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UK Government Launch Global LGBT Conference: Safe To Be Me In June 2022 – Bustle

Safe To Be Me: A Global Equality Conference will be the government’s first LGBT conference of its kind held in the UK. The conference, which take place in June 2022, will coincide with the 50th anniversary of the first official London Pride marches. It aims to “tackle inequality around the world, and urge countries to take action.”

The event will see policymakers, elected officials, activists, and experts come together to “protect and promote the rights of LGBT people around the world,” according to the government site.

Speaking about Safe To Be Me, the chair of the event, Nick Herbert (Lord Herbert of South Downs) said: “Across the world, 69 countries still criminalise consensual same-sex acts. The UK is considered a leader on LGBT equality, having legalised same-sex marriage and introduced one of the world’s most comprehensive legislative frameworks for protecting LGBT people from discrimination.”

The conference comes after Liz Truss, Minister for Women and Equalities, disbanded the previous LGBT Advisory Panel, which was set up by former Prime minister Theresa May in 2018. Its closing left many concerned the government were not taking the rights of LGBTQ+ people seriously. However, Truss commented on Safe To Be Me: “I want everyone to be able to live their life free from prejudice, malice, or violence, regardless of their background or who they choose to love.”

Already, campaigners and activists have criticised the UK government for not doing enough for the LGBTQ+ community. Journalist and author of LGBTQ+ rights book, We Can Do Better Than This, Amelia Abraham said to the Guardian: “The prime minister should deal with some of the huge issues facing LGBTQ+ people here before holding the UK up as a bastion of progress.”

On May 20, the government rejected a petition calling to make non-binary a legally recognised gender. In response to the petition, the government stated: “Following a considerable amount of consultation with the public and representative organisations, the Government decided that the current provisions within the GRA allow for those that wish to legally change their sex to do so fairly. The 2018 GRA consultation did not bring forward any proposals to extend the GRA to provide legal recognition to a third, or non-binary, gender.”

Countries that legally recognise non-binary or third gender classifications include Germany, Malta, New Zealand, Nepal, Pakistan, Argentina and India.

Meanwhile, the BBC reports that transphobic hate crime has quadrupled over the past five years in the UK. Just this week, the head of media at LGBTQ+ charity Stonewall UK, Jeffrey Ingold, has stepped back from the role due to the “tsunami of transphobia” he said he has experienced.

In addition to this, so-called “gay conversion” practices are technically still legal in the UK, as the Guardian reports. The government has said these practices will be banned, but haven’t confirmed when this will be. Liz Truss said: “As soon as parliamentary time allows, and following a consultation, the ban will be introduced in parliamentary legislation.”

Ahead of the Safe To Be Me conference, there will be a series of virtual events. Meanwhile, the UK and Argentina are currently co-charing the Equal Rights Coalition (ERC), and will be launching their strategy and five-year plan for LGBT rights at a meeting in July 2021.

Painting my nails doesn’t make me gay – Kwabena Kwabena debunks rumours – GhanaWeb

Entertainment of Tuesday, 25 May 2021

Source: www.ghanaweb.com

Highlife musician, Kwabena Kwabena Highlife musician, Kwabena Kwabena

Kwabena Kwabena has stated that he is not gay

• He indicates that it unwise to judge someone based on their style of dressing

• The musician explained that he paints his nails to prevent him from chewing them

Ghanaian highlife musician, Kwabena Kwabena has shot down claims which suggest that he is “gay” due to his recent fashion sense.

According to him, people must not judge him based on his “new style” of dressing which he noted is his liberation.

The artiste has on several occasions been spotted with painted nails, this a section of the public has associated to features of men who are gay.

But reacting to this in an interview on Hitz FM monitored by GhanaWeb, he indicated: “Painting my nails is basically my freedom; my liberation; it is just for myself. I woke up one morning and decided to paint y nails. I had the habit of chewing my nails. Painting my nails has helped me in controlling that.”

“People are really talking about my sexuality from a photo? Wow! We have a long way to go.”

He added: “For any human being, who makes judgement based on a photo, know what the person does in the bedroom, then that person is a supernatural human being and is it not wise. I am sorry.”

The singer who has been missing from the music scene for some time now explained that he took a break to work on his album titled “Fa Me Saa.”

As Japan Olympics Begin, Local Groups Say Anti-Trans, Anti-Gay Remarks ‘Less-than-Equality’ Bill Violate Games’ Charter – Towleroad

olympics

As Japan prepares to host the delayed 2020 Summer Olympics in July, pro-LGBTQ organizations have accused the nation’s ruling political party of violating the Olympic Charter’s anti-discrimination statutes over homophobic and transphobic remarks made by lawmakers.

The debate over legal protections for Japan’s LGBTQ populations has been ongoing for years as public support for such measures continually grew, but a recent series of closed door meetings discussing the nation’s Equality Act elicited abhorrent comments from officials representing the Liberal Democratic party (LDP), the conservative party currently in power.

According to Human Rights Watch, LDP members of the Diet, Japan’s parliament, played the greatest hits of discriminatory arguments against granted equal protections to LGBTQ people. In a speech named “The LGBT issue is getting out of control,” LDP adviser Koji Shigeuchi said LGBTQ protections would allow people to claim they were “a man today and a woman tomorrow,” that trans people are a threat to cisgender women and told a trans official in the audience that her hormone therapy shouldn’t be covered by health insurance companies because she is “healthy” and “should live with the body you were born with.”

Other LDP officials claimed that “LGBT goes against the preservation of the human race” and LGBTQ people are “resisting the preservation of the species that occurs naturally in biological terms.” Former cabinet minister Eriko Yamatani echoed similar false statements being used throughout the U.S. state legislatures to target trans women and girls. “It is ridiculous that there are those that have a male body, but say they are women and therefore should be allowed to use the women’s restroom, or like in the U.S., participate in women’s sports and win tons of medals,” said Yamatani.

LGBT people deserve to be safe, welcome and included in all areas of life…

Hudson Taylor

Human Rights Watch noted that the LDP officials’ comments violate the International Olympic Committee’s Olympic Charter, which states that its “rights and freedoms … shall be secured without discrimination of any kind.”

In a joint statement, LGBTQ advocacy organizations Pride House Tokyo and Athlete Ally called for the passage of Japan’s Equality Act before the Olympics begin on July 23 and decried the LDP’s remarks. “How can athletes truly feel safe playing in a country where a member of the ruling party makes such discriminatory remarks? I can imagine this is particularly heartbreaking for the LGBTQ youth,” said Pride House Tokyo Executive Director Gon Matsunaka.

“LGBT people deserve to be safe, welcome and included in all areas of life, including public restrooms, locker rooms and while playing sports,” said Athlete Ally Executive Director Hudson Taylor. “The comments made by members of parliament are not only deeply hurtful to LGBT people everywhere and their allies, but also are based in myths and misconceptions.”

The current debate over the proposed Equality Act in the Diet has also drawn criticism toward the LDP for persistent attempts to weaken the protections it grants before it likely heads to a vote before the current legislative session ends in June. The LDP committed to passing LGBTQ legislation earlier this year, but officials have promoted a bill that would “promote understanding of LGBT people” rather than extend civil rights protections to the community. The recent comments call into question the party’s initial commitment to pass such measures in the first place.

An Olympic first slated to happen at the 2020 Summer Olympics put the LDP’s comments directly in the spotlight as well. New Zealand weightlifter Laurel Hubbard will become the first trans athlete to compete at the Olympics when the games get underway in July.

“Transgender athletes participate in sport for the same reason anyone else does — for the joy it brings them, the invaluable lessons about teamwork and discipline that sport brings, and for the love of the game,” Taylor said. “There is nothing immoral or unnatural about LGBT people being proudly and authentically who they are.”

Photo courtesy of Kenji-Baptiste OIKAWA/Creative Commons

As Olympics Begin, Local Groups Say Anti-Trans, Anti-Gay Remarks ‘Less-than-Equality’ Bill Violate Games’ Charter – Towleroad

olympics

As Japan prepares to host the delayed 2020 Summer Olympics in July, pro-LGBTQ organizations have accused the nation’s ruling political party of violating the Olympic Charter’s anti-discrimination statutes over homophobic and transphobic remarks made by lawmakers.

The debate over legal protections for Japan’s LGBTQ populations has been ongoing for years as public support for such measures continually grew, but a recent series of closed door meetings discussing the nation’s Equality Act elicited abhorrent comments from officials representing the Liberal Democratic party (LDP), the conservative party currently in power.

According to Human Rights Watch, LDP members of the Diet, Japan’s parliament, played the greatest hits of discriminatory arguments against granted equal protections to LGBTQ people. In a speech named “The LGBT issue is getting out of control,” LDP adviser Koji Shigeuchi said LGBTQ protections would allow people to claim they were “a man today and a woman tomorrow,” that trans people are a threat to cisgender women and told a trans official in the audience that her hormone therapy shouldn’t be covered by health insurance companies because she is “healthy” and “should live with the body you were born with.”

Other LDP officials claimed that “LGBT goes against the preservation of the human race” and LGBTQ people are “resisting the preservation of the species that occurs naturally in biological terms.” Former cabinet minister Eriko Yamatani echoed similar false statements being used throughout the U.S. state legislatures to target trans women and girls. “It is ridiculous that there are those that have a male body, but say they are women and therefore should be allowed to use the women’s restroom, or like in the U.S., participate in women’s sports and win tons of medals,” said Yamatani.

LGBT people deserve to be safe, welcome and included in all areas of life…

Hudson Taylor

Human Rights Watch noted that the LDP officials’ comments violate the International Olympic Committee’s Olympic Charter, which states that its “rights and freedoms … shall be secured without discrimination of any kind.”

In a joint statement, LGBTQ advocacy organizations Pride House Tokyo and Athlete Ally called for the passage of Japan’s Equality Act before the Olympics begin on July 23 and decried the LDP’s remarks. “How can athletes truly feel safe playing in a country where a member of the ruling party makes such discriminatory remarks? I can imagine this is particularly heartbreaking for the LGBTQ youth,” said Pride House Tokyo Executive Director Gon Matsunaka.

“LGBT people deserve to be safe, welcome and included in all areas of life, including public restrooms, locker rooms and while playing sports,” said Athlete Ally Executive Director Hudson Taylor. “The comments made by members of parliament are not only deeply hurtful to LGBT people everywhere and their allies, but also are based in myths and misconceptions.”

The current debate over the proposed Equality Act in the Diet has also drawn criticism toward the LDP for persistent attempts to weaken the protections it grants before it likely heads to a vote before the current legislative session ends in June. The LDP committed to passing LGBTQ legislation earlier this year, but officials have promoted a bill that would “promote understanding of LGBT people” rather than extend civil rights protections to the community. The recent comments call into question the party’s initial commitment to pass such measures in the first place.

An Olympic first slated to happen at the 2020 Summer Olympics put the LDP’s comments directly in the spotlight as well. New Zealand weightlifter Laurel Hubbard will become the first trans athlete to compete at the Olympics when the games get underway in July.

“Transgender athletes participate in sport for the same reason anyone else does — for the joy it brings them, the invaluable lessons about teamwork and discipline that sport brings, and for the love of the game,” Taylor said. “There is nothing immoral or unnatural about LGBT people being proudly and authentically who they are.”

Photo courtesy of Kenji-Baptiste OIKAWA/Creative Commons

Russian Prosecutors Want Ban On Same-Sex Kissing Ads – Big News Network

Russian prosecutors have called a ban on two Instagram advertisements for the Italian fashion house Dolce & Gabbana that show same-sex couples kissing.

The press service for the St. Petersburg courts announced that the Oktyabrsky district court had received a claim from the prosecutor’s office asking for the move against one of the Dolce & Gabbana Instagram ads because two women are shown kissing in it.

According to the plaintiff, the video ‘contains information that rejects family values and propagandizes nontraditional sexual relationships.’

The press service said the prosecutor’s request included a second Dolce & Gabbana Instagram image showing two men kissing.

The complaints were filed by Mikhail Romanov, a member of the ruling United Russia party who sits in the State Duma, the lower house of parliament.

Dolce & Gabbana has declined to comment on the case.

The two short videos under fire were part of its global Love Is Love campaign in the run-up to Valentine’s Day on February 14.

While same-sex relationships are legal in Russia, President Vladimir Putin has promoted a ‘traditional values’ agenda, including by adopting in 2013 a law criminalizing ‘propaganda of nontraditional sexual relations among minors.’

The legislation has caused many members of Russia’s lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community to leave the country.

The prosecutor’s claim has not progressed yet because it had not fulfilled certain administrative requirements, including providing documents supporting the claim, according to the press service for the St. Petersburg courts.

It said information on the case will next be updated on June 7.

With reporting by Reuters and TASS

Copyright (c) 2018. RFE/RL, Inc. Republished with the permission of Radio Free Europe/Radio Liberty, 1201 Connecticut Ave NW, Ste 400, Washington DC 20036

HPV vaccine shows success in gay, bisexual men – EurekAlert

A study by Monash University and Alfred Health found a 70 per cent reduction in one type of human papillomavirus (HPV) in gay and bisexual men after the implementation of the school-based HPV vaccination program.

The HYPER2 study, published in The Lancet Infectious Diseases, and led by Associate Professor Eric Chow, found there was a significant reduction in all four vaccine-preventable genotypes in gay/bisexual men aged 16-20 years following the introduction of the vaccine for boys in 2013.

Australia is one of the first and few countries that have both boys and girls vaccination programs for HPV. The vaccine covers four genotypes: 6/11/16/18. Genotypes 6/11 cause about 90 per cent of the genital wart cases and genotypes 16/18 cause about 70 per cent of cervical and anal cancers.

This is the first study to show that the implementation of the gender-neutral program can reduce high-risk anal HPV and potentially reduce the incidence of anal cancer in gay and bisexual men.

This repeated cross-sectional study recruited 400 gay and bisexual men with a median age of 19 years from sexual health clinics and the community in Melbourne.

The results are compared with the HYPER1 group of 200 gay/bisexual men pre-vaccination in 2010-2012 and the HYPER2 group of 200 gay/bisexual men post-vaccination in 2017-2018.

It showed a reduction in anal quadrivalent genotypes from 28 per cent down to 7.3 per cent and penile quadrivalent genotypes also lower in the post-vaccination group 6.1 per cent compared to 11.9 per cent.

Anal cancer incidence has increased globally among men over the last three decades. It is overrepresented among gay and bisexual men, particularly those living with HIV.

A meta-analysis estimated the incidence of anal cancer to be 45.9 per 100,000 among HIV-positive MSM. Results from the HYPER2 study suggest that male vaccination may lead to a potential reduction in anal cancer among gay and bisexual men in Australia, which is similar to the reduction in cervical cancer among Australian women after the HPV vaccination program launched in 2007.

“Australia has a very successful HPV vaccination program for both boys and girls with high vaccine coverage,” Associate Professor Chow said.

“The vaccine is effective in reducing HPV-related diseases and showing some promising evidence that this may lead to a reduction in HPV-related cancer in the future.”

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Read the full paper in The Lancet Infectious Diseases titled: Prevalence of human papillomavirus in young men who have sex with men after the implementation of gender-neutral HPV vaccination: a repeated cross-sectional study

DOI: 10.1016/S1473-3099(20)30687-3

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Republicans refuse to repeal law that says books about gay topics are obscene – LGBTQ Nation

Democratic lawmakers in Pennsylvania are livid that Republicans voted down an attempt to remove homosexuality from the state’s obscenity statute.

The law bans “the distribution to minors of materials such as books, pictures, and videos which depict ‘acts of homosexuality,’” according to the memo attached to H.B. 1279, which would remove homosexuality from the state’s obscenity law.

Related: Unhinged Trump-supporter wants Brian Sims to ‘prove’ he’s gay

The bill, sponsored by Pennsylvania Rep. Mike Zabel (D), was voted down yesterday in the state House. Democrats in the Republican-controlled chamber are speaking out, denouncing their Republicans who voted to keep homosexuality on the obscenity law.

“Put simply the PA GOP is fine with homosexuality being considered a crime,” tweeted out Pennsylvania Rep. Malcolm Kenyatta (D).

“This shouldn’t have been remotely controversial,” said Zabel. “I’m sorry we didn’t get it through, but we won’t stop trying.”

Out state Rep. Brian Sims (D) called out his Republican colleagues for using procedural means to kill the bill and blamed their “rampant homophobia” for keeping homosexuality in the state’s obscenity law.

“May you never have to see your colleagues vote to keep the ways you love a ‘crime,’” he tweeted.

“This is an issue of basic equality. We won’t give up this fight,” said Pennsylvania Sen. Tim Kearney (D).

Zabel said that he was inspired to repeal the anti-gay law when a town in his district did the same.

“Recently, one of the municipalities I represent, Upper Darby Township, repealed a similar decades-old ordinance and, upon further review, it was discovered that Pennsylvania has such a statue still on the books,” he said. Twenty-three of his colleagues co-sponsored the bill.

Friends joke about Joey Tribbiani being gay ‘cut from original script’ – Metro.co.uk

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Matt LeBlanc as Joey Tribbiani in Friends
A joke about Joey was cut (Picture: J. Delvalle/NBCU Photo Bank/NBCUniversal via Getty Images)

Friends fans may be surprised to learn that the original script featured a joke about Joey Tribbiani (Matt LeBlanc) being gay, which was eventually cut.

Later this week, the original cast of the classic hit sitcom are set to reunite in Friends: The Reunion, with Matt being joined by his co-stars Jennifer Aniston, Courteney Cox, Lisa Kudrow, Matthew Perry and David Schwimmer as they reminisce on the good old days.

While many fans are extremely excited to see the gang get back together, the reunion has received backlash for its failure to include any Black celebrity guest stars in the special, which is being hosted by James Corden.

Friends has been criticised in the past over various aspects of the show, including lack of diversity in the cast, sexist dialogue and fat-shaming – with some people labelling certain plot points ‘homophobic’ and ‘problematic’.

It appears that a memorable episode was supposed to include a reference to Joey possibly being gay, with the aspiring actor known for his womanising ways in the series.

In The One With Ross’s Wedding, the two-part finale for season four which aired in 1998, Rachel Green (Jennifer) decides to stay in New York with a very pregnant Phoebe Buffay (Lisa) rather than travel to London to attend the wedding of her ex Ross Geller (David) and Emily Waltham (Helen Baxendale).

Jennifer Aniston and Lisa Kudrow in Friends
Phoebe would have said the line to Rachel (Picture: Gary Null/NBCU Photo Bank/NBCUniversal via Getty Images)

When Phoebe points out that Rachel isn’t going to the wedding because she still has feelings for Ross, she replies: ‘Phoebe, I’m not going to Ross’s wedding because he is my ex-boyfriend and that would be really uncomfortable. Not because I’m still in love with him.

‘I mean, hey, y’know, I like Ross as much as the next guy, y’know? Clearly I have feelings for him, but feelings don’t mean love. I mean, I still have loving feelings for Ross. Yeah! I have continuing feelings of love, but that doesn’t mean that I’m still in love with him. I have sexual feelings for him, but I do love him. Oh! Oh my God! Why didn’t you tell me?’

At this point, Phoebe states: ‘We thought you knew!’, continuing by explaining: ‘Yeah, we all know! We talk about it all the time… It’s so obvious! God, that would be like telling Monica, “Hey, you like things clean.”‘

However, according to a book of the original script, Phoebe was also supposed to say: ‘Or, “Hey, Joey, you’re gay”,’ as reported by Grazia.

Lisa Kudrow, Matthew Perry, Jennifer Aniston, David Schwimmer, Courteney Cox and Matt LeBlanc in Friends
Friends fans can’t wait to see the cast reunite (Picture: NBCUniversal via Getty Images)

In June 2019, Friends star Jane Sibbett, who played Ross’ first wife Carol Willick, defended the show over its portrayal of her character’s relationship with Susan (Jessica Hecht).

Speaking to Today, she said: ‘We were never poking fun at being gay.

‘We were poking fun at a person who didn’t get it, who was uncomfortable with the concept of us being together.’

‘And that was the great beauty; the great truth in that the joke’s on the people that don’t get it,’ she added. ‘That this is all about love.’

In February 2018, Matt defended Friends over claims of homophobia and fat-shaming, telling the BBC: ‘I’ve heard those rumours too about people taking pot shots at Friends, but I don’t want to get into that. I disagree with all that.’

He continued: ‘On Friends we steered clear of that kind of thing, too. Friends was about themes that stand the test of time – trust, love, relationships, betrayal, family and things like that.’

Friends: The Reunion is set to air on May 27 at 8pm on Sky One and will be available from 8am on demand on Sky and NOW.

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I used to envy gay men who could pass for straight – now I realise it might be a curse – Yahoo Eurosport UK

<p>Author Matt Cain: ‘I’ve spoken to many gay men who came out later in life who’ve told me about the lies they’d spun for decades’</p> (Alicia Clarke)

Author Matt Cain: ‘I’ve spoken to many gay men who came out later in life who’ve told me about the lies they’d spun for decades’

(Alicia Clarke)

“You’re so gay!” Over the years I’ve heard comments like this countless times. Because my gayness is obvious; it’s there in my humour, my taste in music, the way I walk and, in particular, the way I talk. I’ve never had what’s known as “passing privilege” – the ability to pass for straight.

When I was growing up, this prompted savage and relentless homophobic bullying, which shaped who I am and determined my life choices well into adulthood. It also politicised me. Having experienced prejudice first hand, I could hardly deny it existed. I didn’t have the choice of burying my head in the sand.

On the positive side, over the past 20 years my obvious gayness has tended to endear me to people. Often within minutes of meeting me, straight women will tell me they love gays, or all their best friends are gay, or they feel like a “gay man trapped in a woman’s body”. Usually what this means is they’re loud, have a bawdy sense of humour, like drinking or enjoy casual sex and then regaling everyone with stories about it.

Although I’ve always been happy to accept any positive response to my sexuality – sometimes even revelling in it – I’m also very aware that ideas like these can reinforce reductive and often damaging stereotypes. Stereotypes that often don’t apply to gay men with passing privilege.

For a long time, I envied these men. I used to think they had it easy. They could cruise through their school years, maybe snogging the occasional girl to obliterate any traces of suspicion, then come out of the closet when it suited them, usually once they’d bagged themselves a gorgeous boyfriend. (Because they always seemed to bag themselves a gorgeous boyfriend. Amongst gay men, their masculinity was highly prized. As “real men”, we considered them wildly attractive.)

Later in life, however, I’d hear many men with passing privilege complain about female acquaintances inviting them out for dancing or cocktails, or on a shopping or spa day – only to be disappointed by their lack of interest. “You’re not a proper gay,” the girls would tell them. “You might as well be straight.” I’d sometimes hear these men complain about not feeling represented by the gay men most visible in the mainstream media, such as Graham Norton and Alan Carr. If I ever heard them saying we no longer needed Pride or – heaven forbid – confess to voting Tory, I’d resent their lack of political awareness.

Then, when I was editor-in-chief of Attitude magazine, we ran a series of interviews in which gay celebrities with passing privilege discussed the challenges they’d faced. They discussed their struggle to understand who they were, their fear of coming out of the closet, and their battles with self-loathing, alcoholism and sex addiction. I found it difficult to empathise.

It was only when I started writing my new novel, The Secret Life of Albert Entwistle, that my empathy stirred. The novel’s lead character is a gay man in his sixties who’s shy, socially awkward and quite firmly in the closet. After a series of crises, he realises that he wants to be happy – and the only way to do this is to search for his lost love, a man he hasn’t seen for nearly 50 years. I won’t give away whether or not he finds him – or how the men were originally forced apart – but I will say that Albert’s journey encourages him to accept his true self and to be more open and honest with others.

While writing the book, it struck me that it was only because Albert could pass for straight that he had the option of taking refuge from a hostile world in the closet. And who can blame him for taking it? But the longer he sheltered in there, the more daunting the idea of stepping out of it became.

I’ve spoken to many gay men who came out later in life who’ve told me about the lies they’d spun for decades, or the sham marriages they entered into, or the families they started in order to put people off the scent, or to try and “straighten themselves out”, to try and make themselves “normal”. But sexuality is like one of those inflatable unicorns you see on Instagram in the swimming pools of Palm Springs – yes, you can push it underwater but sooner or later it will come bursting to the surface, often causing a huge splash in the process. This can leave men with so-called passing privilege suffering from terrible guilt – guilt about being dishonest or exploiting other people in their desperation to protect themselves.

I started to wonder if the ability to pass for straight might not be a privilege after all. I started to wonder if it might even be a curse.

This doesn’t in any way invalidate my own feelings. It doesn’t invalidate the fear and self-loathing I suffered after years of being told I was dirty and disgusting. It doesn’t invalidate the terror I experienced when I came out – to friends at the age of 18 and then my parents at the age of 20. But, as any gay man will tell you, life can only get better once you have come out. No matter how difficult this may seem, you’ve just got to push through it. I’m now glad my lack of passing privilege hurried along the process.

Thankfully, British society has changed immeasurably since I was growing up. I never imagined that one day I’d live in a society in which gay men enjoy equal rights – and aren’t just accepted but often celebrated (even if this celebration can sometimes be clumsy). I could never have imagined a society in which, yes, certain stereotypes might persist, but there’s a much greater understanding that gay men come in all different shapes, sizes and colours of the rainbow – as do people from across the entire LGBT+ spectrum.

This undoubtedly makes coming out a far less daunting prospect for the majority of people considering it today. And, if the same progress continues, it will hopefully mean that in the future, I won’t be able to write another character like Albert Entwistle. He couldn’t plausibly exist.

The Secret Life of Albert Entwistle is published by Headline

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I used to envy gay men who could pass for straight – now I realise it might be a curse – The Independent



“You’re so gay!” Over the years I’ve heard comments like this countless times. Because my gayness is obvious; it’s there in my humour, my taste in music, the way I walk and, in particular, the way I talk. I’ve never had what’s known as “passing privilege” – the ability to pass for straight.

When I was growing up, this prompted savage and relentless homophobic bullying, which shaped who I am and determined my life choices well into adulthood. It also politicised me. Having experienced prejudice first hand, I could hardly deny it existed. I didn’t have the choice of burying my head in the sand.

On the positive side, over the past 20 years my obvious gayness has tended to endear me to people. Often within minutes of meeting me, straight women will tell me they love gays, or all their best friends are gay, or they feel like a “gay man trapped in a woman’s body”. Usually what this means is they’re loud, have a bawdy sense of humour, like drinking or enjoy casual sex and then regaling everyone with stories about it.

Although I’ve always been happy to accept any positive response to my sexuality – sometimes even revelling in it – I’m also very aware that ideas like these can reinforce reductive and often damaging stereotypes. Stereotypes that often don’t apply to gay men with passing privilege.

For a long time, I envied these men. I used to think they had it easy. They could cruise through their school years, maybe snogging the occasional girl to obliterate any traces of suspicion, then come out of the closet when it suited them, usually once they’d bagged themselves a gorgeous boyfriend. (Because they always seemed to bag themselves a gorgeous boyfriend. Amongst gay men, their masculinity was highly prized. As “real men”, we considered them wildly attractive.)

Later in life, however, I’d hear many men with passing privilege complain about female acquaintances inviting them out for dancing or cocktails, or on a shopping or spa day – only to be disappointed by their lack of interest. “You’re not a proper gay,” the girls would tell them. “You might as well be straight.” I’d sometimes hear these men complain about not feeling represented by the gay men most visible in the mainstream media, such as Graham Norton and Alan Carr. If I ever heard them saying we no longer needed Pride or – heaven forbid – confess to voting Tory, I’d resent their lack of political awareness.

Then, when I was editor-in-chief of Attitude magazine, we ran a series of interviews in which gay celebrities with passing privilege discussed the challenges they’d faced. They discussed their struggle to understand who they were, their fear of coming out of the closet, and their battles with self-loathing, alcoholism and sex addiction. I found it difficult to empathise.

It was only when I started writing my new novel, The Secret Life of Albert Entwistle, that my empathy stirred. The novel’s lead character is a gay man in his sixties who’s shy, socially awkward and quite firmly in the closet. After a series of crises, he realises that he wants to be happy – and the only way to do this is to search for his lost love, a man he hasn’t seen for nearly 50 years. I won’t give away whether or not he finds him – or how the men were originally forced apart – but I will say that Albert’s journey encourages him to accept his true self and to be more open and honest with others. 

While writing the book, it struck me that it was only because Albert could pass for straight that he had the option of taking refuge from a hostile world in the closet. And who can blame him for taking it? But the longer he sheltered in there, the more daunting the idea of stepping out of it became.

I’ve spoken to many gay men who came out later in life who’ve told me about the lies they’d spun for decades, or the sham marriages they entered into, or the families they started in order to put people off the scent, or to try and “straighten themselves out”, to try and make themselves “normal”. But sexuality is like one of those inflatable unicorns you see on Instagram in the swimming pools of Palm Springs – yes, you can push it underwater but sooner or later it will come bursting to the surface, often causing a huge splash in the process. This can leave men with so-called passing privilege suffering from terrible guilt – guilt about being dishonest or exploiting other people in their desperation to protect themselves.

I started to wonder if the ability to pass for straight might not be a privilege after all. I started to wonder if it might even be a curse.

This doesn’t in any way invalidate my own feelings. It doesn’t invalidate the fear and self-loathing I suffered after years of being told I was dirty and disgusting. It doesn’t invalidate the terror I experienced when I came out – to friends at the age of 18 and then my parents at the age of 20. But, as any gay man will tell you, life can only get better once you have come out. No matter how difficult this may seem, you’ve just got to push through it. I’m now glad my lack of passing privilege hurried along the process.

Thankfully, British society has changed immeasurably since I was growing up. I never imagined that one day I’d live in a society in which gay men enjoy equal rights – and aren’t just accepted but often celebrated (even if this celebration can sometimes be clumsy). I could never have imagined a society in which, yes, certain stereotypes might persist, but there’s a much greater understanding that gay men come in all different shapes, sizes and colours of the rainbow – as do people from across the entire LGBT+ spectrum.

This undoubtedly makes coming out a far less daunting prospect for the majority of people considering it today. And, if the same progress continues, it will hopefully mean that in the future, I won’t be able to write another character like Albert Entwistle. He couldn’t plausibly exist.

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LGBT Groups Back Namakhvani Protest, Ask Leaders to Condemn Homophobic Violence – Civil Georgia

Two key local LGBT rights groups, the Tbilisi Pride and the Equality Movement reiterated their support for the protest against Namakhvani Hydropower Plant, now held in the capital city Tbilisi, but called on the protest leaders to explicitly denounce “acts of violence” against LGBT persons by far-right individuals in attendance at the May 23-24 rallies.

“We believe the demands of protest organizers are fair,” Tbilisi Pride said in a May 24 statement, highlighting that state contract on Namakhvani HPP is “exploitative” and allows the private investor to earn profits by utilizing land, water, and other natural resources, while the populace receives ecologic, social and economic damages.

“It is extremely important for us to have the opportunity to express our solidarity and support to this cause,” said Tbilisi Pride, adding that movements fighting for fairness should “disavow these extremist, violent groups and explicitly denounce the violent acts committed by them during the rallies.” 

Another rights group, Equality Movement, hailed yesterday the protest against the controversial powerplant project as “just,” adding that they believe the protests aim to achieve common well-being, instead of polarizing the society. “We find it necessary that the rally organizers openly and publicly denounce violence against activists, disavow far-right and radical groups, and support the peaceful expression of protesters.”   

The two rights groups’ statements referred to a May 24 incident, when some far-right protesters confronted two Tbilisi-based Shame Movement activists Zuka Berdzenishvili and Salome Barker, as the latter wore a rainbow armband, threatening and forcing them to leave the rally. In another reported incident, on May 23, hate group leaders Guram and Aleksandre Palavandishvilis, influential father and son in Georgia’s nativist and far-right movements tore apart a banner by LGBT activists at the Namakhvani protest.

“These groups can discredit the protests,” Tbilisi Pride highlighted and appealed to the Rioni Valley activists to support the LGBT rights groups in demanding an “adequate response” to the incidents from the authorities.

Equality Movement also called on the law enforcement agencies to take “effective” measures to ensure avoiding escalation at the protests and hold perpetrators of the “violent” acts responsible.

Following the incidents, protest leader Varlam Goletiani said yesterday the Namakhvani activists “disavow violence” at the rallies. But he appealed to supporters not to wear or bring emblems other than state symbols to the protests, “to prevent any similar confrontations from taking place.” Some LGBT groups and allies said Goletiani complained about symbols instead of condemning the violence.

Namakhvani protesters have announced plans to march from Republic Square throughout Tbilisi today afternoon and to block traffic in certain areas of the capital.

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Companies with LGBT-friendly policies perform better – The HR Director Magazine

LGBT‐friendly corporate policies enhance firm performance, according to new research from Aalto University School of Business and the University of Vaasa.

The research conducted by Jukka Sihvonen, Assistant Professor at Aalto University School of Business, and his co-authors from the University of Vaasa – Veda Fatmy, John Kihn, and Sami Vähämaa, examined the association between LGBT‐friendly corporate policies and firm performance using data on 657 publicly traded US firms over the period 2003–2016, and found that LGBT-friendly policies may create value for the firm.

More specifically, the researchers found strong evidence that more LGBT‐friendly firms have higher profitability and higher stock market valuations.

“Our empirical findings demonstrate that LGBT‐friendly corporate policies pay off, and the documented positive relationship between LGBT friendliness and firm performance can be considered economically significant” says Sihvonen.

However, the findings did indicate that the positive effect of progressive LGBT policies on profitability and market valuation was more pronounced for firms located in more liberal states, while being weaker or non‐existent for firms located in more conservative states.

Nevertheless, the researchers did find that even for firms located in more socially conservative states, the effect of LGBT friendliness on firm performance is at worst neutral, suggesting that the adoption of LBGT‐friendly policies does not generally have detrimental repercussions.

But why does LGBT friendliness influence firm performance? According to the researchers, there are various potential reasons why.

“Previous studies have documented that LGBT‐friendly firms are associated with greater employee commitment, improved job satisfaction, increased employee productivity, and more altruistic workplace behaviour” says Sihvonen.

Furthermore, the researchers also express that LGBT‐friendly policies may improve competitiveness in the job market by fostering the firm’s ability to attract, recruit and retain talented employees.

Ultimately, on a broader scale, these findings can be considered to support the view that socially progressive corporate policies and diversity management is worthwhile, and should be considered across the board.

Why Tacky 2000s Pop Is Cool Now – The Atlantic

Modern influencers certainly seem to think so. For the past few years, Y2K-era aesthetics have edged back into hipness. Instagram models now flaunt the trucker-hat brand Von Dutch. TikTok users upvote videos of creaky five-disc CD changers whirring into action. In the music world, Ariana Grande sampled ’NSync, Olivia Rodrigo released a Paramore-inspired single, and Travis Barker of Blink-182 has become one of the hot producers of the moment. Fashion’s famous maxim that trends move in 20-year cycles continues to hold true, but this revisitation, in the way of so many recent cultural waves, coincides with a moral reckoning too.

Hilton, for example, is part of a class of women experiencing widespread sympathy after being mocked, for years, as ditzes in low-rise denim. A 2020 YouTube documentary fleshed out her childhood trauma, played up her business acumen, and showed how becoming a national punch line after her sex tape leaked in 2004 was not an altogether happy experience. Britney Spears has become a mass-culture martyr through the #FreeBritney movement, which highlights the strange legal arrangement controlling her life today and the abusive media treatment she received in the 2000s. Jessica Simpson’s acclaimed 2019 autobiography strings together tales of misdeeds inflicted upon her by famous men. Justin Timberlake even issued a vague apology to Spears and Janet Jackson, the latter of whom many people now say was unfairly scapegoated for the 2004 Super Bowl halftime-performance scandal.

There’s a paradox to this trend. The sizable audiences that pour in for each movie, podcast, and think piece about the horrors of the 2000s clearly also enjoy the trip down memory lane—a trip defined by images and songs that are now said to be the products of exploitation. Emerging tentatively from a pandemic and an apocalyptic political period, American culture seems hungry for a return to boom-time frivolity, but without the toxic social environment that underlaid it. There’s reason to be both wary and giddy about such a desire. If we’re in for a roaring 2020s, might the decade revive the garish fun of the 2000s but be a little smarter about it?


Scrolling through Hilton’s TikTok recently, I heard the purring voice of one of my favorite Gen Z musicians, the 24-year-old singer Slayyyter. Hilton had paired old paparazzi shots of herself with Slayyyter’s song “Celebrity,” the lyrics of which are sung from the point of view of a cocaine-snorting rich kid with a leaked sex tape. In another context, the song might seem like a mockery of Hilton. But here, clearly, it was a tribute.

Slayyyter is part of the niche but growing online music scene variously described as  “hyperpop,” “DIY pop,” or, in some cases, just “Y2K.” That scene’s sound draws inspiration from the candied production of, say, Backstreet Boys, but is made on laptops rather than in recording studios and features not-so-radio-friendly amounts of sonic chaos. Some songs on Slayyyter’s 2019 mixtape conjure an image of Spears reborn as a seek-and-destroy Terminator. The inspirations for Slayyyter’s forthcoming album, Troubled Paradise, include Avril Lavigne and Fergie—though her beats are too gnarled and her lyrics are too filthy to be mistaken for TRL fare.

HPV vaccine shows success in gay, bisexual men – Monash University

A study by Monash University and Alfred Health found a 70 per cent reduction in one type of human papillomavirus (HPV) in gay and bisexual men after the implementation of the school-based HPV vaccination program.

The HYPER2 study, published in Lancet Infectious Diseases, and led by Associate Professor Eric Chow,  found there was a significant reduction in all four vaccine-preventable genotypes in gay/bisexual men aged 16-20 years following the introduction of the vaccine for boys in 2013.

Australia is one of the first and few countries that have both boys and girls vaccination programs for HPV.  The vaccine covers four genotypes: 6/11/16/18. Genotypes 6/11 cause about 90 per cent of the genital wart cases and genotypes 16/18 cause about 70 per cent of cervical and anal cancers.

This is the first study to show that the implementation of the gender-neutral program can reduce high-risk anal HPV and potentially reduce the incidence of anal cancer in gay and bisexual men.

This repeated cross-sectional study recruited 400 gay and bisexual men with a median age of 19 years from sexual health clinics and the community in Melbourne.

The results are compared with the HYPER1 group of 200 gay/bisexual men pre-vaccination in 2010-2012 and the HYPER2 group of 200 gay/bisexual men post-vaccination in 2017-2018.

It showed a reduction in anal quadrivalent genotypes from 28 per cent down to 7.3 per cent and penile quadrivalent genotypes also lower in the post-vaccination group 6.1 per cent compared to 11.9 per cent.

Anal cancer incidence has increased globally among men over the last three decades.  It is  overrepresented among gay and bisexual men, particularly those living with HIV.

A meta-analysis estimated the incidence of anal cancer to be 45.9 per 100,000 among HIV-positive MSM. Results from the HYPER2 study suggest that male vaccination may lead to a potential reduction in anal cancer among gay and bisexual men in Australia, which is similar to the reduction in cervical cancer among Australian women after the HPV vaccination program launched in 2007.

“Australia has a very successful HPV vaccination program for both boys and girls with high vaccine coverage,” Associate Professor Chow said.

“The vaccine is effective in reducing HPV-related diseases and showing some promising evidence that this may lead to a reduction in HPV-related cancer in the future.”

Read the full paper in Lancet Infectious Diseases titled: Fall in human papillomavirus in young men who have sex with men after the implementation of gender-neutral HPV vaccination: a repeated cross-sectional study
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The gay royal romance novel is having a moment: ‘Everybody deserves a happy ending’ – USA TODAY

You know the narrative. A dashing young prince sweeps a beautiful peasant off her glass slipper-sized feet and they live happily ever after – usually thanks to a twinkling touch of magic. 

But what if that beautiful peasant was a man instead of a woman?

Welcome to the era of the gay royal romance novel.

A prince and an event planner fall in love in "Playing the Palace."

A prince and an event planner fall in love in “Playing the Palace.”
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A quick Google search for “LGBTQ royal romance” unveils a cornucopia of queer royal content faster than you can say Queen Elizabeth. From “Her Royal Highness” to “The Spare” and more, readers can bow down and buy.

One such offering, out Tuesday, is “Playing the Palace” by Paul Rudnick (Berkley, 327 pp.), which follows the unlikely but sweet romance between New York event planner Carter and British royal Prince Edgar.

The pair meets – and flirts –  ahead of a press conference Carter helps facilitate and quickly become entangled in each other’s lives. From dates at IHOP to Carter’s sister’s wedding to international appearances together, the pair try to fit into each other’s lives as seamlessly as possible. Carter’s self-esteem proves the most difficult piece of the royal relationship puzzle. But if you relish rom-coms, you know where this story ends.

“There’s such a yearning and a demand for stories that end happily,” author Paul Rudnick (who also write “Sister Act,” “Sister Act 2” and “Addams Family Values” says. “That’s one of the great features of romances, is that the reader can feel confident that no matter what our main heartthrobs are going through, it’s going to work out. It comes down to everybody deserves a happy ending. So why not gay people?”

Paul Rudnick, author of “Playing the Palace”
There’s such a yearning and a demand for stories that end happily. … It comes down to everybody deserves a happy ending. So why not gay people?

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A breakout hit of the new genre was “Red, White & Royal Blue,” by Casey McQuiston, which charted the surprisingly steamy (and disappointingly fictional) love story between the son of the first female U.S. president and a British prince.

“Playing the Palace” goes for much of the same dizzying drama as “Red, White & Royal Blue.” Tabloid scandals? Check. A monarchy not exactly thrilled with the relationship? Check. An impossibly supportive family in the face of insurmountable odds? Check.

“Playing the Palace” does deviate from “Red, White & Royal Blue” in that its characters have already come out as queer (yes, an openly gay prince). Rudnick wanted to sidestep the trauma and prejudice that comes with coming out stories “to emphasize a certain joyousness.”

He had the idea to write a gay royal romance about 20 years ago but didn’t know what form it should take. A play? A movie? At last, a book, which he figured out in the last two or three years.

He drew on some of his own life: the main character is a man originally from New Jersey who also has an obsession with IHOP, for example. Rudnick has also always been fascinated by America’s ravenous lust for royal gossip – something that remains prevalent today.

“I share that weird obsession,” he says.

Prince Harry Duchess Meghan of Sussex talk to Oprah Winfrey in interview broadcast March 7, 2021.

Prince Harry Duchess Meghan of Sussex talk to Oprah Winfrey in interview broadcast March 7, 2021.
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More than the central gay part of the story, Rudnick emphasized differences in social status, as has played out in real life with Prince Harry marrying actress Meghan Markle, now the Duchess of Sussex. 

Rudnick conjured the comic element of royalty’s personal lives being dissected all of the time and the potential for global social embarrassment.

Carter goes through his fair share of international humiliation in the novel on live TV. He both vomits during a baking show competition and is blindsided during an interview when they show cell phone footage of him kissing his ex-boyfriend Callum.

In real life, Rudnick thought Harry and Meghan handled themselves beautifully during their bombshell-filled Oprah Winfrey interview, but he kept thinking about how short Harry’s socks were. 

“That’s what I also wanted Carter to be subject to, that he keeps trying to do his best and keeps trying to be as polished and presentable and appropriate as he can be and the world just won’t let him,” Rudnick says.

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“There’s been a bit of a dam breaking,” Rudnick says. “And it’s interesting that I think in many ways YA publishing and romance publishing has led the way, that there’s still a little sense in terms of overall literature, that gay stories are a little niche, or maybe not relatable. And that’s just not true.”

Despite more attention to LGBTQ stories, a dark cloud hangs overhead.

“Due to the many discriminatory practices and biases still prevalent in societies around the world, it is hard to know how many authors’ voices have been stifled or pushed aside because of LGBTQ discrimination,” according to an article from publisher The Hachette Group.

Moving forward, intersectional inclusivity is the next frontier for LGBTQ stories – something we can already see in this year’s crop of YA LGBTQ novels.

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A gay royal: The world is waiting

All told, there’s a groundswell of people living completely open and happy lives where being gay is no longer the obstacle, Rudnick says. A record amount of U.S. adults are members of the LGBTQ community at 5.6%.

Might broader acceptance prepare palaces for some (openly) rainbow royalty? “The world is waiting for some openly gay royaland for it not to be a story of tragedy or rejection, but of total acceptance and celebration,” Rudnick says.

And that stems from the fact queer people – and any marginalized group – wants what everyone else wants. “You want both the more serious end of things – you want the right to vote, you want the right health care, you want the right to marry – but you also want the right to pure entertainment, and to boisterous romance and to a sense of absolute pleasure,” Rudnick says.

Falling in love with a prince and having him love you back, though, also wouldn’t hurt.

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