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Remembering the legacy of Harvey Milk, the gay pioneer who tragically became a martyr – Yahoo Eurosport UK

Harvey Milk Day (22 May) is celebrated each year in memory of Harvey Milk, the gay pioneer who tragically became a martyr.

A pioneer of the LGBT+ rights movement, Milk, who would have been 91 this year, was the first openly gay man ever elected into public office in the US.

A victory indescribably seismic at a time where fledgeling LGBT+ rights movements were being curtailed by conservative lobbies. Yet Milk managed to galvanise support and, during his time in office, pass a stringent ordinance outlawing discrimination based on sexual orientation.

Less than a year after being elected to the board of supervisors in 1977, he was fatally shot by his former city supervisor opponent, Dan White.

Ever since, his legacy has been celebrated in books, an opera, film, a navy ship in his namesake and even a postage stamp.

Who was Harvey Milk?

Hearts broken. Votes tallied. Lives risked and saved.

The life of Milk that has come to be lauded by his contemporaries is one of a pioneering spirit.

The son of Russian‐Jewish immigrants, Milk, of Long Island, New York, was born in 1930. He went onto earn a bachelor’s degree in 1951 from the Albany State College for Teachers and spent his school years in the closet.

Harvey Milk

Harvey Milk sits outside his camera shop, November 9, 1977. (Getty/ Bettmann)

After graduating, he enlisted in the United States Navy and worked diving instructor in San Diego. Milk served four years before superiors found him in a park with gay men – he was then forced to resign.

His biography then became a brief run-in with Wall Street, but his colleagues noticed his lack of drive for the finance district. Across his forays into local electoral politics, however, everyone could see the passion that fizzled within him.

It took three tries for Harvey Milk to be elected supervisor

Milk was 41 years old with when he crooned into San Fransisco in 1972.

Settling into the Castro district, he set-up a camera shop that became a refuge for the city’s LGBT+ community, long abraded by prejudice. Many looked to Milk for leadership and he exhorted them to be open and visible.

Armed with nothing more than a bullhorn and a dogged, almost impish attitude, he campaigned for city county supervisor in 1973, a move he attributed to anger generated by the televised Senate Watergate hearings.

He was, however, unsuccessful. Losing again in 1975, before beating over 16 other candidates with 30 per cent of the vote in 1977.

Milk won with his multi-pronged policy plan of not only securing LGBT+ rights, but increased low-rent housing, free municipal transportation and better childcare facilities as well.

“It’s not my victory, it’s yours and yours and yours,” he said after winning the historic seat.

Milk’s district, the fifth, encompassed most of the Haight‐Ashbury and Upper Market Street areas, where many queer migrants had decamped. The city was fractured in this way, with neighbourhoods of hippies and working-class Catholics huddling around one another, but Milk found ways to tenderly unite people.

Harvey Milk was slain by his political opponent

On 30 November 1978, a thick fog tangled with the mid-rise buildings of San Francisco for the third consecutive day. But the thousands of people below it didn’t seem to mind.

They stuffed into the Opera House that evening to attend a non‐denominational ceremony. One that many saw the last 10 months as a steady, bleak drumbeat towards.

Three days prior in City Hall, a bullet struck Milk, killing him. Former board member White surrendered to police minutes later.

It was a moment months in the making.

In 1978, Milk struck down Proposition Six, which would have mandated the firing of state public school teachers. White was the sole supervisor who voted against Milk.

Dan White (directly beneath “Fraud” sign). (Getty Images)

Dan White (directly beneath “Fraud” sign). (Getty Images)

After quitting from his post 10 months in, White urged mayor George Moscone to rescind his resignation, citing money troubles. Moscone refused and, on the morning of 27 November, White slung into City Hall through an open window and gunned both Moscone and Milk.

White was subsequently convicted of voluntary manslaughter, rather than of first-degree murder. The verdict sparked the “White Night riots” in San Francisco, and led to the state of California abolishing the diminished capacity criminal defence.

White died by suicide in 1985, a little more than a year after his release from prison.

‘If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door in the country’.

Pushing against the cruel, corrosive attitudes of powerful groups that sought to silence and erase LGBT+ people, Milk always knew the punitive reaction to his quest for equality.

Days after his death, Milk’s associates released a tape recording that he had instructed: “Be played only in the event of my death by assassination.”

“I fully realise that a person who stands for what I stand for, an activist, gay activist, becomes a target or the potential target for somebody who is insecure, terrified, afraid, or very disturbed themselves,” Milk said on his final tape.

“I would like to see every gay doctor come out, every gay lawyer, every gay architect come out, stand up and let that world know,” Milk said.

“That would do more to end prejudice overnight than anybody would imagine. I urge them to do that, urge them to come out. Only that way will we start to achieve our rights.”

“If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door in the country.”

Jeremy Irvine likely to play gay hero Alan Scott in Green Lantern – cinemaexpress

English actor Jeremy Irvine might get to play Alan Scott in the series, titled Green Lantern

Scott is one of the higher-profile gay characters of the DC Universe. The fictional superhero, created in 1940, was the first character to bear the name Green Lantern.

When Green Lantern was re-developed in the sixties, the hero, Hal Jordan, made his entry as a test pilot and Scott was re-introduced as a Lantern from a parallel Earth. In the multiverse, he was reimagined as gay.

The upcoming series stars Finn Wittrock as Guy Gardner, one of the many Green Lanterns expected to appear in the big-budget series from executive producer Greg Berlanti and Warner Bros. TV, reports hollywoodreporter.com. Berlanti, along with Seth Grahame-Smith and Marc Guggenheim, is writing the HBO Max series, with Grahame-Smith as showrunner.

Jeremy Irvine made his film debut in Steven Spielberg’s 2011 release, War Horse. The actor played a young Pierce Brosnan in Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again and was recently seen in the Jason Bourne-inspired spy series

Northern Irish town vandalised with horrific ‘no Irish, no gay’ graffiti – PinkNews

The racist, homophobic graffiti was stencilled on an electrical box on Pollock Drive, Lurgan. (Twitter/ Ciarant1990)

The town of Lurgan in Northern Ireland was vandalised this week with horrific “no Irish, no gay” graffiti.

The words “no Irish, no gay” were stencilled on an electrical box on Pollock Drive in the Mourneview area of Lurgan, County Armagh, according to the Armagh i.

Sharing a photo of the latest graffiti on Twitter, Social Democratic and Labour Party (SDLP) councillor Ciaran Toman wrote: “This racist and homophobic action is a direct consequence of the failure of political leaders.

“These views are not representative of the majority people of Lurgan nor in Northern Ireland and they will not be tolerated.”

“Spray-can warriors will not hold back the progression of LGBT+ rights,” he added.

The racist, homophobic graffiti appeared a month after the words “f**k your gay Pride” were daubed on an abandoned house in full view of patients attending Lurgan hospital.

Alliance Lurgan councillor Peter Lavery said at the time: “Those spray painting these homophobic statements do not represent the vast majority of people here, and I condemn them and their actions entirely… All of us must unite and face down homophobia and those who promote it.”

Just last year, two gay men were brutally beaten with a tyre iron in their own home in Lurgan, in a suspected hate crime.

In August, 2020, two individuals broke into the property “then threatened two males and assaulted them with a tyre iron”, police said.

Luckily the men were not seriously injured, but a 26-year-old was later arrested in connection with the attack.

Local police said at the time: “One man was later arrested on suspicion of threats to kill and aggravated burglary with intent to commit grievous bodily harm.

“He remains in police custody at this time.

“At this stage, one line of enquiry is that this may be a homophobic hate crime.”

Lil Nas X was afraid of coming out as gay – Yahoo Lifestyle UK

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The ancient Greeks made one massive mistake – abandoning beautiful Lindos

It rarely seems a good idea to doubt the wisdom of the ancient Greeks. History regards them as a clever people – garlanded denizens of the Mediterranean of yesteryear; heroes and warrior-kings, philosophers and poets, advancing the cause of European civilisation in their Athenian temples and Ionian idylls. And yet, when I arrive in Lindos, I find myself considering a decidedly blasphemous question. What were they thinking? Not all of them, of course. Just those ancient islanders who were daft enough to leave this beauty spot – which sits roughly midway along Rhodes’s glorious east coast. My break begins with a 30-mile journey to find it, from the international airport on the top edge of what is the largest of the Dodecanese, clipping the outskirts of its capital Rhodes Town on the way out – then plunging downwards, the sea gleaming on the left-hand side of the car, Turkey a brooding but invisible presence somewhere over the horizon. Finally, after one more bump in the unevenly surfaced road, Lindos appears – an elder statesman of these parts. So much so that it had risen and fallen before Rome had even conceived an empire. It was born in the 10th century BC, one of a cluster of city-states on this Aegean crossroads. It was mighty enough that, according to Homer in The Iliad, it sent out ships as part of the Greek attack on Troy. But then it faded – eclipsed by Rhodes Town, founded at the tip of the island in 408BC. The big time was over. Life drifted north. In coming south, against the flow of history, I feel that I have made a discovery of sorts. Or, certainly, found a refuge. Pinned to its hillside just above the town, Lindos Blu is the sort of hideaway where you could surely avoid any crisis, from the Trojan War to the Covid pandemic. It is an escape from it all, cascading down its slope in 70 rooms and suites – with their shaded balconies and plunge pools – to the broad sweep of Vlycha Bay at the bottom. A place to kick off your shoes, fall on to a lounger, give the world a steely look, and ask if it could manage not to bother you for the rest of the week. And so we do. The beginning of our stay is an exercise in moving slowly, and not very much. To Smeraldo, one of the resort’s two restaurants, for breakfasts of fresh fruit, gloopy yogurt and local honey – and back again for lunch a couple of unhurried hours later. An afternoon cocktail or two at Allegro – the bar next to a main pool that is more a hinted option for lazy splashing than a training hub for rigorous early-morning lengths. There is always the prospect, a little later, of a massage at the Elixir Spa. And then it is time for dinner, and that urge to dress up for sophisticated seafood at Five Senses, the property’s gastronomic focal point – with its emphasis on local ingredients and elegance.

Who are we to discriminate against the LGBT? – Aliran

On 17 May 1990, the World Health Assembly of the World Health Organization (WHO) approved the removal of homosexuality from the list of the International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems.

The anniversary has since been observed as the International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia to raise awareness and to advocate sensible public policies for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people.

The theme for this year’s anniversary was “Together: Resisting, supporting, healing!” The theme was chosen to champion hope and calls for action to counter hateful stereotypes of LGBT persons.

According to latest statistics, Malaysia is one of 69 countries in the world that continue to have laws that criminalise homosexuality. The attacks and assaults on LGBT range from hate speech in social media to anti-LGBT campaigns in traditional media, including government programmes under the name of “rehabilitation”.

Apart from that, we can also see the evidence of the wide use of disinformation and misinformation techniques to defame and even criminalise the actions of those supporting the LGBT. We sometimes hear of anecdotal cases of members of the LGBT community being discriminated against and denied healthcare services and employment.

Across the world, discrimination is identified as one of the major barriers to achieving an equal and inclusive future for LGBT people. This includes Malaysia.

Discrimination refers to any sort of act or behaviour that distinguishes individuals based on age, sex, race, sexual orientation and gender identity. The primary forms of discrimination faced by the LGBT community are those based on sexual orientation and gender identity.

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When we look around and reflect on some of our attitudes towards the LGBT – whether in schools, workplaces or in public – discrimination in the form of name-calling and bullying would be familiar to us.

As the subject of LGBT is regarded as taboo and the orientation as a form of “illness”, it is not surprising that discriminatory attitudes and prejudice are formed at a young age. Some children are taught that the behaviour of the LGBT is deviant and should not be tolerated. Such formation goes against one of the principles of education, that is to nurture mutual respect for one another.

In Malaysia, LGBT people are criminalised through many federal and state laws. What is shocking is that there are also government-initiated anti-LGBT programmes, most of which focus on rehabilitation and conversion of LGBT persons.

For instance, in 2016, the Islamic Development Department (Jakim) launched a five-year action plan titled Pelan Tindakan Menangani Gejala Sosial Perlakuan LGBT 2017-2021 (Action Plan to Address the Social Ills of LGBT Behaviour 2017-2021) to “curb” and “correct” LGBT behaviour, as opposed to acceptance and non-discrimination.

Such an approach is harmful and discriminatory, as it encourages others to carry out moral policing and intervene in the private and public lives of LGBT persons.

Such programmes continue, although these harmful practices have been widely rejected by global scientific bodies, medical institutions and human rights groups.

At a global level, Malaysia has so far rejected all recommendations related to the decriminalising of LGBT activities from the UN’s universal periodic review. This is a peer-review mechanism created by the UN Human Rights Council to monitor the human rights performance by the various member states. This is an irony, as Malaysia is vying for a seat on the 47-member UN Human Rights Council for the period 2022-2024. 

As the government apparently endorses discrimination against LGBT persons, the Malaysian public too by extension are deemed to endorse such discrimination as the ‘right’ thing to do. While we may say that the religions that we profess are tolerant by nature and non-discriminatory, our behaviour towards the LGBT reveals the hypocrisy in practice.

There is a definite sense of misinformation and disinformation about the LGBT in society, and this can only be reduced through our collective action as a society. Politicians must set a good example in ensuring inclusivity and acceptance of diversity.

When competing moral values are brought into tension, I ask, who are we to become moral police and discriminate against the LGBT? What gives us the right to judge others? Are we not simply fellow members of a universal humanity?

Indeed, we are all fellow members of the human race, regardless of our ethnicity, religion, gender identity or sexual orientation.

Khoo Ying Hooi

Co-editor, Aliran newsletter

22 May 2021

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Gay Byrne’s daughters remember when he ‘mortified’ them – RTE.ie

Suzy and Crona Byrne shared some special memories of their dad, broadcaster Gay Byrne, on The Late Late Show, including one particularly “mortifying” moment.

Speaking on RTÉ One’s Late Late Show, Suzy Byrne told Ryan Tubridy that during their teenage years, there were times when it was quite embarrassing that their dad was a well-known radio and TV presenter, especially when he used the airwaves to stop her from going to a teenage disco.

She said: “In teenage years it is just mortifying. We had a particular incident where myself and my friend Ger… we were desperate to go to Welsey disco, just desperate. So myself and Ger thought this was fantastic, we would go and then we get a lift home from Donnybrook.

Gay Byrne, his daughter Suzy, wife Kathleen Watkins and daughter Crona at the launch of his autobiography The Time of My Life in 1989

“So we set about the plan and informed dad that we would be getting a lift home the next Friday. A couple of days later in school, I go in and there is silence and everyone is furious with me. This whole thing comes out that there was this big investigation on the Gay Byrne hour and everybody was barred.

“A few people had written in with concerns over the goings-on in Wesley, so when Suzy decides she wants to go he decides well let’s just see what this is all about. So he sent his team.

Gay Byrne with Crona, Kathleen and Suzy at a party to mark the end of his RTÉ Radio 1 show

“They monitored people being dropped at Wesley, they monitored the people who got on the bus to into town after their parents left, the drinking, people changing their clothes, they snuck around the back of Wesley and they monitored the kissing on the dancefloor

“It was horrendous.”

Suzy then explained when confronted her dad over the investigation. “He said, ‘What’s the problem, they did a very good piece. I am very pleased with what happened and I don’t know what you are getting upset about, because there is no way in hell you are going anywhere near the place.'”

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Pride 2021: Big cities ‘playing the safe card’ with small gatherings, virtual events – NBC News

Holly Duchmann, who lives in Lafayette, Louisiana, plans to attend a Pride celebration for the first time this year. 

“In the years before the pandemic, while I was out to my friends, I was still really scared to go to Pride,” Duchmann, 27, said. “Because I’m bisexual, I kind of pass as straight a lot, and so that kind of created anxiety with me for years, making me feel like I didn’t really belong in the LGBT community.”

She felt more accepted after finding queer community through her roller derby team, and in 2020, she was looking forward to going to her first Pride event. She even picked up pieces of “extravagant” clothing here and there to wear. But then everything was canceled because of the pandemic, and, during quarantine, she turned to TikTok to feel connected to other LGBTQ people.

“The pandemic helped me realize I need to celebrate life when I can,” she said. “It’s like being cooped up made me want to burst out. So I’m fully vaccinated and making plans with friends to go all out this year.”

Duchmann plans to go to New Orleans to celebrate, though New Orleans Pride, which has organized the city’s main Pride events in the past, disbanded in 2020. There’s no central Pride event planned this year, but Duchmann isn’t worried. 

“I really see Pride as being larger than just an event held by one organization,” she said. “NOLA is great about gathering and celebrating. It’s kind of like Mardi Gras. It’s a whole season.” 

In the last few decades, Pride has been celebrated in cities around the globe with bigger and bigger events such as parades, marches and protests. In June 2019, an estimated 5 million people attended NYC’s annual Pride march, which coincided with WorldPride, which moves to a different major city each year. The celebrations were expected to be just as big in June 2020, the 50th anniversary of the first Pride march — then called Christopher Street Liberation Day — which began a year after the Stonewall Riots of June 1969, a dayslong protest that began after police raided the Stonewall Inn, a gay bar in downtown Manhattan. 

But in April 2020, the pandemic brought plans for the 50th anniversary of Pride to a halt, forcing event organizers across the U.S. to pivot to all-virtual programming. Now, Pride — in New York and beyond — will return with a mix of in-person and virtual events. Organizers are balancing concerns about safety with increasing vaccination rates and the LGBTQ community’s excitement to return to Pride after a year of social distancing.

‘More strategic’ virtual programming

Last spring, the group behind NYC Pride, the country’s biggest annual Pride celebration, canceled its in-person march for the first time in a half-century because of the Covid-19 crisis, and then had two months to create a virtual event in June.

“That was a shock that we had to think about very quickly on our feet to adapt to,” Dan Dimant, media director for Heritage of Pride, the group behind NYC Pride, said. “We did our best, but what we had this time around was the luxury of time and foresight.”

This year, Heritage of Pride will host some face-to-face events — like its annual street fair — but its well-known march, which has attracted millions in previous years, won’t be coming back in the same way just yet. 

NYC Pride organizers will hold virtual events like a family movie night, a human rights conference and a rally, among others. It will also hold its usual Pride march on June 27, though it will be mostly virtual with “in-person elements that are to be determined,” Dimant said, adding that any in-person element would take place in a supervised area with perimeters to limit attendance.

“We put together a much more strategic virtual program for most of our events, and we’ve also kind of left the door open for most of this year to kind of wait and see what we could do in person,” Dimant said. “We believe that we certainly can’t have millions of spectators in one massive crowd just yet. It’s just too soon for that. But there are some events that we can do safely in person.”

‘Playing the safe card’

Other groups in large cities are organizing their events similarly. 

Los Angeles Pride will host a free streaming concert June 10 on TikTok featuring Charlie XCX, a virtual “Thrive With Pride Celebration” on ABC7. LA Pride will also debut its “LA Pride Makes a Difference” volunteer calendar, which will enable people to volunteer — both in-person and virtually — for local nonprofits that support LGBTQ people.

People march in the 50th annual Pride parade on June 9, 2019 in West Hollywood, Calif.Chelsea Guglielmino / Getty Images file

Noah Gonzalez, the vice president of the board of directors for the Christopher Street West Association, the nonprofit behind LA Pride, said its signature parade and festival, which in 2018 drew more than 100,000 attendees and participants, can take six months to a year to plan, so the board had to make a decision about how to host the events in December.

“We had no idea where we were going to be, so we had to plan for what we knew at the time, and keeping the responsibility and safety in mind, we knew we could do something virtual,” he said. He said the group’s in-person events — the volunteer opportunities — allow people to decide what level of exposure they’re comfortable with, and don’t involve large crowds. 

“From a celebratory perspective, we’re sort of pulling back a little bit and playing the safe card, but when it came to giving back to the community or being involved in community, our perspective was … we will create these opportunities and bring them to the community, and you can decide what you would like to do,” he said.

Capital Alliance Pride in Washington, D.C., which in pre-Covid-19 years attracted an estimated 250,000 revelers, is also playing it safe with a Colorful Pridemobile Parade on June 12.

A crowd cheers on those participating in the 50th annual Pride parade in Washington on June 8, 2019.Caroline Brehman / CQ-Roll Call via Getty Images file

Some Pride organizers in big cities have committed to larger in-person celebrations, but they are limiting capacity, adhering to strict health requirements or not holding their events until the fall.

LA Pride will host a Pride night at Dodgers Stadium on June 11, with a special package available to fully vaccinated attendees, and an in-person outdoor LGBTQ movie night on June 26. Similarly, San Francisco Pride is having two Pride movie nights on June 11 and 12 at Oracle Park and a Black Liberation Event at the African American Art & Culture Complex on June 18. 

Chicago Pride plans to bring back its Pride in the Park concert in person, with Chaka Khan and Tiesto as headliners, but the event is ticketed, and attendees have to verify that they’ve been vaccinated or provide other health information through an app no more than 12 hours before arriving to the two-day event, which takes place June 26 and 27. 

“We worked with [the app] Health Pass by CLEAR so that we could create a very safe environment where people [who] are either tested or have been vaccinated are the only people that can come into the event right now,” Dustin Carpenter, president and lead organizer for Pride in the Park, said.

People march in the 50th annual Pride parade in Chicago on June 30, 2019.Kamil Krzaczynski / Reuters file

Atlanta Pride also plans to host a festival, though the group traditionally doesn’t celebrate until mid-October. The events will take place in Piedmont Park, which is outdoors, unfenced and allows for social distancing, Jamie Fergerson, executive director of Atlanta Pride, said.

“There’s a lot of concern about health and safety, obviously,” Fergerson said. “People have a lot of questions, and we — as a nonprofit organization that works for a community that’s been historically marginalized in a number of ways, including access to health care and access to good health care — we take health and safety very seriously.”

Some events are still on standby. In Philadelphia, Philly Pride Presents planned to host a festival on Sept. 4, but shared on its Facebook page Friday that the event is “a work in progress” and “not yet ‘fully open’” after the city issued guidance on reopening. Pride Houston has a few smaller events listed on its website, including Rock the Runway, a Pride fashion show, and said a “big announcement” is coming this month.

Other groups, like Boston Pride, have postponed their usual June festivities until the fall.

Some LGBTQ people said, regardless of the number of precautions taken, they don’t feel safe attending in-person Pride events just yet.

“I wouldn’t feel comfortable attending a Pride event as a fully vaccinated person, because I don’t know who is vaccinated and who is not,” Justice Dominguez, who is 24 and lives in Corpus Christi, Texas, said in an email. “Even with social distancing and mask requirements, it still feels like a risk. We know that less than half of all U.S. adults are fully vaccinated (per CDC). I thought these numbers would discourage Pride organizers but I was wrong.”

Other LGBTQ people said they won’t be attending large Pride celebrations and will instead attend community-run events, such as New York’s Queer Liberation March, which is organized by the activist group Reclaim Pride, started by community activists in 2019 as an alternative to NYC Pride.

“Being a transgender woman of color, Pride celebrations at large have not included the trans community,” Houston resident Eden Torres, 36, said. “I am moving back to NYC this summer after 13 years in Texas. I will attend any grassroots, no corporation, trans-centered Pride celebrations, but will not participate in corporate Prides any longer.”

But Duchmann isn’t alone in her excitement for Pride festivities —  some people are also looking forward to finally being face-to-face.

Patrick Murphy, 71, of Santa Fe, New Mexico, said he and his partner of 49 years will be attending an in-person event. 

“We believe that we must continue to show the world that we are still here and will always be strong,” Murphy said. “We survived AIDS and Covid! Just by being there shows the younger generation of LGBT people that they do have a future.”

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Bowen Yang Is Changing the Late-Night Comedy Landscape – Slate

In 1985, Terry Sweeney joined the cast of Saturday Night Live, doubling as a member of the writing staff. Like five of his other cast members in that low-rated and critically panned season, he was fired from the show after only one year, but not before he managed to get in some memorable impressions. He impersonated Diana Ross, Joan Collins, Brooke Shields, Joan Rivers, Patti LaBelle, Nancy Reagan, and, on the rare occasion where he got to play a male public figure, Ted Kennedy.

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As SNL’s first openly gay cast member, and the first openly gay cast member on any network television show, Sweeney found himself frustratingly typecast. He had plenty of original ideas, but outside of impressions of female public figures and gay caricatures, there wasn’t much for him to do. In a 2017 interview, he explained, “If there was a part for a game show host, they wouldn’t put me in because, well, it wasn’t a gay game show host.” Sweeney added that he didn’t think there was necessarily any bad intent behind this: “They just did it because they didn’t know … ‘What do I write for a gay guy?’ ”

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Yang is challenging a double standard, one sketch at a time.

When Bowen Yang joined SNL in the fall of 2019, the show had a much better idea of what to do with him. Within the first few episodes, he made his mark impersonating figures like Andrew Yang and Chen Biao, as well as by playing original characters like a SoulCycle instructor, the guy from the choking poster, and Bottle Boi. One early sketch that would become emblematic of Yang’s imprint on the show starred Harry Styles as a social media manager who accidentally fills up Sara Lee’s Instagram account with gay thirst comments. Like much of the material performed by Terry Sweeney, this sketch is firmly rooted in stereotypes about gay men. But unlike those ’80s sketches, this was written for queer people by queer people; Yang, who co-wrote the sketch, also appears as Styles’ disapproving boss, cautioning him, “We think it would be healthy if Sara Lee stopped having threesomes.” The writing makes no attempt to cater to a straight audience who might not be familiar with terms like twinks or poppers. It’s a sketch that expects straight viewers to do what queer viewers have been doing forever: learn to appreciate the humor within a culture that isn’t your own.

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This is a conscious choice on Yang’s part. “I’m a firm believer in repetition,” he told NPR. “The more you see this, the more you’ll get used to it, and then the less you’ll have, like, an averse reaction.” This is an attitude he’s taken from his personal life, having grown up in a family that sent him to conversion therapy camp at 17. As he told the New York Times, “They just sat me down and yelled at me and said, ‘We don’t understand this. Where we come from, this doesn’t happen.’ ” Despite this, Yang’s relationship with his parents today is a healthy, supportive one. They’ve learned to accept him for who he is and have been making an active effort to understand him as best they can.

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Although Sweeney’s coming out to his family was a lot less volatile, he also had to deal with a significantly less diverse, less understanding environment behind the scenes of SNL. Although he mostly got along with the other cast members and writers, he had to put up with a lot of jokes and comments that wouldn’t fly in today’s SNL writers room. The most famous example was when Chevy Chase, upon having Sweeney confirm he was gay, responded by telling him, “You can start by licking my balls.” Chase also pitched a sketch where Sweeney’s character would have AIDS and they’d have to weigh him every week. Chase was forced to give Sweeney a begrudging apology for his behavior, and would go on to host the show four more times and make several more cameos. Sweeney, meanwhile, was fired at the end of the season, and he never returned.

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Whereas Sweeney never received the chance to expand beyond the limited roles of his debut season, Yang is thriving on the show and constantly expanding his list of characters, from a cocaine-obsessed frat guy, a French Canadian news anchor, and the iceberg that sunk the Titanic. The iceberg sketch is notable in that, although it’s definitely not the entire joke of the sketch, Yang’s character is clearly, emphatically gay. His amazingly flamboyant iceberg outfit and his makeup, slang, and hand gestures are all queer-coded. None of this is necessary for the joke, exactly, but the specificity with which this character is drawn helps makes the whole thing pop. There were plenty of ways Yang and co-writer Anna Drezen could’ve gone about writing this sketch, plenty of different directions they could’ve gone in that had nothing to do with queer culture. On a network comedy show that has historically prioritized a straight, white, primarily baby boomer audience, this was a bold choice, even if it shouldn’t have been.

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Yang has received a ton of criticism and online harassment due to choices like these. Although a lot of the homophobia in YouTube video comments or popular Reddit threads related to him is blatant and easy to dismiss, it’s often dressed up as an annoyance about his lack of range. “Bowen Yang is too … gay,” was the title of one post published on the Live From New York subreddit a year ago. (If you sort the subreddit’s posts by controversial and set the time range to “all,” this post is the very first thing that shows up.) This argument has persisted throughout Yang’s first two years on the show, despite sketches like “Murder Durdur” and “Celebrity Sighting” showing that he’s definitely capable of playing a straight character.

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Another common critique is that his portrayal of flamboyant characters is offensive and homophobic in itself. This criticism was most prevalent in the aftermath of Shane Gillis being fired from the show in 2019 for using racist and homophobic slurs on his podcast. Gillis’ fans brigaded the SNL subreddit to complain about his treatment from the show, leading to posts like “Can anyone show me how bowen yang is funny?” in which the poster tried to draw a parallel between Gillis’ use of homophobic slurs and Yang’s use of queer-coded characters, arguing that it was hypocritical for the show to have fired Gillis but not Yang. But portraying a queer male character in a flamboyantly feminine manner isn’t offensive; what’s offensive is the assumption that effeminate men are inherently off-putting, inherently insulting to queer people.

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The radical nature of Yang’s performance on SNL is not just that he’s normalizing queer characters on network TV, but that he’s normalizing queer men who make no attempts to restrict themselves for a straight audience. As Yang noted in an Instagram story back in February of this year, responding to the criticisms and harassment aimed at his alleged reliance on queer affectations, “It’s so strange and dissociative that those identifiers are considered character games.” After all, cast members like Beck Bennett almost always play masculine, straight-presenting characters, but never receive the same kind of criticism. Audiences are used to straight characters’ sexuality not having anything to do with the joke of the sketch, but if a gay character’s sexuality isn’t a punchline, then its inclusion requires an explicit justification. Yang is challenging this double standard, one sketch at a time.

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The question of why Yang finds it so important to challenge these assumptions could be explained in part by Terry Sweeney’s statements as to why he decided to come out in the middle of the AIDS epidemic, in a period when doing so could (and did) have such a negative impact on his career: “I did what I thought was the right thing to do.” Thirty-six years, later, Yang says, “I kind of don’t really care about how my tenure on the show is perceived in any particular way, other than … I want this to facilitate something better for the next person.” This is what makes Yang’s first two years at SNL so important to LGBTQ+ viewers and aspiring performers. And at a time when 81 percent of Asian and Pacific American LGTBQ+ youth still don’t feel comfortable being themselves around their family, his presence on the iconic show is vital for them too. Every time he plays a queer character, he’s widening the scope of what’s considered normal. He’s proving that there is in fact a place for unapologetically queer comedy on such a mainstream show, and widening the boundaries for how an effeminate man can act on TV. This is something Sweeney didn’t have the creative freedom to do back in 1985. But in 2021? Yang got free rein, and he’s not letting his opportunity go to waste.

Bowen Yang Is Changing the Late-Night Comedy Landscape – Slate Magazine

In 1985, Terry Sweeney joined the cast of Saturday Night Live, doubling as a member of the writing staff. Like five of his other cast members in that low-rated and critically panned season, he was fired from the show after only one year, but not before he managed to get in some memorable impressions. He impersonated Diana Ross, Joan Collins, Brooke Shields, Joan Rivers, Patti LaBelle, Nancy Reagan, and, on the rare occasion where he got to play a male public figure, Ted Kennedy.

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As SNL’s first openly gay cast member, and the first openly gay cast member on any network television show, Sweeney found himself frustratingly typecast. He had plenty of original ideas, but outside of impressions of female public figures and gay caricatures, there wasn’t much for him to do. In a 2017 interview, he explained, “If there was a part for a game show host, they wouldn’t put me in because, well, it wasn’t a gay game show host.” Sweeney added that he didn’t think there was necessarily any bad intent behind this: “They just did it because they didn’t know … ‘What do I write for a gay guy?’ ”

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Yang is challenging a double standard, one sketch at a time.

When Bowen Yang joined SNL in the fall of 2019, the show had a much better idea of what to do with him. Within the first few episodes, he made his mark impersonating figures like Andrew Yang and Chen Biao, as well as by playing original characters like a SoulCycle instructor, the guy from the choking poster, and Bottle Boi. One early sketch that would become emblematic of Yang’s imprint on the show starred Harry Styles as a social media manager who accidentally fills up Sara Lee’s Instagram account with gay thirst comments. Like much of the material performed by Terry Sweeney, this sketch is firmly rooted in stereotypes about gay men. But unlike those ’80s sketches, this was written for queer people by queer people; Yang, who co-wrote the sketch, also appears as Styles’ disapproving boss, cautioning him, “We think it would be healthy if Sara Lee stopped having threesomes.” The writing makes no attempt to cater to a straight audience who might not be familiar with terms like twinks or poppers. It’s a sketch that expects straight viewers to do what queer viewers have been doing forever: learn to appreciate the humor within a culture that isn’t your own.

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This is a conscious choice on Yang’s part. “I’m a firm believer in repetition,” he told NPR. “The more you see this, the more you’ll get used to it, and then the less you’ll have, like, an averse reaction.” This is an attitude he’s taken from his personal life, having grown up in a family that sent him to conversion therapy camp at 17. As he told the New York Times, “They just sat me down and yelled at me and said, ‘We don’t understand this. Where we come from, this doesn’t happen.’ ” Despite this, Yang’s relationship with his parents today is a healthy, supportive one. They’ve learned to accept him for who he is and have been making an active effort to understand him as best they can.

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Although Sweeney’s coming out to his family was a lot less volatile, he also had to deal with a significantly less diverse, less understanding environment behind the scenes of SNL. Although he mostly got along with the other cast members and writers, he had to put up with a lot of jokes and comments that wouldn’t fly in today’s SNL writers room. The most famous example was when Chevy Chase, upon having Sweeney confirm he was gay, responded by telling him, “You can start by licking my balls.” Chase also pitched a sketch where Sweeney’s character would have AIDS and they’d have to weigh him every week. Chase was forced to give Sweeney a begrudging apology for his behavior, and would go on to host the show four more times and make several more cameos. Sweeney, meanwhile, was fired at the end of the season, and he never returned.

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Whereas Sweeney never received the chance to expand beyond the limited roles of his debut season, Yang is thriving on the show and constantly expanding his list of characters, from a cocaine-obsessed frat guy, a French Canadian news anchor, and the iceberg that sunk the Titanic. The iceberg sketch is notable in that, although it’s definitely not the entire joke of the sketch, Yang’s character is clearly, emphatically gay. His amazingly flamboyant iceberg outfit and his makeup, slang, and hand gestures are all queer-coded. None of this is necessary for the joke, exactly, but the specificity with which this character is drawn helps makes the whole thing pop. There were plenty of ways Yang and co-writer Anna Drezen could’ve gone about writing this sketch, plenty of different directions they could’ve gone in that had nothing to do with queer culture. On a network comedy show that has historically prioritized a straight, white, primarily baby boomer audience, this was a bold choice, even if it shouldn’t have been.

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Yang has received a ton of criticism and online harassment due to choices like these. Although a lot of the homophobia in YouTube video comments or popular Reddit threads related to him is blatant and easy to dismiss, it’s often dressed up as an annoyance about his lack of range. “Bowen Yang is too … gay,” was the title of one post published on the Live From New York subreddit a year ago. (If you sort the subreddit’s posts by controversial and set the time range to “all,” this post is the very first thing that shows up.) This argument has persisted throughout Yang’s first two years on the show, despite sketches like “Murder Durdur” and “Celebrity Sighting” showing that he’s definitely capable of playing a straight character.

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Another common critique is that his portrayal of flamboyant characters is offensive and homophobic in itself. This criticism was most prevalent in the aftermath of Shane Gillis being fired from the show in 2019 for using racist and homophobic slurs on his podcast. Gillis’ fans brigaded the SNL subreddit to complain about his treatment from the show, leading to posts like “Can anyone show me how bowen yang is funny?” in which the poster tried to draw a parallel between Gillis’ use of homophobic slurs and Yang’s use of queer-coded characters, arguing that it was hypocritical for the show to have fired Gillis but not Yang. But portraying a queer male character in a flamboyantly feminine manner isn’t offensive; what’s offensive is the assumption that effeminate men are inherently off-putting, inherently insulting to queer people.

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The radical nature of Yang’s performance on SNL is not just that he’s normalizing queer characters on network TV, but that he’s normalizing queer men who make no attempts to restrict themselves for a straight audience. As Yang noted in an Instagram story back in February of this year, responding to the criticisms and harassment aimed at his alleged reliance on queer affectations, “It’s so strange and dissociative that those identifiers are considered character games.” After all, cast members like Beck Bennett almost always play masculine, straight-presenting characters, but never receive the same kind of criticism. Audiences are used to straight characters’ sexuality not having anything to do with the joke of the sketch, but if a gay character’s sexuality isn’t a punchline, then its inclusion requires an explicit justification. Yang is challenging this double standard, one sketch at a time.

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The question of why Yang finds it so important to challenge these assumptions could be explained in part by Terry Sweeney’s statements as to why he decided to come out in the middle of the AIDS epidemic, in a period when doing so could (and did) have such a negative impact on his career: “I did what I thought was the right thing to do.” Thirty-six years, later, Yang says, “I kind of don’t really care about how my tenure on the show is perceived in any particular way, other than … I want this to facilitate something better for the next person.” This is what makes Yang’s first two years at SNL so important to LGBTQ+ viewers and aspiring performers. And at a time when 81 percent of Asian and Pacific American LGTBQ+ youth still don’t feel comfortable being themselves around their family, his presence on the iconic show is vital for them too. Every time he plays a queer character, he’s widening the scope of what’s considered normal. He’s proving that there is in fact a place for unapologetically queer comedy on such a mainstream show, and widening the boundaries for how an effeminate man can act on TV. This is something Sweeney didn’t have the creative freedom to do back in 1985. But in 2021? Yang got free rein, and he’s not letting his opportunity go to waste.

Ho Circuit Court denies bail for 21 suspected LGBT members and activists – Myjoyonline.com

A Ho Circuit Court has denied a bail application for some twenty-one persons arraigned before it on the suspicion of being members and advocates of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community.

The Court presided over by Justice Felix Datsomor, therefore, remanded the suspects which included sixteen females and five males into police custody.

They are to reappear on Friday, June 4, 2021.

The suspects were arrested at a hotel in Godokpui in Ho on Thursday after the Volta Regional Police Command picked information of their meeting aimed at advocating and promoting the rights of LGBTs in Ghana.

According to the Volta Regional Police PRO, Sergeant Prince Dogbatse, the suspect had in their possession materials on concepts encouraging homosexuals to boldly announce their sexuality among other related books.

“We also got the LGBT+ Muslim book that is among some of the materials that they are using, they also have gender acronyms coming out.

“A concept that is coming out at encouraging persons involved in these behavior to come out publicly to mention or state the sexuality and all about trans, I mean transgender.”

He said everything they found with the suspects clearly depicts their intentions.

“I mean there is an agenda by these people to propagate the LGBTQ behavior. For now we have referred the preliminary charge of unlawful assembly and while we continue our investigation.”

The Teletubbies are releasing their first ever Pride collection for nostalgic adults – LGBTQ Nation

The Teletubbies are finally embracing their rainbow colors.

On Thursday, fans rejoiced as the quirky children’s show which originally ran from the 1990s to 2001 announced its first ever Pride collection, and the products are being made and marketed to the show’s mostly now-adult fanbase.

Related: Lego releases first LGBTQ Pride set because “everyone is awesome”

Centered on the themes of “Big Hugs, Big Love,” and “Teletubbies Love Pride,” the collection features 90s-themed streetwear that a press release describes as “both iconic and nostalgic.”

The collection offers everything from tube socks to a bucket hat to a sling bag.

For those willing to shell out big bucks to relive their childhoods frolicking with Tinky Winky, Dipsy, Laa-Laa, and Po, there are even custom, made-to order two-piece suits.

“The Teletubbies have always embraced their own offbeat quirkiness and sense of style,” said Michael Riley, Chief Brands Officer of WildBrain, the company which owns Teletubbies.

“This Pride Month, we’re celebrating that ‘love who you are’ spirit through our Collection of ready-to-rave fashion that makes Tinky Winky, Dipsy, Laa-Laa and Po very proud. We’ve taken the most iconic elements fans know and love about the Teletubbies and designed a playful Collection with fashion flair that we hope fans will love to wear this Pride Month and all year-long,” he added.

Proceeds from the limited-edition collection will benefit LGBTQ media advocacy organization, GLAAD.

The custom two-piece suit is at a suggested retail price of $4,995. Other products include pins, tank tops, tees, bucket hats, suggested at between $10.99 and $34.99 retail price.

The announcement has been met with excitement by adults who grew up with the show, many of whom have long celebrated Tinky Winky as a queer icon.

The character’s queerness was brought to light by, of all people, anti-LGBTQ televangelist pastor Jerry Falwell, who, in 1999, declared Tinky Winky a gay role model because he carried a purse, sported the gay pride color, and had an antenna shaped like a triangle (a symbol of Pride.)

LGBTQ people and allies embraced Falwell’s claims and uplifted Tinky Winky to icon status.

Now, with the Pride collection, those memories are flooding back, and fans are celebrating that the Teletubbies have not only finally “come out,” but have done so in style.

You can find the full collection available for purchase now at Teletubbiespride.com.

Kingsboro Golf Club announces new ownership | News, Sports, Jobs – Gloversville Leader-Herald

From left, Tanyalynnette Grimes, Chief Executive Officer and Managing Member, and Bradley Teetz, Chief Operating Officer stand by the Kingsboro Golf Club & Restaurant sign at the entrance of the property on May 13. (Photo submitted)

GLOVERSVILLE – The Kingsboro Golf Club announced that the historic club is now under new ownership by the Micropolis Development Group, a local Fulton County Community Developing organization.

Micropolis will oversee all operations including golf, agronomy, food and beverage, and sales and marketing for the nine-hole, public facility.

The new owners have already embarked on an extensive overhaul land redevelopment of the greens and club-house facility. The immediate renovation plans are to move the golfing operations back into the original Pro-Shop which is situated in an original structure cottage just west of the main club house.

Crews are also scheduled to begin work on creating a “Club on the Green” in the old Pro Shop building to service drinks and snacks for the golfers who don’t wish to sit down at the newly redesigned on-premises restaurant.

Significant work is already underway, as the surface greens are being expeditiously and meticulously managed to ensure a great playing field for the new season. New golf carts will be arriving in the fall of 2021.

“Gloversville is a beautiful community filled with great people and has an amazing potential to be the IT space for life in Upstate. The course and club facilities at Kingsboro is a prime example of how the enduring spirit of the Adirondacks is still alive and well. It just needs to be handed over and loved by the new generation who are willing and ready to make it their own. In addition to our Main Street redevelopment efforts, this property is a keystone as to the heart and mission of how Micropolis Development Group is actively investing in the future of Gloversville. It’s not just about buying properties; it’s about creating sustainable businesses that employ people and serve the community by bringing positive change to Gloversville over the next 100 years” said CEO Tanyalynnette Grimes in a news release.

The original clubhouse and existing “Double Eagle Restaurant and Bar” is being rebranded and renovated. The facility will now be called “The Pines Restaurant and Event Center” and will feature a modern Brunch menu with such items as lemon ricotta blueberry pancakes and french toast casserole with local breakfast meats and eggs as well as traditional light-faire club-lunch salads and sandwiches.

Dinner will be a more upscale dining experience with roasted chicken, prime rib and an assortment of modern flavor plates and vegan/vegetarian selections. The heart of the restaurant will focus on Hyper-local farm-to-plate and seasonal favorites. In addition to several Golf-tournaments scheduled for the regular season, there are already plans for community events to take place at the golf course such as “Gay Day at the Pines” on June 26 (A Pride Festival and Glow-Golf event), The Great American Music and BBQ Festival (July) and a Fall Festival with hot air balloons (Oct. 9) and hay rides.

The facility is also planning on installing a Holiday-Lights at the Pines (drive-thru holiday light display) with hot chocolate and Santa, as well as seasonal tubing park with tow lines and cross-country skiing paths as soon as the 2021 winter season.

“Our goal is to make the Golf Course a full-year outdoor event space that has something for everyone each season, as well as some amazing events that will really bring the community back together for food, fun and frolic,” Grimes said in the release.

Opening for play in 1928, the Historic Kingsboro Golf Club is celebrating its 93rd season in 2021 as a continuously open Golf Course. Always open to the public from 7 a.m. until dusk daily and boasting an exquisite view of the beautiful Adirondack Mountains, the nine-hole “Kingsboro” course at the Kingsboro Golf Club facility in Gloversville, features 3,050 yards of golf from the longest tees for a par of 3.

The course rating is 35.0 and it has a slope rating of 113.

For more information about Micropolis Development Group or Kingsboro Golf LLC, please contact Grimes at trgrimes@micropolisdevelopment.com, or Bradley Teetz, COO, atbteetz@micropolisdevelopment.com.

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How to Plan Your Post-Vaccine Family Reunion Trip – The Wall Street Journal

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FOR SHEENA SUAREZ, having to watch her only brother get married via Facebook Live last February was “the last straw.” The Brooklynite had already endured an entire pandemic pregnancy and birth with no way to share the experience with her siblings in real life, even as her newborn doubled in size. Ms. Suarez’s family hadn’t gathered since June 2019. So, last month, on the occasion of her parents’ 40th wedding anniversary, nine members of her extended clan drove from Brooklyn and Richmond, Va., converging on a hotel in Virginia Beach. Like many Americans newly emboldened by the Covid vaccine, Ms. Suarez was eager to both take a long overdue vacation and see her family. “Time to me now is so precious,” she said. “Without the pandemic, actually, I wouldn’t have appreciated that.” If they’d been seeing each other every other month, as in other years, “it wouldn’t be a reunion. It would be a regular visit.”

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After enduring lockdowns, the chaos of working and schooling at home, unreliable reopenings and messy vaccination rollouts, families are battle-ready for familiar foes: siblings, uncles, aunts and cousins. An April survey by Vacasa, a vacation-rental management platform, found that family reunions were the top travel priority for Americans, accounting for 32% of group travel plans (weddings represented 15%). Compared with the company’s February survey, plans for extended family vacations increased from 5 to 13%, while immediate family trips increased from 17 to 28%.

At Brasada Ranch, families compete in Olympics-style watersports competitions.

And Vacasa is seeing those intentions play out in its bookings, said Natalia Sutin, vice president of revenue management. “For many of our top vacation destinations, we already have double the reservations for June, July, and August of this year compared with the same point in 2019.” Properties on North Carolina’s Outer Banks islands are already at 90% occupancy, she said. “The more bedrooms the house has, the further out it should be booked,” she advised. Now that the pandemic has blurred the difference between Wednesdays and Saturdays, Ms. Sutin noted the viability of midweek bookings, which tend to yield more options. “You’re not limited to the weekend anymore.”

Brush Creek Ranch, set on 30,000 acres in south-central Wyoming, offers a number of outdoor excursions for active families, including horseback riding, ATV rides, rock climbing, hikes and mountain bike rides. The obsessive runners in the family can sign up for guided trail runs.

Photo: Brush Creek Luxury Ranch Collection

Demand is so high that the Westin Cape Coral Resort in Cape Coral, Fla., created a chief reunions officer position in February. Tosha Wollney, a catering sales executive, took on that role. “[Families are] so anxious to get together and they have so many things to celebrate,” she said. In years past, she added, reunion planners typically just reserved a block of rooms, but now they’re arranging for their group to participate in golf tournaments, fishing charters, sunset cruises and banquet dinners, “really enhancing the experience.”

The last thing family reunions want or need is dead air or awkward silence, so many are planned to the hilt. At Brasada Ranch, near Bend, Ore., families can compete in an Olympics-style watersports competition, winning first-, second-, and third-place ribbons in belly-flops, bobslides, cannonballs and rubber ducky relays. Other clans embark on property-wide scavenger hunts. And this summer Brasada is offering “cowboy cookouts” with lasso lessons, pony rides and panning for gold.

The Trailhead Lodge at Brush Creek Ranch accommodates 13 guest quarters. Family groups of up to 29 looking for more together time can also book one of two other “private ranches” elsewhere on the property.

Photo: Brush Creek Luxury Ranch Collection

“Ranches are very popular for reunions,” said Edith Wagner, the founding editor of Reunions magazine, who has noticed growing interest in get-togethers in suburban areas and rural hinterlands. Ranches have the advantage of being appealingly remote, said Ms. Wagner.

The dictum “hell is other people” is reflected in the appeal of family reunions that offer a degree of isolation or at least separation from other people’s families. Why travel across the country after months of confinement just to share hotel elevators, dining space and pools with strangers? Across the board, industry leaders pointed to privacy as a priority in family-reunion planning.

Family reunion packages at the Whaler’s Inn, in Mystic, Conn., for example, offer private chef four-course dinners, private tours of the local aquarium, private wine tastings at a local vineyard, and a private tour of the historic seaport, with guests shuttled to all in private cars.

A four-legged visitor at Inn by the Sea, a pet-friendly hotel in Cape Elizabeth, Maine.

Photo: Inn by the Sea

Exclusive Resorts, a members-only vacation club where a 10-year membership starts at $150,000, has also seen more demand recently from privacy-seeking broods. The club’s portfolio consists of 360 luxury homes around the world and each booking comes with a concierge who can stock the refrigerator with favorite foods, coordinate activities, and, as of last year, arrange on-site Covid testing, even abroad. “The new normal of travel has always been our normal,” said CEO James Henderson, noting that the last three quarters have been the best three quarters for membership sales in a decade. The company currently has 4,200 members, said Mr. Henderson.

For some families, reunions have taken on a vital new purpose in the context of a social-justice renaissance. “Speaking as an African-American woman, ‘family reunion’ is meaning more to me than it’s ever meant,” said Sheila Johnson, co-founder of the BET network and owner of Salamander Resort in Virginia wine country. “So many families—especially of color—in this day and age are purposely getting together to reconnect and again build continuity across their generations,” she said, adding: “We can redefine the reunion; it needs to have purpose. It’s not just getting together. Yes, we have barbecues. We dance. We have fun. We reconnect with hugs and kisses. But it has a serious note: How do we move this generation forward?”

A guest room at the Salamander Resort and Spa in Virginia.

Photo: Justin Kriel

Gay men as well, who are well-acquainted with the losses and tolls of surviving the HIV/AIDS epidemic, have rallied around what they often call their “chosen family.” As Daniel Nardicio, a New York nightlife producer and co-owner of Reflections resort on New York’s Fire Island, explained. “A lot of time the family you’re born with doesn’t accept you, so you have to start surrounding yourself with people who accept you for who you are: gay, trans, bi, whatever.” He continued: “It’s not just gay pride; it’s gay community. I used to always think ‘Oh, I wish I had a brother!’ and then came to find out that all these people who have siblings don’t even really talk to them. So my friends are my brothers.”

But be careful what you wish for—large families bring their own challenges. For Karen Geiger, what was a 19-member family reunion in 1990 will this year be a 55-member party, with family flying in from states including Massachusetts, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Florida, North Carolina and Utah. She’s rented a 27-bedroom house in the Outer Banks for this summer. “The biggest thing is to bring supplies: towels, paper towels, cleaning supplies,” she said. “Plan every meal. It’s been the same meals for the last 10 times.” Nobody wants 30 or 40 relatives arguing over pizza toppings every night. But her top tip is counterintuitive: “Respect what anyone needs to do as far as time by themselves—when they say ‘I’ve had enough. I’m going to my room. Come get me in two hours with a drink in hand, please.’” Daily specialty cocktails help, she added. And a final pointer: “Oh, we have our drinking games at night, trust me.”

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Resorts well equipped for family reunions

The Napili Kai Beach Resort on Maui offers families an hour with a professional photographer.

Photo: Douglas Peebles

For Outdoor Adventurists

Big Cedar Lodge, Ridgedale, Mo.

Half the clan can get excited by the free canoes and kayaks at this Ozarks retreat while the other half explores golf courses and glamping options. From $400 a night, bigcedar.com

For Competitive Clans

Brasada Ranch, Powell Butte, Oreg.

A summer-camp vibe gives an old-fashioned glow to activities from archery and arts-and-crafts lessons to scavenger hunts and a family Olympics of watersports. From $290 a night, brasada.com

For Luxury-loving Dudes and Dudettes

Brush Creek Ranch, Saratoga, Wyo.

Remote and elegantly rustic, it offers any number of outdoor diversions, including fly-fishing, horseback riding and rock climbing. From $1,250 per person per night, brushcreekranch.com

For Four-legged Family Members

Inn by the Sea, Cape Elizabeth, Maine

Forget pet fees or weight limits at this coastal hotel. Pooch perks include gourmet meals, handmade treats at turndown and pet-friendly beaches and trails. From $650 a night, innbythesea.com

For Tightknit Groups of Gay Friends

La Dolce Vita, Palm Springs, Calif.

This men’s desert resort bills itself as the only game in town with a professional men’s spa—plus a hot tub, steam rooms and heated pools for cold nights. For guests, it’s all clothing-optional. From $240 a night, ladolcevitaresort.com

For Photogenic Gene Pools

Napili Kai Beach Resort, Maui, Hawaii

How does a beach resort among all the other Hawaiian beach resorts up its game? By offering families an hour with a professional photographer to capture their bucket-list bonding. From $340 a night, napilikai.com

For Spa Junkies and Equestrians in Training

Salamander Resort, Middleburg, Va.

Spread across 340 acres in northern Virginia, Salamander Resort and Spa is equal parts indulgence and outdoor diversions, from horseback riding to wine tasting to zip lining. From $700 a night, salamanderresort.com

For Leaf-peepers

Skamania Lodge, Stevenson, Wash.

The forested seclusion here—heightened by widely coveted treehouse accommodations—and team-building exercises such as axe-throwing and escape rooms are well worth all the “family tree” dad jokes. From $289 a night, skamania.com

For Dolly Parton Fans

Dollywood’s DreamMore, Pigeon Forge, Tenn.

Dolly Parton’s big-hearted getaway offers plenty of discounts and perks. Highlights include her theme parks in Pigeon Forge but also lots of loving little touches like a storytelling service for kids and a full-service spa for grownups. From $200 a night, dollywood.com/resort

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Family Reunion Trips: Inspiring Ideas and Foolproof Strategies – The Wall Street Journal

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FOR SHEENA SUAREZ, having to watch her only brother get married via Facebook Live last February was “the last straw.” The Brooklynite had already endured an entire pandemic pregnancy and birth with no way to share the experience with her siblings in real life, even as her newborn doubled in size. Ms. Suarez’s family hadn’t gathered since June 2019. So, last month, on the occasion of her parents’ 40th wedding anniversary, nine members of her extended clan drove from Brooklyn and Richmond, Va., converging on a hotel in Virginia Beach. Like many Americans newly emboldened by the Covid vaccine, Ms. Suarez was eager to both take a long overdue vacation and see her family. “Time to me now is so precious,” she said. “Without the pandemic, actually, I wouldn’t have appreciated that.” If they’d been seeing each other every other month, as in other years, “it wouldn’t be a reunion. It would be a regular visit.”

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Are you planning a family getaway this summer? Join the conversation below.

After enduring lockdowns, the chaos of working and schooling at home, unreliable reopenings and messy vaccination rollouts, families are battle-ready for familiar foes: siblings, uncles, aunts and cousins. An April survey by Vacasa, a vacation-rental management platform, found that family reunions were the top travel priority for Americans, accounting for 32% of group travel plans (weddings represented 15%). Compared with the company’s February survey, plans for extended family vacations increased from 5 to 13%, while immediate family trips increased from 17 to 28%.

At Brasada Ranch, families compete in Olympics-style watersports competitions.

And Vacasa is seeing those intentions play out in its bookings, said Natalia Sutin, vice president of revenue management. “For many of our top vacation destinations, we already have double the reservations for June, July, and August of this year compared with the same point in 2019.” Properties on North Carolina’s Outer Banks islands are already at 90% occupancy, she said. “The more bedrooms the house has, the further out it should be booked,” she advised. Now that the pandemic has blurred the difference between Wednesdays and Saturdays, Ms. Sutin noted the viability of midweek bookings, which tend to yield more options. “You’re not limited to the weekend anymore.”

Brush Creek Ranch, set on 30,000 acres in south-central Wyoming, offers a number of outdoor excursions for active families, including horseback riding, ATV rides, rock climbing, hikes and mountain bike rides. The obsessive runners in the family can sign up for guided trail runs.

Photo: Brush Creek Luxury Ranch Collection

Demand is so high that the Westin Cape Coral Resort in Cape Coral, Fla., created a chief reunions officer position in February. Tosha Wollney, a catering sales executive, took on that role. “[Families are] so anxious to get together and they have so many things to celebrate,” she said. In years past, she added, reunion planners typically just reserved a block of rooms, but now they’re arranging for their group to participate in golf tournaments, fishing charters, sunset cruises and banquet dinners, “really enhancing the experience.”

The last thing family reunions want or need is dead air or awkward silence, so many are planned to the hilt. At Brasada Ranch, near Bend, Ore., families can compete in an Olympics-style watersports competition, winning first-, second-, and third-place ribbons in belly-flops, bobslides, cannonballs and rubber ducky relays. Other clans embark on property-wide scavenger hunts. And this summer Brasada is offering “cowboy cookouts” with lasso lessons, pony rides and panning for gold.

The Trailhead Lodge at Brush Creek Ranch accommodates 13 guest quarters. Family groups of up to 29 looking for more together time can also book one of two other “private ranches” elsewhere on the property.

Photo: Brush Creek Luxury Ranch Collection

“Ranches are very popular for reunions,” said Edith Wagner, the founding editor of Reunions magazine, who has noticed growing interest in get-togethers in suburban areas and rural hinterlands. Ranches have the advantage of being appealingly remote, said Ms. Wagner.

The dictum “hell is other people” is reflected in the appeal of family reunions that offer a degree of isolation or at least separation from other people’s families. Why travel across the country after months of confinement just to share hotel elevators, dining space and pools with strangers? Across the board, industry leaders pointed to privacy as a priority in family-reunion planning.

Family reunion packages at the Whaler’s Inn, in Mystic, Conn., for example, offer private chef four-course dinners, private tours of the local aquarium, private wine tastings at a local vineyard, and a private tour of the historic seaport, with guests shuttled to all in private cars.

A four-legged visitor at Inn by the Sea, a pet-friendly hotel in Cape Elizabeth, Maine.

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Exclusive Resorts, a members-only vacation club where a 10-year membership starts at $150,000, has also seen more demand recently from privacy-seeking broods. The club’s portfolio consists of 360 luxury homes around the world and each booking comes with a concierge who can stock the refrigerator with favorite foods, coordinate activities, and, as of last year, arrange on-site Covid testing, even abroad. “The new normal of travel has always been our normal,” said CEO James Henderson, noting that the last three quarters have been the best three quarters for membership sales in a decade. The company currently has 4,200 members, said Mr. Henderson.

For some families, reunions have taken on a vital new purpose in the context of a social-justice renaissance. “Speaking as an African-American woman, ‘family reunion’ is meaning more to me than it’s ever meant,” said Sheila Johnson, co-founder of the BET network and owner of Salamander Resort in Virginia wine country. “So many families—especially of color—in this day and age are purposely getting together to reconnect and again build continuity across their generations,” she said, adding: “We can redefine the reunion; it needs to have purpose. It’s not just getting together. Yes, we have barbecues. We dance. We have fun. We reconnect with hugs and kisses. But it has a serious note: How do we move this generation forward?”

A guest room at the Salamander Resort and Spa in Virginia.

Photo: Justin Kriel

Gay men as well, who are well-acquainted with the losses and tolls of surviving the HIV/AIDS epidemic, have rallied around what they often call their “chosen family.” As Daniel Nardicio, a New York nightlife producer and co-owner of Reflections resort on New York’s Fire Island, explained. “A lot of time the family you’re born with doesn’t accept you, so you have to start surrounding yourself with people who accept you for who you are: gay, trans, bi, whatever.” He continued: “It’s not just gay pride; it’s gay community. I used to always think ‘Oh, I wish I had a brother!’ and then came to find out that all these people who have siblings don’t even really talk to them. So my friends are my brothers.”

But be careful what you wish for—large families bring their own challenges. For Karen Geiger, what was a 19-member family reunion in 1990 will this year be a 55-member party, with family flying in from states including Massachusetts, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Florida, North Carolina and Utah. She’s rented a 27-bedroom house in the Outer Banks for this summer. “The biggest thing is to bring supplies: towels, paper towels, cleaning supplies,” she said. “Plan every meal. It’s been the same meals for the last 10 times.” Nobody wants 30 or 40 relatives arguing over pizza toppings every night. But her top tip is counterintuitive: “Respect what anyone needs to do as far as time by themselves—when they say ‘I’ve had enough. I’m going to my room. Come get me in two hours with a drink in hand, please.’” Daily specialty cocktails help, she added. And a final pointer: “Oh, we have our drinking games at night, trust me.”

BROOD AWAKENING

Resorts well equipped for family reunions

The Napili Kai Beach Resort on Maui offers families an hour with a professional photographer.

Photo: Douglas Peebles

For Outdoor Adventurists

Big Cedar Lodge, Ridgedale, Mo.

Half the clan can get excited by the free canoes and kayaks at this Ozarks retreat while the other half explores golf courses and glamping options. From $400 a night, bigcedar.com

For Competitive Clans

Brasada Ranch, Powell Butte, Oreg.

A summer-camp vibe gives an old-fashioned glow to activities from archery and arts-and-crafts lessons to scavenger hunts and a family Olympics of watersports. From $290 a night, brasada.com

For Luxury-loving Dudes and Dudettes

Brush Creek Ranch, Saratoga, Wyo.

Remote and elegantly rustic, it offers any number of outdoor diversions, including fly-fishing, horseback riding and rock climbing. From $1,250 per person per night, brushcreekranch.com

For Four-legged Family Members

Inn by the Sea, Cape Elizabeth, Maine

Forget pet fees or weight limits at this coastal hotel. Pooch perks include gourmet meals, handmade treats at turndown and pet-friendly beaches and trails. From $650 a night, innbythesea.com

For Tightknit Groups of Gay Friends

La Dolce Vita, Palm Springs, Calif.

This men’s desert resort bills itself as the only game in town with a professional men’s spa—plus a hot tub, steam rooms and heated pools for cold nights. For guests, it’s all clothing-optional. From $240 a night, ladolcevitaresort.com

For Photogenic Gene Pools

Napili Kai Beach Resort, Maui, Hawaii

How does a beach resort among all the other Hawaiian beach resorts up its game? By offering families an hour with a professional photographer to capture their bucket-list bonding. From $340 a night, napilikai.com

For Spa Junkies and Equestrians in Training

Salamander Resort, Middleburg, Va.

Spread across 340 acres in northern Virginia, Salamander Resort and Spa is equal parts indulgence and outdoor diversions, from horseback riding to wine tasting to zip lining. From $700 a night, salamanderresort.com

For Leaf-peepers

Skamania Lodge, Stevenson, Wash.

The forested seclusion here—heightened by widely coveted treehouse accommodations—and team-building exercises such as axe-throwing and escape rooms are well worth all the “family tree” dad jokes. From $289 a night, skamania.com

For Dolly Parton Fans

Dollywood’s DreamMore, Pigeon Forge, Tenn.

Dolly Parton’s big-hearted getaway offers plenty of discounts and perks. Highlights include her theme parks in Pigeon Forge but also lots of loving little touches like a storytelling service for kids and a full-service spa for grownups. From $200 a night, dollywood.com/resort

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Canada extends curbs on flights from India, Pakistan – National Herald

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“To continue managing the elevated risk of imported Covid-19 cases into Canada, the Government of Canada has extended the Notice to Airmen (NOTAM) restricting all direct commercial and private passenger flights to Canada from India and Pakistan until June 21,” Xinhua news agency quoted the PHAC as saying.

Canada also extends the requirement for air passengers who depart India or Pakistan to Canada, via an indirect route, to obtain a Covid-19 pre-departure test from a third country before continuing their journey to Canada and continues the mandatory pre-arrival, on-arrival, and post-arrival testing requirements; mandatory hotel stopover for air travellers; and mandatory 14-day quarantine for travellers.

“It has been decided based on public health advice that this is not the right time to loosen any border control measures,” Transport Minister Omar Alghabra said at a press conference on Friday.