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Fuego rise from the ashes, open camp Tuesday – Santa Fe New Mexican

The more things change, the more they stay the same.

As manager Bill Rogan assembled the handful of players present for an early start to the Santa Fe Fuego’s preseason camp, he told the 15 men circled around him that part of Tuesday morning’s practice at Fort Marcy Ballpark would entail running the bases.

But first, he said, they needed to actually find the bases. Told they’d be in one place, they were eventually found somewhere else.

Welcome to the Pecos League, the lowest rung of professional baseball, but a rung that has found a happy, if not confounding home in the state capital. In what should be season No. 10 for the Fuego, last year’s shutdown due to the coronavirus pandemic means this is season No. 9.

It brings with it an entirely new roster, new coaching staff and even new uniforms. Same, too, for the surroundings. While Fort Marcy arguably looked better than it has for any opening practice in the team’s history, it took a while for the players to adjust.

After watching one of his batting practice cuts send a ball sailing into the elms that line the arroyo beyond Fort Marcy’s short porch to right, middle infielder Declan Peterson said he might have to rethink the whole power-hitting thing.

“I hit one homer my entire college career and it came in my senior year,” he said. “It’ll be interesting to see how this ballpark plays. First time I looked down the line to right, yeah, I start thinking that it can’t be more than 300 feet. The eyes get big.”

The Fuego open their season June 2 at Roswell. Between now and then, Rogan hopes to pare down the available talent into a 22-man roster that’s heavy on pitching — and pitchers willing to accept the fact that Santa Fe’s 7,000-foot altitude and (sorry, Peterson) 284-foot right-field fence are a hitter’s paradise and hurler’s nightmare.

“You keep the ball down here,” said pitching prospect Aaron McIntyre, swiping his right hand about 15 inches off the ground, “they’ll probably hit it on the ground and not have me turning around to watch it.”

Peterson and McIntyre are like most of those who call the Pecos League home; they came to Santa Fe from distant points on the U.S. map. McIntyre is from Houston, while Peterson’s last stop was in college ball in Ohio.

Two of the locals are Ben Tingen and Jared Gay. Tingen graduated from Mayfield High School in Las Cruces and spent four years at the University of the Southwest, an NAIA school in Hobbs. Gay lives in Albuquerque and has two younger brothers, Adam and Simon, who graduated from Volcano Vista and play football at the University of New Mexico.

With a father who’s 6-foot-5, a mom who’s 6-1 and a third brother who stands 6-7, Gay said he’s the smallest one in the family. Although he attended high school in Rochester, N.Y., he spent four years playing baseball at Eastern New Mexico and a senior year at Adams State.

At 6-foot-5 and 225 pounds, he is easily the most physically imposing player on Rogan’s roster. He was also the last player on the field, taking a handful of extra throws into the dirt at first base. During Tuesday’s batting practice he launched a ball that landed on the far side of the pedestrian bridge in right-center and rolled to a stop halfway across Magers Field.

“You hear the rumors about this place, and then you see it and it looks even smaller than people have been talking about,” Gay said. “It’s like a slow-pitch softball field. Put the barrel on the ball and it’s out of here. You look at the stats and the league leader had like 19 home runs and, you know, playing half your games here it almost seems low.”

Tingen is perhaps Rogan’s most prized recruit. Already earmarked as the starting centerfielder and potential leadoff man, he wowed his current skipper when they first crossed paths a couple years ago in the Pecos League.

Then the manager at Tucson, Rogan watched Tingen rob his team twice with amazing catches in center when he played for Bakersfield.

“I owe Bill for being here,” Tingen said. “If I don’t get the call from here I’m working my 9-to-5, building fences in Cruces. But that’s what the Pecos League is all about: Opportunities. You never know when one’s going to pop up and now that I have one, it’s my chance to get those numbers up and prove I can do this.”

Rogan expects to have as many as 25 players in camp by week’s end. That includes a player or two from a planned league-run tryout at 9 a.m. Wednesday at Fort Marcy.

“For first days, this was a good one,” Rogan said. “The enthusiasm level was there, they were excited and I thought they got along well. Now, that’s usually the case for the first practice so we’ll see how they come back the next day and the day after that. Will they still be gung-ho after four or five days? We’ll see.”

NOTESInjury bug: The news wasn’t all good. While running the bases, the team’s only available catcher, Dalton Martin, strained his left hamstring while rounding first in one of the final drills of the day.

Host families needed: The Fuego need the community’s help in finding host families for this year’s team. The club will host a cookout at Fort Marcy Ballpark from 6 to 7:30 p.m. Wednesday. Anyone interested in the team’s billeting situation is encouraged to attend. All players will be there.

Volunteers wanted: Fuego general manager Yvonne Encinias is seeking people willing to step up and fill various roles with the organization. The team needs volunteers to fill in as bat boy/girl, to sing the national anthem, to help take tickets and even serve as the team’s mascot.

Mascot: Speaking of the mascot, adios to Fireball. The flaming-head puppet head that made its debut in the 2019 season will not return to Santa Fe, Encinias said. The club will have its more familiar mascot, the fuzzy red dragon that has taken various names over the years.

CHP asks for public’s help in shooting death of 6 year old boy – Los Angeles Blade

Photo Credit: County of Los Angeles

LOS ANGELES – Parents of young people ages 9-17 are invited to suggest to their kids that they sign up today for the Junior Lake Lifeguard program located at Castaic Lake Recreation Area, Frank G. Bonelli Regional Park and Santa Fe Dam Recreation Area.

Youth participants ages 9-17 can enjoy LA County freshwater lakes while training to become a junior lifeguard.

The Junior Lake Lifeguard Program is overseen by trained, certified lifeguard staff who serve as mentors and impart their experience by leading hands-on activities that introduce youth to water safety, athleticism, teamwork and a career in aquatics.

Junior Lake Lifeguards learn first aid, CPR, rescue skills with paddleboards, rescue cans and more.

Registration is open for FREE tryouts happening this weekend. Youth participants are required to try out for the program and must pass in order to register for the summer program.

Tryouts for Bonelli & Santa Fe Dam Program:Location:
Norman Johnson Aquatic Center
405 S Santa Anita Ave, Arcadia, CA 91006Dates:
Saturday, May 8, 2021
8:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.
Sunday, May 9, 2021
8:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.
Tryouts for Castaic Lake Program:

Location:
Castaic Aquatic Center – Pool
31350 Castaic Rd, Castaic, CA 91384Dates:
Saturday, May 8, 2021
8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.

After having to forgo last year’s sessions due to the pandemic, the 2021 program reopens with COVID-19 safety protocols and smaller class sizes to ensure the health and safety of staff and participants.

Avoid a long drive to the beach by signing up for this popular summer program. Junior Lake Lifeguard program provides a space for youth who live many miles from the coast to learn water safety at their nearby lake, connect with each other and have fun. Additionally, LA County lakes allow training within a calm freshwater environment without waves or strong current.

2021 Junior Lake Lifeguard Program Schedule

The 2021 Junior Lake Lifeguard program offers three 2-week sessions to accommodate Public Health protocols for smaller classes. Youth participants who pass the tryout can sign up for the morning session or afternoon session or opt for a full-day experience which includes an extra hour for lunch time. Two-week programs are offered at all three lake locations during the following weeks:

  • June 21 – July 1 (Monday – Thursday)
  • July 12 – July 22 (Monday – Thursday)
  • July 26 – August 5 (Monday – Thursday)

Participants can choose from the following session times:

  • AM session: 8:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. ($241 per participant for two-week program)
  • PM session: 12:00 p.m. – 3:00 p.m. ($241 per participant for two-week program)
  • Full day session: 8:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. ($482 per participant for two-week program)

For more information, please visit https://parks.lacounty.gov/juniorlifeguards.

The following safety protocols that will be implemented to meet current COVID-19 health guidelines.

  • Smaller group sizes with student-to-instructor ratio of 15:1.
  • Face coverings required for instructors and students at all times, except during swimming and when eating or drinking.
  • Physical distance at a minimum of six feet must be maintained.
  • Best practices utilized to prevent infection and promote proper hygiene.
  • Daily health and temperature screenings of instructors and participants.

About LA County Parks and Recreation

The Los Angeles County Department of Parks and Recreation manages 183 parks and operates a network of 70,079 acres of parkland, 475 sports amenities such as futsal, basketball, tennis, lawn bowling and multipurpose fields, 42 swimming pools, 15 wildlife sanctuaries, 10 nature centers that serve as a refuge for over 200 animals, 14 lakes – 3 of which are boating and swimming lakes, 5 equestrians centers, more than 210 miles of multi-use trails for hiking, biking, and horseback riding, and the largest municipal golf system in the nation, consisting of 20 golf courses.

The department also maintains four botanical centers: The Los Angeles County Arboretum and Botanic Garden, the South Coast Botanic Garden, Descanso Gardens, and Virginia Robinson Gardens.

The department also owns and operates the iconic Hollywood Bowl and John Anson Ford Amphitheatre, which are jointly managed with the Los Angeles Philharmonic Association, providing County residents with valuable entertainment and cultural resources.

Will chemsex be the new gay normal for Thailand tourism? – eTurboNews | Trends | Travel News Online – eTurboNews | Trends | Travel News

  1. The men were arrested for breaking COVID-19 lockdown restrictions as well as drug-related crimes.
  2. In an attempt to curb the pandemic, Thailand closed bars and nightclubs.
  3. This seems to have fueled the fire for chemsex parties both in private residences and now in public places such as the Faros Sauna 2.

In April, the Government of Thailand closed all bars and nightclubs in an attempt to curb the pandemic. Unfortunately, this created another public health crisis in the form of a spike in chemsex cases according to the charity Thomas Reuters Foundation.

What is chemsex?

It is the practice of having consensual and enhanced gay sex with multiple partners while under the influence of certain drugs like crystal meth, mephedrone, and GHB. It has the potential to be a greater challenge as it is more potent than having a few beers with friends. Chemsex users are also at risk for drug addiction and overdoses, as well as mental health problems, HIV infection, and violence including physical assault and more. And it is inherently a target-rich environment to pass the COVID-19 coronavirus around.

Although the media has implicated western tourists are also participating in chemsex in Thailand, in reality, there are virtually no foreign visitors in the country right now, and a list of those just arrested has not been released.

Will chemsex be the new gay normal for Thailand tourism? – eTurboNews | Trends | Travel News

  1. The men were arrested for breaking COVID-19 lockdown restrictions as well as drug-related crimes.
  2. In an attempt to curb the pandemic, Thailand closed bars and nightclubs.
  3. This seems to have fueled the fire for chemsex parties both in private residences and now in public places such as the Faros Sauna 2.

In April, the Government of Thailand closed all bars and nightclubs in an attempt to curb the pandemic. Unfortunately, this created another public health crisis in the form of a spike in chemsex cases according to the charity Thomas Reuters Foundation.

What is chemsex?

It is the practice of having consensual and enhanced gay sex with multiple partners while under the influence of certain drugs like crystal meth, mephedrone, and GHB. It has the potential to be a greater challenge as it is more potent than having a few beers with friends. Chemsex users are also at risk for drug addiction and overdoses, as well as mental health problems, HIV infection, and violence including physical assault and more. And it is inherently a target-rich environment to pass the COVID-19 coronavirus around.

Although the media has implicated western tourists are also participating in chemsex in Thailand, in reality, there are virtually no foreign visitors in the country right now, and a list of those just arrested has not been released.

Crowdfunding For Gay Refugee Activist Sued By Peter Dutton Raises Over $118000 – Star Observer

A crowdfunding campaign to assist a gay refugee activist, being sued by Australia’s Defence Minister Peter Dutton, with his legal expenses has raised over $118,000.

Dutton has sought aggravated damages for alleged defamation from Shane Bazzi, over the latter’s criticism of the minister on Twitter.

“One of the most powerful men in the country, Peter Dutton, is suing me for defamation. I need your support. If you have the means, please donate to my legal fund and share this far and wide. Any support is greatly appreciated,” Bazzi posted on Twitter. 

Bazzi said he is presently unemployed and had his Centrelink payments discontinued due to recent changes in policy introduced by the government. 

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In a tweet on Tuesday, Bazzi, renewed his appeal: “He’s (Dutton) on a salary of approx $400,000 and recently sold one of his properties for $6 million. I’m unemployed, my JobSeeker payment is $0 and I’m renting. please chip in to my legal fund”.

The crowdfunding campaign has set a target of $150,000 and as of Wednesday raised around $118,643. Bazzi said that any surplus funds that are raised would be donated to two organisations – Refugee Advice and Casework service and Rape and Domestic Violence Services Australia. 

Bazzi was one of the prominent voices for marriage equality during the 2017 national vote in Australia. 

Dutton Sues For Defamation

The present case follows the allegations  levelled by Brittany Higgins that she was raped by a fellow Liberal staffer in then-defence minister Linda Reynolds’ office. 

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Dutton had in February 2021 claimed that he was not aware of the “she said, he said details of the allegations”

The minister’s comments led to a public backlash on social media and on February 25, Bazzi posted on Twitter that “Peter Dutton is a rape apologist”. Bazzi had posted a link to a Guardian article that had reported Dutton’s statement that women were using rape and abortion as a ploy to enter Australia. 

Dutton, who said he was “going to start to pick out some of them to sue” initiated the legal proceedings against Bazzi. The minister claimed that Bazzi already knew that Greens senator Larissa Waters had apologised for posting a similar statement on social media. 

‘The People V Peter Dutton’

Bazzi’s lawyers O’Brien Criminal & Civil Solicitors in a statement said Dutton’s decision to sue raises “genuine concerns” for the freedom of speech in the country. 

“Mr Bazzi expressed an honest opinion on Twitter that Peter Dutton was a “rape apologist”. This opinion was based on a number of publicly reported statements that had been attributed to Mr Dutton. Statements that were about matters in the public interest and that would undoubtedly provoke a number of different opinions, including that expressed by Mr. Bazzi,” the statement said. 

“Those who are elected to public office must expect to be subject to adverse opinions and society is entitled to expect a greater level of tolerance from such persons. For a politician to use the defamation law to stifle the expression of a public opinion is cause for real concern,” they added. 

The crowdfunding campaign was launched by David Shoebridge, the Greens candidate for the NSW Senate, who said that defending defamation threats were an expensive proposition, but the activist had decided to stand up to Dutton. 

“Defending defamation threats is very expensive, meaning many people are often forced to retract their statements even if they are true or an expression of an honest opinion,” the campaign said, adding, “using expensive legal challenges to shut down opinion must be resisted.”

My Therapist Betrayed Me By Telling My Family I’m Gay – Scary Mommy

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When I was younger, my depression was debilitating. As I grew older, I experienced horrible trauma, topping off my depression with severe PTSD. As an adult, therapy has been instrumental to my mental health, but it took me a long time to rediscover that resource because I had been betrayed by my therapist as a youth. They informed on me, telling my family my secrets, and my trust in the profession was shattered. I can only wonder how much healthier and happier I might have been all those years I went without therapy, had I not lost trust in the profession. Regaining trust in therapy wasn’t easy, but it was essential, and I am a healthier person for it.

I grew up in Jordan, a politically and religiously conservative kingdom in the Middle East. As a gay man, I had to hide my identity for fear of my life. I was already struggling with that when my mother suddenly died, and I quickly became a very depressed, drug dependent teenager. In my new book “The Kingdom’s Sandcastle,” I detail the whirlwind of depression and trauma that consumed me, as well as the crushing social pressure of a society that did not accept me and did not want me. All this together was a devastating weight to bear, and my young mind couldn’t handle it. After a series of incidents, including a drug overdose, my family shoved me into therapy. It wasn’t long after I began therapy that I discovered my therapist was reporting all my secrets back to my uncle’s wife, who always had it out for me.

This was a jarring experience. My aunt had weaponized what was supposed to be a tool for healing. I immediately stopped attending sessions. My drug abuse worsened, and I fell into a horribly abusive relationship. In those fragile years, when therapy could have helped dramatically, I completely turned my back on it, dismissing the entire profession and institution following my break in trust. Those were bad years, and I am still dealing with the scars left from that time in my life.

Learning to trust again is a difficult task, especially concerning mental health. Because my depression and PTSD went untreated for so long, I suffered for it. My mental health deteriorated quickly, and as an adult it has been a brutal slog to repair some of that deeply entrenched damage.

The first step in learning to trust a therapist again was simply recognizing my own need for mental health care. I was in denial of that for a long time, trying to just forge ahead and forget the past, but I could never outrun it. The trauma was always there, and so was the depression. I gradually learned that it is never too late to seek help, even if the events or issues lay far in the past, because the past is never that far behind. By trying to shove it down, I was actually keeping it around and dwelling on it incessantly.

It is also crucial to establish a support system outside of therapy. Once I began to understand my past traumas had to be confronted, I was able to talk with close friends before seeking out therapy. Of course, they couldn’t provide the professional level of care that I needed, but it was a start. It was a way for me to acknowledge my mental health issues and to feel heard. It was this support network, made up of just a few close friends, that eventually helped me get back into a therapist’s office.

With that support system in place, it was easier for me to understand that not all therapists are the same. It is not a blanket profession. One person’s unethical behavior does not represent the entire field. This is a hard lesson to learn, especially when considering my past betrayal, but my support network and my own desire for mental health care worked together to overcome that obstacle. It took a long time, but it was essential, and I am better for it.

Mental health is a true struggle, and self-care is absolutely essential. To anyone who is facing those issues alone, know that you are seen. Your support system may already exist all around you, but it is up to you to acknowledge your own needs and act upon them. Therapy is a crucial tool for healing, and I encourage anyone who is struggling with unhealed emotional wounds to seek it out. If I can learn to trust a therapist again after such a betrayal, you can too. Don’t be afraid to lean on your support system; they can help you find the right therapist whom you feel comfortable with, and know that it will be the best thing you can do for yourself. It certainly was for me.

First cohort of Pathways to Teaching graduates help fill teacher shortages in Tucson – KOLD

TUCSON, Ariz. (KOLD News 13) – The need for teachers is increasing, especially as COVID-19 changed the classroom landscape.

Kylie Danvers-Gay’s class is excited to play a version of jeopardy, especially in person. She has been teaching these students for a year—though she just graduated from the University of Arizona a couple of weeks ago.

“Jumping headfirst to the water of your own classroom, definitely makes you learn a lot,” Danvers-Gay said.

She’s part of the first cohort of the Pathways to Teaching program at the University of Arizona. It pays tuition for a 17-month, full-throttle student teaching immersion. Participants also get a $1,000 monthly stipend. It helps them start off on the right foot and be able to stay in the communities they are in.

“I’m not in student debt because I didn’t have to pay for Pathways. Pathways is sponsored by ATA (American Teacher Academy),” she said. “Everybody says your first year of teaching is your hardest year and being virtual just made it that much harder of a year. So, now I will never have a year harder than this.”

Danvers-Gay and her cohort did this during the pandemic. Teaching virtually was a tough year for many, which showed the need for more teachers like her.

According to the Arizona School Personnel Administrators Association, more than 300 teachers across the state resigned, citing COVID as the main reason. More than 600 non-teacher school staff did the same.

The Pima County Superintendent’s office said there was more than a 25 percent teacher shortage pre-pandemic, and that “trend is going to continue to be a challenge for many reasons including salary, professionalism, new policies, and political fever.” The hope is this program will grow retention and keep them in districts.

“It’s not just about preparing our classroom teachers,” said Marcy Wood, the department head of teaching, learning and sociocultural studies at the University of Arizona. ‘But, at the same time, we’re working with teachers already in the classroom and providing them with more resources and growth.”

All 10 in the first cohort have placements within Sunnyside Unified School District. The Pathways to Teaching program started in 2019 with this group, recently started another cohort in Douglas in 2020 and has plans to expand the program next year with more school districts, potentially in Oracle and Sahuarita.

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Brooke Eden Engaged to Long-Time Girlfriend Hilary Hoover After a Double Proposal Surprise – Taste of Country

Brooke Eden and her girlfriend of five years, Hilary Hoover, are engaged! The couple took turns popping the question in two surprise proposals that they coincidentally planned only nine days apart, according to People.

Between the two special moments, the couple got to enjoy the best of two very different kinds of proposals. Hoover wound up being the first to pop the question, and she opted to do it via a romantic surprise getaway to one of the two women’s favorite vacation destinations: Sedona, Arizona. Throughout the day, Hoover kept surprising Eden with greeting cards that had sweet messages written inside.

It wouldn’t be a true proposal without a slight logistical hiccup, and sure enough, the couple arrived at the airport without their luggage. But the resort where they were staying helped keep the romance flowing, upgrading them to a different room with a private pool — and fortunately, they’d packed their swimsuits in their carry-ons. As Eden jumped into the pool for a swim, Hoover gave her one last greeting card to read.

“I’ve been giving you cards all day long because I knew I wouldn’t have the words to say, so I guess this would be the time to ask, will you be my wife?” Eden recounts to People of what Hoover wrote inside the card. Of course, she said yes — and because Hoover had had to improvise by proposing in a pool, she wasn’t able to do the classic kneel while holding out a ring. Later that weekend, the couple recreated the iconic pose amid the jaw-dropping desert scenery where she’d originally planned to pop the question.

But the surprises weren’t over just yet: Throughout the romantic proposal weekend, Eden didn’t let on that she’d already planned a surprise proposal of her own — for just over a week later.

On Saturday (May 22), Eden and Hoover headed to the Virgin Hotel’s rooftop terrace in downtown Nashville for what Eden told Hoover was going to be an interview to talk about their Sedona proposal. But when they arrived, no one was there, and Eden dropped to one knee saying, “yes, I’m proposing to you.”

Next, out came the “ring-bearer,” aka the couple’s Maltese-Yorkie-poodle, whose name is Dolly. “At that point, Hilary thinks that Dolly’s the big surprise, right?” Eden says. But there was much more: In fact, Eden had enlisted a vaccinated group of close friends and family members to join them in Nashville, surprising her bride-to-be for the special moment.

“It was just the cherry on top of all of it,” Hoover relates. “Obviously, I would have loved a proposal that was just us, but I was so overwhelmed to see everyone there. I just never imagined my whole family being in Nashville. I kept looking at [Eden] like, ‘I’m impressed with you. I knew you were up to something, but you had to do a lot to get all these people here!'”

The couple also shared all the details about their engagement rings, which are just as unique as their double-proposal story. Instead of a classic engagement ring, the two women each have a series of stacking rings: Four for Eden, five for Hoover.

“You can change them out or reorder them,” says Eden. “We just thought they were so fun.”

The pair first met during Eden’s first week of a radio tour, when Hoover was working for Eden’s record label (Hoover now works on Garth Brooks‘ team.) Over the past several years, Eden has gradually come out as gay to her fans; In January of 2021, she officially told their full love story in a video posted to her social media.

Also this year, the singer has released a trio of songs that are her first new music since 2017. They are “No Shade,” “Sunroof” and “Got No Choice,” the latter of which features Hoover in the music video.

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Why do you celebrate Pride? Share your experience. – Washington Post

A recent Kaiser Family Foundation survey found that 74 percent of people who identify as LGBT say worry and stress about the coronavirus has had a negative effect on their mental health, compared with 49 percent who are not LGBT. The study’s authors attribute that to a variety of factors, including LGBT individuals working in highly affected industries and lack of access to health care, especially for transgender youths who have been the latest target of Republican lawmakers.

80% of LGBTQ Youth reported the pandemic badly stressed them out – Washington Blade

WEST HOLLYWOOD – In its third annual survey released late last week, The Trevor Project found that well over two-thirds of the 35,000 LGBTQ youth ages 13–24 across the United States interviewed reported that the affects of the coronavirus pandemic has largely negatively impacted their lives.

“The past year has been incredibly difficult for so many LGBTQ young people because of multiple crises, from the COVID-19 pandemic to the hostile political climate and repeated acts of racist and transphobic violence. This data makes clear that LGBTQ youth face unique mental health challenges and continue to experience disparities in access to affirming care, family rejection, and discrimination., ” Amit Paley, CEO & Executive Director of The Trevor Project told the Blade in an emailed statement.

“We are proud that this survey sample is our most diverse yet, with 45% being LGBTQ youth of color and 38% being transgender or nonbinary. The data speaks to the wide variety of experiences and identities held by LGBTQ youth across the country, and emphasizes the need for comprehensive, intersectional policy solutions to confront systemic barriers and end suicide,” he added.

The Trevor Project also noted that this year’s survey reflected a wider sense of diversity, with 45% of LGBTQ youth survey being of color and 38% being transgender or nonbinary. The study highlights that only 1 in 3 LGBTQ+ youths live in an affirming home. It also shows the impact of discrimination on the mental health of LGBTQ+ youths of color.

According to the report, 42% of LGBTQ youth seriously considered attempting suicide in the past year, including more than half of transgender and nonbinary youth. Additionally, 12% of white youth attempted suicide compared to 31% of Native/Indigenous youth, 21% of Black youth, 21% of multiracial youth, 18% of Latinx youth, and 12% of Asian/Pacific Islander youth.

Statistically, LGBTQ+ youth are more at risk for depression and suicide than their heterosexual peers. A contributing factor is the lack of an affirming home space or environment. More than 80% of LGBTQ youth stated that COVID-19 made their living situation more stressful — and only 1 in 3 LGBTQ youth found their home to be LGBTQ-affirming.

“These findings are extremely concerning as they highlight many distinct factors that contribute to LGBTQ youth suicide risk. But we encourage lawmakers, public health officials, and youth-serving organizations to focus on the protective factors illuminated in the data, which point to best practices on how to better support LGBTQ young people,” Dr. Amy Green, Vice President of Research at The Trevor Project the licensed clinical psychologist who oversaw the survey said.

“Once again, we find that LGBTQ-affirming spaces and transgender-inclusive policies and practices are consistently associated with lower rates of attempting suicide. The past year has been really difficult for so many of us, but we also know that LGBTQ youth in particular are facing unique challenges,” said Green.

Key Findings include:

94% of LGBTQ youth reported that recent politics negatively impacted their mental health.

70% of LGBTQ youth stated that their mental health was “poor” most of the time or always during COVID-19.

48% of LGBTQ youth reported they wanted counseling from a mental health professional but were unable to receive it in the past year.

30% of LGBTQ youth experienced food insecurity in the past month, including half of all Native/Indigenous LGBTQ youth.

75% of LGBTQ youth reported that they had experienced discrimination based on their sexual orientation or gender identity at least once in their lifetime.

Half of all LGBTQ youth of color reported discrimination based on their race/ethnicity in the past year, including 67% of Black LGBTQ youth and 60% of Asian/Pacific Islander LGBTQ youth.

13% of LGBTQ youth reported being subjected to conversion therapy, with 83% reporting it occurred when they were under age 18.

Transgender and nonbinary youth who reported having pronouns respected by all of the people they lived with attempted suicide at half the rate of those who did not have their pronouns respected by anyone with whom they lived. Trans and nonbinary youth who were able to change their name and/or gender marker on legal documents, such as driver’s licenses and birth certificates, reported lower rates of attempting suicide.

LGBTQ youth who had access to spaces that affirmed their sexual orientation and gender identity reported lower rates of attempting suicide. An overwhelming majority of LGBTQ youth said that social media has both positive (96%) and negative (88%)impacts on their mental health and well-being.

“The Trevor Project is the largest suicide prevention organization for LGBTQ youth, but even we do not know how many LGBTQ youth die by suicide each year because that data is simply not collected systematically,” Green said and added; “This third annual survey aims to fill the gaps in the limited research we do have on LGBTQ youth mental health and suicide risk as a means to raise public awareness and improve public health interventions.”

To read the full report go here: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-2021/?section=Introduction

If you are an LGBTQ young person, please know that you are never alone and The Trevor Project is here to support you 24/7.

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Mom’s genius toothpaste trick keeps her bathroom sink spotless – Yahoo Entertainment

Mom and hack expert, Shannon (@athomewithshannon), has turned the world of dental hygiene on its head, and all with a simple pump jar. In her video, which has been ‘liked’ nearly 500k times, Shannon demonstrates just how messy toothpaste tubes and bathroom sinks can get with everyday kid use. But with a simple pump jar — which she bought from Ikea — those messy tubes are a thing of the past. “Such a game changer in our house! Soooooo much easier!” Shannon wrote in the comments. Thousands of TikTok users are weighing in on Shannon’s comments, praising her hack. “My 7 yr old sent this to me! Off to Ikea I go,” said one comment. But some parents expressed concern about ditching the traditional toothpaste tubes. One user wrote, “That is so smart!!! But what about the fun characters?! My son only likes to brush because of the tube”. Another commented, “Just imagine having a guest over and they wash their hands with toothpaste and brush their teeth with hand soap”

USL issues inconclusive verdict on alleged homophobic slur – The Athletic

It’s been eight months since Junior Flemmings, a then-Phoenix Rising player, directed a homophobic slur at Collin Martin during a game. Since then, the USL has been visibly proactive in combatting hate speech in its ecosystem. The following day, the league announced all of its players and staff would undergo sensitivity training in a partnership with the Institute for Sport and Social Justice (ISSJ). In April, it launched its  Forever Proud campaign to ensure that promoting stories about the LGBTQ+ community and positive allyship weren’t limited to the month of June. Before Phoenix and San Diego faced off for the first time since the original incident in April, both teams held sessions with their players rooted in restorative justice.

Bay Area LGBTQ+ youth struggled to find community during COVID as safe spaces closed – KGO-TV

SAN FRANCISCO (KGO) — ABC7 News regularly meets with its Next Gen Advisory Council to hear what issues are affecting our youth. In a recent meeting, two members expressed difficulty in finding community during the pandemic as members of the LGBTQ+ community.

It’s tough to tell behind their big smile, but the last year and a half-packed tough times for 23-year-old Lola Chase, who uses they/them pronouns.

“I didn’t have the option to move back in with my parents. They aren’t accepting of me and my queer sense of self, my gender identity,” said Chase.

Despite the isolation, they weren’t alone. Several of their queer friends also faced housing insecurity last summer and couldn’t depend on family.

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Five of them pooled their resources and found a house that’s now home.

“I would say this is a pandemic success story,” said Chase. “This trying time transmuted into something pretty amazing for us. It was that safe space we had all been yearning for.”

During the pandemic, the crew replaced in-person open mic nights with group gardening and weekly family-style dinners.

For others, finding a community has been more difficult.

“I’m still lacking in that queer group connection that I was really craving,” said an ABC7 Next Gen Youth Advisory Council member who asked not to be identified.

The 23-year-old Marin County resident attempted to join a group for young people who identify as lesbian through the Spahr Center, which serves the LGBTQ+ community.

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“There weren’t enough people interested in joining like a small support group where we can meet once a week. It just never ended up happening,” she said.

“It came as a surprise to us, but our youth are not really joining up with activities by Zoom. They’re just overdosed on technology,” said Dana Van Gorder, Spahr Center’s executive director.

The Center put an identity-specific support group for young lesbians on hold until more people are interested in joining or the Center can resume in-person meetings as COVID-related restrictions are lifted.

Van Gorder said there were also challenges in continuing groups for LGBTQ seniors online.

The Center provided computers to some and got others connected to the Internet.

“A primary part of our goal is to reduce isolation and build a sense of community,” Van Gorder said.

He also said COVID and the inability to gather in person have definitely affected the sense of connection in the queer community.

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In the East Bay, Oakland’s LGBTQ Center has seen an increase in need.

“Folks didn’t have a place so it’s increased more than 100 percent — folks reaching out to gain support,” said Lania Watkins, wellness services director at the Oakland LGBTQ Center.

The Center has helped 600 families with emergency rent assistance.

It’s also seen an uptick in need across the board. The Center helps with primary care and reproductive health services offered through the newly-opened Glenn Burke Wellness Clinic and food pantry assistance. It also hosts identity-specific monthly discussion groups, like “Black Connect” for gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer men.

“The pandemic exacerbated the need for mental health services for the LGBTQ community. During this time, we just noticed people really actively reaching out,” said Watkins.

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Many people, like our Next Gen Youth Advisory Council member, are reaching out and searching for a sense of belonging.

“I’m really excited that people will read this and maybe start like these groups so I feel like I’m not the only person,” she said.

Chase is happy to have created a community of chosen family. They and their five roommates have matching “Chosen Family” tattoos to prove it.

“Chosen family is so important in the queer community. People may have parents who are unaccepting, so they can just have their own family that actually respects them and loves them,” said Amanda Leavitt, Chase’s roommate.

“Find your people,” said Chase. “That’s been the most uplifting thing for me is finding people I can be myself around. That’s when you get to amplify your life. You go from just surviving to thriving.”

For a list of community resources to help you find an ally, click here.

To learn more about the Next Gen Advisory Council (for ages 18-24), click here.

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13-year-old at Deerfield Beach Middle School says they were verbally, physically abused for being gay – WPLG Local 10

DEERFIELD BEACH, Fla. – Disturbing video shows a middle school student attacked and slammed to the ground by a group of older kids as others just watched.

The 13-year-old told Local 10 News that it’s been going on since last August, and it’s all because they are gay.

It was last Friday when the verbal abuse turned into physical abuse.

“Horrible, it’s been a living hell,” said 13-year-old Chad Sanford.

That’s how Sanford will remember their 6th grade year at Deerfield Beach Middle School.

In the video from last week, Chad can be seen surrounded by other kids when an 8th Grader comes up from behind Chad, picks them up and slams them to the ground.

It doesn’t end there as the physical abuse continues and homophobic slurs are hurled at the student.

“He just stepped on my face, they were kicking and spitting on me and all that was a little clip of the video,” Chad said. “They were screaming. They were saying, ‘We got that gay fa***t.’”

Chad said they’ve been bullied this entire school year all because of their sexual orientation.

“One day he embarrassed me in front of everybody,” Chad said of the bully. “He stood on top of the stage and said to me, ‘I’m going to knock the gay out of him.’”

Chad’s aunt Raquel Showers says her nephew always used to be happy, but their demeanor has changed this year, and when she saw the video, she was devastated.

“He wanted to kill himself because they keep bullying him,” she said. “Hearing that, it just makes me cry.”

Local 10 News reached out to Broward County Public Schools and received a statement, which read, in part:

“School safety is our highest priority. The school’s leadership is taking this incident seriously and is working with law enforcement in its investigation. Any students involved will also face appropriate school disciplinary consequences in accordance with the code book for school conduct.”

It’s unclear if any student has been disciplined for this yet.

Broward Sheriff’s Office said no arrests have been made

Chad’s grandmother, who is their legal guardian, said she has pulled her grandson from this school.

13-year-old at Deerfield Beach Middle School says he was verbally, physically abused for being gay – WPLG Local 10

DEERFIELD BEACH, Fla. – Disturbing video shows a middle school student attacked and slammed to the ground by a group of older kids as others just watched.

The 13-year-old told Local 10 News that it’s been going on since last August, and it’s all because he is gay.

It was last Friday when the verbal abuse turned into physical abuse.

“Horrible, it’s been a living hell,” said 13-year-old Chad Sanford.

That’s how he will remember his 6th Grade year at Deerfield Beach Middle School.

In the video from last week, Chad can be seen surrounded by other kids when an 8th Grader comes up from behind Chad, picks him up and slams him to the ground.

It doesn’t end there as the physical abuse continues and homophobic slurs are hurled at the boy.

“He just stepped on my face, they were kicking and spitting on me and all that was a little clip of the video,” Chad said. “They were screaming. They were saying, ‘we got that gay fa***t.’”

Chad said he’s been bullied this entire school year all because of his sexual orientation.

“One day he embarrassed me in front of everybody,” Chad said of the bully. “He stood on top of the stage and said to me, ‘I’m going to knock the gay out of him.’”

Chad’s aunt Raquel Showers says her nephew always used to be happy, but his demeanor has changed this year, and when she saw the video, she was devastated.

“He wanted to kill himself because they keep bullying him,” she said. “Hearing that it just makes me cry.”

Local 10 News reached out to Broward County Public Schools and received a statement, which read, in part:

“School safety is our highest priority. The school’s leadership is taking this incident seriously and is working with law enforcement in its investigation. Any students involved will also face appropriate school disciplinary consequences in accordance with the code book for school conduct.”

It’s unclear if any student has been disciplined for this yet.

Broward Sheriff’s Office said no arrests have been made

Chad’s grandmother, who is his legal guardian, said she has pulled him from this school.