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There Is No Way To ‘Fix’ The Equality Act. It’s Harmful No Matter What – The Federalist

On May 15, Fox News reported that three Republican senators would like to write caveats into the Equality Act that might give them the political cover to vote for the bill to criminalize free speech and Christianity in the United States.

“Representatives from the offices of Sens. Thom Tillis, R-N.C.; Rob Portman, R-Ohio and Susan Collins, R-Maine, met with groups including the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB), Concerned Women for America, the Family Research Council and American Principles Project, sources said.”

FRC President Tony Perkins says that wasn’t his group’s goal for the meetings at all. Orthodox faith groups don’t want to be bamboozled into appearing to support a “compromise” on a bill that legally advantages LGBT people to make Christians second-class American citizens and punish free speech, both constitutionally protected rights.

The goal of these discussions, Fox’s sources claim, is to essentially pass a federal law that secures legal preferences for LGBT people while making carve-outs for religious groups. The Equality Act and its weaker competitor,  The Fairness For All Act, both would permanently enshrine in federal law President Biden’s executive orders that transgender and de-gender everything the federal government touches, which by now is most of society.

The point of this maneuver is obvious: to fool the religious Americans who largely vote Republican into continuing to do so while Republicans actively undermine their interests and the Constitution.

Pretending a “compromise” is possible here is a fool’s errand in more ways than one. Fundamentally, it’s foolish because it’s not possible to both uphold the U.S. Constitution and the identity politics regime. The two are fundamentally reconcilable, as Christopher Caldwell explains in detail. The only option is to choose which master Americans will be forced to serve: Ordered freedom or sexual chaos.

The libertarian-minded — or those who use libertarian-sounding arguments to provide cover for Republicans to collude with Democrats in destroying the Constitution — have always proclaimed they don’t care what people do in their personal lives. That’s been a strawman this whole time, and this discussion illuminates that fact.

Percentage-wise, essentially none of the modern LGBT legal enterprise has been about simply protecting what a tiny minority of people do in private. For one thing, natural rights don’t stop being legally enforceable once you enter a private domain. One’s natural right to life, for example, is justly protected also in the privacy of one’s home.

For another thing, none of LGBT political efforts have been about private matters. They have been about public matters, such as whether the state grants marriage certificates or will assign children to a certain home, or will allow people to manufacture children to order that they cannot generate with their own bodies.

Statistically speaking, nobody wants gay people forced to die alone without their families, or denied health insurance or a place to sleep at night. There are legal solutions to all such things that don’t involve erasing women’s sports and forcing Christian churches to be bankrupted by lawsuits from anti-religious cranks with axes to grind.

Nobody supports extreme caricatures like police bursting into gay men’s homes at night while they sleep peacefully. That didn’t even happen to known homosexuals in the “bad old” “repressive” Victorian days of Oscar Wilde, who was actually prosecuted because his sexual appetite started consuming children. He lived under an avowedly Christian regime and he was allowed to groom and molest minors with frankly mild consequences.

And some sort of revival of Victorian morality is nowhere near imminent. Anyone who thinks otherwise lives in the Upside Down. So all this “Handmaids Tale” hysteria about the “religious right’s” hatred for gay people is, quite frankly, a giant smear job designed to foment hatred.

Yes, there are inconsiderate and insensitive people in every group, but as a mass Christians love gay and transgender people just like we do every other sinner on the planet, which is every single person who exists, including ourselves. It’s part of our religion to do that, okay?

Kindness and goodwill are not the issue here, the issue is legalized discrimination designed to end Americans’ constitutionally protected rights to freely associate, speak, and worship. It is a question of which of two irreconcilable sexual regimes Americans will live within, and which is best for the whole of us. The more we can be distracted into arguing about alleged bigotry and meanness, the less we focus on this paramount question. For some that is a goal, and it’s worth pondering why.

Furthermore, if any side of this dispute has been invading privacy, it has been the LGBT activist side. LGBT activists aggressively use state power to invade others’ privacy, such as in forcing men into women’s showers and sports teams, conscripting people to bake cakes and express messages with flowers, and making people unemployable for privately disagreeing with their theology.

All Christians ask of LGBT representatives is what they claim to want from us: that we be allowed to live freely in accord with our beliefs. It seems that is too much for those using the LGBT issue to achieve larger goals of erasing what remains of Americans’ constitutional protections.

Enshrining legal preferences for same-sex masturbation, politically selected racial groups, biological sex, and the rest of the identity politics mess of pottage creates a direct and unresolvable conflict with the American Constitution’s promise of representative self-government with the sole legitimate purpose of securing our natural rights.

Why do natural rights matter? Because, like the description of humankind as male and female, they truthfully reflect and befit human nature and our ordered cosmos. To attempt to sidestep the truths they reflect is to war against human nature itself, like LGBT ideology. To do that makes people unhappy, no matter how much soma you hand out to try to make them feel otherwise.

When social conflict includes deliberately fomented sexual chaos that makes the majority incapable of living a coherent and self-governing life, you don’t have a country any more, you have an asylum. The more people feel as if they are living in an asylum, the less they will commit to ensuring its continued existence.

“Accommodation” of LGBT demands has already made religious and science-believing Americans second-class citizens. Passing any federal sexual orientation and gender preference law like the Equality Act would only increase legal discrimination in the United States against those who maintain centuries-old religious traditions.

I recently discussed with a long-time military officer who worked for years at the Pentagon the new U.S. military and intelligence agency ads promoting extremist identity politics. He told me it’s now difficult for Christians to be promoted even to low-ranking officer positions due to their religious and scientific commitments about what male and female are. Making a generalship is now completely out of the question. Last week’s ousting of Lt. Col. Matthew Lohmeier over his opposition to Marxism — an official U.S. government position! — only accents this reality.

In other words, because of its support for LGBT ideology, the U.S. military de facto discriminates against Christians. This is an open secret in the ranks. It’s not any kind of secret if you, like I, have occasionally read military press materials in the past decade. The U.S. military expends huge amounts of taxpayer resources to affirm and promote destructive identity politics. Making taxpayers pay for transgender treatments is only the tip of this existential threat to our nation that prioritizes PR over effectiveness and politicizes the military.

This same institution of glass ceilings and “don’t ask don’t tell” policies for Christians in the military is rapidly rolling out across other sectors of public life. If Democrats’ policies and cultural norms expand, Christian health professionals will also face systemic institutionalized discrimination. Christian educators and students already do. The end of creating and amplifying “protected classes” is government-enforced social Balkanization. I shouldn’t have to point out how deeply dangerous this is.

What we need is not further legalized discrimination against politically selected classes of people, but an end to legal preferences for “protected classes” altogether. Protected classes are at odds with the moral and political commitments the United States has no identity without: equality before the law, free speech, freedom of religion, freedom of conscience, free assembly, and the acknowledgment that there is a God, and He is not our government. The United States needs to scrape off these legal barnacles, and quickly, because they’re taking down a ship that carries 330 million people’s lives.

Especially in an era in which abominations like critical race theory have made the racism, sexism, and religious bigotry of identity politics fully apparent, Republicans must abandon these horrific political principles that work to dissolve the very country they desire to lead. There can be no compromise with those whose political program requires erasing American citizens’ constitutionally guaranteed rights to freely speak and freely worship.

Colton Underwood came out after being blackmailed over visiting a gay spa – Metro Weekly

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Colton Underwood — Photo: ABC

Former The Bachelor star Colton Underwood has said that, prior to coming out as gay, he was subjected to a blackmail threat after visiting a gay spa.

Underwood came out publicly last month, saying he had “ran from myself [and] hated myself for a long time,” but was now “the happiest and healthiest” he’s ever felt and is “proud to be gay.”

(Read More: ‘Bachelor’ star Colton Underwood comes out as gay)

But in an interview with Variety, the 29-year-old — who was the lead for the 23rd season of ABC’s reality show, after previously appearing on the 14th season of The Bachelorette and fifth season of Bachelor in Paradise — said that someone threatened to release photos of him after he visited a Los Angeles gay spa.

Underwood said he visited the spa “just to look,” adding that he “should never have been there.” Shortly after the visit, someone emailed him anonymously, claiming to have naked photos of him at the spa and threatening to “out” him publicly.

He forwarded the email to his publicist, telling Variety, “I knew that out of anybody in my world, my publicist wasn’t going to ruin me.”

Underwood said that the threat ultimately forced him to “finally have an honest conversation about his sexual orientation,” per Variety.

Elsewhere in the interview, Underwood said he had struggled with his sexuality since childhood, and that his father found gay porn on his computer when he was in eighth grade.

He also admitted that, while The Bachelor branded Underwood the “virgin Bachelor,” he “did experiment with men prior to being on The Bachelorette,” but called them “hookups, not sex.” He also admitted to using Grindr prior to appearing on The Bachelorette.



Underwood also addressed controversy surrounding allegations made by his The Bachelor costar, Cassie Randolph, to whom he offered the final rose. Randolph filed a restraining order against Underwood last year, claiming he had stalked her and harassed her via text.

He said he couldn’t comment extensively due to an agreement with Randolph, but told Variety that he “did not physically touch or physically abuse Cassie in any way, shape or form.”

“I never want people to think that I’m coming out to change the narrative, or to brush over and not take responsibility for my actions, and now that I have this gay life that I don’t have to address my past as a straight man,” Underwood added. “Controlling situations to try to grasp at any part of the straight fantasy that I was trying to live out was so wrong.”

The accusations against Underwood contributed to a backlash against him when, shortly after coming out, it was announced that Netflix was producing a reality series about his coming out, with Olympic skier Gus Kenworthy set to star as his “gay guide.”

Former *NSYNC member Lance Bass accused Underwood of “monetizing” his coming out experience, and more than 35,000 people have signed a petition calling him “abusive, manipulative, and dangerous” and urging Netflix to drop the show, given Randolph’s allegations.

Raffy Ermac, editor-in-chief of Pride, told Variety that Netflix “shouldn’t be glorifying someone who has this history of allegedly stalking a woman.”

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Colton Underwood says he was blackmailed before coming out after visiting a gay spa – Metro Weekly

Colton Underwood, bachelor, gay, blackmail
Colton Underwood — Photo: ABC

Former The Bachelor star Colton Underwood has said that, prior to coming out as gay, he was subjected to a blackmail threat after visiting a gay spa.

Underwood came out publicly last month, saying he had “ran from myself [and] hated myself for a long time,” but was now “the happiest and healthiest” he’s ever felt and is “proud to be gay.”

(Read More: ‘Bachelor’ star Colton Underwood comes out as gay)

But in an interview with Variety, the 29-year-old — who was the lead for the 23rd season of ABC’s reality show, after previously appearing on the 14th season of The Bachelorette and fifth season of Bachelor in Paradise — said that someone threatened to release photos of him after he visited a Los Angeles gay spa.

Underwood said he visited the spa “just to look,” adding that he “should never have been there.” Shortly after the visit, someone emailed him anonymously, claiming to have naked photos of him at the spa and threatening to “out” him publicly.

He forwarded the email to his publicist, telling Variety, “I knew that out of anybody in my world, my publicist wasn’t going to ruin me.”

Underwood said that the threat ultimately forced him to “finally have an honest conversation about his sexual orientation,” per Variety.

Elsewhere in the interview, Underwood said he had struggled with his sexuality since childhood, and that his father found gay porn on his computer when he was in eighth grade.

He also admitted that, while The Bachelor branded Underwood the “virgin Bachelor,” he “did experiment with men prior to being on The Bachelorette,” but called them “hookups, not sex.” He also admitted to using Grindr prior to appearing on The Bachelorette.



Underwood also addressed controversy surrounding allegations made by his The Bachelor costar, Cassie Randolph, to whom he offered the final rose. Randolph filed a restraining order against Underwood last year, claiming he had stalked her and harassed her via text.

He said he couldn’t comment extensively due to an agreement with Randolph, but told Variety that he “did not physically touch or physically abuse Cassie in any way, shape or form.”

“I never want people to think that I’m coming out to change the narrative, or to brush over and not take responsibility for my actions, and now that I have this gay life that I don’t have to address my past as a straight man,” Underwood added. “Controlling situations to try to grasp at any part of the straight fantasy that I was trying to live out was so wrong.”

The accusations against Underwood contributed to a backlash against him when, shortly after coming out, it was announced that Netflix was producing a reality series about his coming out, with Olympic skier Gus Kenworthy set to star as his “gay guide.”

Former *NSYNC member Lance Bass accused Underwood of “monetizing” his coming out experience, and more than 35,000 people have signed a petition calling him “abusive, manipulative, and dangerous” and urging Netflix to drop the show, given Randolph’s allegations.

Raffy Ermac, editor-in-chief of Pride, told Variety that Netflix “shouldn’t be glorifying someone who has this history of allegedly stalking a woman.”

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Trump Has Blown Off Rudy Giuliani’s Pleas for Help as Feds Circle

Drew Angerer/GettyIn the weeks since the feds raided Rudy Giuliani’s apartment and office in late April, close allies have tried to ferry a slew of emergency requests to former President Donald Trump and his advisers.But according to three people familiar with the matter, Trump, as well as several of his legal advisers and longtime confidants, have been hesitant about swooping in to help the embattled Giuliani, who for years worked as Trump’s personal lawyer, a political adviser, and attack dog. Giuliani also served as a major player in the Trump-Ukraine scandal and as a key driver in the former president’s efforts to nullify Joe Biden’s clear victory in the 2020 election.Team Trump’s reluctance to intervene comes at a time when federal investigators have ramped up their probe into whether Giuliani’s Ukraine-related work during the Trump era amounted to an unregistered and illegal lobbying operation on behalf of foreign figures. So far, no charges have been brought against the former New York City mayor as a result of this investigation, which began in 2019. Trump’s silence has led to simmering frustrations among members of Giuliani’s inner orbit, who privately allege that the ex-president’s team is working to convince him to hang Giuliani out to dry in his hour of need.“It’s a question now of whether or not [the former president and his team] want to leave Rudy to fend for himself or if they’re going to take a stand against this,” one person close to Giuliani said last week. “Right now, we don’t know.”Among Giuliani allies’ pleas, the three sources said, have been for Trump to issue a strong verbal or written statement saying Giuliani’s work during the Trump-Ukraine saga was done on behalf of then-President Trump—and therefore not part of an illegal foreign lobbying effort. In other words, Trump’s corroboration would be more than good public relations for Giuliani, it would back up a key pillar of Giuliani’s legal argument that he wasn’t lobbying and is innocent of the allegations.Other asks have included having the ex-president sign on to a legal motion to have federal investigators throw out any seized communications that Giuliani and his lawyers argue are covered by attorney-client privilege. Further, there have been repeated requests that Trump and his team financially aid Giuliani’s ballooning legal defense and help cover the mounting, sizable expenses.Two people close to Trump say they have urged the former president to lay low on the matter and to refrain from making too many statements or commitments on Giuliani and the federal probe. These people have told Trump that it’s unclear what the feds have and that any statement could backfire both on him and on Giuliani. Moreover, various people in Trump’s social and political orbits have been trying to convince the former president for years that Giuliani has been too great a liability for him, and they have suggested that he cut the lawyer loose.Even Parts of Trumpworld Are Like: Rudy, WTF Are You Doing?Many of them still blame Giuliani and his Ukraine shenanigans for getting Trump impeached the first time, and the attorney helped lead the Trumpworld and GOP charge in falsely claiming that the 2020 presidential election was stolen from the 45th U.S. president. In the aftermath of the Jan. 6 riot at the U.S. Capitol, both Trump and Giuliani have been slammed with lawsuit after lawsuit over their roles in firing up the mob that committed the anti-democratic assault.In recent weeks, Trump himself has argued behind closed doors that he wouldn’t want to say Giuliani was doing all of the Ukraine work—which included a trans-Atlantic dirt-digging expedition on the Biden family that led to Trump’s first impeachment—on Trump’s behalf, according to one of the people close to the former president. Trump’s reasoning, this source relayed, is based in the ex-president’s insistence that he didn’t always know what Giuliani was doing during the Ukraine effort or concocting with his Ukrainian pals, several of whom Trump has privately dinged as “idiots.”It is also unclear when or if Trump will ultimately sign on to the desired legal motion, with allies to Giuliani expressing consternation over how the ex-president and his lawyers have not jumped at the opportunity.On Sunday, Robert Costello, Giuliani’s longtime attorney, said, “We do not know what, if anything, President Trump will do,” when asked by The Daily Beast whether Trump’s legal team would intervene in the effort to scuttle the search warrant. Costello said Giuliani’s attorneys have not formally asked Trump’s legal team to do so. “They can make up their own minds,” he said.He added that neither he nor his client has asked Trump to make a statement since federal agents seized Giuliani’s electronic devices.Alan Dershowitz, a celebrity lawyer who served on Trump’s legal team during the first impeachment trial, is now actively counseling Giuliani and his attorneys. “I’ve said to them that it would be very good to get people [including Trump] whose materials might have been seized to… become part of the [motion],” Dershowitz said in a brief interview.The two sources close to the former president each said Trump has repeatedly expressed sympathy for Giuliani’s ongoing woes but has not committed to overtly assisting his personal lawyer yet. Another person familiar with the situation told The Daily Beast that Giuliani has said he remains convinced that Trump won’t abandon him and will step up when the time is right.Over the decades and during his presidency, however, Trump has cemented a reputation for regularly turning his back on close allies and one-time loyalists, including when legal or political pressures became too hot for him. Chief among these former allies is one of Giuliani’s bitter rivals, Michael Cohen, another former personal lawyer and fixer of Trump’s. Cohen turned on his former boss after he felt abandoned by Trump following a 2018 federal raid and has since become an enthusiastic witness for federal investigators who’ve been looking into Trump and his business empire.‘Dead to Each Other’: Team Trump Prepares to ‘Bury’ Michael Cohen, ‘Weakling’ and ‘Traitor’When federal agents executed a search warrant on Cohen’s office in 2018, Trump intervened in the case and hired attorneys who argued that they should be allowed to review seized materials for privileged attorney-client materials before prosecutors could. Whether Trump will intervene similarly in a case involving the warrant against Giuliani remains to be seen.Trump did jump in to help some advisers after the authorities came knocking, including Steve Bannon, Roger Stone, and Paul Manafort, all of whom received presidential pardons within the final month of Trump’s term in the White House. In December, The New York Times reported that the then-president had discussed with people close to him the prospect of issuing a pre-emptive pardon to Giuliani and “talked with Mr. Giuliani about pardoning him as recently as [late November].” Ultimately, Giuliani did not receive a pre-emptive pardon, and he has denied that he had a conversation with Trump about the possibility.Giuliani has repeatedly argued that his efforts to oust Ambassador Marie Yovanovitch as U.S. envoy to Ukraine were carried out solely on behalf of his client, President Trump. A statement from Trump would help buttress Giuliani’s public case, but it wouldn’t necessarily help him in court.“Nothing Donald Trump may say publicly to help Giuliani is likely to get into evidence,” David H. Laufman, a partner at Wiggin and Dana and a former chief of the Justice Department’s Counterintelligence and Export Control Section, which oversees FARA prosecutions, told The Daily Beast. “Giuliani’s attorney will be able to cross-examine the government’s witnesses if he’s charged, and Giuliani always has the option of testifying in his own defense. But any press statements by Donald Trump to the effect of ‘Hey, he was just working for me’ almost certainly aren’t coming into evidence.”“In the highly improbable scenario that Trump testified for Giuliani, the notion of Giuliani trying to use the attorney-client privilege as a shield would go out the window. The privilege is held by Trump, not by Giuliani,” Laufman continued.Long before the search of Giuliani’s apartment, Trump appeared hesitant to say outright that his attorney’s work in Ukraine was conducted solely on the president’s behalf. During the peak of the impeachment inquiry in the fall of 2019, former Fox News host Bill O’Reilly asked Trump what Giuliani was up to in Ukraine.“I knew he was going to go to Ukraine and I think he canceled the trip. But you know, Rudy has other clients other than me. I’m one person that he represents,” Trump said.Asked if he’d told Giuliani to travel to Ukraine, Trump said: “No.”Read more at The Daily Beast.Got a tip? Send it to The Daily Beast hereGet our top stories in your inbox every day. Sign up now!Daily Beast Membership: Beast Inside goes deeper on the stories that matter to you. Learn more.

Colton Underwood Calls Sex Life Questions “Inappropriate” After Coming Out As Gay – Bustle

It’s been roughly one month since The Bachelor’s Colton Underwood came out as gay on Good Morning America, and now he’s asking for some privacy. Over the weekend, the show’s former lead did a Q&A on Instagram and was asked some very personal questions. But when one fan inquired about how many men he’s hooked up with in the past, the 29-year old shut the question down immediately, calling it “inappropriate.”

“Let me vent for a second,” Underwood responded, according to People. “Questions like this are inappropriate. I understand you might know me from The Bachelor where I shared a lot about my personal life. I have set boundaries and I’m respecting myself in a way that will lead me to a healthier life.” The former football star went on to explain that because of how open he was about his virginity while starring on the show, people feel entitled to updates about his sex life.

“I never asked to be labeled as the virgin bachelor and have people feel the security to ask me questions about my sex life. It just happened and during that time I thought I had no other choice but to just go with it [or] the network would be mad,” the Season 23 star continued. “I know differently now. I’ll share what I want and this won’t be one of those things.”

Despite not revealing any further details, Underwood opened up to Variety about his past experiences with men in an interview that was published on May 12. “I’ll say this. I was ‘the Virgin Bachelor,’ but I did experiment with men prior to being on The Bachelorette,” he revealed. “When I say ‘hookups’ — not sex. I want to make that very clear that I did not have sex with a man, prior to that.”

In his interview with GMA in April, the reality star said that he “finally came to terms” with his sexuality over the course of this past year. “Obviously this year has been a lot for a lot of people and it’s probably made a lot of people look themselves in the mirror and figure out who they are and what they’ve been running from or what they’ve been putting off in their lives,” he told host Robin Roberts at the time. “For me, I’ve run from myself for a long time and I’ve hated myself for a long time. I’m gay.”

The ex-NFL player went on to explain that there was a time in his life when he “would have rather died” than come out. “I think that was my wake-up call,” he said, adding that he experienced suicidal thoughts at one point. “There was a moment in L.A. that I woke up and I didn’t think I was going to wake up. I didn’t have the intention of waking up. And I did,” he continued. “For me, I think that was my wake-up call of, ‘This is your life. Take back control. I don’t feel that anymore.”

Once Underwood started embracing who he truly is, things started to fall into place. “The next step in all of this has been letting people know,” he said on GMA, admitting that he was “still nervous.” However, despite feeling anxious about telling the world, the reality star is looking forward to living his truth. “I’m emotional, but I’m emotional in such a good, happy, positive way,” he added. “I’m like the happiest and healthiest I’ve ever been in my life and that means the world to me.”

If you or someone you know is seeking help for LGBTQ+ mental health or safety concerns, call The Trevor Project‘s 24/7 Lifeline at 866-4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386). You can also reach out for instant message or text message support via TrevorChat and TrevorText, respectively. For additional resources for trans people, call the Trans Lifeline at 877-565-8860. In an emergency, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), text HOME to the Crisis Text Line at 741741, or call 911.

Gay threats up from 11% to 28% in last yr – Gay Help Line – English – ANSA

(ANSA) – ROME, MAY 17 – Threats against gay people in Italy
rose from 11% to 28% over the last year, Gay Help Line said
Monday.
    Cases of ‘mobbing’ (workplace bullying) and workplace
discrimination surged from 3% to 15%, the organisation said.
    In the year that the pandemic restricted socialization to the
Web, the help line said, 30% of LGBTQ+ students reported
episodes of cyberbullying and online hate speech, (ANSA).
   

Justice Minister condemns LGBT rights abuses – Financial Mirror

Justice Minister Emily Yiolitis has condemned discrimination, hate speech, violence against those due to sexual orientation and gender identity in marking International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia.

She assured her continued support for every policy and action aiming to fight discrimination due to sexual orientation, gender identities, or sex characteristics.

In a written statement, she said efforts are made at the international, European and national level to secure and promote the rights of LGBT people.

“We uphold the right of everyone to freedom of expression, security, self-determination and equal treatment.

“Respecting and promoting LGBT rights and eliminating every kind of discrimination against the LGBT community is a priority and fundamental element of our policies and actions at all levels.

“Any discrimination or exclusion of any discrimination against members of the LGBT community is an insult to human dignity, human rights and are directed against the rule of law and democratic culture.”

Yiolitis said Cyprus had taken important steps to fight discrimination, lift injustices and discrimination against LGBT members, and protect and safeguard all citizens’ human rights at a legislative and institutional level.

She said examples were civil partnerships, criminalisation of homophobic and transphobic speech, and stricter sentences for criminal acts committed with a homophobic and transphobic motive.

“All these show determination to strengthen equality and fight every type of violence against the LGBT community.

“I believe that diversity is not a threat but instead enriches our society.”

Gay man brutally murdered in Iran in ‘honour killing’ sent chilling death threats from own family – Yahoo Eurosport UK

Alireza Fazeli Monfared, who was killed and beheaded by family for being gay, faced threats from his father’s side of the family prior to his death.

Iran’s LGBT+ community was left reeling earlier this month when news broke that the 20-year-old gay man had been killed by his half-brother and cousins after a military exemption letter revealed his sexuality.

Alireza Fazeli Monfared was killed on 4 May after his brother arrived at his residence and said their father needed to see him. He was subsequently taken by car to the nearby village of Borumi, near the capital of Ahvaz, where family members killed him before dumping his body by a tree.

Before his death, Monfared sent a voice note to a friend in which he detailed the threats he had received from his father’s family, INSIDER has revealed.

In the voice note, Monfared said: “I have been threatened by my father’s side of the family – murder and such. My father sided with them.”

Alireza Fazeli Monfared was afraid to wear make-up due to anti-LGBT+ attitudes in Iran

Monfared was ultimately killed just five days before he was due to leave Iran for good. He had been planning to claim asylum abroad.

In voice notes to friends, Monfared spoke about his love of make-up, but explained that he was afraid to experiment with his appearance because of culturally entrenched attitudes in Ahvaz.

His family was reportedly unhappy with the clothes he wore, which were not in line with the expectations of a young Iranian man.

It was this familial pressure, as well as pervasive anti-LGBT+ attitudes in his home country, that prompted Monfared to put in place plans to flee Iran.

Shadi Amin, the executive director of Iranian LGBT+ network 6rang, told INSIDER that Monfared “was not ready to continue this conflict with his family”.

However, he had to get an exemption from state-mandated military service before leaving the country – an exemption which he was granted on the basis of his sexuality, which Iranian officials consider a “sexual depravity”.

Alireza Fazeli Monfared’s shocking murder has sent shockwaves around the world, and queer people in Iran have been left devastated by the news.

LGBT+ Iranians have begun recording videos of themselves walking through the streets wearing Pride flags in Monfared’s memory, while high-profile figures such as Demi Lovato have paid tribute to the murdered gay man.

Not Quite a Rainbow: How Chinese Media Tells LGBT Stories Media coverage of LGBT issues is – Sixth Tone

Whether due to social pressure or outright discrimination, few LGBT Chinese feel willing or able to come out and live their lives publicly. One knock-on effect of this is that, for the vast majority of Chinese, their only exposure to queer culture and lifestyles is through media reports.

That makes it all the more vital for media outlets to regularly cover LGBT issues, and to do so with care and respect. For an example of how coverage can positively impact the lives of LGBT Chinese, we need look no further than the landmark 2014 ruling against a psychological counseling institute that provided “gay conversion therapy.” Although by that point, it had already been 13 years since China had officially acknowledged that homosexuality was not a disease, widespread media coverage of the ruling helped raise awareness of the continued pathologization of homosexuality and helped expose a number of medical institutes offering similar “conversion therapies.” Technically these treatments are still legal, but few institutes dare advertise their conversion therapy programs anymore.

That case and its aftermath represented a high-water mark of sorts for reporting on LGBT issues in China: After my organization, the China Rainbow Media Awards, began monitoring Chinese media coverage of LGBT issues in 2012, the number of LGBT-related reports gradually climbed before hitting a peak of 867 in 2015. Since then, however, coverage has dropped. In 2020, as first China and then the world were roiled by the COVID-19 pandemic, Chinese media outlets ran just 348 LGBT-related news stories — a 40% drop from 2019.

Early on, Chinese media coverage of LGBT issues focused on public health and HIV/AIDS, before eventually branching out into LGBT rights and discrimination, including unequal employment practices, the LGBT community’s lack of legal standing, or practices like the above-mentioned conversion therapy. More recently, however, two new topics have attracted increased attention from media outlets and the public: the pink economy and queer culture. Last year, for example, BlueCity, the parent company of the popular LGBT dating application Blued, attracted widespread media attention leading up to its initial public offering, while the buzz surrounding the TV and film adaptations of a number of homoerotic danmei novels sparked public discussions on sexual minorities and orientations.

These reports suggest a more expansive view of LGBT issues in Chinese media. Instead of focusing on HIV or discrimination, outlets are now showing different sides of the LGBT experience.

More diverse coverage of LGBT Chinese can create more space for discussions about LGBT issues, and hopefully draw more attention to the everyday problems the LGBT community faces. But breadth isn’t the same as depth, and the ongoing shift in LGBT coverage away from social justice issues and toward softer subjects like economics — especially given the overall decline in coverage — could result in many important stories going unreported.

More diverse coverage of LGBT Chinese can create more space for discussions about LGBT issues.

Social groups and organizations are thus vital for drawing attention toward a wide array of oft-neglected LGBT issues. For example, the recent uptick in coverage of transgender issues can be traced to a number of legal aid cases and public activism campaigns spearheaded by nonprofit organizations.

In our experience, most reporting on LGBT issues in Chinese media is either positive or neutral. In 2020, nearly half of the Chinese media reports we identified evinced a relatively positive stance on LGBT issues. That is, they made an effort to analyze the problems faced by sexual minorities in China, as well as the cultural and political reasons for them. Another 40% adopted a neutral stance, presenting the facts in question and giving equal attention to the views of all involved. Just 9% of reports on sexual minorities adopted a negative stance, often through language implying the LGBT community promotes moral corruption or relaying prejudices grounded in ignorance. Hearteningly, however, the trend toward more positive or neutral coverage has persisted over time, even as overall coverage has declined.

Most reports were published not by traditional print outlets, but by new media. When it comes to reporting on LGBT issues in China, online media plays a much larger role than its print counterparts: About 56% of news reports regarding the Chinese LGBT community were published by online platforms. These were also generally longer in length and encompassed a greater range of journalistic forms than print stories, including data analyses and more narrative pieces.

Unfortunately, the overall decline of the media in recent years — although most noticeable in the print sector — has indirectly affected the coverage and attention given to marginal issues such as LGBT rights, even at digital outlets. Some journalists have told us that LGBT-related topics are undervalued in their newsrooms, and that they often have a hard time persuading their editors to pursue stories about LGBT issues. Although blogs and other forms of self-published “WeMedia” are helping fill the gap, these cannot replace the role that traditional media plays in reaching the broader public, nor do they have the clout required to interview key personalities or obtain crucial data.

Raising the profile of sexual minorities is the first and most important step in addressing the problems they face. Media outlets, with their power to shape public perceptions and opinions, are a key part of this process. The narratives they tell and the ways they choose to portray people matter. If we want to erase the stigmas and discrimination LGBT people face, we need more accurate and inclusive reporting on sexual minorities, not less.

Translator: Lewis Wright; editors: Cai Yiwen and Kilian O’Donnell; portrait artist: Wang Zhenhao.

(Header image: Visual elements from ilyaliren/iStock, reedited by Ding Yining/Sixth Tone)

Not Quite a Rainbow: How Chinese Media Tells LGBT Stories – Sixth Tone

Whether due to social pressure or outright discrimination, few LGBT Chinese feel willing or able to come out and live their lives publicly. One knock-on effect of this is that, for the vast majority of Chinese, their only exposure to queer culture and lifestyles is through media reports.

That makes it all the more vital for media outlets to regularly cover LGBT issues, and to do so with care and respect. For an example of how coverage can positively impact the lives of LGBT Chinese, we need look no further than the landmark 2014 ruling against a psychological counseling institute that provided “gay conversion therapy.” Although by that point, it had already been 13 years since China had officially acknowledged that homosexuality was not a disease, widespread media coverage of the ruling helped raise awareness of the continued pathologization of homosexuality and helped expose a number of medical institutes offering similar “conversion therapies.” Technically these treatments are still legal, but few institutes dare advertise their conversion therapy programs anymore.

That case and its aftermath represented a high-water mark of sorts for reporting on LGBT issues in China: After my organization, the China Rainbow Media Awards, began monitoring Chinese media coverage of LGBT issues in 2012, the number of LGBT-related reports gradually climbed before hitting a peak of 867 in 2015. Since then, however, coverage has dropped. In 2020, as first China and then the world were roiled by the COVID-19 pandemic, Chinese media outlets ran just 348 LGBT-related news stories — a 40% drop from 2019.

Early on, Chinese media coverage of LGBT issues focused on public health and HIV/AIDS, before eventually branching out into LGBT rights and discrimination, including unequal employment practices, the LGBT community’s lack of legal standing, or practices like the above-mentioned conversion therapy. More recently, however, two new topics have attracted increased attention from media outlets and the public: the pink economy and queer culture. Last year, for example, BlueCity, the parent company of the popular LGBT dating application Blued, attracted widespread media attention leading up to its initial public offering, while the buzz surrounding the TV and film adaptations of a number of homoerotic danmei novels sparked public discussions on sexual minorities and orientations.

These reports suggest a more expansive view of LGBT issues in Chinese media. Instead of focusing on HIV or discrimination, outlets are now showing different sides of the LGBT experience.

More diverse coverage of LGBT Chinese can create more space for discussions about LGBT issues, and hopefully draw more attention to the everyday problems the LGBT community faces. But breadth isn’t the same as depth, and the ongoing shift in LGBT coverage away from social justice issues and toward softer subjects like economics — especially given the overall decline in coverage — could result in many important stories going unreported.

More diverse coverage of LGBT Chinese can create more space for discussions about LGBT issues.

Social groups and organizations are thus vital for drawing attention toward a wide array of oft-neglected LGBT issues. For example, the recent uptick in coverage of transgender issues can be traced to a number of legal aid cases and public activism campaigns spearheaded by nonprofit organizations.

In our experience, most reporting on LGBT issues in Chinese media is either positive or neutral. In 2020, nearly half of the Chinese media reports we identified evinced a relatively positive stance on LGBT issues. That is, they made an effort to analyze the problems faced by sexual minorities in China, as well as the cultural and political reasons for them. Another 40% adopted a neutral stance, presenting the facts in question and giving equal attention to the views of all involved. Just 9% of reports on sexual minorities adopted a negative stance, often through language implying the LGBT community promotes moral corruption or relaying prejudices grounded in ignorance. Hearteningly, however, the trend toward more positive or neutral coverage has persisted over time, even as overall coverage has declined.

Most reports were published not by traditional print outlets, but by new media. When it comes to reporting on LGBT issues in China, online media plays a much larger role than its print counterparts: About 56% of news reports regarding the Chinese LGBT community were published by online platforms. These were also generally longer in length and encompassed a greater range of journalistic forms than print stories, including data analyses and more narrative pieces.

Unfortunately, the overall decline of the media in recent years — although most noticeable in the print sector — has indirectly affected the coverage and attention given to marginal issues such as LGBT rights, even at digital outlets. Some journalists have told us that LGBT-related topics are undervalued in their newsrooms, and that they often have a hard time persuading their editors to pursue stories about LGBT issues. Although blogs and other forms of self-published “WeMedia” are helping fill the gap, these cannot replace the role that traditional media plays in reaching the broader public, nor do they have the clout required to interview key personalities or obtain crucial data.

Raising the profile of sexual minorities is the first and most important step in addressing the problems they face. Media outlets, with their power to shape public perceptions and opinions, are a key part of this process. The narratives they tell and the ways they choose to portray people matter. If we want to erase the stigmas and discrimination LGBT people face, we need more accurate and inclusive reporting on sexual minorities, not less.

Translator: Lewis Wright; editors: Cai Yiwen and Kilian O’Donnell; portrait artist: Wang Zhenhao.

(Header image: Visual elements from ilyaliren/iStock, reedited by Ding Yining/Sixth Tone)

Chiefs News: Tyrann Mathieu doubts Chiefs contract extension – Arrowhead Pride

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Tyrann Mathieu Tweets He’s ‘Probably Not’ Getting a Contract Extension in Kansas City | Arrowhead Report

In a since-deleted tweet responding to a question about a potential contract extension for Kansas City Chiefs safety Tyrann Mathieu, Mathieu tweeted that he’s “probably not” going to get a new deal in Kansas City, noting that he’s been in similar situations before.

KC Chiefs’ roster is middle of pack in average age | Arrowhead Addict

The Chiefs came out at No. 15 overall with an average age of 25.32, a full season younger than the San Francisco 49ers and Houston Texans—who sit in the two oldest spots on the list. However, the Chiefs are nearly a full year older than the Los Angeles Rams, who are the youngest roster on the list with 24.62 years old as an average age.

Projecting Every NFL Team’s Starting Lineup for 2021 | Bleacher Report

Kansas City Chiefs

Offense: QB Patrick Mahomes, RB Clyde Edwards-Helaire, WR Tyreek Hill, WR Mecole Hardman, WR Demarcus Robinson, TE Travis Kelce, LT Orlando Brown Jr., LG Joe Thuney, C Austin Blythe, RG Laurent Duvernay-Tardif, RT Mike Remmers

Defense: edge Frank Clark, DT Chris Jones, DT Jarran Reed, DE Tim Ward, OLB Willie Gay Jr., ILB Anthony Hitchens, OLB Nick Bolton, CB L’Jarius Sneed, CB Charvarius Ward, FS Juan Thornhill, SS Tyrann Mathieu.

Even thick in Aaron Rodgers pandemonium, don’t overlook the return of Von Miller | Mile High Report (Denver Broncos SB Nation site)

But it hit me as I sat down to write this that Miller is back in the fold for the Broncos defense. There was some fear that Denver wouldn’t pick up the contract for Miller this season and he would head to NFL free agency. The worst fear is he would pull the opposite Neil Smith, where Miller signs with the Kansas City Chiefs.

Thankfully new Broncos general manager George Paton didn’t let that happen when he picked up Miller’s contract. And the player we see will want to wreak havoc on NFL quarterbacks. We would have seen that last season before Miller suffered a season-ending injury mere days before the regular season started. By all account he was an absolute beast in training camp.

Chad Johnson is fairly confident Patrick Mahomes will win MVP in 2021

Former Chief Antonio Hamilton signs with the Bucs

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Houston Texans coach David Culley deflects questions on Deshaun Watson | ESPN

The Texans’ organized team activities begin May 24, but attendance is voluntary until the team’s mandatory minicamp starting on June 15.

“We have nothing to say about that situation at this time,” Culley said Saturday. “[Texans chairman Cal McNair] and ownership a few weeks back indicated about how our organization feels about the situation. I think when [general manager Nick Caserio] was on not long ago, he also mentioned that the legal process was in effect right now and we’re going to respect that and go from there.”

Giants sign WR-turned-TE Kelvin Benjamin, RB Corey Clement | NFL.com

At 6-foot-5, 245 pounds, he’s been built like one for years. He has a longtime believer in the Giants’ building as well. General manager Dave Gettleman drafted Benjamin for the Panthers with the No. 28 overall pick of the 2014 draft.

The Florida State product initially didn’t disappoint, either. As a rookie, he caught 73 passes for 1,008 yards and nine touchdowns. After missing the next season with a torn ACL, Benjamin put up 63, 941 and seven in 2016. Carolina exercised his fifth-year option, only to trade him to the Bills midway through the 2017 campaign. Benjamin struggled in Buffalo and was released after 14 months. He closed out the 2018 campaign playing three games for the Chiefs.

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Chiefs rookie Cornell Powell: ‘I consider myself a playmaker’

Powell did not break out until his fifth and final year, when he recorded 53 catches for 882 yards and seven touchdowns. That fact may have actually benefitted the Chiefs, who were able to nab him in the fifth round.

Chiefs director of college scouting Ryne Nutt stated on draft weekend the team is confident that Powell, at a listed 6 feet and 205 pounds, can pick up where Watkins left off — and Powell certainly has the right mentality.

“I consider myself a playmaker,” he said. “I can go down the field and make plays. I can run routes, and I can give my team a spark, so I’m just here to have fun, make plays and contribute to winning championships.”

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Halestorm frontwoman Lzzy Hale shares heartwarming advice to queer fan about ‘living your truth’ – Yahoo Eurosport UK

The frontwoman of hard rock band Halestorm, Lzzy Hale, has shared some heartwarming advice with an LGBT+ fan, telling him that “living your truth” is “all that matters”.

Hale, who is openly bisexual, occasionally runs question and answer sessions on her Twitter to respond to messages she gets from fans. During a session on Friday (14 May), she responded to a story sent by a gay man.

The fan wrote that he’s a married man living in the Bahamas with his husband, but he said it’s “not easy to be gay here”. He added that he loves her music – even though his husband thinks Hale “screams too much”.

Hale sent back an impassioned response. She wrote: “You are living your truth… and that’s all that matters.

“I’m a bi gal in an 18 year relationship with a man.”

Hale added that “we write our own stories my dear”.

Hale began writing and performing music as part of Halestorm at the age of 13 alongside her brother Arejay Hale, who is the band’s drummer and percussionist. The band won a Grammy Award for Best Hard Rock/Metal Performance in 2013 for its single “Love Bites (So Do I)”. Lzzy Hale was the first female to earn a Grammy in this category.

Hale casually came out as bisexual in a 2014 tweet to a fan. She responded to a fan that she is bi and “secure” in her sexuality as well as her femininity.

In a 2018 interview with Rolling Stone, Lzzy Hale said she didn’t intend for it to be “this big ‘I’m going to announce to everybody’ moment”. Instead, she said she was in the middle of a sincere conversation with fans when she realised: “I don’t think I ever told anybody that before.”

“It’s kind of interesting to have that relationship with fans,” Hale said.

Hale has continuously shared her love and support for the LGBT+ community on her Twitter. In 2020, she posted a gender-bend photo of Halestorm members from an “alternate universe”. One fan responded that the photo was proof why they “love being bisexual”.

To which, Hale said: “It is the best.”

UK slides further down rankings of most LGBT-friendly nations in Europe – PinkNews

ILGA Europe’s Rainbow Map is released each year on IDAHOBIT, to track the progress of LGBT+ rights across the continent. (ILGA Europe)

LGBT+ rights in Europe have reached a concerning “standstill” and the UK continues to slowly decline, according to the annual Rainbow Map rankings.

This year’s Rainbow Map revealed a “widespread and almost complete stagnation” on LGBT+ rights across Europe, reporting “almost no positive legislative change” since last year.

The Rainbow Map has been published by LGBT+ organisation ILGA-Europe every year on 17 May for the International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia (IDAHOBIT) since 2009.

It gives 49 European nations a percentage ranking based on 71 criteria broken down into six key areas, including equality and non-discrimination, hate crime and hate speech, and legal gender recognition and bodily integrity.

Two additional criteria were added for this year: non-binary recognition and legal gender recognition procedures for minors, both included in the gender recognition and bodily integrity category.

The UK was once the highest-ranked nation in Europe for LGBT+ rights. Now, it’s not even close

This year, Malta topped the rankings for the sixth year running with 94 per cent, ahead of Belgium in second place by almost 20 per cent. Malta, Belgium and Luxembourg have now occupied the same top three spots for the third year running. Scandinavia also did well, with Norway, Sweden and Denmark all placing in the top 10.

The countries at the bottom of the ranking are also the same as in 2020: Azerbaijan, Turkey and Armenia, scoring just two, four and seven per cent respectively. Poland has also continued to be the lowest ranking EU member for the second year.

The UK fell further down the rankings, coming in tenth place with 64 per cent, compared to last year when it ranked ninth with 66 per cent, and eighth the year before. Until 2015, the UK was rated the top place in Europe for LGBT+ rights in the ranking.

ILGA cited growing anti-trans rhetoric, delays to banning conversion therapy and criticism of LGBT+ curriculums in schools as reasons for the UK’s decreasing score, in their annual review. However, it also praised the Scottish government’s Hate Crime and Public Order Bill, an employment tribunal ruling to protect non-binary people from discrimination and Northern Ireland winning full marriage equality.

ILGA-Europe: ‘Governments have to follow through on their promises’

ILGA-Europe’s executive director Evelyne Paradis called the results “deeply worrying”. She identified “growing political polarisation” as a key problem in many countries, speaking to Reuters and said: “Governments have to follow through on their promises.”

She commented: “There’s been a clear political backlash in many countries, and not just ones grabbing headlines like Poland and Hungary.

“In the past year, we’ve seen increased political repression against LGBTI people, a stark rise in socio-economic hardship, and the spreading of LGBTI-phobic hatred on the streets and online across the region.

“Against this backdrop, the response from governments has to be more and better concrete action, to make sure people are more protected, not less.

“The human rights of LGBTI people simply cannot be something that you drop when circumstances are challenging.”

UK slides even further down rankings of most LGBT-friendly nations in Europe – Yahoo Eurosport UK

LGBT+ rights in Europe have reached a concerning “standstill” and the UK continues to slowly decline, according to the annual Rainbow Map rankings.

This year’s Rainbow Map revealed a “widespread and almost complete stagnation” on LGBT+ rights across Europe, reporting “almost no positive legislative change” since last year.

The Rainbow Map has been published by LGBT+ organisation ILGA-Europe every year on 17 May for the International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia (IDAHOBIT) since 2009.

It gives 49 European nations a percentage ranking based on 71 criteria broken down into six key areas, including equality and non-discrimination, hate crime and hate speech, and legal gender recognition and bodily integrity.

Two additional criteria were added for this year: non-binary recognition and legal gender recognition procedures for minors, both included in the gender recognition and bodily integrity category.

The UK was once the highest-ranked nation in Europe for LGBT+ rights. Now, it’s not even close

This year, Malta topped the rankings for the sixth year running with 94 per cent, ahead of Belgium in second place by almost 20 per cent. Malta, Belgium and Luxembourg have now occupied the same top three spots for the third year running. Scandinavia also did well, with Norway, Sweden and Denmark all placing in the top 10.

The countries at the bottom of the ranking are also the same as in 2020: Azerbaijan, Turkey and Armenia, scoring just two, four and seven per cent respectively. Poland has also continued to be the lowest ranking EU member for the second year.

The UK fell further down the rankings, coming in tenth place with 64 per cent, compared to last year when it ranked ninth with 66 per cent, and eighth the year before. Until 2015, the UK was rated the top place in Europe for LGBT+ rights in the ranking.

ILGA cited growing anti-trans rhetoric, delays to banning conversion therapy and criticism of LGBT+ curriculums in schools as reasons for the UK’s decreasing score, in their annual review. However, it also praised the Scottish government’s Hate Crime and Public Order Bill, an employment tribunal ruling to protect non-binary people from discrimination and Northern Ireland winning full marriage equality.

ILGA-Europe: ‘Governments have to follow through on their promises’

ILGA-Europe’s executive director Evelyne Paradis called the results “deeply worrying”. She identified “growing political polarisation” as a key problem in many countries, speaking to Reuters and said: “Governments have to follow through on their promises.”

She commented: “There’s been a clear political backlash in many countries, and not just ones grabbing headlines like Poland and Hungary.

“In the past year, we’ve seen increased political repression against LGBTI people, a stark rise in socio-economic hardship, and the spreading of LGBTI-phobic hatred on the streets and online across the region.

“Against this backdrop, the response from governments has to be more and better concrete action, to make sure people are more protected, not less.

“The human rights of LGBTI people simply cannot be something that you drop when circumstances are challenging.”

Francis Bacon’s Frightening Beauty – The New Yorker

Who did he have sex with? In his early years, there were relationships with older men who loved him for his charm and his talent, and didn’t mind supporting him, but that phase ended eventually. Around 1952, he met the person who was probably the love of his life, Peter Lacy. Lacy was a handsome and dashing man from a prosperous family with Irish connections, like Bacon’s. He had been in the R.A.F., but only as a test pilot; he was a pianist, though only in piano bars. Like Bacon, he was a far-gone alcoholic, but further gone. And he was a mean drunk. He frightened people. Bacon said that, at gatherings, other guests would ask him, “ ‘Who is that awful man you’re with?’ and of course I had to say, ‘Well, I don’t really know.’ ” Lacy frightened Bacon as well. As Swan and Stevens tell it, Bacon would provoke Lacy until Lacy turned on him, beat him up, and then took him by force. At one point, he threw Bacon out of a window, an experience that the artist, relaxed by drink, somehow survived. When doing his makeup, Bacon made no effort to hide the bruises that Lacy had left on his face.

There is a painting by Bacon, “Two Figures,” from 1953, soon after the couple met, that shows two men in a desperate-looking embrace, one on top of the other. Although the work drew on an Eadweard Muybridge photograph of two wrestlers, it is widely interpreted to be a portrait of Bacon and Lacy in bed. (Lucian Freud bought the painting shortly after it was finished, hung it above his own bed for decades, and resolutely refused to part with it for later shows of Bacon’s work.) It has been described as tender; no one seems to mention the sharp teeth displayed by the man underneath. For much of the nineteen-fifties, Bacon and Lacy tried to be together. Then they tried to be apart. Lacy’s alcoholism got worse. Bacon began taking amphetamines. Lacy, who had inherited money from his father, moved to Tangier. Bacon followed him, even renting his own place there. Eventually, though, the two men gave up and stopped seeing each other.

In 1962, Bacon had a retrospective at the Tate, the most important show of his life thus far, which would confirm him as one of England’s foremost painters—perhaps even the foremost. The day it opened, Bacon sent Peter Lacy a telegram about the show’s success. The telegram that came back said that Lacy had died the day before. In Tangier, he had finally drunk more than a person can drink and stay alive. As Bacon later put it, his pancreas had exploded.

“Oh, good. They have outdoor seating.”
Cartoon by Christopher Weyant

The following year, it is said, Bacon one day heard a terrible crash in his studio. A burglar had fallen through the skylight, and the painter, discovering the young intruder, ordered him into the bedroom. The two men were together for the next eight years. The story became famous—it appears at the start of the 1998 bio-pic “Love Is the Devil”—though it was widely contested by people close to Bacon, who said, sorry, the two men just met in a bar, like everybody else. The new man, George Dyer, really was a burglar, though, and, like Lacy, a sort of dropout. Unlike Lacy, however, Dyer did not have much in common with Bacon. More than twenty years younger, he was an East Ender with a thick Cockney accent, and he was not the only criminal in his family. According to a friend of Bacon’s, he wasn’t even primarily homosexual. He just knew how to be accommodating; he had learned that in prison.

In the beginning, Bacon loved just to look at George, with his wonderfully muscled forearms and his commanding nose. If you saw that nose in a Bacon painting, you knew you were looking at George. Indeed, it is said that the artist’s turn to portraiture in the nineteen-sixties was due, in large measure, to his having George to paint. (He did more than twenty portraits of the man.) Bacon also appreciated Dyer’s ability to sit in a chair in his underpants for hours on end and just pose, without fidgeting, or distracting Bacon with conversation.

That was, in part, because George had no conversation. He was innocent. It was something of a tradition, in London’s gay pickup world, that in the morning the younger man stole the older man’s watch, the heavier and more expensive the better. Dyer, after he and Bacon first slept together, instead left him the gold watch he had stolen from the man with whom he had spent the previous night. Such things touched Bacon’s heart. He liked to spoil Dyer. He paid him a salary, sixty pounds a month, for posing and doing handyman work. He also gave him money to buy a lot of expensive Edwardian-style clothes, which George was very proud of.

And then Bacon tired of him. If Bacon was drunk every night, George was drunk every day and every night, which gradually made him impotent and prone to wet his pants on people’s couches. Bacon began to wish he could unload him, a fact that did not fail to register with George. In response, George threw Bacon’s furniture down the front stairs. Later, he ripped up a number of Bacon’s paintings and set fire to his studio. He planted drugs in the studio and called the police. The court case dragged on for months.

In 1971, Bacon had a retrospective at the Grand Palais, in Paris. Nothing could have been more important for his reputation. The day before the opening, Bacon came back from a lunch and found George, who had accompanied him to Paris, drunk and incoherent, in bed with a rent boy. He eventually went downstairs, to the room occupied by the gallery’s driver, and slept in the spare bed there. In the morning, he asked the driver to look in on George. On the way upstairs, the driver ran into Valerie Beston, Bacon’s heroic handler. They found George on the toilet, leaning forward, apparently dead.

So, in a sort of appalling rhyme with Lacy’s death, Bacon received similar news on the cusp of another great triumph. If I read Stevens and Swan correctly, Bacon was both stolid (he may even have been relieved) and devastated. The hotel manager was summoned, and the situation was explained to him. Would it be possible to defer George’s death until the next morning? he was asked. Otherwise, his death would overshadow the opening. The manager, evidently the soul of discretion, agreed and locked the room with dead George inside, still on the toilet. Bacon got through the festivities—the private view, the official opening, the red carpet, the honor guard—with aplomb. Then the authorities came and took George’s body away, and the newspapers published the news. Bacon flew back to London, but he was never the same. The French autopsy determined that George had died of a heart attack, but people who knew him—including, eventually, Bacon—assumed that he had died, accidentally or deliberately, of an overdose of alcohol and pills. He had made previous suicide attempts.

In the next two years, Bacon painted four triptychs that dealt with George’s death. The first three show George in various guises. The last—“Triptych, May-June 1973”—is more confessional and more sensational. Here we are shown the actual death. In the left panel, we see George naked, on the toilet, leaning forward, almost to the floor. On the right, we see him vomiting into the sink. And in the central panel, where the Christ would go if this were a Crucifixion (which, in a way, it is), we get just George’s face, bloated and bloodshot, presumably dead. In all the postmortem-George triptychs, Bacon uses looming shadows. We seem to watch George spilling over, leaking his life onto the floor. But, in the central panel of this last triptych, there is something yet more horrible. A shadow comes to greet George that is like nothing we have seen before: huge, black, like an enormous bird.

Many people would nominate “Triptych, May-June 1973,” with its narration of George’s death, as Bacon’s most formidable painting, because it is so bluntly what his work is said to be: horrific. But I would pick the series of canvases—there are something like fifty of them—that he based on Velázquez’s “Portrait of Pope Innocent X.” In them, the Holy Father is shown in full papal regalia: cape, cap, lace-trimmed cassock. (In some versions, you can even see the throne.) And then, in place of the calm, even crafty face that Velázquez gave the seventeenth-century Pontiff, we see a screaming mouth, with a full set of sharp, vicious teeth. This is Bacon’s familiar hybrid of menace and suffering, expanded now by a mixture of shock and formality. You can see this mixture in the George Dyer triptychs, too, but there it is more studied; Bacon is working something out, getting George’s death out of his system, as he himself acknowledged. In the Popes, on the other hand, the terrible thing seems to come from nowhere, both controlled and spontaneous, ineluctable. You could be the Pope and not be able to stop it.

When Bacon was about forty, his doctor told him that if he had one more drink he would die. In fact, he lived another forty years, drinking just as much as before, and therefore was around long enough to have a “late period.” It is sometimes painful to watch. He still painted, but he had to have oxygen cannisters near him at all times in case he had an asthma attack. His fame was assured. Honors rained down on him, but now he often refused them. French intellectuals—Michel Leiris, Gilles Deleuze—had written books about him and he was proud of this, but now he shooed book writers away. He also stubbornly delayed the production of a catalogue raisonné. Many of his old friends died. Many others he avoided, including Lucian Freud. (In the words of a friend of Freud’s, “Lucian took the view that Francis’s late paintings were frightfully bad. Bacon was saying the same thing about Lucian. ‘Such a pity he doesn’t go on doing his little things.’ ”) Old pleasures, too, were lost. He had a boyfriend, but the boyfriend also had a boyfriend.

Yet the spark that had always been in him still flared up sporadically. He himself spoke of the “exhilarated despair” that underlay his paintings, accurate words to describe the sheer vigor—you could even call it delight—with which he produced his grim visions. The Pope might be screaming, but, oh, that purple and gold, and even the wit, or at least surprise, of the painting. You’re not the only one screaming about life; so is the Pope.

In 1991, during a trip to Madrid, Bacon decided that he had to see the collection of Velázquez paintings at the Prado, and to do so alone. He telephoned Manuela Mena, a senior conservator at the museum, and asked if he might come on a day when the museum was closed. This was hard to arrange—the guards were on strike—but Mena worked it out, and told him to knock on a little-used side door, next to the Botanical Gardens, at the appointed hour. She later recalled, “We opened that door for him at midday, and in with the sun came Francis Bacon.”

He was back in Madrid the following year. Eighty-two and dying, he nevertheless had a nice Spanish companion, and, in the last photograph of him that Swan and Stevens offer us, we see him at his favorite bar, sitting there with what looks like a quart-size Martini in front of him. He seems hearty; he wasn’t. Within a few days, his friend had to check him into a hospital. The supervising nurse said that he was starting to suffer from “slow suffocation.” Soon his breathing stopped, and then his heart—meat at last. ♦