-pandemic.

Since its opening, the center has received more than a thousand visitors from a wide age group. There have been high school students coming as part of classes, or parents bringing a child who has questions around sexual identity to talk to the staff to learn more.

In Japan, about one in 11 people identify as LGBT or belonging to another sexual minority group, according to a survey by Japanese advertising agency Dentsu Inc. But people say the country lacks support infrastructure, both from the psychological and legal aspects.

Japan is the only country among the Group of Seven industrialized economies that has not legalized same-sex unions, while the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development placed the country at 34th among 35 on ensuring equal rights for sexual minorities.

Japan’s main ruling party decided against submitting to this year’s ordinary session of parliament that ended Wednesday a bill to promote greater public awareness of sexual minorities, a call that advocacy groups say goes against the core values of the Olympics.

Matsunaka is also apprehensive that an explanation about LGBTQ is not included in many textbooks for elementary and junior high school students. “This is dangerous,” he said, because children who think they may be gay or transgender do not get access to sufficient information during a crucial time and the lack of knowledge can also lead to bullying.

A native of the central Japan city of Kanazawa, Matsunaka said he became aware that he was gay during his elementary school years, and he does not have very positive memories from growing up. He felt unable to confide in his parents or his siblings and left for Tokyo to attend Hitotsubashi University.

While he kept his sexual orientation hidden during his school years in Japan, telling his friends that he had a girlfriend amid pressure to fit in, it was when studying abroad for about a year at the University of Melbourne he was able to come out to his peers.

At the Summer Games in 2016, Matsunaka was in Rio de Janeiro with his previous job with Dentsu. Thinking about the Tokyo Games four years later, he said “it was like a dream” to be able to make the most of the sporting extravaganza as a platform to improve the environment for the LGBTQ community.

But when in the Brazilian city, Matsunaka heard that a Hitotsubashi University graduate student had died the previous year when he had plunged from a building on campus in an apparent suicide. The man was outed as gay by a fellow student on a messaging app.

Hearing the news, Matsunaka said he could not breathe as he thought about the plight of the man and how close it was to home for him. The incident influenced his decision to quit his job with the advertising agency and change the direction of his life.

Following a one-year postponement because of the pandemic, the Tokyo Olympics will be different from any other games. There will be no spectators from abroad, and athletes will not be able to casually visit a place such as the LGBTQ center due to COVID-19 restrictions on movement.

“We just have to do whatever that can be done. We had been considering how to provide visitors from abroad a safe place or how to share information with athletes, but now we are thinking about what we can do,” Matsunaka said.

“There is so much that needs to be done, we just need to select what we can do,” he said.

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Sesame Street introduces family with two gay dads during Pride Month – CP24 Toronto’s Breaking News

There are some new faces on “Sesame Street” and they’re bringing a new layer of diversity to the decades-old children’s show.

The show dropped its Family Day episode Thursday on HBO Max (which, like CNN, is owned by WarnerMedia) and YouTube. The episode featured a family with two gay dads.

On the episode, Nina introduces her brother, his husband and their daughter Mia to Elmo and his friends as they celebrate Family Day.

The milestone for the show comes during Pride Month, which Alan Muraoka, known as Alan on “Sesame Street,” acknowledged in a Facebook post.

“Sesame Street has always been a welcoming place of diversity and inclusion. So I’m so excited to introduce Nina’s Brother Dave, his husband Frank, and their daughter Mia to our sunny street,” Muraoka, who co-directed the episode, wrote. “Love is love, and we are so happy to add this special family to our Sesame family.”

“Sesame Street” has throughout the years introduced diverse characters and tackled issues such as hunger and addiction.

Earlier this year, the show introduced two new Muppet characters who were both African American and discussed what racial difference means.

LGBTQ students need inclusive sex ed – but less than 10% in US are receiving it, report says – USA TODAY

  • Less than 8.2% of LGBTQ students are receiving inclusive sex education in school, according to a May report by several LGBTQ health and policy organizations.
  • Only seven states and the District of Columbia require sex education to be LGBTQ+ inclusive, according to the report.

With more Americans than ever coming out as LGBTQ, the need for inclusive sex education is more pressing than ever – but few students are getting it, according to a report released ahead of Pride Month.

Less than 8.2% of LGBTQ students said they received inclusive sex education in school, a failure that could have lasting effects from adolescence into adulthood, according to “A Call to Action: LGBTQ Youth Need inclusive Sex Education,” published in May by several LGBTQ health and policy organizations.

“Far too many LGBTQ youth are attending schools that lack inclusive policies and sitting in classrooms where their teachers and textbooks significantly fail to address their identities, community, and experiences. Nowhere is this absence more clear, and potentially more damaging, than in sex education,” says the report, citing a number of other analyses.

Only a fraction of the 50 states – 18 – require sex education to be medically accurate, and just seven states and the District of Columbia require sex education to be LGBTQ+ inclusive, according to the report, an absence causing drastic consequences.

“We know non inclusive sex education can cause significant harm to young queer and trans folks, particularly LGBTQ youth of color,” said Preston Mitchum, policy director for Unite for Reproduction and Gender Equity, one of the report’s authors.

But the report says those students are “lacking information about themselves, and how sex and sexuality might be applicable to their own life experience,” said Joseph Kosciw, GLSEN research director. 

“For any students seeing themselves included in the curriculum, they are more engaged in their education, and they thrive more, they’re more connected to school, and they often do better in school,” he said.

But “when you don’t see yourself being reflected in the education that you receive and in the information that you learn,” Mitchum said, that can cause negative mental and physical health outcomes.

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The lack of inclusive education, not just sex education, contributes to a stigma, the report says. 

For one, a lack of identity reflection in school curriculum can lead to a cultivation of hostile school environments by ignoring identities and experiences – making LGBTQ students less likely to feel comfortable speaking with their teachers about LGBTQ issues, less likely to feel safe at school, and face greater rates of anti-LGBTQ harassment, according to the report. 

A lack of inclusive education can also lead to youth isolation and an absence of trusted adults, leading LGBTQ youth to be much more likely to seek health information online around sexuality, health, and STIs, information which can be medically inaccurate and inappropriate.

For many students, part of inclusive sex education is learning what’s applicable to their own life, Kosciw says. If sex education is not inclusive, health risk is much greater.

“The more that they’re not learning what they can do to protect themselves, [the more] they’re not taking appropriate actions around pregnancy and HIV risk,” he said.

And nearly one-quarter of LGBTQ youth were not taught about HIV/AIDS in school, compared to 18% of non-LGBTQ youth, according to the report, citing a 2019 analysis by the HRC Foundation.

The result, the report finds: Nearly seven in 10 new HIV diagnoses from 2018 were gay and bisexual men. And an overwhelming majority of new HIV transmissions among youth ages 13-24 occur among gay and bisexual men and transgender straight women.

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Mitchum says that though sex education is stigmatized especially for LGBTQ youth, the stigma exists for all students. 

“When you think about the environment that the United States and other parts of the world have created around stigmatizing sex… we are a culture that has sex, but don’t talk about it,” Mitchum said.

Thus, sex education must be viewed with a wider lens – one that takes into account all young people’s experiences.

“[Sex ed] means informing young people of all the information and access that’s available so they can be informed about the decisions that they make,” he added.

For parents, educators, and policymakers to integrate a more inclusive sexual education curriculum, the report details several measures that every group can take.

Among them, Mitchum said, are calls for policymakers to “talk about the need for inclusive or comprehensive sex ed,” especially sex ed that is inclusive of all gender identities.

In addition to URGE, the report was authored and endorsed by Advocates for Youth, Answer, Black & Pink, the Equality Federation, GLSEN, the Human Rights Campaign, the National LGBTQ Task Force, Planned Parenthood Federation of America and SIECUS: Sex Ed for Social Change.

Marvin Gaye Drive unveiled in Detroit by family members, Motown alumni, dignitaries – Detroit Free Press

On a gray and rainy day that added a fitting, cinematic touch to a celebratory occasion, Marvin Gaye got his own stretch of street in Detroit.

Marvin Gaye Drive was unveiled Saturday at the corner of Outer Drive at Monica Street by a group of Detroit and Michigan dignitaries, along with members of the late Motown star’s family.

A couple of hundred onlookers gathered for the dedication at the corner, where Gaye’s onetime home sat as a backdrop. The backyard of the property, which had been given to Gaye and his wife, Anna Gordy, by Berry Gordy Jr., was the scene of the photo shoot 50 years ago that produced the iconic portrait for Gaye’s “What’s Going On” album cover.

Dignitaries reveal the renaming of the section of Outer Drive and Monica Street to Marvin Gaye Drive during a ceremony on June 19, 2021. More than 100 cattended in the rain to listen to speeches talking about the life and legacy of the Motown star and his album "What's Going On."

The ceremonial naming was spearheaded by Detroit City Councilman Roy McAlister and approved earlier this year by the council. It’s the latest area road to get a musical designation, following street dedications for Aretha Franklin, Stevie Wonder, Glenn Frey, David Ruffin and others.

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Gaye’s groundbreaking “What’s Going On” was the dominant theme at the Juneteenth event, which included speeches by McAlister, Mayor Mike Duggan, U.S. Rep. Brenda Lawrence, Motown Museum head Robin Terry and former Motown exec Miller London.

Gaye’s younger brother Antwaun Gay — the original family surname — was gracious and grateful as he addressed the crowd.

Antwaun Gay, the brother of Marvin Gaye, talks to the crowd at the renaming ceremony.

“To be here on this day is just a beautiful thing,” said Gay, who was just a year old when “What’s Going On” was released in 1971.  He  recalled hearing the album’s title track later in his childhood.

“I remember it moved me to tears,” Gay  said. “I couldn’t understand what was happening to me. I don’t know if I even realized it was Marvin.”

Terry read a letter from Marvin Gaye’s youngest sister, Zeola Gaye, who wrote, “I’m elated and touched by the love shown to my brother Marvin.”

As the soon-to-be-revealed blue street sign stood draped behind him, Duggan recounted traveling this stretch of Outer Drive frequently in his teens, when he attended nearby Catholic Central High School. He didn’t know then that the ranch house on the corner was home to Gaye.

For Detroiters four years after the ’67 riots, “What’s Going On” had a special resonance, Duggan said, and its calls for peace connected with young people concerned about war in Vietnam. Like other speakers, he said the album’s messages and meaning are still relevant today.

Antwaun Gay, the brother of Marvin Gaye, greets Miller London, a former Motown executive, before the street renaming ceremony honoring Gaye in Detroit on June 19, 2021.

“This street will forever be Marvin Gaye Drive,” the mayor declared.

Lawrence marveled that just 48 hours earlier, she’d been in the White House for the signing ceremony that enacted Juneteenth as a federal holiday. Describing herself as “a little fired up” Saturday — but ready to celebrate the occasion with later that day — she argued that much had been stolen from Black Americans by slavery.

“Today was the beginning of taking back what was taken from us,” she said.

Saturday’s street-naming ceremony, organized by the Motown Museum, was the latest in an ongoing 50th-anniversary commemoration of Gaye’s 1971 classic, which kicked off with Michigan Gov. Gretchen Whitmer’s recognition of Jan. 20 as “What’s Going On” Day.

And Saturday’s timing was fitting, said Terry, the museum’s chairwoman and CEO.

“Juneteenth is about telling your stories, and that’s what Motown is about,” she said.

For Gaye’s three visiting family members, the corner event was just the start of a busy Motown day: They soon headed to West Grand Boulevard for a private tour of the Motown Museum, their first-ever visit to the site where their famous relative made his name.

Carolyn Gay, left, with husband Antwaun Gay and Marvin Gaye's grandson Dylan Holley, enter the fabled Motown recording studio and look at photos on the wall from various recording sessions in the 1960s and 1970s, including some involving Gaye.

Their tour included an emotional, soul-stirring finale. Standing in Motown’s famed Studio A, they listened with lights dimmed as Gaye’s isolated “What’s Going On” vocal was played in the very spot he had recorded it.

“We want to connect you with a loved one in a new way,” said Paul Barker, the museum’s director of development and community activation.

Just like last month when public visitors were treated to the same thrill as part of a 50th anniversary event, the moment was hushed and solemn. Gay, the singer’s brother,  stood with head bowed alongside his wife, Carolyn. He later described the experience as surreal.

Gaye’s 21-year-old grandson Dylan Holley, son of Marvin Gaye III, said afterward that the studio is “a part of me.”

“Not only is it part of American history, it’s my history — my family’s lineage,” he said.

The group then headed down the West Grand Boulevard sidewalk for a look at the museum’s new mile-long walking installation, “Still Going On,” a series of stations with historical and timely photographs, along with messages tied to Gaye’s 1971 album. The installation, which launched this week, includes scannable mobile codes to activate songs from the record.

(L to R) Antwaun and Carolyn Gay along with Marvin Gaye's grandson Dylan Holley head out of the Motown Museum after a tour including seeing the fabled Motown recording studio where so many hits including some by Gaye himself were recorded.
The Gay family was in Detroit on June 19, 2021, for a street renaming and to get a tour of the Motown Museum.

Gay, visiting from Fredericksburg, Virginia, said it had been a powerful day in Detroit. 

“I’m so honored to see all the support for ‘What’s Going On’ and for the loving man who sacrificed for others,” he said of his older brother. 

The earlier street ceremony — quite literally a neighborhood event — had radiated a sense of community that once again showed how deeply embedded Motown remains in the heart of Detroit. 

“They made me feel right at home when I started talking up there,” Gay said. “There were lots of smiles and lots of love.”

Contact Detroit Free Press music writer Brian McCollum: 313-223-4450 or bmccollum@freepress.com.

Warsaw gay pride parade back after backlash, pandemic – Minneapolis Star Tribune

WARSAW, Poland — The largest gay pride parade in central Europe took place again in Warsaw for the first time in two years after a pandemic-induced break — and amid a backlash in Poland and Hungary against LGBT rights.

Warsaw Mayor Rafal Trzaskowski walked at the head of the Equality Parade on Saturday — a sign of support for LGBT rights by the liberal politician. Thousands of people joined the march and were cheered on by others waving rainbow flags from their apartment balconies and sidewalk cafes.

But that level of acceptance is not universal in Poland, a heavily Catholic, largely conservative nation.

The joyful and colorful celebration was tinged with fear of what the future holds for the rights of gay men, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people after setbacks first in Russia and now in Hungary.

“The day of the parade is always a bitter-sweet moment for our community,” said Rafal Wojtczak, a spokesman for the organizers. He described feelings of sadness and helplessness that LGBT people have not achieved rights liked same-sex partnership or marriage in Poland, while also facing new threats.

The parade comes days after Hungary’s parliament passed a law that makes it illegal to show any materials about LGBT issues to people under 18.

Hungary’s conservative ruling party portrayed the law as an effort to fight pedophilia. But human rights groups see it as a cynical tool that will stigmatize LGBT people, and prevent youth from accessing critical information.

Poland’s populist ruling party has taken a political direction very similar to that of Hungary under Prime Minister Viktor Orban, pushing conservative policies and tightening ruling party control over courts and media. The European Union has criticized both these two member nations, accusing them of eroding democratic norms.

One prominent Polish activist, Bart Staszewski, carried a Hungarian flag in Saturday’s march. He said it was a message urging the EU to act in defense of LGBT people because he fears that “Poland will be next.”

Ambassadors and other diplomats from 14 embassies in Warsaw also took place, including the U.S. charge d’affaires Bix Aliu, who tweeted “Let’s choose love not hate.”

A year ago, the Polish LGBT community faced a backlash from ruling conservative politicians, local communities and the church. In his successful bid for reelection against a challenge from Trzaskowski, President Andrzej Duda declared that “LGBT is not people; it’s an ideology” while also claiming that it was “even more destructive” than communism.

A Polish archbishop warned of a “rainbow plague.” And dozens of local communities in Poland were passing resolutions against “LGBT ideology” in what was described as an attempt to protect the traditional family. These were strongly denounced by EU officials and a handful have since been rescinded.

“We’ve been through a very, very rough time, but at the same time we are going out in the streets and we are saying we are stronger and we are not going to give up,” said Miroslawa Makuchowska, vice director of Campaign Against Homophobia.

Wojtczak said “our community has been used in a political war.”

At the start of the march, some people chanted a vulgarity against Poland’s ruling party.

This weekend’s Equality Parade comes 20 years since the event was first held in the Polish capital. It was banned twice in its early years by a conservative mayor, Lech Kaczynski, who feared it would promote homosexuality, and last year it was canceled due to the coronavirus pandemic.

Since the first event in 2001, Polish society has become largely more open on the issue of gay rights, shaped by EU membership and cultural influences from the West.

Warsaw gay pride parade back after backlash, pandemic – The Associated Press

WARSAW, Poland (AP) — The largest gay pride parade in central Europe took place again in Warsaw on Saturday for the first time in two years after a pandemic-induced break — and amid a backlash in Poland and Hungary against LGBT rights.

The year’s Equality Parade came 20 years since the event was first held in the Polish capital. It was banned twice in its early years by a conservative mayor who feared it would promote homosexuality and last year it was canceled due to the coronavirus pandemic.

Warsaw Mayor Rafal Trzaskowski walked at the head of the parade in a sign of support for LGBT rights, joining thousands who were cheered on by others waving rainbow flags from apartment balconies and sidewalk cafes.

But that level of acceptance is not universal in Poland, a heavily Catholic, largely conservative nation.

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The joyful and colorful celebration was tinged with fear of what the future holds for the rights of gay men, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people after setbacks first in Russia and now in Hungary.

“The day of the parade is always a bittersweet moment for our community,” said Rafal Wojtczak, a spokesman for the organizers. He described feelings of sadness and helplessness that LGBT people have not achieved rights liked same-sex partnership or marriage in Poland, while also facing new threats.

The parade comes only days after Hungary’s parliament passed a law that makes it illegal to show any materials about LGBT issues to people under 18.

Hungary’s conservative ruling party portrayed the law as an effort to fight pedophilia. But human rights groups say it will stigmatize LGBT people and prevent youth from accessing critical information.

Poland’s populist ruling party has taken a political direction very similar to that of Hungary under Prime Minister Viktor Orban, pushing conservative policies and tightening ruling party control over courts and media. The European Union has criticized both nations, accusing them of eroding democratic norms.

One prominent Polish activist, Bart Staszewski, carried a Hungarian flag in Saturday’s march, saying it was a message to the EU to defend LGBT people because he fears that “Poland will be next.”

Among those who participated was Misza Czerniak, a 37-year-old musician who was born in Russia and emigrated to Poland 10 years ago in part to flee the homophobia there. Czerniak said the recent scapegoating of LGBT people by Polish officials feels reminiscent of Russia, in particular local anti-LGBT resolutions that “create an atmosphere of hate, suspicion and fear.”

“The right-wing turn has made Poland feel much closer to my country of origin than I would have liked. It made me question why I moved here,” he said.

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Ambassadors and other diplomats from 14 embassies in Warsaw also took part, including the U.S. charge d’affaires Bix Aliu, who tweeted “Let’s choose love not hate.”

A year ago, the Polish LGBT community faced a backlash from ruling conservative politicians, local communities and the church. In his successful bid for reelection against a challenge from Trzaskowski, President Andrzej Duda declared that “LGBT is not people; it’s an ideology” while also claiming that it was “even more destructive” than communism.

A Polish archbishop warned of a “rainbow plague.” And dozens of local communities in Poland passed resolutions against “LGBT ideology,” claiming to protect traditional families. The resolutions were strongly denounced by EU officials and a handful have been rescinded.

“We’ve been through a very, very rough time. But at the same time, we are going out in the streets and we are saying we are stronger and we are not going to give up,” said Miroslawa Makuchowska, vice director of Campaign Against Homophobia.

Local doctor helps gay couples become parents – KTVZ

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    Connecticut (WFSB) — It’s Pride Month, and Channel 3 is sharing stories celebrating the LGBTQ community while also looking at the challenges it faces.

In March, Eric and Tyler Dashner finally held their dream in their hands when Hazel Lou was born.

“We always had it in the back of our minds that we wanted to be parents,” said Tyler Dashner.

On the journey to get there, the Dashners experienced fleeting hope at times.

An adoption fallout slashed the Washington, D.C. couple’s dreams until they met Dr. Mark Leondires.

Just because you happen to be LGBTQ+ doesn’t mean you can’t be a parent,” Leondires said.

In 2002, the medical director opened the Reproductive Medicine Associates of Connecticut, also known as RMA.

After helping heterosexual couples build their families, he felt ready to do the same with his husband.

“I kind of thought I knew I was getting into because I’m a fertility doctor, but I didn’t realize all the things I didn’t know,” Leondires said, referring to the toll on mental health a couple may face as they learn about the family building process while screening donors.

Then, there’s needing the help of a reproductive attorney who can guide same-sex couples through contracts, parental rights and protections.

After successfully welcoming his two sons, Leondires started what he calls a passion project, “Gay Parents to Be.”

It’s a one-stop hub for information and resources featuring experts in reproductive medicine, reproductive law, counseling, surrogacy and egg donor agencies.

The organization is supported by RMA of Connecticut.

Leondires said about 15 percent of his patients are LGBTQ couples. He’s also helped people around the world.

“Part of the gay parents to be ethos is let’s educate people so they know what they need to know,” Leondires said.

For the Dashners, they credit Leondires for not only turning a dream into reality but also creating a community of people who’ve experienced the same hardships and joys of starting families.

“He didn’t have to do that and we’re incredibly grateful that he did because he made our journey really, really flawless and special and great,” Dashner said.

The dads plan to expand their family with by having a boy in 2023.

Progress is slowly being made for same-sex couples wanting to start families.

Earlier this month, the governor signed the “Connecticut Parentage Act,” which ensures any parent, regardless of sexual orientation, has equal parental rights.

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Local doctor helps gay couples become parents – KION

By Shawnte Passmore

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    Connecticut (WFSB) — It’s Pride Month, and Channel 3 is sharing stories celebrating the LGBTQ community while also looking at the challenges it faces.

In March, Eric and Tyler Dashner finally held their dream in their hands when Hazel Lou was born.

“We always had it in the back of our minds that we wanted to be parents,” said Tyler Dashner.

On the journey to get there, the Dashners experienced fleeting hope at times.

An adoption fallout slashed the Washington, D.C. couple’s dreams until they met Dr. Mark Leondires.

Just because you happen to be LGBTQ+ doesn’t mean you can’t be a parent,” Leondires said.

In 2002, the medical director opened the Reproductive Medicine Associates of Connecticut, also known as RMA.

After helping heterosexual couples build their families, he felt ready to do the same with his husband.

“I kind of thought I knew I was getting into because I’m a fertility doctor, but I didn’t realize all the things I didn’t know,” Leondires said, referring to the toll on mental health a couple may face as they learn about the family building process while screening donors.

Then, there’s needing the help of a reproductive attorney who can guide same-sex couples through contracts, parental rights and protections.

After successfully welcoming his two sons, Leondires started what he calls a passion project, “Gay Parents to Be.”

It’s a one-stop hub for information and resources featuring experts in reproductive medicine, reproductive law, counseling, surrogacy and egg donor agencies.

The organization is supported by RMA of Connecticut.

Leondires said about 15 percent of his patients are LGBTQ couples. He’s also helped people around the world.

“Part of the gay parents to be ethos is let’s educate people so they know what they need to know,” Leondires said.

For the Dashners, they credit Leondires for not only turning a dream into reality but also creating a community of people who’ve experienced the same hardships and joys of starting families.

“He didn’t have to do that and we’re incredibly grateful that he did because he made our journey really, really flawless and special and great,” Dashner said.

The dads plan to expand their family with by having a boy in 2023.

Progress is slowly being made for same-sex couples wanting to start families.

Earlier this month, the governor signed the “Connecticut Parentage Act,” which ensures any parent, regardless of sexual orientation, has equal parental rights.

Please note: This content carries a strict local market embargo. If you share the same market as the contributor of this article, you may not use it on any platform.

Warsaw pride parade back after LGBT rights backlash and pandemic break – Yahoo Eurosport UK

The largest gay pride parade in central Europe took place again in Warsaw for the first time in two years after a pandemic-induced break — and amid a backlash in Poland and Hungary against LGBT rights.

Warsaw Mayor Rafal Trzaskowski walked at the head of the Equality Parade on Saturday — a sign of support for LGBT rights by the liberal politician. Thousands of people joined the march and were cheered on by others waving rainbow flags from their apartment balconies.

But that level of acceptance is not universal in Poland, a heavily Catholic, largely conservative nation.

The joyful and colorful celebration was tinged with fear of what the future holds for the rights of gay men, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people after setbacks first in Russia and now in Hungary.

“The day of the parade is always a bitter-sweet moment for our community,” said Rafal Wojtczak, a spokesman for the organizers. He described feelings of sadness and helplessness that LGBT people have not achieved rights like same-sex partnership or marriage in Poland, while also facing new threats.

The parade comes days after Hungary‘s parliament passed a law that makes it illegal to show any materials about LGBT issues to people under 18.

Hungary’s conservative ruling party portrayed the law as an effort to fight pedophilia. But human rights groups see it as a cynical tool that will stigmatize and discriminate against LGBT people, and prevent youth from accessing critical information.

Poland’s populist ruling party has taken a political direction very similar to that of Hungary under Prime Minister Viktor Orban in past years, pushing conservative policies and tightening ruling party control over courts and media. The European Union has denounced both these two member nations, accusing them of eroding democratic norms.

One prominent Polish activist, Bart Staszewski, carried a Hungarian flag in Saturday’s march. He said it was a message to the EU to act in defense of LGBT people because he fears that “Poland will be next.”

A year ago, the Polish LGBT community faced a backlash from ruling conservative politicians, local communities and the church. In his successful bid for reelection against a challenge from Trzaskowski, President Andrzej Duda declared that “LGBT is not people; it’s an ideology” while also claiming that it was “even more destructive” than communism.

A Polish archbishop warned of a “rainbow plague.” And dozens of local communities in Poland were passing resolutions against “LGBT ideology” in what was described as an attempt to protect the traditional family. These were strongly denounced by EU officials and a handful have since been rescinded.

“We’ve been through a very, very rough time, but at the same time we are going out in the streets and we are saying we are stronger and we are not going to give up,” said Miroslawa Makuchowska, vice director of Campaign Against Homophobia.

Wojtczak said “our community has been used in a political war.”

At the start of the march, some people chanted a vulgarity against Poland’s ruling party.

This weekend’s Equality Parade comes 20 years since the event was first held in the Polish capital. It was banned twice in its early years by a conservative mayor, Lech Kaczynski, who feared it would promote homosexuality, and last year it was canceled due to the coronavirus pandemic.

Since the first event in 2001, Polish society has become largely more open on the issue of gay rights, shaped by EU membership and cultural influences from the West.

This year’s parade was smaller than the one in 2019 due to some pandemic restrictions.

(AP)

Handwriting Sample Ends Harassment For Gay Couple – Newser

(Newser) – A couple in a Boston suburb ended five years of harassment with a little creative detective work. And the neighbors who rallied around them to help have raised over $25,000 for the Milton schools Gay Straight Alliance. The harassment took the form of subscriptions sent to the gay couple’s home addressed to phony—and homophobic—names, USA Today reports. “We were being picked on because we were gay, and it had followed me into my 40s. I couldn’t believe it,” LeeMichael McLean said. McLean and his partner Bryan Furze were troubled by the intrusiveness of the mail, and were growing concerned that their son would see the homophobic slurs on the address labels.

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One of the subscriptions their harasser signed them up for was the Boston Globe. But since they were already subscribers, the paper sent back the order paperwork. The subscription card, under the name “Michelle Fruitzey,” was handwritten. McLean posted an image of the subscription card to a neighborhood website along with a recap of the harassment, LGBTQNation reports. A neighbor looked over local election records, found a name in the same handwriting, and sent the police to talk to the match. The suspect, a close neighbor and fellow member of the Town Meeting, confessed, insisting it was just a harmless prank. In an attempt to flip negative into positive, McLean and Furze sold T-shirts with the message “#iammichellefruitzey” to raise funds to fight homophobia in their local schools. (Read more weird crimes stories.)

Does Disney’s ‘Luca’ Have a Gay Character? – Decider

Just a little over halfway through Pride Month, we are seeing people flock to Twitter to present their theories on why and how the lead duo in Disney and Pixar’s latest coming-of-age animated feature film, Luca, is, in fact, gay. So does Luca have a gay character after all, or is this just a case of fans creating a headcanon that’s gaining traction and online clout? The answer just may be somewhere in between, so read on to find out more about this new hit adventure comedy film.

What is Luca about? 

On the Italian Riviera, an unlikely but strong friendship grows between a human being (Emma Berman) and a sea monster (Jacob Tremblay) disguised as a human. Determined to have the best summer of his life, Luca (Tremblay) is joined by best friend Alberto (Jack Dylan Grazer) as they share adventures, laughs, and challenges whilst trying to blend in on land, all the while hiding the fact that they are actually fish-like creatures who dwell under the sea. What ensues is a heartwarming adventure about friendship, fitting in, and finding oneself that you’ll immediately love and want to watch again and again.

Does Luca have a gay character?

Technically, the answer is no. HOWEVER! While Disney has not come on the record saying that Luca and Alberto are gay, we (and many a Twitter user!) believe that the great minds at Pixar may have meant for the movie’s plot to be an overall metaphor for gayness and acceptance. If we strip away the fish factor, at its core, Luca is the story of two boys having to hide who they really are in order to protect themselves from potential harm, backlash, and judgment. The humans around Luca and Alberto fear those who are different, and it leads to interesting and thought-provoking depictions of confusion and self-discovery.

In addition to this, Luca and Alberto just generally have an adorable relationship full of acceptance, support, and genuine affection for one another that could very easily be the beginnings of the age-old friends to lovers trope we all know and love. So while no character in Luca has been identified by Disney outright as gay, we can very well read the subtext, metaphors, and straight-up visual evidence (all of those innocent touches!) present in the film as a subtle depiction of a budding same sex relationship, as well as representative of an allegory for queerness in today’s world.

Watch Luca on Disney+